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I still don't know how the SE thinks the VICTIM / ENTITLEMENT WITHOUT SIGNIFICANT CONTRIBUTION strategy will work!
The entire nation already knows this weakling strategy and the Oyinbos that the SE are trying to manipulate to take action are too selfish to act and will soon get tired of the PROPAGANDA.

Nigerians are so greedy, ungrateful and insensitive.
I hope you and your family have enjoyed your extortion and one day of fame? Now that you have dented the man’s ego with your demands, you don’t want to live with the consequences?
The man has given you and your greedy/ poverty stricken family what you want, GIVE HIM THE LIFETIMES OF PEACE & QUIET HE ALSO WANTS!
You cannot eat your cake & have it!

This boy has finally killed his father with heart ache. RIP old man!

Oga NLC should just STFU. Nigerians will determine how they will respond to the hike.
I won’t advise any Nigerian to follow this partisan and selfish agenda driven NLC.

Well, Tinubu asked & fought fiercely for the job. He deserves everything he is getting! As long as Nigeria isn’t fixed yet, I expect all Nigerians to give him and all elective position holders the most hellish attack they can muster!
There is too much at stake for mediocre performances!

Where do you think many Boko Haram, killer herdsmen & the so called bandits come from?

lexy2014:
when did his people experience constant invasion from Niger and Chad?

Continue tolerating the bad behavior o!
Since you don’t want to be the reason a bad brother wants to fvck is brother’s wife.
I think you may also be interested in the guy too, otherwise women don’t tolerate BS from men they ain’t secretly fantasizing about.
You better tell your naive husband and let the idiot be kicked out if you want to save that marriage. Otherwise, one day you will come here with crocodile tears, narrating how you ‘unintentionally’ slept with your brother in law!

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

You are being manipulated!
She keeps testing how much of a SIMP you are. Don’t disappoint your ancestors and demonstrate your masculinity and stop being such as sissy!
NEVER apologize if you know you are right. You also don’t need to apologize everytime you are wrong either. Ensure your apology is valued because it is scarce. You keep stroking her ego by apologizing all the time … she should be stroking your ego instead. She is not the man in the relationship, YOU ARE, so MAN UP!

Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

Niger has always held Nigeria ransom. Northern rulers have always tolerated the brazen exploitation by Niger and Chad. It is about time they suffer for their past atrocities!

You wey be expert, what has your expertise done to save your people from constant invasions from Niger & Chad?

This is a very lazy excuse. Innoson is not the only manufacturer that assembles vehicles in Nigeria. Why not order from those other brands?!
All these politicians are just the same! How many LP politicians have complained in the National Assembly when it comes to sharing positions and money they don’t deserve?!
[quote author=Kingsmeal post=125017754]https://twitter.com/Nedunaija/status/1689631553536827392?t=ALlyEYsaun6pmonCOeFrGw&s=19[/quote]

Unless you tell us how your anus tore, I don’t think anyone can help you.
Anus doesn’t just magically tear na!

Imagine! 🥲
This is so disappointing!

yarimo:
and the state governor was busy commissioning Toyota a Japanese car IVM cars are sub standard

How will local companies survive when we reject their products and prefer foreign goods?

“No Way, ABHA Members Reject Planned Purchase Of Innoson Vehicles For Them By Gov Otti”
July 25, 2023 admin

By NewsCritic Reporters

Abia State House Of Assembly Members will not accept Innoson Motors as official vehicles from the Gov Alex Otti led administration, according to some lawmakers who spoke to our reporter on the condition of anonymity.

There have been speculations that the state governor Dr Alex Otti is planning to buy the Innoson brand of vehicles for the 24 members of the house of assembly as against the Toyota Prado which were the choice vehicle for the 7th assembly.

Already Gov Otti has bought the INNOSON IVM G6T TURBO SUV for the members of the state executive council of Abia state, which was distributed to them immediately after their swearing-in as official vehicles.

It was gathered that the Labour Party, LP, Presidential candidate Mr Peter Obi had made a request that Gov Otti should patronise Innoson Motors if it is the only thing, he can do for him apart from fulfilling his campaign promises to the people of Abia State in terms of good governance.

However, close sources within the Abia legislative assembly disclosed that the members are not willing to have or to accept the IVM brand of vehicles from Gov Otti, who is said to be determined to please Mr Peter Obi, as their official vehicles.

According to sources, the Abia lawmakers are of the opinion that the Gov Otti should allow them to have the vehicles of their choice and not to offer them IVM as if they were his appointees.

“He can’t even contemplate giving us IVM brands of vehicles because we are not his commissioners”, said one of the lawmakers.

Again, they argued that it will be out of place for the governor to equate them with his political aides, considering the fact that they contested in the same election along with him and actually helped in his election.

In conclusion, they said they will not take Innoson vehicles if the governor goes ahead to purchase them. The implication of this according to analysts is that the governor might be heading for a showdown with members of the state assembly over the type of vehicles that is due to them.
https://newscritic.com.ng/2023/07/25/no-way-abha-members-reject-planned-purchase-of-innoson-vehicles-for-them-by-gov-otti/

Why is this not on FRONT PAGE?!

These governors and politicians need to be aggressively called out when things like this happen!

1. No, you cannot be homosexual and 'be of Jesus'. If you were homosexual before you met Jesus, then His salvation and message is for you. If you continue to be homosexual after meeting Jesus then the wrath of God awaits such people. Nobody condones these god of men who call themselves clergies. They are cut from the same clothe as the pharisees and saducees that the Messiah spoke about.
2. You really need to read your Bible Ref Genesis 19 below. The male angels were to be gang raped by the males of the city in verse 4-5. Then the angels struck them with blindness. It was thereafter that they told Lot to leave as they will destroy the city in vs 10-11.That is the sequence of events. Even though God planned to destroy the city, Abraham was able to plead for them. If they had been repentant and the MEN did not try to RAPE the MALE ANGELS, they could have been saved. But, just like the so called 'homosexual christian', they refused to repent of their ways that was offensive to God.
Genesis Ch19 vs1-26
1The two angels arrived at Sodom in the evening, and Lot was sitting in the gateway of the city. When he saw them, he got up to meet them and bowed down with his face to the ground. 2 “My lords,” he said, “please turn aside to your servant’s house. You can wash your feet and spend the night and then go on your way early in the morning.”

“No,” they answered, “we will spend the night in the square.”

3 But he insisted so strongly that they did go with him and entered his house. He prepared a meal for them, baking bread without yeast, and they ate. 4 Before they had gone to bed, all the men from every part of the city of Sodom—both young and old—surrounded the house. 5 They called to Lot, “Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us so that we can have sex with them.”

6 Lot went outside to meet them and shut the door behind him 7 and said, “No, my friends. Don’t do this wicked thing. 8 Look, I have two daughters who have never slept with a man. Let me bring them out to you, and you can do what you like with them. But don’t do anything to these men, for they have come under the protection of my roof.”

9 “Get out of our way,” they replied. “This fellow came here as a foreigner, and now he wants to play the judge! We’ll treat you worse than them.” They kept bringing pressure on Lot and moved forward to break down the door.

10 But the men inside reached out and pulled Lot back into the house and shut the door. 11 Then they struck the men who were at the door of the house, young and old, with blindness so that they could not find the door.

12 The two men said to Lot, “Do you have anyone else here—sons-in-law, sons or daughters, or anyone else in the city who belongs to you? Get them out of here, 13 because we are going to destroy this place. The outcry to the Lord against its people is so great that he has sent us to destroy it.”

14 So Lot went out and spoke to his sons-in-law, who were pledged to marry[a] his daughters. He said, “Hurry and get out of this place, because the Lord is about to destroy the city!” But his sons-in-law thought he was joking.

15 With the coming of dawn, the angels urged Lot, saying, “Hurry! Take your wife and your two daughters who are here, or you will be swept away when the city is punished.”

16 When he hesitated, the men grasped his hand and the hands of his wife and of his two daughters and led them safely out of the city, for the Lord was merciful to them. 17 As soon as they had brought them out, one of them said, “Flee for your lives! Don’t look back, and don’t stop anywhere in the plain! Flee to the mountains or you will be swept away!”

18 But Lot said to them, “No, my lords,[b] please! 19 Your[c] servant has found favor in your[d] eyes, and you[e] have shown great kindness to me in sparing my life. But I can’t flee to the mountains; this disaster will overtake me, and I’ll die. 20 Look, here is a town near enough to run to, and it is small. Let me flee to it—it is very small, isn’t it? Then my life will be spared.”

21 He said to him, “Very well, I will grant this request too; I will not overthrow the town you speak of. 22 But flee there quickly, because I cannot do anything until you reach it.” (That is why the town was called Zoar.[f])

23 By the time Lot reached Zoar, the sun had risen over the land. 24 Then the Lord rained down burning sulfur on Sodom and Gomorrah—from the Lord out of the heavens. 25 Thus he overthrew those cities and the entire plain, destroying all those living in the cities—and also the vegetation in the land. 26 But Lot’s wife looked back, and she became a pillar of salt.

Kobojunkie:
1. Interesting twist there. So what you are telling me is that when you churchians attack homosexuality, your attacks are only against homosexuals who claim to be of Jesus Christ? And I must say I find it funny how the same lot of you refuse to attack, with the same fervor, your lying, thieving pastors who lie to you using the name of God?.

2. God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah because He did not find one good person there as He explained in Genesis 18. The same reason is why God also destroyed the world during the time of Noah, and other nations after that. Homosexuality was not the sole sin committed by the people of that city and nation..

FYI, Jesus ONLY came to save those in sin willing to REPENT not those who want to continue living in sin! You want to claim Jesus’ salvation while living an homosexual life? Those are the condemned ones. The once Jesus came for are those willing to give up their homosexual ways.
God destroyed a whole city, SODOM & GOMORAH because of their homosexual lifestyle amongst many other sins.

Kobojunkie:
I can't read your mind so I don't know what fantastical interpretation you have equally applied to the above passage is order that the message pass you by. You would need to tell me what it is you are thinking for me to know it.

Again. Jesus Christ did not come to condemn but to save. So going around condemning those who pursue alternative lifestyles using His name is sin against Jesus Christ.

This was Jesus’ exact words
Matthew 5 17-20

17 “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. 18 For truly I tell you, until heaven and earth disappear, not the smallest letter, not the least stroke of a pen, will by any means disappear from the Law until everything is accomplished. 19 Therefore anyone who sets aside one of the least of these commands and teaches others accordingly will be called least in the kingdom of heaven, but whoever practices and teaches these commands will be called great in the kingdom of heaven. 20 For I tell you that unless your righteousness surpasses that of the Pharisees and the teachers of the law, you will certainly not enter the kingdom of heaven.

Kobojunkie:
All of the Prophets included Jesus Christ told you this — Matthew 24 & Mark 13 & Luke 21.

2. Jesus Christ did not teach the Mosaic Law. Rather, He reminded the people of what it said as He taught them the New Law and agreement that He was sent to teach to them instead.

WTF are you even saying?! So you are disputing words that are directly quoted from the Bible? Abeg I am not arguing with you again, continue being homosexual, but I assure you, no homosexual will enter heaven as written in the old and new testament. No matter how you people try, God will NOT change for you. He remains unchanged from eternity to eternity.
1 Corinthians 6:9
Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit or have any share in the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate [by perversion], nor those who participate in homosexuality,

Kobojunkie:
1. So, because Jesus Christ did not mention it, you feel it is your place to do so using His name, basically putting your own words in His mouth even though God made clear that it is a sin to add, change or remove from His Law to men? Do you know what Evil really is? It is rejection or disobedience of God's direct commandments and teachings. You add your own doctrines and traditions to God's mouth — even create for yourself your own Jesus —, and then you tell yourself that you are good and others who don't do as you say are evil... that is what God says evil is.

Abeg where is it written that Israel has been judged and condemned? Even Jesus taught from the Mosaic law in his days.

Kobojunkie:
Neither Jesus Christ nor God gave you that commandment to follow, so I am not sure why you brandish it when God instead sealed it over 1900 years ago when He judged and condemned all of Israel under the Law of Moses?

I now see why there is so much evil in this world. Since we want Jesus to mention things directly in few books of the Bible to make it right or wrong.
My own Jesus does not tolerate LGBTQ o.
😅

Kobojunkie:
1. No, He did not. Jesus Christ made it absolutely clear that He was sent only to the Lost sheep of Israel alone. So, cloning, cocaine, heroin, etc., if of no concern to the Kingdom of God which He called His followers to be of. You claim that it is bad has nothing to do with Jesus Christ at all from whom that knowledge you have does not come from.

2. Wrong! Jesus Christ did not condemn LGBTQ. Scripture does not condemn LGBTQ because LGBTQ is an idea of the world and not of the Kingdom of God.

So? Did Jesus speak about cloning human beings or taking cocaine and heroine? But at least we know it is bad.
But the Bible which Christ himself came to fulfill clearly condemns being LGBTQ, but we want to twist the word of God.

Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ did not speak against transgenders during His time. Not saying that He loved them, just that He didn't speak against them.

Abeg do you even know what a transgender is

jeff1607:
Ask yourself what Jesus did to the sinners and also ask yourself what made the pharisees hate him.



You just went to quote a verse that has nothing to do with the topic at hand.

Thank God Nigeria is no longer a zoo to these people!

Just keep playing until you hit the wall of no return!
Then you will start saying men are scum, when you have wasted your time with gold digging.

siofra:
Maybe I'm young and foolish, but I really don't mind being a second wife (or third wife or whatever) but I'll not be a first wife to a man with other wives.

And there are terms and conditions.

He must be super rich (like Ned Nwoko rich)

I will not have children for him (my mind may change)

I'll have my own apartment and I'll not take his name.

If he's Muslim, I'll not convert to his religion.


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You were clearly not a wife material
We keep saying it, but females keep thinking the world MUST revolve round them. Men only value youth, respect, submission, loyalty and homeliness from a woman . If you lack any one of the five, YOU MUST WORK EXTRA HARD to compensate!
Women only CONTROL access to sex and short term relationships, so they can dictate the conditions for these.
Men CONTROL access to long term relationships and marriage, and the mandatory minimums are youth, respect, submission, loyalty and homeliness from the woman!

As you don’t have access to the Bible too na?! Abi you be illiterate?
Deut 22vs 5
The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.

jeff1607:
You know the bible more than the people who have you access to the book?

For him not to totally condemn them means there's something we don't know or the contents of the remainder books

Awon pope isonu! God’s wrath is coming to you people!
Deut 22 vs 5
The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.

Tinubu! Tinubu!! Tinubu!!! DON’T DISAPPOINT YOUR ANCESTORS O!
So far you have done more negatives than positives. Make your head dey correct o! There is too much to lose!!

So instead of these colonists to group African contries along tribal lines, they decided to make Africa divided eternally and some Africans still think it is the will of God and not the will of some white selfish people ?!

Unless we are deceiving ourselves, there is already war between Nigeria and Niger.Most of the weapons used by bandits, ISWAP and Boko haram is deliberately funneled in by Niger. The instability in Northern Nigeria is to the benefit of Niger. The earlier we invade Niger and show them who is boss, the better.
Nigeria has been paying Niger heavily to help with the terrorists, but they keep playing ON/OFF games. We could not take proper action because of clueless Buhari. This is our opportunity to take our pound of flesh and ensure the borders are better secure.

I am happy we have similar scary experience like I had with my kids.
On your question, the truth is that I will take live saving medical interventions from any LGBTQ++, but not financial interventions.
I will also take a thief’s, rapist’s and corrupt politician’s kidney… even if I don’t like them. But I wont take their money!😅🤣
On a more serious note, I just want the LGBTQ++ community to live their lives as they please without forcing me to accept them. I have some religious convictions that may be outrageous to some people, I won’t go pressuring everyone else to accept those convictions, will I?

Calitoscassius:
now i understand your worries. I worry bout my kids too.My kids use smart phones, watches TV and attends schools also. I make sure i make them aware of what is what in terms of LGBTQ folks, now if you and I have to work harder to do that then that is what we have to do, it is better to make them aware of the whole LGBTQ shenanigans, no need to shield or protect them from it, remember when they turn 18 or is it 16 nowadays? they can think or live how they wish. So i start making them aware of it at this their earlier and younger ages. There are nothing much you and I can do bout it. The LGBTQ are here to stay if they say that is what they are or want to be then good luck to 'em.


Last year my son's school head rang and said she wanted to have a meeting with me about my son's conduct in school, he was only 9 last year, i turned up at the meeting i was told that my son refuses to call his (a trans man) teacher Victoria as he/she preffered to be adressed, and that my son was making fun of him laughing at him and calling him a man the trans teacher has a man's voice but wears females cloths, walks like a female, his hands and legs clearly looks like looks a man's ones he freaked my son out, the school didn't even made me aware my son has a trans teacher, they claimed they are not obligated to. Apparently this trans grown ass man made a complain to the school head about my son not arknowledging him as a female, refuses to address him as Victoria, made fun and laughed at him he was only 9 years old at the time for christ's sake! and when my son was asked why he behaved in such manner he said his Dad had told him that a hairy ass man is a man not a woman and that him and I laughed about it at home, the school threatned to exclude my son from the school, the tran man tried to sue my son (well... me) i told him go ahead and sue a 9 years old or me for having a right to our opinion and freedom of speech. Eventually the trans man left the school.. see? I did my best in educating him about the whole (though it was in a derogatory way but i don't care!) LGBTQ and it stuck in his brain.

And oh! the hairy ass trans white man teacher also tried to sue me for discrimination and racism but it didn't work.

Now, i am going to ask you the question i always ask people who has robust negatives views on LGBTQ folk and i never never always gets an answer from them. Questions are; Would you refuse a kidney donations (if you ever need one) from an LGBTQ individual? And would you refuse an LGBTQ doctor or surgeon? (f you ever need one) Would you refuse cash donations or help any kinda help from an LGBTQ individual or groups? If you are ever in need of help.

Let's see if I can get an honest answer from you.