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Crying Corrupt Civil Servants!
There is nothing we won't see in Nigeria!
I can bet that MD allowed them steal money easily!
Civil Servants are the real problem of Nigeria.

FYI, what the governors steal is chicken feed compared to what the CIVIL SERVANTS backed by the NLC has stolen.

vanitybutiwanti:
If Emefiele is returning 50b, for a second imagine the amount of money stolen by serving and ex governors since 1999.

In 2023 states in Nigeria are struggling with roads riddled with pot holes

Very funny country

Excellent move. There is nothing to celebrate in Nigeria.

I don’t understand these people. You say you are fighting for salary increment for ONLY civil servants, yet you want ALL Nigerians to not work for your selfish reasons?!
I don’t get it!

Most Nigerians have become exponentially evil and ungodly. Guys be careful out there … especially around Nigerians.

Nigerians just like to chase shadows.
Even if Tinubu didn’t sign the form, was it part of the grounds to disqualify him in court? If not, what is the senseless and useless info/ mischief for?

Instead of finding a way to help get Nigeria out of this mess, y’all just want Tinubu to resign?
Instead of holding the CIVIL SERVANTS & GOVERNORS accountable so that Nigeria can work at least 50-60% better, all energy and focus is directed at one man who is already president?!
Una mumu never do!

The only single mother worth marrying are
1. The one whose husband was EVIDENTLY an abusive man whom the woman did not provoke his madness.
2. An EVIDENTLY great woman whose husband is dead for reasons not attributable to her.

Note that your EVIDENCE to prove the two points MUST NOT COME FROM THE WOMAN.

If you marry any other single mother outside these two points , you are not only a SIMP, you will be doomed in the long run.

If those guys you mentioned are the Nigerian youth’s role models for making and managing wealth, then we are in trouble. Go and check how many cars Mike Tyson had in his prime, then check where he is now.
You better learn how the Warren Buffets & Dangotes make & manage their wealth. Those are the real billionaires.
If you buy a 2million naira phone, you better have 20-50million in your account or that phone is sure to make you at least twice the value of the phone.

alphabbey1:
Yet, Davido bought 300m naira car...
Ronaldo have countless of cars in his garage,
Wizkid bought 6 sports car in just one day...

Why not condem them for using overpriced cars, abi, 20 million naira car is not good enough ?

Point is, People buy according to preference... Have been using S21 ultra now since 2 years, the phone is serving me well and I see no need to upgrade to S23 Ultra... I purchased the S21 ultra because of the 100x Zoom features, am a fan of binoculars... Until I see any captivating features in any Samsung future release, I will continue to use this S21 ultra....

And mind you, I hate iPhone with passion, it has nothing i want...

And let me remind you again, anyone that doesn't have a car and using Iphone 15 Pro max didn't buy it with his/her money (Quote me with proof if am wrong)

The CIVIL SERVANTS and the UNIONS that back them are the problem of Nigeria, not the politicians. The day Nigerians realize this, 50% of Nigeria's problems will be solved.

It is your opinion that is flawed.
Go and check the phones of most real billionaires and you will understand.
Only your fake millionaire celebrities with a poor man’s attitude of looking richer than you are, that use these overpriced phones.
Most times, It is a way to compensate for status you don’t have and complex issues that make most people buy these things.

alphabbey1:
Honestly, your analysis is flawed.
Anyone considering to buy 1.5m Naira car is definitely not the target market of iPhone...

No be poor man dey consider to use 12 Pro max, talkless of 15 Pro

I agree that your looks will draw romantic attention to you, but your personality is much more important.
Try to clean up your looks without too much make up. Be friendlier without being desperate, develop an excellent personality and manage your expectations of the kind of guy you want.
Most times, women look for men that are not in their league and friend zone men that truly love them.
Look close to you, there are men you are just friends with and they love you. Just flirt your way with a great personality into the arms of that ‘male friend’.

Medicine after death!
OBJ needs to apologize to those Yoruba monarchs that he denigrated! In Yorubaland, it is abominable to do what OBJ did. His denigration is to the ancestral stool and not the persons on the seat. Only an apology can be seen as an effort in the right direction by OBJ.

Simps will never understand why the guy refused to be disrespected.

If they are not performing or are corrupt, they should be laid off and prosecuted!
THE CIVIL SERVANTS are the main problem of Nigeria not the politicians. But Nigerians prefer delusion and distractions, that is why they focus their energy at politicians who are just 30% of the problem.
This is my estimate regarding those who are the problem of Nigeria:
Civil servants- 50%
Politicians- 30%
Citizens- 20%

Your case is a typical woman who found what she was desperately looking for. You better find a way to make your marriage work. I pity you if you leave your marriage. That your sister will become his wife.
Almost all men will flirt and/or cheat at least ones in marriage… that is why mandatory monogamy is the biggest lie oyinbos sold to us. Learn to manage your man and pray for him. Hopefully he will repent or he won’t bring a deadly disease , std or sti to you.
Sadly, you can’t flirt or cheat on him in retaliation, because if you are caught you will still be the one to regret it…. It is unfair, but that’s the reality.
From your earlier snooping on his phone, you likely nagged him into other women’s harms.
I read you as a woman who thinks marrying as a virgin (which is extremely valuable and desirable to men) absolves you from good character in marriage. I can bet you were not his peace of mind because of your nagging, snooping and fighting him.
Learn how to be a good wife by being his peace of mind and watch him fall back helplessly in love with you. As a wife, you must be homely, respectful, loyal, submissive, and supportive, virginity and fertility is also good, but it doesn’t cancel the other qualities.
Men will just use and dump you if you leave your marriage… especially if you carry bad wife characteristics along too.
I also don’t believe you that he is a deadbeat husband. It is typical of a scornful wife to demonize her husband.

PaigeTaylor:
Hello house. I'm too angry to type. Been married for 10 years with a kid. 10 long hard years.

He always assures me and portrays himself as a faithful man. I have never suspected him of committing adultery, not because he's not capable, but because I wanted to give him benefit of doubt. I wanted trust to be in my marriage because I'm extremely faithful to him. He disvirgined me on my wedding night.

But he does A LOT of flirting on social media. Passwords his phone from me. This has caused a lot of problems between us, almost leading to marriage break up many times, until people advised me to stay off his phone, which I did. I lost my job since February and have been unable to get another one.

Now I'm learning some soft skills online, using my phone but it got to a point where I couldn't proceed because it's an old phone. I told him yesterday morning that I would love to use his phone, he said ok when he returned from work.

Only for me to go to his browser to enter a website address, I started seeing past searches from him.
LOVE SMS YOU CAN SEND TO UR CRUSH
LOVE MESSAGES YOU CAN SEND TO UR EX GIRLFRIEND.

The one that shook me to the bone is, HOW TO SEDUCE MY SISTER INLAW.

She came to visit two weeks back. She is very beautiful and plump and he has always told me he had a crush on her. So I know.
And those internet searches are RECENT.

I feel so disgusted by his presence now, so much that I don't allow his body to touch mine on bed. I feel for my daughter, she's just 6 years and I don't have any money to take care of her. He doesn't take care of me either, but I have put up with him, I have struggled and suffered with him all these years. Only to see this on his phone. I'm beyond depressed.

He's talking of us celebrating our 10 years anniversary by December and thinking of inviting few family and friends. BUT I'M NOT INTERESTED. The love is dead. I've been played all along.

HOW WILL I HANDLE THIS?

Good for you! You will experience enough women with these characteristics at a high level:
1. promiscuity / disloyal
2 carelessness
3. rudeness / lack of respect
4. ungodliness
5. unnecessary risk taking
6. gold digging
7. feminist tendencies /not submissive
8 . High rate of STD/STI
9. Not homely
10. Likely addicted to drugs and/or alcohol
After they finish dealing with you, come & tell us about what little remains of you.

You are both adults, DEAL WITH IT LIKE ADULTS!
But because of their age, use tact, diplomacy and show as much respect as they deserve from you, while being extremely firm.
It is a delicate balance that you must keep fine tuning as they begin to behave better or worse.

Mr Atiku is just groping in the dark, sope otilo!

This is so heartbreaking!
Why can’t we just do ranching in Nigeria?!

Only if he is the sole sex partner who deflowered her, can I hold the boyfriend responsible. If she has multiple sex partners like most girls these days, I can’t believe the girl.
These days, one has to be careful what story to believe when told by a female!

Rubbish show!

Yes, your brother should demand a refund of money he spent. That is the right thing to do.
Your brother should also thank God for exposing the fraud!

Any news of this elusive Dangote refinery no longer excites me!
It looks like a scam to me. Especially knowing how much Dangote got from the FG & favors from Lagos State for this refinery that has refused to kick off.

If she has nothing to hide, SHE SHOULD DO DNA TEST FOR THE CHILD!
Why are Nigerians like this? We love darkness, secrecy and falsehood so much! This attempt by people (especially women) to demonize men who demand for DNA test MUST stop!
If we really want justice for Mohbad, a DNA TEST MUST be done on the child.
The truth hurts nobody but the evil!
If the child turns out to be for Mohbad, then the wife’s conscience will be clean. If not, we will know the wife is not benefiting from a lie. Mohbad will also get justice there!

Crazy people! It wasn’t really about Mohbad!
Y’all were just & are still hungry for chaos. You just want a revolution without reforming your values.
You people are so corrupt, immoral, ungodly, promiscuous, selfish, greedy, untrustworthy, deceitful and disrespectful. Yet, as bad as you are, you want the beautiful change good people deserve… what an irony!

I hate how Nigerians initially sensationalized this!!!
There was a clear instruction that the candlelight should end at MURI OKUNOLA!
But overzealous people and people with a clear agenda decided to converge at the toll gate!
What do you expect?! Why trying to push your luck too far only to claim victim… after poking the alleged aggressor?!
The ‘protesters’ broke the rules set for the candlelight and became a threat to public peace.

I hate how Nigerians sensationalize everything!!!
There was a clear instruction that the candlelight should end at MURI OKUNOLA!
But overzealous people and people with a clear agenda decided to converge at the toll gate!
What do you expect?! Why trying to push your luck too far only to claim victim… after poking the alleged aggressor?!

Emotions aside, I absolutely agree with doing a DNA test.

So, the person that gifted her the car that can feed a whole community for a week or more no get name abi?!
I swear, Nigerians and those popularizing this useless post no get sense. Most Nigerians deserve what they are going through, because honestly we are mostly not good people.
I have never seen a more entitled bad people demanding good to come their way! The delusion is phenomenal!

This man is really the scum of the earth!
You think you can distort reality & history?
Not all Nigerians are stupid!

So it is what? A capital city where superior human beings live?
I guess Abuja residents are two headed aliens walking around?