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Green flag to take her serious:
Look out for ALL THESE, verify and test these qualities:
1. Respect for you
2. Loyalty (including no social media flirting with other men),
3. Submissiveness
4. Homeliness- home care and cooking skills
5. Fertility- do tests for her egg quality, STD/STI, Rhesus group, and genotype.
6. Past of no prostitution, drugs, tattoos, violence, stealing and fetish tendencies.

Red flag:
If she was such a good woman with her exes, how come she wasn’t good enough to be wifed by her 10exes … 10men o? Bad boys recognize wife material even more than good boys, so if she was that rare gem, she will certainly be wifed pronto!

You are the only one whe can weight her known past and her present personality to determine if you can take the risk. Marriage and long term relationship is a risk that can be rewarding or regrettable… so weight it carefully.

GOOD LUCK!

ebijimi7:
Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos,
Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.

It goes like this, ok I have this girl I'm dating she has been a lovable soul a friend,partner,lover and mother.

She is caring also I have never met a girl like that in my life since I became an adult the only person that I know has those quality she possessed was my mum which is late now.

she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now.

We had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine.

Though I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute ,

So in the long run while explaining she told me what transpired between she and some of her exes the ones that kept deceiving her and collecting money from her she mentioned about 10 of them which she actually supported to to travel out of the country but they neglected and dumped her after they got over sea, more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys.

What kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex .

I love her but her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.

Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.

Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything

Please your candid advice I'd needed

This is so sad! May God Almighty avenge your death and console your family and loved ones.
This is why I want more cctv cameras to be installed all over Nigeria. Sadly, lack of power will even hinder the coverage that can be available.
Sometimes I just feel there is a curse on Nigeria, because I can’t imagine how people will deliberately sabotage themselves this way?!

I honestly don’t know wetin Obi do this dude o. I think he is angry because Obi split Atiku’s traditional votes.

So, There are jobless people who have nothing to do to get themselves out of joblessness?!
I can’t imagine a responsible individual with a decent job, who isn’t on leave that will go and stay in a court while his or her mate is hustling!

Your actions speak louder than your words! Other ethnic groups will respond proportionately to your actions not your words BE ADVISED!

This is what simping brings to you!
You already have a conviction about how women treat kids that ain’t theirs, yet you bowed to your wives pressure?! YOU ARE A WEAK MAN! Go and check what happens to men who change their mind at the whims and caprices of their wife… most are destroyed irreparably. You can consider their advise while predominantly considering your opinion to blend both 80/20. NEVER MAKE MAJOR DECISIONS ON THE EMOTIONAL OPINION OF A WOMAN.
You promised the parents to train the child, do you think that was just an about using her as a SLAVE?! The parents did not beg you, you and your wife asked for this , so deal with it without abusing the child, SIMP!

NaijaRealtor:
1. Right from when she was about three years old, she would always pray for me to make it so she can come stay with me.

2. Been married for like 7 years and we have 3 kids. My wife was on my neck to bring my niece to come stay with us so she can assist with helping to look after the kids once they all return from school.

3. Because I know how many ladies treat children that aren't theirs, I refused to bring my niece over. So after much pressure from my wife, I approached my sister and her husband and pleaded to allow me train her as she'd always prayed.

4. Weeks after her arrival, my wife started complaining about her attitude and stuff. I refused to yield to my wife's suggestions that I take my niece back. It almost caused quarrel between us.

I felt it was too early to judge her. She's just 12 years old.

Her Attitudes:

A. She would fold and keep pants stained with my 1 year old poop in the laundry basket until it starts bringing out maggots, then we would search the whole house for the source of the foul smell until we find it and throw away affected clothes, disinfect the house and all.

B. She, yesterday wiped my 6 years old son with iron buckle on the belt and his head nearly burst open. He complained of severe headache and we are still treating him.

C. Final straw was, while we were in the office today, my 6 years old started to throw up. He was sick. This girl just laid on the couch and instructed a 6 years old to go fetch the broom, mopping stick and packer to clean the mess.

My son was very weak, but he went to fetch these items and cleaning the vomit. Because he was very sick, he kept on throwing up and cleaning at the same time. All these while, this girl laid there relaxing until my wife came home and washed my son up and cleaned the floor.

When I came back this evening and learnt about the stuff, I quietly asked her why she'd behaved like that and she said it was nothing.

I really don't know whether to let her stay while I try to coach her or take her back to her parents.

I seriously need advice.

Sorry for the long epistle.

I don’t think he said this. He said after clearing the backlog, new applications will be processed in 2weeks.
Nobody knows how long the backlog will be cleared.

As a real Alpha male, you should have realized this is a phase that you need to support and guide her through. Her body, which is one of the primary assets she has on you has deformed beyond repair. Therefore, her ego is totally broken, like a man who has totally lost his source of income can become too withdrawn or aggressive.
Let her know you understand what she is going through. THIS IS A TIME TO SHOW HER LOVE WITHOUT SIMPING OUT. Women live on attention so give it to her more without overdoing it. Praise her when you notice her effort at being more beautiful, reward her devotion to raising the kids and taking care of the home, cuddle and kiss her more, show more public affection and please don’t overdo all l these affection because you won’t get the desired results.

At least the face of foreigners sponsoring chaos in Africa is coming to light.
Whether it is electric or not, at least the train service is running. As long as it can be sustained, who cares?! The people have access to alternative transportation to road!
This is how they deliberately sponsor darkness in Africa by insisting we cannot use Coal because it is too dirty and nuclear power because we can use it for nuclear weapons and compete militarily.
[quote author=AcuraZDX post=125598947]Lagos State governor Sanwo-Olu commissioned the blue line in December, but it couldn’t start operations because a facility to power the tracks wasn’t ready.

The metro will now use a diesel locomotive for some weeks until the power plant is ready to connect to the tracks.

According to John Ashbourne, an African analyst, while quoting a video of the train being pulled, he wrote;


https://twitter.com/JohnAshbourne/status/1698991525470904465?s=19[/quote]

Clowns like you will criticize everything stupidly.
They already explained why he left to meet INVESTORS that your sorry and lazy asses in Nigeria need right now. Ain’t you the people shouting that you are broke and hungry??
Will his presence at the tribunal bring the critically needed investment?!

koiki4bat:
Clowns. This is enough to tell you that Nigeria does not work. Imagine the "presdent" is in far away India for a conference that starts in 4 days time he got there first among World leaders the SGF is in far away London and now the VP is in court attending to tribunal matters.

Well if your definition of reasonable Nigerians is chaos and or military intervention? I don’t think I am in the position to help you.
The government is just 100days in office. They have made promises that NLC hasn’t given them a chance to fulfill.
Even though Tinubu brought Buhari into office, we know he had nothing to do with Buhari’s terrible government. He was humiliated, sidelined and literally excommunicated in Buhari’s maladministration, so we need to cut him that slack and give him at least 6months and a9 months at most before throwing these tantrums.
I agree that Buhari cum APC made everything worse for Nigerians, but all ADULTS know every breakthrough comes with a temporary discomfort. ONLY the extremely ignorant child thinks there is any gain without pain.

BoldBrainz:
But they're already getting the support of reasonable Nigerians.

How do you expect them to feel?
The female gender live and die for attention!
The can do really stupid things if they don’t get the attention they crave. Those men are feeding the well known female idol and fetish… endless self adulation and male attention!

A clearly partisan and biased NLC will never get the support of reasonable Nigerians!

I keep saying that the Nigerian CIVIL SERVICE is more evil than politicians!
The NLC. populated partially by these evil and corrupt civil servants are even worse!

I hope the currently partisan, delusional and unpatriotic NLC will have the guts to challenge their party’s candidate like they usually do?!

Really?! Confusion galore!

Very correct! I have never been Burna boy’s fan. I really don’t enjoy his music. I usually ignore his mediocre songs, but his attempt to denigrate Afro beats and many Nigerian artists who toil to churn out their music has made me detest the boy more.

- What does profit have to do with patriotism?
That is father Christmas

Really?! There is no country that condones blind profiteering like we do in Nigeria. Even the western capitalist we claim to copy don’t permit it.

- Why doesn't competition also connive with politicians?

Not everyone can be immoral and without values… even in a corrupt society like Nigeria, ther are still good people!

- What do you think lobbying is in the abroad? Conniving

No, Lobbyists only try to get the executive to initiate and/or the legislature to pass changes to unfavorable laws or initiate new ones that will favor them. Students, politicians, Labor, companies, civil society, retirees, etc are all lobbyists. This is subject to majority votes, that is open to all. The lawmakers can also be quickly changed during election cycles if they seem to pass unpopular or anti people laws.

- You can't fix prices when yet have competition (or is lafarge, bua, ibeto, ashaka, benve cement cheaper?)

Yes you can. That is what an OLIGOPOLY is.


- Evil laws by unproductive politicians

I disagree. The antitrust laws have largely protected the poor and vulnerable people from selfish ant greedy businesses.

- If it's easy why din you do it

I can’t do it because I am not evil, selfish and corrupt. These are critical ingredients required to pull it off. Unfortunately, I am not competent in evil, gluttony and corruption.

If you did not speak up when Buhari institutionalized nepotism and ethnic bigotry, you have no right to speak now… hypocrites!

Bullies deserve the worst life ever!
These people are so annoyingly desperate. They are successfully making more enemies than friends. You CANNOT bully your way to power! It doesn’t work that way in a democracy!

Since he is still just a permanent RESIDENT / green card holder, he will certainly be deported.
ONLY citizens cannot be deported unless their citizenship is revoked.
Crime doesn’t pay!

Nobody is father christmas and yes I agree most Nigerians are lazy and entitled.
But when you connive with politicians and the civil service to get rid of any real competition, pay little or no taxes, form an oligopoly / monopoly sometimes and unjustly fix high prices for products in comparison to other neighboring countries? You are a cheat and not patriotic. In America, there are Antitrust Laws to prevent cheats like Dangote from getting away with it most times.
Dangote should stop claiming he is a self made billionaire. The corrupt system in Nigeria pushed him from millions to billions. In saner climes he would NEVER have made it this big and in an outrageously easy and dirty way.

Cromagnon:
what is a patriotic decision, father Christmas abi? Lazy yoot

I really don’t expect anything better from PDP. They are opposition to the ruling APC and no good news is expected from them. APC will do same to any party in power. These politicians are the same!

Please don’t beg!

So what was the Labour Party agents doing signing the polling unit results? And if they didn’t sign the results, why has LP & PDP not proved this in court?! Instead they chose to use means other than fake results in court?
It is this outlandish and unsubstantiated claims that make nobody take you people serious!

taylor88:
Defeated keh


Oga heaven and earth knows that Tinubu didn’t get upto 2,000 votes in the entire Rivers State

I can single handedly tell you no single person likes Tinubu in Rivers State not even Wike

Wike only did what he did so he can be on a safer side make Atiku no win show am shege

Bastards

This useless NLC again?!
What has the NLC done to stop thuggery in the NURTW? What has the NLC done to punish members of the NURTW who facilitate election rigging?
NLC will do nothing about its members in the government owned refineries and petroleum ministry who have sabotaged all efforts to get locally refined products.
The NLC has done nothing about its members in the electricity sector and power ministry who have done nothing to improve power supply.
The NLC members are the KNOWN CORRUPT CIVIL SERVICE who are a major participant in the rot of Nigeria. Yet the NLC thinks it has a moral capacity to challenge other state actors?!

Dangote is a government sponsored billionaire scam! I realized it with his rubbish and elusive refinery.
I don’t think Dangote means well for Nigeria and Nigerians, so people looking up to him to make patriotic decisions are just wasting their time. His main motivation in life is to retain his position as richest Nigerian and African.

As long as make up is involved, she is ugly!
If Bobrisky can make up & look nothing like the gorilla he looked like before, I will never praise a woman for any fake enhancement to her ugliness.

Rubbish! There is no country in the world without a valid reason you shouldn’t relocate there!
If you are convinced that UK is where you will succeed, please go there!
Unlike Indians and Chinese, Nigerians have that evil tendency to burn the bridge they used or lknow others have used to reach their goals in life!

That was how you people said Tinubu won’t be sworn in… what happened after? ABEGI!

taylor88:
Tinubu you can bribe your way up to delay this judgment

But trust me we will never celebrate Christmas with you as our president

Thief

Have to seen the judgement for you to know anyone was hooked or not.
Y'all just make the support of Obi and criticism of Tinubu no different from what APC did to GEJ. Eventually we all realized APC was mostly a clownish, plan-less empty barrel making a lot of noise. You Obidients are sounding too noisy with these outlandish and unsubstantiated claims.

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Una don start again. The last “go to court” hook una certificate forger and drug dealer for neck and una neva still learn lesson?.

You can be a billionaire and still be a simp bro. A high value man ALWAYS has options, if you think you are rich, good looking, successful and have a high status, YET YOU HAVE NO BETTER OPTIONS OUTSIDE A WOMAN THAT DUMPED YOUR ASS?! you are a SIMP!
Women guage value well & love long term ONLY men they value. They recognize and gravitate towards their idea of high value more than men are capable of. You have little or no value to her, that is why she can live without you. If a woman loves you it’s because she thinks you bring provision, love, protection, structure and leadership into her life. You can cheat on her, and she will still excuse you MOST TIMES. If you find her holding the ACE/ JOKER, it is because you lost your value in her eyes. You were easily replaceable, that is why you are the one ditched and missing her. High value men are not easily replaceable… you were!
If you genuinely apologized and are repentant, yet she doesn’t think she wants you again, you were of little value to her, and she likely found or is scheming to get someone of better value than you.
You better get over her & go out there to find a woman that values you & stop sulking!

manoflove22:
She loves me bro she has no excuse to leave cos i get money and i no dey simp