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Mizflo:
Thanks for the advice. I have lost faith in Jesus because if he was there I wouldn’t have been suffering like this . I don’t want to look for him because he has never care about me and I don’t want to know him

What do you really want? Giving up your child might look easy now but it will surely hunt you in future.

A poster asked a similar question- what do you really want?

Too many scammers in nairaland these days so we take each story at face value.

If you can really prove your situation is ideal - by allowing someone come check to verify your story is genuine you could get some assistance from this platform to start over no matter how small. People in similar situation like yours have received help in the past from this forum. We might be arrogant misogynists, feminists, tribalistic, abusive but there are some sane few ones ( very few - the rest are all mad ) here.

The ball is in your court

All this nonsense infatuation they call love. And this made frontpage?

Seriously I think it's time I go back to hibernation mode

Nah, it looks staged. I find it hard to believe a fellow man can be this foolish.

It's a good thing I don't believe in voodoo, otherwise I would have said this is serious black magic.

Nah, it's not real.

jmdw02:
Yes sir i have gotten an invitation for interview.
Just that i need some assistance for me to be able to travel for the intervview

Show us the interview invitation letter.

This is a new account created July 22. It's a common practice for scammers to create new accounts for scams, begging et al.

Show us the interview invitation letter

Your friend doesn't have access to the Internet to come post this herself? Always a friend everytime.

As long as the love is there they can go ahead. Age is just a number. Majority of times the matured men take good care of the ladies better than the youngsters that just want to smash and dash.

Edo elections gunning up to be wild wild west, smh

I pity the foolish youths that will risk their lives for these selfish politicians.

spy24:
its a gradual process nigeria will get there

I pray we get there soon. The level of tribal hatred in this country is sickening. Take nairaland for example with the thousands of tribal warfare that goes on daily. What a shame.

I am from the South South but I admire and respect the achievements of the innoson group.

Until we stop seeing everything as a regional issue we are going nowhere. What a country

I respect and admire what this man and his company has achieved. We need to start looking inwards if we really want our economy to grow.

I am happy to see some oil service companies using the Innoson vehicles. We just need to learn to appreciate our own

Chii59:
The problem I have with some young adults is that they don't know what they want.
For every choice you make there are Pros and Cons.
For example, the advantage of dating an independent woman is that she's bringing something to the table.
On the flip side, that independent side of her will never allow her to be fully submissive. She has seen life, probably gone through different men, and is most likely around late 20s and above.

On the other hand, a young, docile 19 year old is younger, maybe prettier but most likely jobless.
You're going to have to spend on her.
She may or may not question your moves, but then she hasn't really experienced life. She might even be childish.

The problem is that a lot of young men (in this case) want to HAVE IT ALL.
An independent yet submissive, woman who pays her fair share of the bills and has no problem obeying whatever he says.
You can't have it all.

You are a smart woman. Points well laid out.

7pages:
Nairaland Car Gurus please help me find permanent solution to my golf 3 car(America spec) doing overheating barely every day

I started experiencing this over heating after the change of fuel pump and speedometer censor was changed by a recommended Rewire

I'm using this golf for commercial business, nothing give me any issue in the car than this over heating, is becoming embarrassing when I carry passengers and it started. the car is clean and engine is working fine

it's relay today, it's the water in the radiator boiling tomorrow, I'm becoming sick of this. my mechanic told me when it started this night that my gasket is damaged in the process. I put water in the radiator everyday because of this over heating

please what do you guys suggest as the permanent solution to this over heating gazzuzz Sienna royallord1 and others and I wouldn't mind a recommendation of good Rewire. I reside in Lagos.

Please just contact gazzuzz directly and ignore the insults here

Sienna is no more active in the auto section. Gazzuzz is the only one I trust to take care of my cars in Lagos. Good luck

Crixxx:
Hmm,. It can get you a wooden bungalow

You are just pure evil

Shugavee:
Very important

Last time I checked you always identified yourself as a proud feminist. The feminists I know are proud independent women and not women with an entitlement mentality. I expected better from you as a longtime nairalander. You just paved the way for these newbies and teens to attack and demean your personality.

Your post reeks of acute entitlement mentality and suggests your own type of feminism is the Nigerian poverty centric type of feminism. Sad.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Rest in peace

A real niggarrr don't go close to any water body be it man made or natural water bodies

I don't go close
I dislike it with passion

My nigggar. ...I don't like it....I don't go close...
Remember a girl invited me to her marriage in one ijaw area in Edo state like that.. I refuse to go because you have to cross a river before getting to their community....

The guy is a mumu man. Why did he not stay in the children's section which is very shallow, instead he wanted to prove he could swim and went to the deeper section for adults just to impress a girl that's probably with another guy right now while he rots away six feet under.

Guys should start using their brains and stop trying to impress all these cheap girls that don't give a rats ass about them. I have no RIP to waste on such people.

Joshmodest:
The only benefit of fasting is --- you get to save some food ...that's all !!

And if you need to lose weight fast it helps as well

The way Nigerian pastors deceive their followers amazes me. And the gullibility of such followers is something to be researched on.

I keep saying it that almost all pastors in this country are fake. The ones actually called by God are not up to 5%. The rest are no different from the hushpuppies and other fraudsters.

I hate reading stories like this because they get me so worked up. I think I need to take another long break from nairaland because the stories I have been seeing these days are so annoying.

bossvinqualad25:
Should this be a kind of encouragement or what ,he would have achieved alot if he had done other things rather than doing one thing over and over again,for the cleaning of your school and also fumigation before full resumption,contact prolific giant cleaning services and if u are a site engineer u can reach out to me lets work together

I am sure he had other things doing fetching him money those 5 years while he kept on chasing his dream of attending a university thus the reason for never giving up on getting his o'level results.

It will be extremely foolish of him to just sit at home those 5 years doing absolutely nothing.

frozen70:
Women are wonderfully created
But the most manipulative human
They sure knows how to get what they want, unless it's not useful to her

I just added you to the list of ladies I respect. I admire people that are never gender biased

lefulefu:
well if someone genuinly needs money and dere is no more he can get money to feed he can beg
afterall u wouldnt want hunger to push him to rob
the only ppl i bash when they beg are these following type of ppl
1:The betnaija guys:These ones will use school fees and rent money plus feeding to gamble and when they exxhaust everything on naijabet they come to nairaland to beg
2:The fake bigboys:These ones will use their last money to carry olosho and impress her by spending expensivily on her.when money don finish they will come to nl to demand and beg make u give them money as if u dey owe dem money..there some of them too who ragg u money for fuel to fuel their car.
3:Ladies with entitlement mentality:These ones are babes...when they say hi to u on facebook and reply they will be asking u for feeding money,rent money,money for hair,money for underwears as if na u be her guy or papa .they have no manner of courtesy at all.
These 3 groups i just listed are very annoying beggers

4: The perennial eternally lazy ones - these ones are too lazy to go out and look for work even if it's a lowly paying building construction job, but would rather create multiple threads on nairaland begging for assistance and using silly excuses like covid-19 put them out of work.

These set of individuals makes it so difficult for people to help the genuine ones that really need help. Very annoying.

Always begging. It really gets irritating at some point. People that would have willingly helped you get turned off when they see you opening multiple threads seeking assistance, or placing links to your begging threads in other serious threads. It just looks like scam.

You will definitely deactivate and come back with a new moniker. Try to be genuine this time around.

Irijosa777:
thanks for this advise, I really appreciate it
that's all that I need to do. this advise is a enough for me
God bless you

Better. MrBrownJay1's advice is all you need.

Unless you want to end up back in the unemployment market, or in jail or death from magun or assassination or Karma (if you fvck someone's wife your present or future wife will definitely be seriously fvcked by other men- no two ways about it. It's the law of Karma).

So pick one of the evil outcomes I have addressed above or just do the alternative and take MrBrownJay1's advice.

If you love fvcking older women, there are so many sex starved women around. You just have to ask around.

Be wise

[quote author=CSAC post=92748824][/quote]Hardworking Nigerians are fast becoming a dying breed. Respect for never giving up in the face of defeat,despair,frustration and depression. From a fellow Edo brother

Imbees:
My husband just recently told me that he had been lying about his age all this while. We have been married for almost 8 years with two kids. And he told me he was 6 years older than me when we first met, while infact he is 10 years older. I feel really betrayed and now I don’t know what to believe anymore. How can one lie about his age for this long? What else is he lying about? I don’t even know how to react but I am definitely not happy about this. Would I be overreacting by showing that I am angry about this?

Must you people always bring your personal family issues to a public forum so kids and teens start giving you wrong family advice?

Why must you disrespect your husband like this?

So he lied about his age, so what?

Okay now you know, what do you want to do about it? You want to sue him or you want to divorce him?

He reduced his age by 4 and is asking for your forgiveness. Everybody lies. Forgive him and move on.

LifeOfTrigga:
More pictures

This will surely make the front page

Nice one bro

lightangel65i:
Put your name, vagina people's name are not meant to be on any official document

lwkmd

Lovelies1:
They are lands available there and not that much, 2.5 m can't buy half a plot

I don't understand

This document is dated 11th of August (yesterday) and they are talking about non payment of May salary?

I don't understand

That means they are being owed 3 months pay (May - July)

This is very sad.

CSAC:
Nigerian clergyman, Obie Jason, has said it is wrong and unbiblical for Christians to date before marriage.
According to him, when you date, you get dirty. He is of the opinion that dating does not in any way reveal the true character of a person and so people should just hit it off by getting married when they meet

Speaking during a sermon, Obie said

''Do you know it is wrong for Christians to date? Someone would get mad but just hold on a little. If you check the scriptures, the first time the bible talked about marriage, there was no dating involved. That was Genesis Chapter 2. The bible said God caused the man to sleep, the man he made Adam and then he took the rib out of his body and then he made the woman and then brought the woman to the man. There was no dating.

You will say it was only one man and one woman. Now, the bible also showed us in the case of Isaac, the son of Abraham when he got married. There was no dating.

If you read the bible, the new testament which was written for Christians, , you would find out that the only place the bible talked about getting married or preparing for marriage was in 1st Corithians 7:9. This scriptures says ''Get married''. If you meet someone and you feel that I can go ahead with this one, the bible said just get married. You don't need to delay....

SEE VIDEO:https://www.topgistpedia.com/2020/08/it-is-wrong-for-christian-to-date.html?m=1

Bloody fvcking illiterate.

These conmen parading themselves as pastors have bastardized the Bible to suit their crazy teachings. Making a complete mockery of the Christian faith

kenzysmith:
real matter guy why i go joke with things like this?

No vex make I laugh first

Since the younger brother called you the 2nd boyfriend, it means there was a guy before you and that's the first boyfriend.

It depends on the age of this younger brother, if he is below 10 just buy him some goodies and take him somewhere so you can make enquiries about the real boyfriend to get the full story. Because right now you are the assistant boyfriend or the assistant assistant boyfriend (depending on the ones the younger brother has seen )

No vex, make I laugh again, this story too funny

kenzysmith:
Good day, me andthis girl have been dating for over 6 months now. i went to see her 2 days a go at her family house when i enter the compound i over heard her your brother shouting her name Cynthia your second boyfriend done come . i am confuse is she having another guy i love this girl i want to marry her .

This guy again. You're back with these your funny stories. The last time it was your senior brother washing his wife's pant, now this.

smh