₦airaland Forum

1.6 mill

Raychee:
Nothing personal against deeper life folks but a lot of them are exactly like this. I come from a family with deeper life background so i experienced these things first hand. All they know how to do is judge, condemn and condemn.

I know right?
I know about deeper lifers, always condemning like Na them be God P.A.

Vinnie2000:
I Visited a town close to Ughelli in Delta state.

Within 5 mins of walking, I Had passed by 3 Hair Dressing and Make up Outfits with Young teenage Apprentice Girls wearing Customized Uniforms..

Each of dem had 8 or 9 Girls each!...

It now dawned on me that Most Young Nigerians (Both Male and Female) from 16-25 years of age NO LONGER WANT SALARY JOBS.

During my Time in 2005/2006, All of us were Rushing to Find jobs as Salesboy, SalesGirl, Newspaper Vendor, Pure Water Factory worker, etc..


But now, Young Boys and Girls wants to be OGA AND MADAM..
You often hear even 20yr olds saying 'I Cant do N40000 Jobs, I want to have my own Business, I Cant kill myself for Chicken change, Work na Suffer head'..

SO IF THIS TREND CONTINUES IN THE FUTURE, WHERE MOST YOUNGLINGS NOW WANTS TO BE A BOSS/ ENTREPRENUER, WHO WILL WORK FOR WHO?

WILL THE EXISTING COMPANIES SEE WORKERS TO EMPLOY



WHY ARE MOST YOUNG PEOPLE NO LONGER INTERESTED IN WORKING?
Please I Need Reasons.

first, the jobs are not available
And even if they are available, their terms and conditions ain't what most of the youths have like years of experience, certain certificate. Those terms can be depressing and in the long run the best way out is to learn a trade and grow with it.
And, some oga and madam can be pain in the as.s, making work environment unbearable for staffs.

I respect Indians for their culture. They still keep and respect it.

Not like one west African country wey I know, wey her citizens are trying so hard to be westernised by forgetting their culture all in the name of being woke.

Pastorjohn2:
You can't live a life of sin and think God will grant you a long life.

After committing premarital sex and so many abominations, God has finally come to deliver his wrath upon him.

Let this server as a strong warning to others!

REPENT

I'm wondering how Nigerian politicians are saints.
They have lived longer than poor Rico, and you can't tell me they don't commit atrocities. Why hasn't God visited them ?
Or God just picked young Rico as an example to the old politicians Funny.
Simply say ..Rico had an accident, his body system couldn't go through recovery and he died, which is natural.

You think you are more holy than him? , You don't commit sin too?
The poor babies that die right after birth, did they commit any atrocities?

This thing wey you talk just dey vex me sha.

Who even gave you the right to judge him?
Is that what your Bible says? No form of empathy sef, you just open mouth waaaaa they yarn dust.

Na your type go get big Bible dey disturb people all in the name of preaching, but Na castigate you dey castigate.
I sure say you be deeper lifer.

Cassava, corn, Ewa,agbado...BAT 2022

I will recruit 50 million Nigerian youths in to the army, what will they eat? Cassava,Ewa.....BAT 2022

The farmers will make more money,your food will not be imported..... BAT 2022

Wahaleaux pro max

Tenrack:
This lady be like you go like fight for real life.

I no dey look for trouble

DaddyCK:
no my full name is C0RK? am quite big of u like big things thou coz u stand a shance

stop being a nuisance.

virginprincess:
Op,you better ignore that clown called DaddyCK,he is not mentally stable.

I thought as much
Didn't realise it on time

Tob456:
Hey guys, my ex girlfriend is 7 months pregnant she doesn't want to have anything to do with me cos I didn't want to carry the responsibility of her four sisters. She is 24 orphen and the oldest of seven children. she is a fruit seller and the pregnancy wasn't plan she took in 6 months into the relationship but I have accepted the responsibility and I wanted to make her my wife.
First of all I wanted us to discussed about her sisters living arrangements after the wedding and she said she wanted to bring all four who are under 18 to live with us after the wedding and I rejected.
I suggested that the youngest two can live with us while the other two can stay with the aunty but she refused.
she said the relationship was over and she doesn't need me in her life that she will take care of the baby alone.
I've told her even if she doesn't want me in her life anymore she should not stop me from helping her financially because I want our baby to be born in good condition but she refused.
Last week I sent 30k to her account for baby stuffs and she sent the money back to me saying she doesn't need a kobo from me she will take care of the baby alone.
I want to leave her alone but it is hard for me to do so cos she is carrying my child it will not be easy for me to give up easily I just want to be a part of my daughter life. What do you guys think please

I think she is not okay
How can four girls be living with you guys?
She dey reason?

Is that the full name?
Abacha umunze?

jerryforgood:
Liar.

see!
Where's the lie?

DaddyCK:
advise:
juss retype yor story nicely & say goood morning & wait for reply.thise way,guys will apreciate u & more guys will chase u..thats yor only way out!!(((THANK ME LATER)))

lol

Lvgirl:
Good morning my brother. You don't know what that girl is going through. Is it on here yesterday that one guy posted a video that them no dey knack for UK if person never get papers. Are you sure her issue is not Konji-nious mele-cum

lol

Omo.....lmaoooook
My first experience of meeting craze person on NL
Shuuuuuu! Na like this Una dey do

DaddyCK:
yor types is the cuss of high divorce rate.u juss start nagggin without sayin good mroning or respeting the people..and then u complain u cannot find man on nairaland.. really? please behave like u go to Private school or else, yor behavor is showing that u go to publick schoool coz public school people always act like ilitarate. Am juss tryjn to help u so u can get good man!(no ofeinse)

oga leave the thread Na
As you no see the respect and greeting you so much need, make you no dey involved in the thread again naaa.

I'm confused, did I state anywhere in my write up that I need a man? No be people dey go public school? You go private school and your spellings are even below ' public school's standard.

DaddyCK:
am a man.she a woman.its all about respet bro.dont yor woman say goood morning to u forst before ask u question?....or are u white?(no oofeinse)

what a mindset.

Am I your woman?

Lvgirl:
Your have full lips. I checked Ur profile pics again. Guys this girl is a girl to marry.
Full lips girls always have big labia. Yes there toto labia they big well well. Taking from experience. Op pls can you send Ur labia pic to me. Just for confirmation. At least guys will know that I am serious. Do this for humanity sake

I would have continued to act like I didn't see your comment, but let me school you for a bit.
Do you know your comment is insultive?
You probably won't, because you feel it's woke.smh

Temiel:
You see yourself

Did you even say good morning to me too??

Just get...

salute

DaddyCK:
stop encouraging violense bro..so u want her to start cussing people fpr no reason...did she say goood morning before nagging?

smh
How old are you?
I'm just asking o,no be insult o. How old you be? You can give me a range.

Temiel:
Op, I feel you jare.

So many of those immature babies posing as men have their filled day on this forum.
They have no dent in their eyes, it's always others.
You'll read some of their posts and be like yuck!

See, for instance, the clowm that commented on your post.
Immature and respect demanding when there's nothing to respect in him.
Selfish creatures that demand respect because they feel they are male. It makes you wonder if they are the ones that refused to take to learning or they weren't taught at all.
They know not that respect is earned.

Although, it's not just the 'men', some females too ehn... Let's just leave that one for now.

you are one of the few with good sense, someone that can hold conversation, someone that can reason.
Thank you for your input.
Good morning

DaddyCK:
^^^There it go again.
why are u talkin back?muss u talk back. u clearly dont respet men on nairaland so u come here & juss start argueing and cussinn people for no reason.are u one of those feminist womens from IPOD?why u attackin men for no reason. am a lover not a fighter..so if u neeed man, just ask me nicely & i may say yes....by the way, am a londoner, juss in case u ask!!!!(no oofeinse)

I don't understand
So me speaking for myself is synonymous to being a feminist?
Wahaleaux. Must I talk back? Yes I must, if you talk I go talk I'm not mute or dumb.
Did I curse you? And where did I attack men?
And I'm also not a fighter.

I don't need man, and being a Londoner isn't enticing bruv.

Lol
I can relate

DaddyCK:
did u say goood morning sir to anyone? dont u have respet??
.
U come on nairaland & the first thing u do is naggging like chicken n chip.......DID U SAY GOOOD MORNING?...and then u compliain u cant find mans on nairaland.

anyways, are u lightskin?(no oofeinse)

Na good morning dey pain you?
You dey see good morning for other people post?
You for no comment as you no see good morning Na.

And, I'm not nagging. I am only stating the obvious.
And what has skin complexion got to do with the subject matter?

Each time I read comments on NL especially those that have to do with women and men, relationship wise; the women are usually the ones being attacked and called derogatory words, spoken bad about.
And I'm wondering, are the men saints?
You can't convince me that all Nigerian guys/ men are perfect. But why are the females always receiving the bash?
Guys dey phuck up, as well as females. Guy don phuck me up before, but I don't get to see thousands and millions of topics and threads bashing males.
Is it immaturity playing out? Or the men just love demeaning Nigerian females?
Una no dey tire to dey complain?

Or what exactly am I missing??

JESHAL:
Eya
Men don't care about a woman's success or accolades, we only give a Bleep about your sexuality (beauty and feminity), making your own money makes you independent from men, it doesn't make you attractive and arousing to men.

Nigerian men care Bros.
If you care about sexuality and femininity, then why do y'all always ask ' what do females bring to the table?'
If it's just the sexuality, then don't expect women to bring anything else to the table.
And isn't it independence Nigerian men want?they don't want women billing them, Abi is that not what dey want again?
Or you guys can't stand an independent woman too?

BlessedJonMoss:
So my kid sis who is just nineteen told me she had some gist for me. I quickly suspended all I was doing to hear the gist my 'first lady', as I fondly call her, has for me.

Lo and behold she said "bro I now have a boyfriend, I'm in a relationship"

I wasn't in any way surprised to hear this, as I've always suspected she has one from the myriad of boys that call her. I expected her to tell me herself whenever she was ready, and I am glad she found the courage and aso trust me enough to open up to me.

After breaking the gist, she asked for my advice to her. I told her I was busy and had to return to work, that we'll talk later.

So please good people of Nairaland, what advice would you give to a nineteen year old starting her very first relationship?

I don't want her to get hurt by any mofo, nor do I want her to be a leech anybody's son.

You advice pls....

Thank God you know say Nigerian guys be Mofo.
It's normal for her to be attracted to a guy, she's 19.
Just tell her stuffs that guys do, so that she won't love with her heart but with her head. She should be able to sieve deceit from truth ( even though it can be hard with those mofos)
Advice her to always use Condom
Make she no act like say Na only her dey the guy life, so that when the breakfast is served she no go too cry.
She shouldn't spend the night In his house, and shouldn't cook or wash for him.
And if any of his friends should call her ' our wife' make she slap am or shush the idiot up.
She should keep her head in the GAME, cos no be love Na business transaction.

God! I wish I have a younger sister.

sukkot:
most nigerian men dont deserve love. the women are the way they are because of the men. so they all deserve each other. they are both created to torture each other

I believe this

Make she go sit down one place

Na this one now these NL men go use raise shoulder.
Another avenue to yab Nigerian girls.

Their parents probably raised them separately.
But here, we're taught in school that men are the head and provider of the family....lol
So who's supposed to have the money to take care of us?
Men now! It's simple.
No blame us, blame the society wey teach us.

But still, I stand for female independence
I work, I make my money,I don't call guy for data or call credit, I buy my clothes, shoes and bags and hair myself. I pamper myself.
I buy my IPhone 14 myself, but guess what? The stupid Nigerian guy mentality will be ' Na lie, she get sugar daddy ' they too don't believe a Nigerian girl can do all of that herself, and it's really pathetic.

jeromestarks:
Why do you love me?

Na stupid girls dey ask this question. She dey think say you go fvck her like her last fvcker and go. She know say she no get any value aside her rotten fishy pvssy.

Real girlfriend will know she's an asset so no need for useless questions.

I don't think it's a useless questions.
One thing wey guys no dey ever understand be say make and female are different relationship wise.
Females would always seek validation, assurance.
Males would always want to dominate.

If you guys can understand differences between the male and female sexuality, then y'all will stop wailing and bickering over females. And, in the long run y'all would stop creating repulsive threads such as ' how to know a useless girlfriend '
There are useless boyfriends too, or y'all think you are the best thing after heaven?

jeromestarks:
Relax bro. Simple vawulence, you go carry rocket launcher. What's wrong with you sef?

the simple vawulence pain am

All these quacks should stop spoiling the nursing profession.