₦airaland Forum

Jarus:
Well, I think we have different motives for what we do here.

All my social media political comments have been based on my personal convictions, not for any pecuniary consideration.


I have spent personal resources on Buhari. In 2011, we Nairalanders rooting for Buhari raised close to N1m to sponsor radio jingles for him. We never expected anything.

This year, I spent close to 100k from personal resources for the Buhari project, sponsoring radio jingles for the General, just because of my belief in his ability.

I have never been approached by APC for anything and I don't want to. If anything, the two invites I got were from PDP.

One was from one of the TAN groups sometime in November last year to work for them. I rejected the offer.

I got another from Kwara PDP of a position if they win, I ignored too.

I accept his explanation that he may not have been offered any inducement to "port", but I think people without ideology and don't stand for anything are the ones that move from one camp to another. Consistency of political beliefs is key for me

demelza:
Dude who exactly do you think you are?
How can a sane man be fighting for relevance on an anonymous forum populated by kids
This is the height of agbaya-oshi.

malater:
Mumu people. 25% is what buhari needs before he will be decleared the winner. So far GEJ is the one having such although buhari is leading in number. So open your eyes.

minwafor:
Asari Dokubo is now too well-fed and over-pampered to move to the creek to wage any guerilla warfare. Times have changed so he should stop all these unnecessary rantings.

harrysterol:
[size=15pt]Its Jega's mom I'm feeling for because only God knows how long he kept her in labour."[/size]

nijanigga:
Nigeria opposition HQ 'buzzing'

The BBC's Nkem Ifejika in Abuja says: "We've just been to both the APC and PDP headquarters. The difference couldn't be more stark - APC dynamic, buzzing. PDP dead - only security presence."

mmsen:
What exactly did Mandela do in office beside absolve the wrong-doers of their misdeeds and refuse to undertake much needed land reforms?

From what I can see those that benefited from Black Empowerment schemes are those who were in the ANC - how is that any difference from what has happened in Nigerian politics?

Nigeria doesn't need a Mandela, Nigeria needs a Thomas Sankara or a (less corrupt) Rawlins.

MsNas:
#ByeFelicia

udemzyudex:
people are saying that Buhari won kano,while a credible source said kano result have been nullified.... Who do we believe now?


APC should pls stop heating up the polity and wait for INEC

Shymexx1:
Looool.

You saw David Axelrod there with APC, yet you think Washington supports the clueless weasel and his fedora hat - hysterical.

If you don't know who Axelrod is - google is ya friend. Even John McCain the cyborg doesn't like GEJ's face. They all want him out.

Fulaboy:
And when the fulanis strike that's the end of discussion

Tallesty1:
Goan relax bro, that's what my ex told me years ago buh she is singler now and still fucking around as ever.

Get busy bro, leave girls for now cause they hardly stay.

worryless:
Hello House,

i am in Berlin,can help with any info or help that you might need in this area,let me give back to the society in my own lil way..oga justwise please no delete me ooo if i cross border i will appreciate if you can call my attention to it.

So house,if you have any questions regarding living in Berlin,schools,settling down once you are here then ask if openly and i will do my best to respond.

Regards.

bebe2:
Hmm?

Becos she drive her own husband?

Wetin u go call me wey dey pick my own up at 2am frm work?

And go still wake up at 6.30 to ready kids for school?

CoCoLav:
Lol. But this was what I told you earlier.

CoCoLav:
Cc: Urine

CoCoLav:
Lmao!

So this is why you want to kill yourself? #32,000

I am disappointed

CoCoLav:
I'm sorry for you.
No carry your crase come Nairaland.

CoCoLav:
I was waiting for you. You never disappoint. #Pahj-g

CoCoLav:
Nope

itops:
MUST YOU BE THE VICTIM..... BIBLE DIGESTER

joanana:
I don't accept flings in my relationship. If he's with me, he should be with me alone and no else. # one man one woman

I rather remain single than become someone mistress. Tufiakwa!! !!! !

mollysteeze:
Over the years, in what is a total paradigm shift from the values a lot of our mothers had (well at least some), the "other woman" has now become tolerable. I am not sure when along the way it happened, and no one remembered to send me a memo but it appears to now be the norm.

I always have some nagging urge to blatantly say "No babe, it is downright unacceptable", when my friends broach me on this subject, but you end up being the friend who likes to break up homes because she's not married yet. People say if I was in those shoes I would feel differently.

Well Maybe.

However, no matter how much shame I would feel, I knew myself before I got married, my values remain my values, knowing my self-worth is what shapes every corner of my life and that is the core of me. To change now or later would be to deny who I have been for 26 years. While I am never an advocate for divorce, I have realized people do not change overnight.

A year back, my friend's boyfriend told her he was confused who to pick between her and two other girlfriends. Well she fought for "her man". Trouble is today they are married, and he's still seeing one of the other girls, who he has now rented an apartment for in Nigeria, and he's here half the year.

I've realised, the people who complain about there husbands or fiance throwing some other woman in their face mostly had an inkling they were cheats while they were dating. They were the ones who fought of five other girls to get their man. But the question is, if when you were dating there were five of you, why do you think today he would be satisfied with one. I have no doubt in my mind, everyone has an idea of things their partners are capable of in their subconscious, the trouble is a lot of us convince ourselves to believe some other truth that better suits our wants.

My mama has taught me, life is too short to jump into something you can't tolerate all your life, the sole reason for sharing your life with someone and giving up your freedom should be because they make you happier than anyone else in the world. Do not compromise your values or one day you would wish you had not.

But then, on the flip side, if you like smelling some other girls perfume on your man and having your kids run into daddy and "Aunty Bintan, the side chick" at the hotel near their school then go right ahead.