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Marrying a wicked man and into a wicked family. Wicked + Wicked = double wicked.

All these for one woman. Life no balance at all.

Enjoy your winning

You want to destroy her and move to the next one. Community destroyer. No shame

@Shalommy
Op, since you can't get a wife for yourself, they're doing it for you. As a good friend. Chaii


@me
See finishing!!! Five gbosaa

except for northern Moslem Ladies and maybe Indians, waist bead is no no for Western oriented men.

If it's worn by a southern Nigerian lady then she may be a suspect.

You live abroad. I can understand. That's how Nigerian women abroad think.

The man has given you two options....invest in family name and you have your marriage....invest in your name and you have a divorce.

Choose one and case closed.

Too many sex coaches. Very simple....tell your husband what turns you on. Tell him the trigger in your body.

The pastor heard from the devil.

He must have been digging one lady all this while. Ewu pastor

@BATified2023
so tell us d difference between this woman and a goat?

At least they both breastfeed their young ones outside.


@me
Is there anything wrong with a woman feeding her child in the open? If her child is hungry then she must starve the baby until she gets to a hidden place?

FYI a nursing mother's breast is nothing but a feeding bottle. It's no longer for denge and posing.

Don't human eat in the open and goat too do. Relax my denge sister.

It will be stupid to take such decision. The government is very sensitive because of influx of immigrants.

As a student your fees must be paid timely. You are only entitled to 20 hours per week work permit. Jobs that you can get are menial jobs that pay average of £10 per hour. Only your spouse can work 40 hours.

Accommodation is over £600 per month for two bedrooms flat excluding energy costs. With your large family most landlords will insist on three bedrooms flat which will cost more.

Your children must attend schools with the attendant costs. The upkeep cost is another factor. You can now see that it is suicide mission.

The only possibility is if you can raise enough money that can pay 50% of your cost in the UK for the duration of your studies.

Is she not better than those that show us the fallen London bridge for free. At least the breast is productive and she's proud to be a mother.

The baby is seriously enjoying. I'm envying him

Is abroad not rated higher than naija? So anything abroad too should be rated higher than naija.

FYI abroad nobi India oooo

She is on strike. Negotiate with her or sue her to National Industrial Court

@missimelda01
Marriage counselor isonu

All you did was blame her and saw nothing wrong in what her husband did. Did you provide a reasonable solution? No

You can give your opinion but stop deceiving yourself by saying you're a marriage counselor.

@me
My friend read carefully and comprehend well. By the grace of God I'm a senior pastor of one of the largest churches in this nation. I handle regularly very complex marital issues.

Op's problem is that she married early. She does not know the value of marriage. She did not bind and cast before she got a husband.

If I were your husband i will consider it rude that you should ask me to get a property that you will buy in your name. If you don't believe in the concept of ours in marriage then you can go ahead and source your property and buy without me.

Your husband lowered himself the most by taking a cut from the fee you paid. From your explanation he appears not to be doing badly. Why should he lower himself.

All your steps showed that you don't believe in this marriage. Within months you have moved to your sister's place, hired your own accommodation and packed your belongings.

As a marriage counselor this is one of the craziest action that I have heard from a married woman.

Accept everyone's apology and move back to your family. There are so many hawks around ooo.

@Racoon

Largest IGR, largest debtor. Alpha-Beta Burdillion conduit pipe corruption.



@me
In finance it means that the debts are sustainable. No danger to repay.

@Slynation
This annoying old preeq should just rest already, As if the Lagos of then he was talking about wasn't the Lagos I knew...

Using Fashola and Ambode's legacy to campaign can only get him the President of Lagos state... :

@me
I'm apolitical. I have lived in Lagos since 1977 and I'm still living in Lagos. Jakande did so well and had solid plan for Lagos. The military destroyed it. BAT took over a decayed Lagos, layed the foundation and trained disciples that continued to carry out the vision. There's no comparable former or current governor with such record.

Managing Nigeria is a different proposition though. If he can do this for Nigeria he would have set a mark for generations.

Issues:
The wife and the husband agreed to buy properties in the name and for the benefit of their yet to be born child.

The child did not arrive.

Mr dotun fraudulently suggested this name because it's the name of a child he had with another woman.

Mr dotun died intestate.
There is the case of fraudulent misrepresentation.

Question
If two parties agree to perform an act that is rested on the happening of an event is the act or decision valid if the event did not happen? The answer is no.

Conclusion
The basis of the decision between morenikeji and dotun was that they would have a child together that will bear the name and inherit the properties.

The none arrival of the child renders the decision nugatory. Therefore the property rights reverts back to the original investors. Hence dotun died intestate and the marital agreement between the couple does not recognize the child dotun had outside wedlock, morenikeji effectively claims complete ownership.

To dotun.... Cunning man die, cunning law burial am...

The two most common problems in marriage are issues that are either money or sex related. Where money is available and the man meets the financial needs of the family but cheats, most of Nigerian women will continue to stay in the marriage.

There are very high chances of divorce where men lack money and cheat.

The epistle on this topic is too long jor.

My wife's load has filled her wardrobe and room. She has fully occupied the wardrobe in the lobby.

She has moved to my room and occupied the wardrobe. She now sleeps in my room because there is no space in her room. Assuming that we live in small apartment how would I have coped?

Abeg.... tired of women uwahala

@Smartford

Thanks a lot bro for the advice.
The bank isn't able to give me cash that will cover both the debt and extra to start business,

The house is sited on a 50 by 100 plot and it did not have much land remaining, the house is currently valued at about 10million.

The source of my money is not fludrant. I sold a land in the village and used it to buy the new land and build, also opened a game plaza which was swept empty by robbers at night just after 4 months of operation.

@me
If you are sure of raising #10m from the sale of the property and you are owing #2.5m, I'll advise you to sell.

Before you sell research to find out if there is any good land you can buy for #2.5m and a viable business that you can invest #5m. Don't sell before determining the above.

The business must be a low risk high turnover and small profit business. Ensure that you don't expand your personal expenditure so that your capital is not encroached. If you have a car, sell it and add the money to your capital. You can replace the car when things get better.

Good luck.

Very pathetic. Definitely a spiritual issue. Do you have such issues in your lineage from your father's and mother's side?

You need to be calm and forget the history that you listed here. Believe that God can solve your problem.

Which church do you worship? Are you born again? If not, get born again. Avoid fornication no matter the temptation. Don't jump unto any man that comes your way because many will like to take advantage of you.

Which state do you reside? Are you ready to make intense sacrifice i.e prayer wise?

I will like to help but I don't know how you can contact me. I can't release my number here. You don't need to meet me face to face but you must be serious and desperate to change your situation through prayers.

With God all things are possible.

Don't attempt to borrow from the bank unless the money that you borrowed can pay off your debt and there will be a reasonable amount left to invest in a business that you understand very well.

The return from the business should be capable of servicing the loan from bank as well as meet your recurrent needs.

What is the size of the land on which the building is built? Can some part of it be sold without selling the building? How much can you realise from this? Can it solve your problem?

On the spiritual side... what was the source of money that you used to build the house because you mentioned Yahoo? Proverbs 20:17 (KJV) "bread of deceit is sweet to a man but afterwards his mouth shall be filled with gravel"

Finally if the source of the money is illegal, sell off the house, pay off your debt and be a free man. Repent and start a clean life all over.

There is a time to be spiritual and a time not to be spiritual. This one na physical. Even the bishop know this. One dangerous agege rat has entered that bag. Just put rat poison inside that bag.

Everything is project. He has chosen his preferred project which has led him to no graduation. Congrats

That's why you should not lay your hope on man but on God because he doesn't change.

Rubbish.,. Paying three months out of thirty months. I learnt that the governor borrowed the fund from commercial banks which the polytechnic is liable to repay.

So the problem is still there.

I don't get it. Is it that he's not attracted to you or you are not attracted to him?

Happy birthday to you. Glorious nairaland years ahead. Congrats

35 years ke. There's still hope na. A lot are heading towards 50 years and still hopeful. If you like call it hopeless na you sabi.

Son beware. Big poo tank can become big problem. Inside that tank are the troubles of men.

Oversized rib can kill. Run for your life.