₦airaland Forum

Huston1:
She doesnt cook food everyday. When she knows she isngoing to make a meal that wont take much of her time, then she will not start early at all. Even when i remind her that it is getting late, she will tell me something like "Is it not just to make eba" but when she eventually gets into the kitchen she starts doing other things. Maybe that is when she will realise the kids will not eat eba and start frying plantain for them, or she will tell me she checked the soup and found there is no "Kpomo" or fish again because I dont like beef. Then she will start making jollof rice or something. She actually does a lot of things to make me happy. The timing is what I am not comfortable with. I have told her many a time she doesnt have respect for time. Anytime we have to get ready together and go out, I will tell her to start getting ready 2hrs before the time. She doesnt even make up. But we will still get to the place late. I go angry to church every sunday because even if she wakes up by 6am for a service of 9:30am, we still get to church late. I dont know what to do anymore. Whenever i talk to her, she makes adjustment for only few days and she is back to her old self. In the area of food, I feel I will make her feel bad if I start eating out but I dont know how to remedy this I am in. I will not forget to mention that she is a very nice wife and mother and very respectful. My family and friends like her. But this shortcoming of not respecting time is what I dont like. And you should all know that a woman who doesnt have respect for time is very untidy. And of course she is. I actually knew all these before I married her but I thought I can work on her and change these about her. Is this a cross I have to bear for the rest of my life because she doesnt compliment me the area of tideness and being timely. She scores Zero in being clean and timely. I employed someone who comes to clean my house everyday and wash too. I will not fail to mention that I still love her and she loves me with her life. She is very LOYAL, Caring, pretty, kindhearted and receptive. Family and friends enjoy her company. If she is not around, they misses her. I wish she can make little adjustment in these two areas of respecting time and being clean. There is nothing to write home about her in these two areas. I am always angry.

Like you said, she has other good sides. If indeed she can't cook food early for you and the kids, buy food outside and eat. By the time you do this repeatedly, she will change. It's a habit. But they say if you do something consistently for 30 days, it becomes a new habit. It only takes discipline and determination. She can unlearn her former habits.
I wanted to suggest hiring a maid to do the cooking. This could be a lot of strain on your purse.

. By now she should have gotten over it. This incident happened on July 27, 2 months ago.

zikter:
ok, give us the breakdown of the allowances as you understand from the news and let us analyze

200% of salary on housing allowances
300% on furniture...etc.

When I added everything, allowance was about 8 times the salary. This does not include tbe racketeering they are involved in. Wait a minute, what is Aso Rock feeding allowance ? It's more than N1bn

zikter:
see, the issue with many of our youths is that, they are not analytical in anyway. don't be surprise many did not even read but jump to comment at the sight of 2.3b. they don't know how many civil servants and political appointees are involved. I was even tempted to disbelief the fact that the whole president gets a meagre pay of 300k/month

. Salary is nothing. Let's look at the allowances.

.

Ibime:
My brother, I am of no doubt that these ministers and President are stealing 1000 times the N200K/N300k per month they collect as salary.

My issue is with the lack of integrity in our journalism, such that the journalist spinned such a commendable story into a negative one, and the fact that the vas majority our youth are illiterates who cannot read, understand and analyse a publication.

The average professional in any of our oil companies or multinationals is earning way more than our Ministers based on the figures published.

If you believe they only depend on their salaries, then I laugh. Didn't you see all the allowances quoted ? Furniture allowance, 200% of salary.. this allowance, 300% of salary. By tbe time you add all the allowances, it would be 10 times their salaries. Don't forget the racketeering that goes on.

samento:
Publish Jonathan's regime let us compare.

Should we now compare saints to sinners or a virgin with a prostitute ?
If Gej was fantastically corrupt as people say he is, why should saint Buhari be compared to him ?

I'm sure there are people already doing so. .

samento:
Publish Jonathan's regime let us compare.

Should we now compare saints to sinners or a virgin with a prostitute ?
If Gej was fantastically corrupt as people say he is, why should saint Buhari be compared to him ?

I'm sure there are people already doing so.

greggng:
No responsible man should marry an actress. Come to my estate and see for urself what this ladies do in the wee hours of the night. Many times the security on duty will drive them away but they remain adamant. The Bleep any how and anywhere there by contaminating the estate. In the morning u will see condoms everywhere. The chairman of the estate has informed the manager of the place yet they remain adamant.

Which area be that ?

goldbim:
If the man could willingly pay another woman bride price but you had to beg him to come and pay yours means he is not interested....you married him,he did not marry you..lessons learnt:don't be a iyawo Nylon bag!! ..

On point... I noticed something contradictory. Her ex wanted her back but she refused. When he paid someone else's bride price she started crying

blackpanda:
Actually u are the one who needs the education. You have no clue what the race for oil is about. so be quiet

This is the time to diversify and not keep spending our scarce money searching for crude oil. What about solid minerals and agriculture they were boasting about ? He just wasted billions drilling for crude oil in Lake Chad which yielded no result.

Yeah. That's apt.

nickyzeb:
When writing hobbies & interest in your CV most graduates make mistakes of writing hobbies & interest that don't Tally with the kind of job they are applying for.

A graduate of civil engineering or any of the engineering do not need to write sporting or like meeting people in his/her CV as and interest &hobbies it do not tally..

It is Better if he/she writes:networking, training, thinking, researching etc. As their hobbies/interest.

What if you read engineering and your hobby is playing scrabble or chess ? Or probably martial arts.

shamecurls:
7. Try to know people and clique that run the shows.......it will aid your promotion or staffing the most.

Yeah. This is where office politics come in. Apart from having the requisite technical skills, interpersonal relationship matters a lot. Kudos.

ify2016:
This Big grass cutter was killed by my neighbour in his cassava farm today.

I decided to bring it to our snake and bush meat Director in the House in the person of Honourable lalasicala to come over to the High table!!!

Why una dey kill our wild life ?


Na joke oh. Na serious bush meat.

dollyjoy:
Good evening people

Just thought we could have some nice time despite all the shít going down this section.

As the topic says, what do you admire about the opposite sex? What's that thing that when you see you can't get your eyes off him/her?

Even though i Wouldn't want to be a male if given the chance, there are things i really admire in them. Let me just let you guys on one attribute that I admire in guys

i admire their bears and also when a guy has deep voice.

Let's hear yours

Them plenty oh.
Big boobs.
Nice height.
Well shaped hips.
Lips.
And nice skin.

gaetano:
I go to UK for my health issues.

My kids go to UK universities.

I go to UK for my leave.

I eat foreign rice and I ask you to Farm!


Who Am I?

A hypocrite

People are frustrated

Jesuobu:
The cure is on the way my friend, God is working on it.

HIV virus can only survive in a living cell. That means it will die when not in a living cell. The way out I think, is to deceive the virus in the body and make the body appear to it like a non-living cell. If there is anyway this can be done without causing harm to the body, I think the cure is discovered.

Let the cure come quickly oh.... . Aids sufferers are not called patients. They are called victims.

Bull#shit. Mr. Buhari, give Nigerians the change we need and stop patronising us. Nigerians are good people.

Paperwhite:
Chai! .This will be another national embarrassment of unimaginable proportion (This reminds one of Trump's wife plagiarism of Mrs.Obama's previous speech) APC no go kill Nigerians oh. Even the "Change" campaign is also conned based on lies just like Buhari's certificate issue.Anyway since he's an illiterate,how will Buhari know if the speech written for him is genuine or otherwise. America may soon denounce Aishia's controversial visit.Abeg APC change is no by force.Enough of these lies.Team-#CHANGEBEGINSWITHLIES(Credit to a good friend).

The "change begins with me" slogan was also plagiarised.

HtwoOw:
Unless your news is from aba or delta, or your source is , nobody dropped any charges, the plan is to frustrate them into negotiating and returning loots


Buratais assets were declared, no story

78Million website? A state's website? Ask around how much it takes to own and maintain a government domain , the security and other things the question you wicked souls failed to ask, the point you failed to note is the total has other miscellaneous costs and other running costs




I don't know if the actual cost is inflated though and I really don't care, if you have an evidence of corruption forward to icpc or EFCC, the way you people scream Tinubu, Fashola is appalling

This is hypocritical of you. Were you the one who forwarded evidence of corruption that led Olisah Metuh to court ? So why should I 4ward evidence of corruption

HtwoOw:
Unless your news is from aba or delta, or your source is , nobody dropped any charges, the plan is to frustrate them into negotiating and returning loots


Buratais assets were declared, no story

78Million website? A state's website? Ask around how much it takes to own and maintain a government domain , the security and other things the question you wicked souls failed to ask, the point you failed to note is the total has other miscellaneous costs and other running costs




I don't know if the actual cost is inflated though and I really don't care, if you have an evidence of corruption forward to icpc or EFCC, the way you people scream Tinubu, Fashola is appalling

Isn't it hypocritical of you to applaud Buhari for fighting only the opposition but closes an eyes to his party members ? Were there no evidence against Amaechi but FG dropped it ? And same goes for Timipre Silver. Keep on defending wrong. I don't know how much they pay you.

You speak as if you know something about IT but you kniw nada. Mind you, Fashola spent 78million on his personal website. Is this what 78million naira website look to you ?

TIREDOFSEX:
30yias u still dey sell ice cream
Shey na deir dem carry ur destiny keep ...
What of him children sef
Dem still sucking brest


Nawa ooo...

Tragedy of life .
I once visited the primary school I finished from some decades ago and still saw most of the staffs there. Imagine people who taught me when I was young (some could even be my parents) are now teaching my children. I now wonder, are teachers being appreciated ?

yungmaestro:
I knew I will be the first comment..I knew I would do it. As nairalanders would say FTC on point....
please how many likes for me..
#Young

Will you compete for the essay ? I think you should.

dainformant:
For those guys who have formed a habit of bombarding ladies with unnecessary and disturbing chats online especially on Facebook, better have a rethink cos some ladies are not smiling. A girl, in a bid to "shame" a guy who has been pestering her with sex requests on Facebook for FOUR years, has exposed the messages she received from him (including the dirty ones)...

Sandra Nicholas, a law graduate of Imo State University, Owerri, took to her Facebook page yesterday to post the chats below..

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/09/see-what-this-girl-did-to-guy-who-has.html

She's fine and busty. I no blame the guy. But him for mind himself.

HtwoOw:
Truth always stares Nigerians in the face but some wicked souls will not be happy

Someone said Buhari should face economy and leave corruption fighting


From where I stand you are asking Buhari to fill a woven basket with water trickles (only few intelligent people will understand the concept)


Before GEJ was sworn in, licensed importers were 40 before Jonathan left they were more than 120 importers of crude and it was nothing but a ploy to share subsidy with friends and family


Remember a while back when one top politicians son was busted for collecting subsidy, but never imported a drop of crude and the address on his license /CAC document was fake, that was about 100B


During the excess of $120\barrel Jonathan did not repair any refinery or build another one all he focused on was subsidy scam for friends and family and political buddies


Okonjo iwealla confirmed Nigeria has been in recession since late 2014 instead of admitting the truth she said Nigeria was cash strapped



These are documented facts, I don't expect the 5% people to agree with me

The fact that Pdp didn't get it right does not give Apc any excuse for failing. If Buhari is fighting corruption, how many people has he convicted ?
Why are the charges against Saraki dropped ?
Has he questioned Buratai concerning the properties in Dubai ?
Fashola used 78million naira for a website, why is he in saint Buhari's cabinet ?
Let's not even talk about Amaechi who is said to be the most corrupt politician.

Buhari is not fighting any corruption. He's just deceiving himself.

soberdrunk:
A very 'hardworking' and 'honest' man, may all the gods but local and foreign reward him for his "honesty

Yes he's very hard working. He has been saving since.

kolaa007:
Total of how many places have i mentioned? Lets see who was really following....

You try. I no fit sleep.