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Serene123:
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Truth. I asked for advise yes. But I already know what I will get from Nairaland. Insults and the rest. Most people think is easy to handle emotional issue until they afe there.
Due to constraint, I won't be able to state everything here.
We have spoken about this for a long time. She has said is nothing. From their conversation self there is nothing. But I realised she don't even wanna be with the guy. Nah Money she dey collect from the guy. She has told me that the guy gives her money. I come to understand is all these older men things and it hurt me more. That was what led to my reaction.
As it stands now, I have ddcdied to let her be till she is done with her thinking then we talk. If there isn't any chance for that, I move on

Why will he give her money? Even billionaire Ned Nwoko no dey dash babes money without returns.

Let's even assume her story is true (which is very hard to believe). Why will she even accept money and gifts from another guy? That means she is not satisfied with what you give or can give her.

Serene123:
I have gone as far as secretly getting access to her WhatsApp. I didn't see any single chat with her and the guy nor another person. But the calls just keep pisisng me off.

I realised I shouldn't have gone that far. I should have just be calmed and let her do her wish

Forget all that, it matters very little. The truth is if she is not ready to sacrifice the relationship with any guy you don't approve of, then she is not ready for marriage.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Conservatives are pro-life indeed.

It is all politics I don't see how you can be pro-life or value the sanctity of human life as they say and be in support of the death penalty.

So Trump administration had 13 people executed Biden has said he will look into this the so called pro life justices in the supreme court said go ahead.

They are only pro life as it concerns sexual immorality by women. They feel forcing a woman who had sex and got pregnant out of wedlock to birth the baby is punishment for her sexual sins not even minding the care and welfare of the baby.

They are only pro life as it concerns and unborn baby, once the baby is born, they stop being pro-life and become pro-death. They then support death penalty, herd immunity and violent protests. Not one of them even mourned the death of 5 of their members who died during their protests.

BLOODYSPERM:
Cultural marxist propaganda using tribalism, cultural appropriation and identity politics

At the rate you are going you will be opening one new moniker per day. As I said you need serious deradicalization program before you become another Farouk Abdulmutallab.

This is a message for your type

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qud-CiuJTnI

PrideofLincoln1:
The Coons and the Cultists in Umudike have been crying since the early morning of Nov 4 and they will keep crying for eternity due to their ignorance and stupidity backing a well known pathological and sociopathic lying misogynistic racist who is leaving our People's House in shame and condemnation like I predicted years ago. This thoroughbred Chicago raised American is happy that Trump ends up his term in shame and infamy which he deserves. He probably will spend the rest of his grifting life in a jail in Upstate New York near the Canadian Border.

They even made their presence felt on January 6th invasion of the Senate building.

JESHAL:
The genocide is unbearable to my conscience

Remember a paranormal event brings about spirituality

These helpless infants are smitten by the abortion clinics blades or drugs legalized by the govt , what a wicked world

That's why I feel that you must have had a loveless childhood, because I just don't understand your obsession with aborting an unwanted fetus but don't care at all about thousands of actual people dieing daily. Almost 3,000 US citizens are now dieing daily due to Trump policies of herd humidity. All his rallies are supper spreader events that spread the virus like wild fire. Almost every one close to Trump had been infected with the virus. But because they have special medical care )by the way, they are treated with stem cells made from 'murdered babies', they don't die. It's the thousands of ordinary Trump supporters who can't afford special medical care that bear the brunt of the virus. Any you never for once called out Trump for causing the death of thousands. Pro life my foot.

JESHAL:
I don't believe in cultural Marxism or critical race theory

I'm against post mordernism and Egalitarian-equalism

Does that make me a radical or a fanatic

Yes and no.
You don't believe in cultural marxism or critical race theory as you put it. But others might believe in it. That others don't believe in your own isms should not make them your enemy that should be killed or harmed. Even the Jesus you purport to follow did not create any isms that should be the basis of hatred. Jesus was said to have eaten and stayed with unbelievers. When he healed he did not heal based on faith, sex or race.

You are exhibiting signs of fanatism, because you are supporting Trump based purely on hatred of those who disagree with your views. Trump is not a religious leader, he never even claimed to be a Christian. Trump is not a political leader, as his political ideas are unclear. He switches political ideas according to expediency. Trump is not an intellectual leader. He has little knowledge of science, geography, Religion, philosophy, etc. I am still at loss why you guys worship Trump. I think it's because he hates the people you also hate.

JESHAL:
You are a bloody slowpoke
I don't believe in traditional superstitions
I believe in Almighty God
But what can a cultural marxist know about God
Nothing

You can be living life , Do you know your purpose for existence?
Why were you created?
What's your life's vision?
What's going to be your legacy to God and Humanity?

Existing is not the as living
Mr Lincoln you are merely existing from everything you've posted,no amount of broke shaming can change that

Existing in a miserable condition called your life and lashing out to me, I'm not the source of your life sorrow and predicament

You need Help!!!!

I really feel sorry for you kid. You and and sexylasse seem to have had a traumatic childhood and taking solace in religious and political extremism. The tragedy is that you have taken a position that is even antithetical to your personal and racial interests. You have become so radicalised you have become a danger both to yourself and others around you. You are exhibiting the same behaviour as a newly recruited ISIS members who due to hatred inductrination is eager to kill christians, infidels and opponents of their culture leader.

You on the other hand have substituted christians for leftists , infidels with leftists and opponents of Trump with RINOs.

The way I see the extent of your radicalization, it would be a miracle if one of your type will not make a suicide murder attempt on the life of President Biden, vice president Pelosi or speaker Pelosi within the next few months or years.

zendi:
Excuse me, Woketards of the Wild West.

If a legal adult is caught robbing a bank, will he successfully plead that the wife, husband or friend incited him/her to it?

How many times has what somebody said made you to go and rob, rape or kill?

Is it possible you ever learn to blame offence on the offender rather than fish around for somebody to rope in?

Or is it too much of Coffee, Liberalism or Recreational Marijuana that's at work?

Excuse me, confederates of the wild south.

If a legal adult is caught blowing up the world trade center in a suicide attack, will the wife, friend or leader that merely sent them be indicted for it?

How many times has what somebody said made ISIS and Boko Haram members to go and rob, rape or kill?

Is it possible you ever learn to blame offence on the offender rather than fish around for Osama Bin Laden (who never even stepped a foot in America) to rope in?

Dapcity007:
LMFAO
We are rejoicing
Can't wait for the red wave in 2024
Let me see the excuse Dems will use when there is no Corona to allow mail in ballot


No fraud in 2024
We will use VOTERs ID

Which fraud did you see in 2020? You really need to go for a deradicalization program. Boys your age are very susceptible to radicalization and extremism.

Almost all Trump's appointees saw no election fraud. Most real and lifelong Republicans saw no election fraud. All the judges saw no election fraud. But Trump's radicalised supporters are always seeing election fraud in their dreams.

Here is Trump's new appointee to the position of acting attorney general for Georgia dismissing their fraud allegations.

Trump’s pick for U.S. attorney in Georgia dismisses election fraud claims: ‘There’s just nothing to them
The acting U.S. attorney for Northern Georgia, who was named after his predecessor reportedly angered President Trump for not finding election fraud, told staffers in a conference call Monday that he dismissed two election fraud cases on his first day.

“I would love to stand out on the street corner and scream this, and I can’t,” said Bobby Christine, according to an audio recording of the call obtained by The Atlanta Journal-Constitution.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.ajc.com/news/trumps-pick-for-us-attorney-in-georgia-dismisses-election-fraud-claims-theres-just-nothing-to-them/7JMIL37WANHWXCZD4FTJXH4CIQ/%3foutputType=amp

Here also is Georgia's secretary of state dismantling Rudy Gulianni's "kraken" where he alleged that people were sent away for democrats to bring in illegal ballots.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjKXvqSNIkk

[quote author=bayelsaowei post=98037516]Never believed trump could be this civil in his speech..trump could be this calm and composed...

pic.twitter.com/FIJbvCYGJ6

— The White House 45 Archived (@WhiteHouse45) January 13, 2021

ke? Who told you it was his speech, it was probably Ivanka or Jared's speech, Donald Trump only has to read it through the teleprompter.

Here is Trump and his people being "shocked" while watching the attack on Capitol.
https://twitter.com/i/status/1349506700026540032

ono:
I'm proud to be one of Trump's terrorists. MAGAs reign supreme.

So are ISIS members chosen by Al-Baghdadi to wear suicide vest. To them ISIS reign supreme.

Dapcity007:
Tell dat to the fraudulent ballots casted in Pennsylvania

If fraudulent ballots were cast in Pennsylvania, how then do you think Trump and his supporters should seek redress. Start a civil war? Or break up the union so Trump can be president of only his support base?

If African leaders follow Trump's example, then the continent would be in a State of perpetual civil war.

Trump is just making me appreciate president Jonathan more who stated, and I quote
"my ambition is not worth the blood of any Nigerian". And I was never a fan of President Jonathan.

Believe me, Trump can never win the violence he is trying to instigate.

jaxxy:
Ok then bt just what the elections to not only be free and fair bt seen to be free an fair. There was some talk about verification of signatures for mail in votes which he made bt don’t know if that was ever done or concluded and this was after most of these court judgements.

So the election will only be seen to be fair if Trump won the election?

Are you going to verify signatures only where Trump lost or verify all tens of millions mail in and absentee ballots?
Do you even what signature verification means or you just parrot Trump's talking point without thinking?

Then if signatures of mail in votes must be verified, what of in person voting? Should all over 150 million votes not have the signatures verified, both for the presidential election, Congress elections and state house assembly elections?

Josefsom:
Aswear
They should expect more oo.
That man is the no 1 citizen of d world for cry out loud
Social media have joined them in regulating freedom "after" speech

So what? Didn't the no 1 citizen of d world agree to the terms and conditions of these platforms before signing to join? So because he is the no 1 citizen of d world, he is free to violate their terms and conditions and they should not sanction him?

ribbit:
capitalism ehhh


All these big cooperations working together to qaush one enemy can't be good in the long run.

Now we know the most powerful being in the world is still at the mercy of big cooperations like regular folks and they can treat anyone's fucck up at anytime except their own.


Deplatforming parler has got to be the most unnecessary show of power.

Most radicalization are not even happening on parler but facebook n twitter and youtube. Amazon, play store etc should remove facebook and twitter first.

Because parler is not big on moderation or share same view on how the world should be is not enough to get rid of it.


I think democrats should distance themselves from actions like this or it might come back to hunt them in the future.
What goes around they say.

You still don't get it. US is on a balance now and it could tip the other way and plunge the country into a protracted crisis. People have been asking for Facebook, Twitter et al to put better restrictions, algorithm and moderation for years, especially after the last US elections where it was shown that Facebook can be used to create political chaos. Facebook allowed ISIS to use its platform for radicalization and recruitments before they were shut down. It was too late by then.

Trump effectively used twitter for his own radicalization and recruitment and numerous people pointed out the dangers then. Now it's almost too late. Millions of Americans have been radicalised and most are ready to carry arms at Trump's command. There are now too many extremist right groups in the US, all pledging allegiance to Trump and not even the US. There are White Nationists, Confederates, KKK, etc all ready to pick up arms against the state.

If these big tech don't bring things under control, they would be able to survive a protracted crisis.

edi287:
2012 - Obama rigged the elections. Ban the electoral college. There needs to be a revolution. Voting Machines are flipping Romney votes for Obama

2016 - If I lose, it'll be because it's rigged. Ted Cruz rigged the Iowa Caucus.

2020 - Dominion flipped votes for Biden. Mail In Ballots are illegal. The elections are rigged.

If anyone doesn't see just how shameless this guy is - then I don't know what else to say.
God bless Georgia's SOS for comprehensively debunking all the lame conspiracy theories with video evidence.

In 2016 he made the same rigging allegations against Clinton when he thought he was losing, and when he found out he actually won, he then called the elections free and fair.

Donald Trump's 'Rigged Election' Claims Raise Historical Alarms Oct. 17, 2016, 5:17 PM EDT / Updated Oct. 17, 2016

As Donald Trump's campaign falters, his warnings that the presidential contest will be rigged have become a focus of his pitch to voters.

Historians say Trump's sustained effort to call the process into question has no close parallel in past elections. And some are increasingly worried that his claims — for which he's offered no real evidence — could leave many of his supporters unwilling to accept the election results, potentially triggering violence and dangerously undermining faith in American democracy.

In a tweet Monday, he declared that there's "large-scale voter fraud happening on and before election day." In fact, numerous studies have shown that in-person voter fraud is vanishingly rare.

In August, Trump told a Pennsylvania crowd that the "only way" he could lose the state is "if cheating goes on." Trump's vice presidential running mate, Indiana Gov. Mike Pence, echoed those claims Monday in Ohio, declaring: "Voter fraud cannot be tolerated by anyone in this nation."
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/ncna667831

And this was for an election Trump actually won. So you see Trump was never going to accept any election he lost, never.

It's just mind blowing that his supporters always fall for the same tricks.

Hongkog:
It was a call for a peaceful protests not an insurrection.

Then what did Gulianni mean by "trial by combat"?

BraniacX:
it's just business, any brand associated with trump is seen as stained and therefore boycotted

My brother Trump is a goner and every one associated with him will go with him.

The main stream media, big tech and wall Street made him. They have all ganged up to destroy him and his associates. They have had enough of him because he thinks he is bigger than the US itself.
I can bet my bottom Dollar that a year from now Trump will be dead broke.

Here are some reaction from them;
Stripe has stopped processing payments for the Trump campaign.

American Express and JPMorgan Chase have said they would no longer donate to candidates who supported last week's insurrection or did not vote to confirm President-elect Joe Biden's victory in the Electoral College.

Citigroup confirmed Sunday that it is pausing all federal political donations for the first three months of the year.

Twitter suspended Trump from its platform, as did Facebook, last week. The social media company Parler was banned from Apple's App Store as well as Google's Play Store, and Amazon cut off Parler from its Amazon Web Services platform.

Shopify, an e-commerce platform for merchants to sell goods, also shut down the Trump campaign's merchandise website as well.

Forbes editor warns companies that might hire Trump press secretaries: Magazine will assume everything they say is a lie.

Dapcity007:
Historically Republicans will always remember these disputed election

You are not a conservative, you don't know how we think or feel

The election was not disputed by Republicans. It was only disputed by President Trump and his die hard supporters.

The so called disputed elections was organised by Republican Secretaries of States, ratified by Republican state legislators and confirmed by most republican Congress members. A Republican VP preceded over the confirmation of the elections. A republican Attorney General declared the election free and fair. A largely republican Judiciary threw out over 60 court challenges. So which Republicans are disputing the elections again?

Trump's radicalised cult members does not equate to the republican party.

Dapcity007:
Texas lawsuit was constitutionally binding

Constitutionally binding how? When the Supreme Court said it does not have the right to sue.

U.S. Supreme Court throws out Texas lawsuit contesting 2020 election results in four battleground states

The lawsuit challenged election results in Georgia, Pennsylvania, Michigan and Wisconsin. The high court said Texas did not have standing to bring the case.

In a few brief sentences, the high court said it would not consider the case for procedural reasons, because Texas lacked standing to bring it.

"Texas has not demonstrated a judicially cognizable interest in the manner in which another State conducts its elections,"
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.texastribune.org/2020/12/11/texas-lawsuit-supreme-court-election-results/amp/

Dapcity007:
Research it out
His tenure was tarnished before it began
He was tagged RUTHERFRAUD by his opposition the Democrats

They set up a special committee of sen,SCOTUS judges,reps, to intervene

If you are well versed in history, why not educate us.

I don't see where you said a state sued another state in the Supreme Court for its choice of electors. From my little knowledge of US constitution, a Senate committee can only be set up if a state send 2 sets of electors. The committee would then determine which set of electors were sent according to the state's laws and the constitution.

The courts can intervene at any time during the election process and they have the final say.

Dapcity007:
I doubt
The evidence were overwhelming especially in Pennsylvania

It is left for either Trump or Pennsylvania republican party to sue, not Texas republican party or Governor in far away Texas.

Dapcity007:
The incidence bears similarity in comparison with Republican fraudulent election of Rutherford Hayes in 1887

It's a very serious issue on election integrity
I blame the lack of strong will of the leaders of the Republican party to see it through

I know nothing about Rutherford Hayes in 1887, but I am certain it did not involve a state suing another state for which candidates it choose to give it's electoral college votes.

Dapcity007:
Texas has the Constitutional liberty to pursue cases of national interest

Early federalist like alito and Clarence Peter's agreed to here the jurisdictional arguments

Believe me the jurisdictional arguments would have failed. It would just have been a waste of the courts time. Such a stupid case had never been brought up in US election history.

Dapcity007:
SCOTUS failed America

You see why people think very little of your intellect. You have no idea of how the United States of America works, but you spew ignorance because you have been radicalised by Trump.
How can you believe a largely republican SCOTUS will not understand US constitution, but you or Trump does.

The states are allocated electoral college votes, and the state legislature can determine which ever way they want to allocate those votes. Some states or districts even choose to split the votes. Texas cannot come and tell Georgia or any other state who to vote for or how to allocate it's votes, they just don't have the rights to sue. Because their own electoral college votes were never affected. Trump has the locus standi to sue, the republican party has the locus standi to sue. The republican party in Georgia has the locus standi to sue. But no other state in the union has the rights to sue.
There was no way the Supreme Court could hear such case. Next will be Texas suing other states for spending their own money.

Dapcity007:
Texas lawsuits was dismissed based on technicalities not evidence

Texas cannot determine who another state choose as President, it has no locus standi to sue any other state for their choice of President. That would be assuming superior powers in the Federation.
You think you are wiser than 9 Supreme Court justices?

Texas has a history of throwing tantrums whenever it's preferred candidate lose the presidential elections.

Dapcity007:
Trump is not to be blamed
All we wanted is the election integrity

Even Democrats during BLM were emotional and damaged properties

Who is to determine election integrity? The election organisers, the states legislators, the Justice department, the courts or President Trump who himself is a participant in the contest?

It's like a football team determining and insisting it won a tournament, when the organisers, the referee, the courts and external observers says the team lost.

mrfreestuff:
Yes I do sir. Like Boko Haram like Trump. They are from the same father and murder sir

I even believe Trump's cult members are more radicalised than Shekau's. These one are prepared to threaten and even murder anyone that disagrees with whatever Trump says.

festacman:
First, the recent embarrassing events at US Capitol is a proof that certain political events in Africa don't happen because Africans have inferior brain but because most African leaders usually corner their countries' security system and compromise the leaders of judiciary and legislature.

The truth is if Trump had the FBI and military on his side, the story would have been different today.

Second, if #EndSars protesters had invaded the National Assembly and vandalized it, the US officials would have insisted that the protesters must not be pushed back with force but through negotiations. And when force is applied with fatality like it happened in Capitol, sanctions will be threatened and ICJ and Amnesty International would be releasing indicting statements.

The irony in all of these is that racist Trump ended up showing that Caucasians are not superior race but they excelled simply because of some sane patriotic leaders.

I wish I can like this post 1000 times. Trump has shown that Africans and blacks in general are not inferior to whites or Asians. The problems are institutional checks and balances. Even though Trump appointed judges, their salaries and renumerations does not depend on him. So they do not need to dance to his tune. Even though Trump is commander in chief of the armed forces, the military is not obliged to obey unlawful order from Trump. Same with the justice department and FBI, they won't take illegal orders from Trump's to arrest or eliminate opponents.

African institutions were build to protect and perpetuate those in power and and not to be responsible to the people. We need to knock down those colonial political and civil structures and erect new ones that is responsive to the people rather than the leaders.

Dapcity007:
You are taking his words out of context
And spinning a different narrative
These unfair and not a sound judgement to make

Is he the one spinning Trump's words out of context?

What of Trump's supporters who invaded the Senate building destroying properties and breaking glass and doors, did they also spin Trump's words out of context?

What of those that injured numerous police men and actually killed one, did they also spin Trump's words out of context?

What of Trump supporter that planted a pipe bomb in both offices of Republicans and democrats in the Senate, did he spin Trump's words out of context?

Then there are those that threatened to kill the Vice President, the speaker and other members of Congress, did they also spin Trump's words out of context?

I honestly don't understand the context of all these damage and violence.

bluefilm:
It will continue to slump.

People are now really angry at the so called Big Tech Oligarchs

I didn't even know there was another Messaging app called Signal until Yesterday...

Why?

Because people are now consciously seeking for areas where they can express themselves freely rather than handing over all their power to a few group of people who can decide to shut down anyone at any time.

Why not test your freedom to express yourself freely here by calling for a March on Aso rock or Senate building to threaten the president or legislators and see how oga seun will react. Or even threaten another nairalander with violence.