₦airaland Forum

Dtruthspeaker:
Not mos,t a few! (I know who you have in mind)

And these ones are in one of God's Trap.

Most ke? Have you been to Nigerian churches (and mosques), in fact poverty resides there permanently. Maybe 5% of the congregation are wealthy, a further 25% are probably middle class, but more than 70% of most congregation are living in poverty.

Furthermore, if you compare countries where prayer and religion play a greater part of people's life, you will discover that the less the prayer the more prosperous the country. In in converse the more religious the country the higher the poverty level.

As an example over 80% of the population of the poorest country in the world are Christians (the rest being Muslims and traditionalists), while 73% of the population of second richest country , China identify as non religious, with Christianity at 2.5% of the population.

advanceDNA:
Oradinary overheating??.. its a small matter naaa..the usual thing is to change the gasket....

U sound like u have too much money..make we call EFCC??

Ur friend want to rip you off...

E shock me o. Buy a whole new engine just because top cylinder gasket got burnt? Complete gasket that will not cost up to N10k.

Here is a good satire on Femi Fani-Kayode.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNF2IkV_TC0

Na the same strategy dem use in 2015 with Buhari. After the suit photo shoot before elections, we never see buhari for suit again.

asanausana91:
every organisation has its dressing code. If they cannot dress like that for interview or to the bank as a worker, why then are they doing it in the university?
The school just brought up their dressing code, anybody that cannot obey should not go to that school. Period!

First and foremost the university is not a private a private organisation, its a government institution build and maintain by tax payers money. Even if 90% of the state are Christians; Muslims, traditionalists, Ogboni, atheists, etc., too need to have their rights protected. Besides not all Christians want to abide by cannon laws.

It we are talking about a private Christian or Muslim university imposing their doctrines, I would not raise eye brows, but a public institution in a secular country imposing their religious doctrines on non believers is tyranny.

asanausana91:
then why do you think walking naked is your definition of civilization?

I never said walking naked is a definition of civilization, and no one here has advocated for people walking around campuses and streets naked. What I am saying is that you have no rights to impose your fashion sense (religious or otherwise) on others. Why should a woman tinting her hair or wearing coloured braids, wearing leg or waist chains or having tatoo on her body offend you? Many other cultures and religions demand wearing certain accessories and tatoos, is that not an infringement of their religious rights?

asanausana91:
see fool. I asked you what is civilization.

Stark illiterate. You don't know how to use Google? No wonder religious fundamentalists resort to insults and violence to hide their ignorance.

asanausana91:
go and check the way americans are dressing to lectures room, you have dressing for every events. The dressing the west is dressing for beach is what Nigerians are dressing for churches in the name of civilization. The US is far far more civilized than nigeria but they have a more decent way of dressing than people like you that are coming from one bush without electricity.
Go and check americans dressing to churches and schools then compare it with your useless dressing.
Do you even know the meaning of civilization?
Please define civilization?

See someone talking about America as if he even has a passports not to talk of stepping into a plane. Campus girls in the US dress way worse than Nigerians in term of bodily exposure piercings and tattoos. It's difficult to catch a female campus girl without a piercing or tatoo.

Learn to mind your own business and life without obsessing into what others particularly women are wearing. If your mind is so dirty that all you think of is sex and women 24/7, that's your own problem. Don't impose your stupid fashion sense on all women. You are worse than Boko Haram.

asanausana91:
lets start from there, if we enforce morality many of those pretenders will runaway from the campus.

You want to impose your morality on others? You guys are going backwards as a civilization. You are going backwards to European middle ages. Even the middle ages was better than what we have now, at least they produced great thinkers and scientists even though the church imposed its morality on the state and population.

With this your mind set, black Africa can never develop a functional stable society.

treatise:
Since ogbodo oyinbo is your standard nau.

Which one be obodo oyinbo again? How much covering were your great, great grandmother's wearing before oyinbo came with their standard?

orion7:
huspuppi ? Bigger fraudstars live in Dubai. Albanian drug cartels fight in the streets and kill people in Dubai capital of UAE



This is racial profiling. If not what about other African countries that weee banned ? The problem with Nigeria is people like you can talk in public. Stupid ignorants tarts

Stay in your country. Na by force to stay in another man's country? Its no secret that Arabs (along with Jews, Asians and Eastern Europeans) don't like blacks), so why can't we stay and build a prosperous society that will make others respect us? We destroy our fatherland and then run to people who historically never liked us for refuge and start demanding all sorts of Privileges.

If black nations are organised and self sufficient and not turn themselves into a basket case, they will not be treating us like shit.

This was one area I agreed with Donald Trump when he advice Nigerians to go back to their shithole country

correctyourself:
If you're adult doesn't mean you should be allowed to use your ignorance to affect others.
If you think It's right, why is it that when such persons goes for an interview they don't dress that way, or is it that University is a dumping ground?

It depends on the job. It applies to white colour jobs. In blue collar jobs like construction, mechanics, farming, etc., you don't need suit and tie. In the artistic industries like film, music, entertainment, etc., dressing different is an advantage.

orion7:
you talk and act like one. If you think it’s wrong for Nigeria to give UAE an appropriate response. Then you are a slave. Now bounce !!!

Which appropriate response do you want to give UAE? What are they gaining from us apart from stolen funds. How many UAE citizens are in Nigeria. If they freeze the billions of dollars of stolen money in Dubai, our politicians will commit suicide.

orion7:
you think only blacks commit crimes in Dubai. I have seen what Albanians do. Have you even seen the lists of countries they banned ? All Africans


You monkeys should stop this self hate pls

Have you seen Albanians do hushpuppi, have you seen Albanians do Aiye vs Eye on the streets of Dubai, have you seen Albanians Rob banks and people in Broad day light? UAE economy is built on tourism and we Nigerians wan put sand for their garri. For the past 20 years, they have us free access to their country and our youths messed up, they carried their criminal tendencies to display in Broad day light in another man's country. Very soon no country in the world will allow us into their lands.

jaxxy:
yes u can. As an adult go to ur office and wear flip-flops or leg chain or anything u like. U dress according to where u are at and what is acceptable there. that is part of being an adult. If people think the class is a party place u have to correct that impression and let them know its a place of serious learning.

I do wear slippers to my office most of the time. Many jobs do no require suilts, agbada or designer shoes.
What's your problem with leg chains? If you don't have problems with neck chains, wrist chains and ear rings, what's your problem with leg chains, wrist chains and nose chains? These are called assessories.

Universities can enforce certain dress codes of students especially in the lectures hall. U can go outside and still be whatever u want to be bt not within the school.

Short of nudity, universities should not be dictating how adults should dress. Universities are not monastries where religious codes are upheld.

what I don't support is uniforms except for law students they have more dresscodes than other departments.

Since you want to impose your own dress code on universities, why not go the whole hog and impose a uniform or a set of uniforms?

The university is a serious place for learning 1st not a socialising event or party ground or even hotel.

How you dress or decide to express your individualism has no correlation with what you learn or your grades.

CoolAmbience:
No, he is not.

He is one of Nigeria's smartest lawyers.

Leave politics aside. Keyamo has got outstanding intellect.

How many cases has he won? And how many cases had he handled at the supreme court?

ugodson:
Inasmuch as i dont like some of these dressing like leg chains and nose rings. The institution shouldn't take such act. Its a university not a Secondary School.
They should review it

NANS should be relevant for once and sue the school for this obnoxious law or is it order. Its clearly against the fundamental human rights of Nigerians.

jaxxy:
I wasn't going to support this initially bt I think I do cos these students are getting distracted by these minor things and forgetting the major things which is learning.

Place of learning should have sane dress codes even tho u are adults bt u must have sense abeg.



A university is a serious place of learning not a party ground. so while students have the freedom they must get out of hand. so for that reason I will support this move on all universities especially during lectures or when on campus.

Universities are not kindergarten school. You are dealing with legal adults, some with their own families. How can you dictate what an adult wear, how he chooses to colour his or her hair or if he puts paint on his own skin.

treatise:
May be you'd advise school authorities to allow carrying of light weapons to schools by students.

What concerns weapons with dress? Will the dress kill? Like dress to kill.

Religious fundamentalists spotted.

raumdeuter:
I hope he doesn't run again. He has significant baggage and would destroy the party in the primaries

DeSantis for President. After he crushes Charlie Crist in the race for governor

I hope he runs again. I want to see more of those Lincoln Project ads. I have really missed Lincoln Project ads since the last presidential elections.

On a serious note, I doubt the US can survive another Trump run for the White House. They barely survived the last one.

Diligent1:
I am highly disappointed with Dele momodu these days for his comments recently. I use to respect him right from my childhood, can someone advice him to control his hatred for Tinubu?

You are highly disappointed in Dele Momodu but not disappointed in Festus Keyamo, who had said worse thing about Tinubu and APC in the past. You are not even disappointed in Femi Fani-Kayode who was poured out personal insults on Tinubu for decades only to experience the Damascus road experience just a few months ago and now the greatest cheerleader of Tinubu.

If you can be disappointed by a Nigerian politician, then be ready for a lifetime of disappointmens.

Ransomware:
Other people around the world are chasing substance, Africans are chasing shadows.

Others around the world are preparing on how to survive a nuclear Armageddon, we are more worried about religious nonsense.

okorogodwin4:
we are not in UK we are African and African don't expose their unclothedness

When did your ancestors start wearing cloths or when did Africans start covering their whole body with cloths?

The two imported foreign religions has ready enslaved Africans

Nazgul:
This is a case of misplaced priorities. All these banning isn't important, who go fúck go still fúck. They should focus more on improving the learning conditions of their students. Punish lecturers who threaten female students with an "F" if they don't have sex with them, go online so that if as a lecturer you can't make it to the classroom you can lecture your students wherever you are and give them assignments which they'll do and submit online.

American and UK universities don't have all these dressing restrictions yet they're among the best and most advanced universities in the world. What's wrong with us the African Continent.

Nigeria is gradually becoming Nigeriastan or the Islaminc Republic of Nigeria. Why not mandate women to cover their hair or ban women from attending school altogether.

The university environments should be an ivory tower that accommodates all sorts of tribes, ideas and personalities, it should not be a straight jacket institution where religious morals are forced on everyone.

I can understand some sort of dress restrictions like preventing indecent exposure or outright unclothedness, but specifying the way a woman should dress in an institution that's supposed to reflect a mosaic of ideas is stupid.

God2man2again:
Nobody is willing to tell us the good effect of drinking Alcohol in the body.

Forget the good effects of drinking alcohol. As long as it gives people satisfaction and its not poisonous or detrimental to health (in moderate quantities), then its not anyone's business.

Not everything you drink or eat should be medicine or food. People drink coffee and tea for the caffeine, people take soft drinks for the sugar rush, others chew gum for the habit. All these things ate not necessarily beneficial to the body.

Kobicove:
Oga there is nothing normal and there will never be anything normal about using deception to steal from someone who trusts you!

Personally I can forgive any type of wrong but that is one type pf transgression I can never ever forgive!!!

Oga, I hate fighting over money or material things. The problem here is that the lady is too materialistic. Your husband brought a proposal to buy a land for the family, probably because he is getting it cheap. You insist that it must be yours alone since maybe he does not have the money at the moment. Of course he will sell it to you like an outsider. You discovered and started insulting him before packing out of your matrimonial home.

Now tell me who lack trust in the other? The woman who doesn't trust the husband to buy land in both their names or the man that made money from sale of land to his wife?

missimelda01:
Of course he did nothing wrong because you're used to toxic behaviour.

It's you that is toxic and encourage toxicity in marriages. I have been married for 15 years and yes indeed we have had serious challenges, but separation was not even into consideration.

Didn't you read where the lady wrote "I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door.
If you don't recognise this as a toxic marriage, then you are even more toxic than the lady in question.

I don't care what other people do in their marriages, my main concern is this issue that was brought here. Trust is IMPORTANT and her husband just broke her trust. Period

Trust over what? She trusted him and she was snooping on his phone? Did she find infidelity on the man's phone? What other Trust are you looking for?

Yes the man skimmed N200k of the wife, yes that is bad, but its fairly normal for loved ones to skim each other. Children are worse. Are you going to disown your children because they skimmed a few tens of thousands from you? The lady should simply have used diplomacy to collect the money back, if she truly wanted the money back. Most likely the man used the N200k on the family. If then used the money for drugs, ashawo or bet9ja, I would have understood her anger. But she never hinted the husband was irresponsable.

If he wanted the money, he could have asked. Was there a need to act like a thief?
Okay, it has happened. Why not apologize to your wife and return her money, Mbanu! Pride and ego will not allow him make the right decision.

How can he apologise when the wife started out with insults. She was lucky the man is not the violent type. Some men would respond to insults with slaps.

How does the bolded make any sense to you? If she didn't care about her marriage would she be seeking for advise? Stop thinking like this for your own good.

She cared about the marriage and wanted a personal property instead of family property when the husband brought up the idea.
My wife bought a property and put Mrs and Mrs, instead of just her own name. That's the type of behaviour that elicit trust.

Emescot:
Where una dey see this kind women, I swear if I was the husband, I will just send you the 200k and thats the end of the marriage.

Because of ordinary 200k that I collected for acting as an agent?

One thing is clear here, you don't love that man,you only need him because you are pregnant, you are lucky he is begging you. I won't do it, 80% other men to won't beg you.

If you go back Omo ale ni e.

Me sef, I don dey vex. My wife go commot N10k for where I dey hide money yesterday without asking me, say gas don finish. This morning I come dey look for money.
My mama must hear this. I am leaving the house for 2 months.
I will never forgive her. It's my money

Obidient4life3:
Even if it's 5k. It's morally wrong and shameless wrong too. Did he build the house for wife or for his family? Did anyone force him to build house or marry wife? Some women buy properties without their husbands knowledge, the woman was open enough to say she wants this in her name. All the man needs to do it either say no. Not dupe her! That's extremely low!

You have no idea of the real meaning of marriage. The house belongs to the wife too as long as their legally married.
No one also forced the wife to marry the husband. Since she is not ready to let go of her self (selfishness), she should never have said I do to "two becoming one" in the marriage vows.

Why will she want a property in her name? Who owns the property if she dies unexpectedly? Her father, brothers or the children?
If a woman buys property without the husbands knowledge and later the husband gets to know, that's the end of the marriage. What will you then say if husband buys a property without the wife's knowledge?

The breakdown of the family unit is the greatest contributor of the decay of the Nigerians society. Selfishness and greed is now the order of the day.

Obidient4life3:
You brought up this issue when that damage was too much.

He cheated you no doubt, what it means is that that's how learned to make his money. He is not an honest individual when it comes to Money. My advice is make him show some commitment because going back to his house. The kids need their father. First of all, Let him know he will refund that 200k with an interest of 100k.
Secondly, tell him he will buy you some nice cloths and accessories for a reassurance date with him. Mention on expensive hotel both of you will spend the night. He will ask why you are trying to make him spend money unnecessarily, tell him that's the only way you will be reassured he still loves you. That a man does anything that is good to prove his love for a woman. At least you are not just a woman, you are his wife

What do you mean he cheated no doubt. A man that built a whole house, just 2 years after paying for marriage rights will want to cheat his wife, and he will take only N200k? Is 200k money in todays Nigeria?

missimelda01:
Marriage counselor isonu

All you did was blame her and saw nothing wrong in what her husband did. Did you provide a reasonable solution? No

You can give your opinion but stop deceiving yourself by saying you're a marriage counselor.

The husband did nothing wrong. Wife's skim their husbands money all the time and they hardly complain, not to talk of separation.
The man is a very responsible man.

What was she even looking for in his phone? She did not find another woman's number, because
I am sure that was what she was looking for.

I don't believe she is leaving her matrimonial home because of N200k. There must be other reasons. Maybe she has another rich lover promising her heaven on earth or maybe the pregnancy does not belong to the husband.

ZUBY77:
Lie Muhammed.

You are in your mid twenties.
You married at 22

You have 3 kids and another one on the way, married at 22 and still in your mid twenties.
Rascal.

You didn't tell us what this husband does but from look of things, he is doing well since you only contribute 50k and 100k to a house project.

Your fellow idiiots can tell you not to go back but if I were this man, I would have been happily married again..

That's what I also observe. It would have helped to know the age and job of the husband. To get married, have a baby, build a complete house and buy another land to start another house, all within a two to three year period, and at such a young age is very suspect.

I also wonder the type of job the lady does. Maybe her parents are very wealthy. Because it is unbelievable that a lady can finish school, serve, start working, get married, have a baby and still save the amount of money the lady is spending all before the age of 25.