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TechCapon:
o[b]rdinary Google search can tell you if you are positive[/b] or not. Just Google your symptoms and you'll find the answer

There is no definitive symptom for HIV.
Only a test can reveal an infection.

doctokwus:
I find it amazing people believe the op with his poorly concocted tale.
If the op truly has HIV it must av been contracted prior to the claimed sex or after several episodes with the claimed positive lady not from a one off sexual encounter.
If he even understands the life history of the HIV virus,he wouldn't come here and be typing his bull shit story.
Safe sexual intercourse when not married is advocated,but that doesn't mean people should concoct pure lies or fabricate a story,poorly for that matter,to drive home the point.

Don't mislead people.
HIV can be contracted from one sexual encounter with an infected person.
Those who think otherwise don't understand probability.
As long as the probability of an event is non-zero, it can happen.

FROGMAN101:
What are you on about? Who doesnt know it requires one exposure to get HIV?? I am saying if he was using a condom and it busted immediately he pulled out, it is extremely hard to get infected in that manner. HIV is really difficult to get. Go and read the facts and then quote me.

Your one exposure could be having sex without protection.

What does "extremely hard" means?
Impossible?

Do you have a job?
If no, start planning to get one and also plan your exit.
You cannot force him to leave the other woman.

On the other hand, you can remain a loyal housewife and welcome your rival
with open arms.

Actually, you don't need advice.
There is nearly a zero chance that you will separate from your wife
even if you recover financially and become a billionaire.
even if she brings in a live-in boyfriend permanently.

This is due to sunk cost fallacy and Stockholm syndrome. You feel she is your
investment and you can't let her go.
You appear to be too beaten to stand up.

How do I know this?
Because even if 50% of what you wrote is true, you would have
make a decision already. Hence, your thread should have been asking for advice about a decision
you have made not begging people to make a decision for you.

I don't know why you open the thread when you feel comfortable in your relationship
but if it is for sympathy, well you will get some here. On this basis, I advise that you continue to
endure your loving wife as you have been doing for years at least
you are not alone.

If I am wrong and you indeed want change. You must physically separate from her immediately because
this is your only chance. It doesn't matter if you squat with family members or friends.
Don't wait till next week or next month because you are not really in charge and by then, you may
fall into the same thinking that kept you in bondage for several years.

Pointless arguments.
How was your night is perfectly correct English.
It is normal for English to have regional variations.
Even Americans struggle with some British terms and vice versa.

Ignore the OP's protest unless you are not a Nigerian.

Recruitmentedu:
hungary

Not even close.
Hungary's has an area of 93,030 sq km and a population of less than 10 million
While Lagos has 1,171 sq km and a population of 21 million.

That is Hungary is about 90 times the size of Lagos.
They have enough space to construct roads and rails for the populace.
While Lagos is managing a tiny space.

Lagos, of course, need improvement in the area of transportation but let's cut it some slack.

bayulll011:
Lagos as a whole is a failed state and we are not suppose to where we are today.

Lagos generate so much revenue and you can't boast of any tangible project except glorified and self service constructions that cannot last.
what lagosian need is good road,good health sector and ultra modern mode of transportation believe me if all these is achieve then the state will double its revenue.

it's a shame that the last governor took us 10 steps backwards,this one is only interested in taking pictures and making noise,i hope we ve not entered another one chance.

Empty barrel, how does your comment relate to the topic?
You just ranted for nothing.
SMH

Recruitmentedu:
The country i live in Europe is the same popular like lagos and the entire country has more than more than 2000

Same size and population as Lagos and has no transport issues?
What's the country's name?

9jvirgin:
I just got back from an European tour, I visited Denmark, Sweden, Poland, Germany and London. These countries too are heavily populated but you need to see how thousands of trains, subways and buses helps people to connect so FAST and EASY. Dedicated rail tracks and roads for buses was clearly noticeable.

Almost all the population in Denmark had bicycles, at 4pm I saw people with Suit and Ties riding their bikes home.

I took a train from Copenhagen, Denmark to Malmo, Sweden and the whole trip lasted for 2 hours and 45 mins. The problem is not the population, the problem is black man-kind.

We may never get it right!

Not surprised at the bold.
Most village boys come back to start dissing and insulting their country.
Even those who get foreign citizenship also wail to feel important.
SMH.

booblacain:
I got a call from this ecommerce website (I suspect they got my number from jiji) asking me to open an account with them. They claimed to be owned by Opera(browser). I checked out the website and it looks exactly like jiji, only obvious difference is the logo that looks like that of opera.

I have checked the name of the website on Google to find any link with Opera but I can't seem to find any. So, I am wondering if this is a scam site or is it that I am not checking the right places.

They are giving me an offer of VIP subscription, that is, my products will be advertised on Opera platforms like opera news.

Please if you know about this site and can confirm or show a proof of its authenticity, please do before I jump on it. Thanks.

Anybody can advertise on opera news.
It doesn't mean they are connected to Opera.

naijacentric:
i wonder too why the negro see money as ultimate unlike other race we are just too mammonic

Which race doesn't see money as the ultimate?
Many of you kids will watch a few Hollywood movies and start hating your race
forgetting that movie is different from reality.

Martinez39:
Lol. Who is against women here? Are you not among the gender that has the privilege of being believed without evidence during rape accusations?

Use your brain.
What has this got to do with rape?

PUSSYHOE:
lwkm ubunja see power of pussy , or what do we call this?


I rather live a coward than die a hero for pussy, if it were a guy i am most certain the 3 of them won't embark on the heroic journey.

Who is this kid?
Get yourself a sensible mentor so you won't live in regret.

Nobody wants to associate with Oluwole Award.

Obama was campaigning for APC.
Though, that doesn't mean we can compare him with Buhari in terms
of achievement.

Sweettwenty8:
Finaly i decided to create an account

What's up Nairaland, Please Pardon my English.

So me and my man been married for a year now but here's the thing he does that pisses me OFF!!! TOTALLY!!!! ehn, every time I cook rice and stew (fried stew/fish/meat) he'd ask me to go outside the estate to go and buy Ewa(beans) (I'm using Ewa because that's how he pronounces it. So I noticed this earlier and I started Cooking beans anytime I cook rice. He'll still request for 'Ewa' the Mama put beans made and sold by the roadside

While we dated he'd even ask me to cook for himself and his friends and if my cooking was bad, I'd have gotten feedback somehow.. how can I serve food and he'll ask me to go get 'Ewa' at Shangisha Outside Magodo Gra to mix his rice even when we have visitors he will send me a whatsapp message to still go get Ewa most times he'll even book uber if i tell him I'm too tired to drive I'm tired of going to buy Ewa!!

How do i get to know what the problem is, because it's definitely not my cooking, 2 of my office buddies they don't buy lunch because i bring enough food for 3 of us everyday and they'd have stopped eating it if it was bad

You are creating potential problems by refusing to speak to him about the issue but choose to trust
the judgment of internet strangers.
Ask him why.

KendrickAyomide:
see this bastardddd. Do i look poor? Thunder fire your generation

Dumbass troll.
You may think you are catching fun now but is your type who waste away their time only to start begging for money
on social media.

A poor mind can only lead to a poor life.
Don't say I didn't warn you.

KendrickAyomide:
Alex reports is back to ass licking journalism after a successful wedding

At least, he has a job while you blame the government for your poverty.
SMH

Ipob publicity stunt for more donations to Kanu's account.

iamjavadem:
Consult your dictionary before you show your ignorance.

You are suffering from semi-literacy. Like president like supporter.

Fake news.
The lunatic is currently not allowed to use social media.
A jobless nonentity is now posting in his place.

daddytime:
I wished this woman had been the one voted in as President.

That is a fake news.

Useless government.

No need to apologize.
BMC was behind that picture. They created it as a bait for government critics.

Sowore, Lagos journalists and other protesters are political prisoners.
Dasuki is also a political prisoner.

mmu

helixmanager:
I almost ignored you but when you mentioned intelligence, I need to make you look the opposite.

Knowledge is the only door, that liberates one from darkness into light, if you don’t spend your time discussing topics that unravel the purpose of man on earth, where do you spend your time?

How do you know the purpose of man on earth?
How do even know that there is a purpose?
Your answer will ultimately lead to middle-east mythologies.

You see in our daily interactions, we(at least the rational ones) do not accept cyclical arguments like:
A is good because A is good.

However, most people make an exception and accept such circular reasoning when it comes to middle-eastern mythologies
or their distant cousins which is why any discussion surrounding such myths has nothing to do with intelligence but what proponents
are willing to accept as their reality.
Nothing is wrong with such worldview but it should be called what it is.

Accountantgener:
nairalander who claims to sell data,he is a scammer I just sent the sum of 5,000naira to him today and he gave me a non existing code to use in checking my data balance which is *131*65*2*1*2# and that code does not actually exist,his real names are AGU KENECHUKWU,ACCESS BANK, A/C NOS IS 0761393797 and his phone number is 09065287121

Is he the same one uploading fake images on threads?

helixmanager:
Religious bigot....

No Allah means No God..... it’s language, some christain bible in Arabic uses Allah for God.

Who is Jesus? Is Jesus God? If yes, did he leave the management of heaven and earth to come and die for humans while all other creatures in space, land and water are on auto pilot?

Is he son of God? Is he the only one called son of God in the Bible?

These are questions I’ll be willing to discuss with intelligent folks here not a debate or argument. Just a friendly chat.

If you quote me senselessly with abuse or without intellectual contribution or out of unnecessary sentiments, please note that the ignore button is activated.

Intelligent folks won't spend their time discussing the superiority of middle-east mythologies.

The day of reckoning(EFCC) is near for those bastards.

“Inciting and inflammatory comments are being made by the NPF on the regular and social media platform, that is capable of inciting police officers to exhibit aggressive tendencies towards soldiers”, the memo read in part.

The memo further advised soldiers to “avoid being in uniform if necessary”, “to prevent the situation from escalating.”

Good for them.
The killers must be brought to book.