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Babe, like it or not, u've made the first move already, stop there, if u go any 4da, even if he likes u 4 real, he would start to feel like u're choking him and he might want to get rid of u ASAP, "i'd feel that way 2 if it were me". Just remain on the friends zone with him, trust me, if he truly wants you, he would ask you out. If he doesn't, then u guys aren't meant to b more than friends. but from the way he reacted when u approached him, it's unlikely he is really that into u. except off course he is too blind to c whats right in front of him.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Lol i think misused and misunderstood[/color]

yeah , u're right there, people c love as a very simple entity to understand, when in the real sense, its like the most complicated feeling on earth one in which if u make a mistake about always ends up in a sad story. now imagine someone falling in love at first site to a person he/she don't even know sh**T about!!! It's the reason why people fall victims of Gold Diggers/Con Artists and later they start crying foul, she dumped me, he used me and so on. The unbelievable aspect of all these is that people fall victim over and over again with regards to the same issue. WHY?

True love without cash? i laff in hebrew. NOT WITH NAIJA BABES. even the ones that work and earn more than you would still want to suck u dry in the name of love.

IMHO, i think it is. does anyone think otherwise?

binhozie:
Is this the Manchester united that wants to beat chelsea on sunday
truth be told, man utd have not just got what it takes

and tell me, how many of chelsea's last seven premier league matches have they won? let me help you out here, ooooooooooooooooooonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. just 1. wake up bro

who is Sana? She's Sexy though.

If she was actually truthfull about the reason why she broke up with u, then i can only wonder, why the hell would she end a 4 year relationship just because she met her hymen breaker? Did this dude actually propose to her or what? from ur post, she was 27 when u met her, now she should be 31, what if this guy refuses to marry her, then she runs back to u, what happens then?

Simple Advice "Start to forget her now,if u dont and she eventually runs back to u, ur love for her wld cloud ur reasoning and u wld end up hit by a bullet u initially dodged by luck obviously".

At Last, we would stop seeing those ugly blue stickers and banners all over nigeria very soon, now let me see the club chelsea fans would run to, 2 immature and hot headed to belong to either Man U, Arsenal or Liverpool, maybe Man city would suite them cos afterall lets face the facts "chelsea fans are all about the billion dollar clubs" not The real fun of the game.

good, at last a perfect chrismas gift for my lady, i only hope she does appreciate it considering it is a tokunbo jet.

@ OP, make some sense about your topic instead of blindly bashing the Ladies.

birdman:
NOTHING strengthens a long distance relationship. It doesnt work.

Blazay:
Nothing really.
It is either it is meant to be or not.
Same chances you will have to take regarding succesess of failure if within proximal distance.
Life is a risk. Take your's.

Gbam, That is it, nothing more to be said, Distance relationships do not work! AT LEAST NOT IN A COUNTRY LIKE NIGERIA, every one posting stuffs like COMMUNICATION, TRUST,LOVE, SINCERITY and all that should wake up and face the reality of the Issue.

i think this is the most reasonable topic in this section ever, it might sound unfavourable 2 the ladies but in d long run, its really a food for thought, IMHO, i think young ladies "under 28" spend 2 much of their time looking for mr perfect or shld i say mr right and then when time is just begining 2 go againgt them, they get confused, get desperate and fall in2 the wrong hands. i'm not saying that a lady over 28 cannot get married and to her choice man at that, nothing is impossible, but let us face the facts, for a lady who intends to get married and have kids, the earlier she realises there nothing like mr perfect and set ur priorities in the right order, the better 4 her.

i do not agree that "black" women are materialistic, i think that title should go to the Arabs. on the other hand, i can agree that Nigerian women "mostly those that are not financially independent" are very materiallistic, & i am of the opinion that Nigerian men are the cause of this due to how we always want 2 prove how financially strong we are to the ladies, what then do u expect of them "the ladies"? it has come to be an unwritten rule that the amount of loving u get from a nigerian woman is directly proportional with how much u're capable of spending on her. 2 bad.

@ MOBO444
guy, 11 days 11 black ladies, isnt that a little bit 2 far from d truth, even if d figures are true, i can bet u had to pay more than half of those ladies (hookers), if thats d case, then u ve no right 2 devalue the black woman cos hookers cut accross every tribe & race all over d globe. if otherwise, ur story is true, then u ought 2 b ashamed 4 urself cos it means u've lost complete control of ur manhood, u obviously need some counselling on the dangers of having random s3x partners & 2much s3x. remember AIDS is real and condoms are not 100% effective. I'm sure u are expecting a pat on ur back or a trophy for ur so called achievement, well sorry bro, what u get from me is a big PITY for U.

Omolola1:
_SMF-BREAK_Awww! you are fyne small, hehehe_SMF-BREAK_

small? u've got to be kidding me right?

CentD, yeah right u're cute, but i think bragging to be the finest boy on NL is kinda Childish, though i'm surprised to c how u got the babes to put out the way they did earlier on, 9ce try, but u ain't no where as Cute as i am (and i dont claim to be the finest, cos obviously, i haven't seen all the guys on NL), Check my profile pix, dont have the time to upload it on a post.

@ DYT, expecting your reply? i laff in chinese, & it took u just 14 mins 2 reply mine, waiting up till past your bed time 2 catch my post, dont make me get a restricting order LOL.

@ DONPUZO, if she turns out to be like u anticipate, trust me, i'm going 2 come back here 2 tell u guys,

@ IICE, u & dis your pink or is it purple fonts, lol. i agree with u. i only made that statement about how ladies do the same as d reason why my friends adviced i string her along.

@ DYT, thank you, mom, LOL, but u where wrong d 1st time.
@ DONPUZO, 10x 4 sharing but i dont think she's d type, LOL @ ur experience though.

@ IICE, much respect & no offence intended but it's absurd 4 u 2 think that i would waste my time by coming in here 2 look for justification from people i cant even c 2 do something bad, i have a very fragile conscience & i wld'nt want 2 lead her on to believe that i actually luv her 2. by d way i've found a way 2 convince her 2 just be friends.
@ others, 10x 4 ur replies. although there were some assumptions made here i did not really appreciate.

@ DYT, and ur point is?
@ OMOLOLA1, her money is d last thing on my mind, trust me, as a matter of fact, i feel embarrased for guys that date women 4 money.
@REALITY101, friends shld b a good idea but from her actions and words, she obviously wants more than that.

funny how we can just come up here and make comments on topics without actually fully understanding the reality of our suggestions, i made a comment on the first page of this topic "www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-441397.0.html". "the second or third comment i think" about how ok it wld Be to be approached by a lady, little did i know it was going 2 come around 2 bite me on d a88. i was approached by this pretty lass a week back and she asked me out telling me how she's been gathering up d courage to come 4ward, she seems 9ce and decent & she's a miss independent "my kind of lady". only prob is i dont think i'm ready 4 a serious relationship and i dont know how to explain this 2 her. i dont want to break her heart & at d same time, i'm thinking "what if when i'm eventually ready? wld i find some1 as perfect as her?" kind of in a dilema here. some of my friends have adviced me to just string her on and see how serious things might get, that eventually her love 4 me might put me in a position 2 want a serious relationship with her. personally, i think it wld b unfair 2 her but hell, ladies do it 2 guys all the time.

funny how we can just come up here and make comments on topics without actually fully understanding the reality of our suggestions, i made a comment on the first page of this topic "the second or third comment i think" about how ok it wld Be to be approached by a lady, little did i know it was going 2 come around 2 bite me on d a88. i was approached by this pretty lass a week back and she asked me out telling me how she's been gathering up d courage to come 4ward, she seems 9ce and decent & she's a miss independent "my kind of lady". only prob is i dont think i'm ready 4 a serious relationship and i dont know how to explain this 2 her. i dont want to break her heart & at d same time, i'm thinking "what if when i'm eventually ready? wld i find some1 as perfect as her?" kind of in a dilema here. some of my friends have adviced me to just string her on and see how serious things might get, that eventually her love 4 me might put me in a position 2 want a serious relationship with her. 

@ poster, i think there are enough replies here 2 help u with ur next step, i've alm
ost been a victim omt time. i started to date an undergraduate immediately i got a job and just 2 weeks into d so called relationship, she outrightly asked me 4 money & she would'nt tell me what she needed it 4, i just smiled at her, told her i would see her later, it was like magic, all d the feelings i had or thought i had 4 her just dissappeared in2 thin air, i never saw her, called her or replied any of her sms after that day. then i swore i wld never date a lady that isn't independent financially ever again or a student. i'm not advicing u 2 dump ur girl, poster, dont get me wrong, u just have 2 open ur eyes a little bit wider.

Chidi Mokeme is the most annoying of all Nigerian Actors

why are people surprised @ d fact that men of the Nigerian police force attend church services, if there are muslims among them who go to the mosque to worship God and fast, why cant the Christians among them go to church? After all, our leaders steal way far more than them and yet get front row seats in Congregations of the biggest churches in Nigeria. Remember there is no man without sin and all sinners/sins are one under the eye of God Almighty. Leave them Alone, Jor!!!

I am still awaiting ur mail "Catalog", i sent u an sms yesterday and i stated my email there, "eyumar2003@yahoo.com". i've also sent u a mail.

ok, here is my email, "eyumar2003@yahoo.com" send me ur catalogue asap, 10x.

I use this Acer mini Laptop that is just 8.9 inches screen, can i get one for that size, i'd prefer it be Manchester United Design.