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A lot of men grew up not having female attention, so even as they grow older the knack to be succesfull and make something for themsleves financially is almost more rewarding than a relationship

Most relationship are too transactonal (ie. What are you going to give me so as to get my attention)

It's too expensive, every girl out there wants something shoe, phone, impromtu favours and all these are financied by $$$, as a man you are put in a demasculating position if you don't grant these favours to these women are the snap of a finger, and when you decide to weigh the options, such financial resources channelled into such wasteful expeditions.

Most women are boring, if you pay attention to men or you are fortunate to be in men's spaces, we like to talk about different things that affect us an society, a Nigerian woman on the other hand would only engage you only if she likes you, and only if she likes the topic being discussed. if you observe with keen intrest at how much relationships takes shape, it starts with a simple "Hi and Hello" but most modern day women want to fall in love with you at once and don't want to invest in a relationship.

A lot of women lack the ability to be able to pair bond with a man becuase they have an abundance mindset that the men would chase them forever and even when they have a stable relationshp, they would still have one eye and one eye out as if there is always something better out there. Truth is that there is always someone who would be richer, better and prettier than our current partner, but commitment is key.

Men too have standards: A lot of women growing up told us we were broke and worthless as to why we can't talk to them. Few years later the men have built themsleves and now have standard on not wanting to be with poor women. Today's high value men dont want women who just only bring beauty to the table, men now want women who can work pay their own bill and be financially stable. On clubhouse i have heard a situation where a Nigerian bloke in the diaspora said he can't be with a woman in the diaspora who made $50k not because of the money but the mindset.


Pornography: More and more men are watching porn and masturbating more and men who do that don't have this urge to flirt with women like that....

LGBT has also take it's fair share from both sexes on men who should in a stable romantic relationship.


A lot us men grew up with faulty idelogies that just told us make the money and the girls would flock around you, while i very much fault this mentality, it make it looks as if you are buying someone for the sake of the money which kills the purpose of romance.

A lot of us don't know how to date, we were never just thought how to.

Mainstream media is not real life, the Meida would try to project this happily ever after always happy no fault type of relationship which means anything outside the confines of that is bad and toxic. People are almost not allowed to bicker over things in their relationship with the hope to iron it out, your female friends would glee and cheer you up to jilt and kill your realtionship But the truth is real relationship requires lots of forgivness.

The economy: Having a two parent hosuehold in todays world cost a lot of $$$ and the women want to rescind to the old world order where they sat home looking pretty while the men went out and brought home the bacon.

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Aparently, this is the new world order and i advise women to get used to it. Gone are the days where men be like "Ohh Sade, you can stay at home do something petty on the side while i go out and bring the bacon". Women rebuked it and said it was supprisive and holding them back. Now, they are forced to compete in the outside world which is not respecter of their emotions and sucks out the living hell out of them. As if that is not enough, some even offer to freeze their eggs in exchange to be coporate slaves, can you imagine that shit.


Even the men young women used to snub or spit when they try to walk to them in their teenage years and saying they don't want to be with financially deficient or handicaped women. Gone are the days where all that was required was being pretty and you were good to go. Now men sure have standards and a list of them.

Eriokanmi:
Tell them, OP. I never regretted returning to Nigeria after my program in the US. They said village people were after me when I told my naija colleagues I was returning to Nigeria. Now, we can tell who are the village people chasing today. To the glory of God, my company is now expanding to African countries

Sitting on $30k rn and wondering if i should make the move or just start on my business here. My girl whose 2 sisters are abroad isn't moved by travelling she has a fashion business and is making it so bad that she dosen't even have my time like before.

God1000:
I believe this is a payback from Joe biden for Russia's interference in 2016 US election.
These sanctions are also part of revenge for what Russia did against Hilary Clinton

If Russia interfered/hacked the US elections, why wasn't the election annulled?

I have always been of the opinon that Nigerian food is too boring

Everytime swallow swallow

No wonder half of the pop has pot belly and diabetes.

Northern Nigeria would tell you "One Nigeria" but you know what they are the most intolerant set of people in British west Africa, worst still they don't understand diversity that is why they would forever remain stunted. Take a look at what has bee happening in the middle belt, Adamawa, Pleateau and Southern Kaduna where you have Christian minorities, their lives forever remain at stake with these Feudalist.

If we took a trip down memory lane, where churches were being bombed and burnt, it started with these fanatics who had these supremacist ideas on how to subvert other religious and cultural identities. Don't be suprised that for them to reference the heads of dept right up to the top echelons of the University administration, they have for long had this idea in mind on how best to subdue a small population of christians from carrying out worship.

Nigerian entertainment industry is not real. Often times we percieve these folks as high rollers whereas they are just hustling like the rest of us trying to eke out a living. No one has asked what the economic state of the entertainment industry with regards social mobility. Right from the inception of Muhammdu Buhari accession into precidency we have withnessed so many economic upturns that affects Nigerian's disposable income towards spending on entertainment.

Some popular stand up comedians have lent their voices as to how things are not going the way they were many years ago with regards shows happening here and there. As if that is not enough, COVID came banging it messed up every creative artist bag for years to come.

Nigerian civil servants has pension to fall on even if he blows up his one year salary, but you see creative artist, if you fumble on that bag, you will regret many years to come. During the boom of the entertainment industry from the millenium years up until present, we have witnessed one hit wonders, talented musical groups come and gone and i doubt if the musical industry is still paying them royalties consistently.


It would be unfair if we use Davido and Wizkid along with some A-list artist as the golden standard on the lens with which we should judge an artist, often time we expect these musicans to look like superstars but it begs to ask where is the money comming from? Everyone wants eomsthing from the DJ's, Payola mafia, influencers and many on but it begs to ask if asfter putting out these materials would the money gotten from your creative release be enough to put into pushing the art so it goes mainstream yield any positive investment?


Working on the platform of Donjazzy can never be on the same scale as working alone as an independent artist. And if things are not going well as them once did, circle of friends use you use to bolster with are not more, it is easy to fall in depression.



See make i just leave am here.

Some races are looking at how they will produce durgs the next big thing, some are hell bent on killing their fellow man just because the demonic group they work for tell them to go kill their fellow man.

Phone that wont let you download song from odinary Naija loaded to your music app abegiii

Trust Northern Nigeria at your own peril, i am no fan of Bola Ahmed Tinubu, but if Buhari cannot honour the agreement he had with him prior to 2014, then any career politician in the south should trust Northern Nigeria at their own peril, they have no cred, they have no code of ethics. They are bitter because they consider Buhari's tenure as an utter waste of time that berthed Nigeria into a new low socially and economically. Jonathan they spited years aback is now looking favorable in their eyes come 2023, will the likes of El-rufai rescind on their words come 2023 as the new messiah.

Amechi be bold nowadays

Judas iscariot much.

This bloke ran Nigeria's economy aground, brought in some counter productive policies that stunted Nigeria's economy and now the Soy boy is being packaged by the Cabal to run for presidency. He gave so much leeway to Aboki speculators who in turn shorted the Naira by bringing up artificial scarity and hurting the economy along with many other gaffes. It is mind blowing that he wants to spend half a trillion to run for the presidency in the midst of so much suffering. That is close to a billion dollars my people...

Women love transactional sex, but on the flip side they shouldn't be mad when the men in turn don't value them.

Always heard from folks that Ukraine is a racist country. Best thing is to go to an english country where human rights are respected and you can link up with the local Nigerian community who can give you a low down of what to expect.

Hold strong bami everyone is going through somethings wey dey make dem restless

It has been reported that young men of this generation are having less and less sex compared to the baby boomer generation, folks who are in relationship don't engage in such. And the dysfunction of Nigerian men being in an emmotional relationship with the opp sex further excerbates the problem. So in totality, lot of young people are not dating and having less sex and when you look into why this is, you would find out that capitalism is the new slavery, everyone is trying to get on the field and work tirelessly to pay the slave master, the government that is. And if we deny our selves sex and companionship, even when we are at a point where young people cant pair bond and regardless of the money they have it is enough to kill emotion or any iota or likeness they have for each other.

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Czarina21:
Nigerian men don't like such good women

Why would you say that, have you postured yourself as a good woman and had men say they don't want a good woman like you?

paparazi232:
Not nice thou something similar happened to my friend in Kano State.
getting back to school , the Keke driver that took him to park to get a bus to school, took Another passenger like as usual, all of a sudden the passenger removed a long machete and told my friend to remove all what he got, my friend was shocked he was like please, before even pleading the guy was already angry , he collected my friend phone and his school fees , my friend told me he ran out of fear leaving his bag with original certificate inside his clothes bags in the Keke ,,
really COLD OUTSIDE

Aboki are now becomming more brazen criminals, have you wondered as to why we have a large amount of biker men that are from their tribe?

My friends father who is later now said many years ago that this was a security concern, Nigeria was relatively safe then and the economy wasn't in the trenches.

Oceanjagaban:
Thunder faya efcc,I dont have a problem with them arresting the so called internet fraudsters but what about the polluticians,legislooters and the executhieves.make ona come my area,we go follow ona shoot out..ona go believe.ona dey crase well well

You dont get to dictate to law enforcement who to arrest and when. Let them do their jobs if they open evidence against them you sef go perch go one side. Your average Yahoo boy is loud has zero cred and screems come im arrest im a yahoo boy from their aura. Worst case they even gather theirselves in pack and with their conduct it is easy to pick them up. This is a heavy win for EFCC i would say.

Right way to go we need to get rid of speculators and bring stability to the FX market.

Museveni has really been a thorn in the flesh of Ugandians, he is out of touch with leadership, stubborn and should be retired into oblivion. Begs to ask where is Robert Mugabe with all his powers today?

dauntless15:
Lmao, igede, the most insecure tribe in benue, they have this inferiority complex that plagues them everywhere they go, coupled with identity crisis (always claiming they're part of idoma, very laughable) and too much bleaching, they like bleaching cream pass bobrisky, I have lived among them so what I am saying is the fact.

I am with an Igede boy rn and looking at his leg, it is obbvious that it is bleached.

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Who be this stinking jew looking for mugu?

Can Nigerians shut it with this ohh ohh other scammers do more illegal shit than us therefore our reasons for scamming is subtly justified or go after the govt not us.

The constitution is clear collecting money under false pretense with the aim to scam someone attracts jail time. Your reputation would be dragged in the mud and people would never look at your the same.

Same thing when you check on reddit r/scams r/scammers r/scambait you need to see how our fellow Nigerians are embarrassing themselves.