₦airaland Forum

She came with pregnancy how? Did you have unprotected sex? If yes, why are u shocked? Please do the needful.

All they have is their bodies. Men should wake up and start seeing beyond these bodies. Men no longer need pretty women, they need peace.

Lol, tales by moonlight. I remember when I just discovered nairaland in 2006, I created a lot of funny imaginative tales with my old moniker.
I find it hilarious now when I read such tales, reminds me of my childish days.

We know whom these things favour. The ordinary man will never have a chance in Nigeria. If you nor know person, you are on your own.

Some decades ago it was women that used to whine about being ignored in relationships. Men have now become sissies, what a shame!
People should know that most relationships are temporary. Stop putting it on your head. When it reaches the end of it's life span, everyone should move on. It's quite easy to get bored with people, these things happen.

Since you believe in your church doctrines, abide by their rules. Sensible people know that mistakes happen and wouldn't throw a good girl away because of sex that you'll still have when married.

Lol, this is quite funny. Lots of closet whores around. I mean, it's quite disrespectful to say such in front of your partner.
Since you joke so much, you too might have also said some silly things in front of her to make her have such courage.
Do to others as you want to be done to you.

What a reason. Nothing beats a strong woman, one who rises above pettiness, doesn't care over irrelevant issues and thinks with her head and not her heart. I celebrate all strong women out there.

Women are more emotional. Women take relationships with their loved ones and family more seriously. That's the way they are wired. Everything isn't about gold digging.

Deep down, many people share his views.

Good decision. A woman bringing 70k a month has even tried, the husband now has to double up.
Old school men like us still believe it's the duty of the man to do the heavy lifting. A woman should just support, that's what will bring respect and sanity in the home.

There is time for everything.
Those days we sneak out to hang out, we also sneak their cars out. Now, we have all the time in the world but we hardly go out. We have cars but don't really drive them. Indeed, there is time for everything.

Irresponsible men and women. Was there no narration on the text message? That's why you need to verify very well before sending money and also try to delete beneficiary you are not close to.

I have some artisans I pay money to regularly. I ask for their account number everytime I want to transfer. I know if I mistakenly send money to such people, that's the end of that money.

For your case, just be patient and if they can't refund the money, please take it in good faith. There is little you can do in this situation.

You can't help but wonder about how some people seem so favoured though. I mean, a guy like Cristiano Ronaldo, what could be his problem?
While I have mine, I feel so depressed about some people's problems. You see a beggar, he's homeless, sick, poor, bad looking, disfigured all at the same time. Why is life so good to some and horribly unfair to some?
Life is indeed a bîtch.

MansoryMX:
I am not supposed to say this out or brag but the two Naval personnel with me are SBS-2. Do your research and find out what it means for a Naval personnel to have the title SBS-2. Maybe just then you will understand the kind of person I am and the kind of people I roll with!

You don't get it. It's not about your backup, it's about your attitude. Nor carry matter for head. I've been married for about a decade and love my wife but I don't see myself fighting anyone.

If I'm shot dead, she'll still move on. I'll rather you warn the small boy verbally or even threaten him, not fighting. Many people have fought and died recklessly because they wan be super man.

Some women have been raped in front of their husband's at gun point and life went on. Be wise o. Who knows if your wife would have even accepted his advance if she was alone? Be wise son.

I use it daily. It works most of the time, but sometimes the predictions are off. I like having it nonetheless.

You feel pained because you invested so much. Never invest so much in a woman you are not married to. It never ends well.
Confront her and listen to her explanations.

She has already cheated on you but the question is will she change? Some people like to have second options but will remain faithful in when married.

It's in your hands to decide what you want. Whatever we say here may not help, the heart wants what it wants.

Money, money, money. It's sad what our girls have become.

That's how I left a girl I really liked and wanted to marry because of her constant demand for money. Unfortunately for her I met another girl who was never demanding and I wifed her. A year later she tried coming back but it was too late.

Many ladies will lose their future husband's because of this stinking attitude.

I think this is a problem of mostly girls in the West, East and Southern parts though. In the North and Middle belt, the girls there are very reasonable. You give a girl 5k and she is so appreciative. She finds it difficult to even demand in the first instance.

So many dysfunctional families, nonwomder a lot of Nigerians are bitter and heartless.

Mine was strict, morally upright and disciplined. However, we as kids thought he was too strict and moved away, drawing closer to mum.
Now I realize he meant well but his ways of showing it was a bit too strict.

As a father now, I try to imbibe the good side of him while also learning to dialogue with my kids and showing affection openly. While I wouldn't hesitate to discipline them, I wouldn't also hesitate to show them how much I love them.

Very fake. Most of these things are scripted. If this happens in a real situation, the main boyfriend will be foolish to accept her. Who would want to willingly wife a hò or have such a woman raising his child?

You look effeminate quite alright.
Anyway, men are cashing out now by just looking like women. Join the hustle.

Moderation is key. I can tolerate most things as long as it's not overboard. If you have heavy makeup, very long nails and hair, long eyelashes and revelling clothes all at once, then you'll come across as a clown.
Everything should be done moderately at least.

African women used to be the best women in the world; strong, resilient and dependable.
What we have now are confused girls who don't know whether to be Africans or westerners. I fear for future generations.

Collected her number when I was tipsy. Later called and scheduled a date. I was taken aback when she came. No disrespect but she looked like a gorilla. I just bought her anything she wanted as take away and faked an emergency and took off.

That was many years ago. These days I'm more mature and don't judge by looks, I prefer to know what sort of personality people have.

What's the issue? You can marry any genotype.

Why not? I married a female version of me, that's why my life has been stress free. I wouldn't want it any other way.

Men never learn. Only invest what you can afford to lose without having sleepless nights. By now we all know that whatever you do for a woman is unappreciated.

Better leave her now otherwise you will spend the rest of your life in regrets. Why take risk when there are lots of genetically compatible women out there. Bros, move on, forget everything you invested and move on.

You're still a young man, no reason why the woman can't call you her son.

Respect in this part of the world is based on appearance and perception. If people assume you are well to do, they'll respect you, irrespective of your age.

My only advice is to carry yourself well; with dignity. Strive to also be successful, try to be at par with your age mate, that also helps to get respect.

When she remembered the power of her man's D, she forgot her penance.

We should all realise that our sexual hormones have a mind of their own. They feel, react and act on their own. It takes extreme discipline and will power to control it.

I'm not sure how this is our business, but the moral of the story is marry your spec and your class.
There should be something tangible you see in a partner. Never marry just anyone because you want to get married.

Stop crying more than the bereaved.

pocohantas:
. Call me when they starting using spells on wives and stealing them.

I don't believe in spells but even if I did, nobody will use it on another man's wife. It's not worth it, married woman are not assets, more like liabilities. It's the married men that are seen as assets, hence the need to 'jazz' them.
Woman nor go fit take care of man, so why would you jazz someone that can't offer you much? The hustle is real out there.