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, I don beat her tire my hand don bend.
This shows how weak a man you are. Beating a female into submission to be loved. I consider you the lowest of all men.
Real men have abundance mentality. Never beg to be loved. Let a women be the one to bug you about marriage.
Leave if you ain't wanted and stop beating a woman who doesn't care about you.

Quite disgusting. I can imagine what women go through, having a guy you are not attracted to making advances at you.

Anyway, keep all messages. Very soon, he will try to maltreat you at work. This will be your defence.
Don't be alone with him and don't take any gifts from him. Watch your six always!

This child should be watching spongebob, not come on nairaland. By the way you are nothing close to handsome.

TUANKU:
Speak for yourself, are you more responsible than Usain Bolt or Ronaldo?

How do you determine if Bolt or Ronaldo is responsible? Money? Some people have such low self esteem that they think money is the all and all.

Police orderly will not save you. People should live a clean and decent lifestyle.

bigpicture001:
I found out the hospitals she now goes to for an ailment which is now past tense..its been there, no other person pays that much attention..I check on her tru calla almost every 4hours...I stand by her through thick and thin...

You don't get..I am totally involved in her day to day life..to say she cant do certain things for me cuz am not family is just so disgusting....
Mr. Emotions..who is more emotionally supportive of a lady when in need of it..ur sibling's or ur very loving girlfriend..

Would your adult brother stay days with you in the hospital if you are down..? As compared to ur fiancee..? If no..is she your family memeber yet..?

Guy cease to reason with just emotion..com to reality

You are not married my man. People have done a thousand times more and ended up disappointing their partners.
No reasonable person invests so much until you are married. You're just a boyfriend. After marriage you will be a priority not before then. Come to terms with that reality.

The OP thinks the importance of family is about giving money. You certainly don't understand the power of emotional support. No amount of money can replace that.
She is even an orphan, that means her siblings are probably the only ones to ever show her love.
You are insecure, the best way to make her get closer to you is to show greater love and emotional support than her siblings offer.
The average Nigerian thinks giving people stipends is a show of love. That's why we have lots of 'money miss road' people.

I drink because of social reasons, when with friends. I also like the feeling when taken in moderation. Has a feel good vibe.

In my younger days, I used to go overboard at times. Now I just take a bottle or two of beer once in a week or fortnightly. Sometimes a sip of brandy here and there.

No to drugs and smoking. That shīt will kill you.

You were doing your duties without her before she came to the unit, weren't you? Still accord her some respect. Life can flip on anyone at anytime.
Always live by the mantra that life is up and down. It may be your turn tomorrow.

If your only complaint is that he isn't a fanatic then you have no problem.
A well behaved moralist is better off than a religious fanatic without morals.

She has a psycho face.

Sex doesn't keep a relationship, if not many people will not be here asking of how to break up with their partners or asking how to abandon a girl who got pregnant for them.
Sex is overrated and it actually makes one not to have a holistic view of the relationship.
Many of our parents relationship survived without sex and lasted many decades. What we have now is baby mama's littered everywhere, looking for whom to cling to.

At least not another old hag for papers. Kudos.

She also has unusually long arms and a very long neck.

Figment of his imagination

Everyone has his or her taste. Everyone is attractive to someone. Personally, I had a spec in my younger days. Now, I really don't.
There is just something I may see and I find attractive. The person may be tall, shirt, fair or dark, it doesn't matter.

Infolenka:
On Nairaland every guy is sexually experienced with a very high body count and only dates and fuçks slim pretty girls.

Fake life no go kill una

The only real thread on Nairaland is the ashawo thread on sexuality section. There you will see real men that talk about the real things they do with women and even post pictures. You will see guys boasting about fucking girls that are even bigger and fatter than this girl. They are being real. Not like fake clowns that come online and call girls fat and unappealing but in real life even ugly girls no dey send dem.

This girl is an Instagram olosho and she makes money by selling her body to big boys and politicians. The clown above said I'll lose erection if she strips. Are the guys that are fucking her doing it in the dark? Abi dem dey close eyes fuçk the girl? Are they fucking her with limp dicks?

The moment you realize that people have different tastes and sometimes like in my case a multiplicity of tastes, the better for you.

It's usually people that come online to call others virgins that are even virgins themselves.

Las las you can lie to world, but you can't lie to yourself.

Poor IQ. Attraction is subjective. Even some women are attracted to morons.

Beauty is truly in the eyes of the beholder. I wouldn't touch this 'thing' for a million bucks.

People marry their spec and yet they are still not happy and end up divorced. There are many 'power' couple, handsome guy and cute lady who marry but can't have peace.
My point is that attraction in itself is not the answer. Why do you think looking for a partner is though? You have to meet physical, emotional, spiritual requirements. You have to be compatible health wise, personality wise and even family wise.
For you to have a good marriage, you have to tick at least above average in all of these requirements.
As for your palaver, you are in it already. Treat her right and find a way to meet her conjugal needs. We do jobs we don't enjoy doing and yet we do those jobs for 35 years. Find a way son!.

Almost getting caught having sex in the file cabinet by office security who have high regards for me. Very shameful act albeit adventurous. That was many many years ago.

You're sad because of the deceit or that your child will not b his first child? These things happen. What if it happens when you are already married? Marriage is not by force, just follow your heart and live by your principles.

Only if you are not going to be living in her paid accommodation. If you are renting your own place or paying for the place then it's fine.
Women aren't built to handle the financial responsibilities in a relationship. Very soon she will tire of you and you'll lose all respect. Be warned!

If you're not married, you're single. I don't know why people don't get it.

My own style is decline when you ask and give when you don't ask. People hardly ask me for money, they just keep hoping that they meet me in a giving mood.

Every wise person should know that you don't swallow everything other people say.
Your role model, your pastor or your celebrity crush will have an opinion, it is the duty of your brain to do the work and filter everything it hears.
Pick what you agree with and discard the rest. Only morons swallow everything hook, line and sinker.

A lot of people are broken in this country. Emotionally, psychologically, mentally and physically. There are millions of very pretty but damaged girls. They are usually moody, unhappy for no reason, violent etc. Being in a relationship with them is usually very toxic.

Unfortunately, our mentally health institutions are nothing to write home about and mental health is still stigmatised.

esthel:
The only thing you share is the kitchen so I don't think there should be problem. My friends apartment at Ajah, about 4 of them shared a 3 bedroom flat, the sitting room was partitioned for the 4th person.

Typical living amongst those loose girls on the island. 3 to 5 people share an apartment. Sleep all day and work all night.
OP,
If you guys have the same personality and lifestyle, it's easier to live in peace and harmony. I once abandoned a fully paid apartment for my friend when his lifestyle was becoming unacceptable by me. That was in uni days though, I believe working class guys will be more responsible.

The grass is never greener.

They've both lost sons. One of the most painful experience is losing a loved one, especially at a young age.