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Everyone can have sex, get someone pregnant or get pregnant but not everyone can be a parent.

That's the trend now. Marry a man, have one child and then start misbehaving so that he will divorce you and then you can do as you please.
Women should realise that they can still have kids without marriage.

LilMissFavvy:
......from bitter to hornnny, these SOGs are sicckkk. Oga i believe in love, I am soft natured, I love the opposite sex, I am not anti men, I am simply anti wicked men,, you are an example. Tell the iduott whom you say is correcting me, to open a thread and correct men to be faithful, and change from their notion that they are polygamous in nature. Until then, you can never make sense to me.

You are shinning your stinking teeth at the mention of hórny, I said it, konji is your problem.

stupidity:
she sounds like she needs good sex. That kinda sex that will make a wife wake up early morning and bring you breakfast in bed, shine your shoes, wash your car and escort you to work

Good sex is powerful.

Instead of her to humble herself and see if a man will shoot his shot. Hórny biatch. But her bad attitude may also be a tactics to get noticed.

LilMissFavvy:
Never ever mention me, I am not a bitter woman, a fool like you may not even know if I am available in the single market

A female is correcting you, why not humble yourself and take corrections.
I can bet you are single, no sensible man will put up with an Ill mannered woman, well except a simp.
And yes you are bitter, most likely hórny too. Most hórny women are bitter women.

LilMissFavvy:
Where were you when I made good grades in school? Where were you when I passed job interviews?

That gives you the impetus to yarn nonsense online? Like I said, you never see anything and know nothing. Use the opportunity of being online to learn. Never be too quick to flap your mouth.

So if we advice you to marry her now, you sef go marry? Some of this questions are really senseless. You already know you should run and not look back.

LilMissFavvy:
Who told you that I have not tasted life and seen it's ups and downs? Guilty husband spotted, it is your type that carry STDS and other ailments back home to your wife, my advice was sensible, a jabbing pain for cheats like you.

You get who dey feed you and provide you with data, that's why you think you have an opinion. I don't blame you.

That woman has always wanted the husband dead.

LilMissFavvy:
Take note that this is me, and this will always be me, I speak the truth, I don't pretend.

Shut up jor, wetin u don see for life? All these small small children sitting in one corner with a phone and data thinking they know it all.
It's better to be silent and thought of as intelligent than open your mouth and be exposed as a fooól. Your opinion was silly and senseless.

Buying wheelbarrow for your staff and then setting up canopy and chairs to do what exactly? Commission the working tools?
What a lame excuse. I weep for this country.

AwkaetitiBabe:
How? A lady who works and also gat running businesses should easily have 500k in her savings... Guy eat shiit for that nonsense u typed

Your IQ is low. Read his post again. DM him and stop ranting.

AwkaetitiBabe:
She has to work and also have good running businesses?

Best you add minimum amount of 500k in her savings account

Stop being silly. If you want to apply, send him a DM. This is an opportunity for all you old cargoes on this forum to give marriage a shot.

Good luck with that. Only a celebrity can help you. Your other option is to offer free food or something, after all it's an eatery or catering service.

Lamanii22:
Thank you... You're right about the western culture... That's the kind of culture I want for my kids... It's not my mom's fault though... She never had any support, and she never went to school, so she had to do what she learnt from her grandma "trading"... And she made us learn it.. God now blessed her with a great cooking skill.. So she started cooking and things became a lil better cause there was food to eat... Mehn.. My story's really long... How many do I wanna spill... But I thank God..

I'm impressed with girls like you. Keep up the hardwork and God will bless you.

Actually there are contrary school of thoughts to this. Some psychologists believe calling your kids genius or giving them the impression that they are naturally brilliant will make them take things for granted.
They argue that you should stress the importance of hardwork instead of natural talent. Don't say, 'you did well, you are a genius', you should say 'you did well because you worked hard and you can always do better by working harder'.
Whilst both schools of thought makes sense, I'd rather stress the importance of hardwork instead of any ego boost.

Lamanii22:
Heey... I grew up in a home where you hustle.. When I was still little my older siblings used to carry iced water to private school and churches to sell... I never did that.. Cause I am the last born.. Plus there's always food to eat... Right now I have taken over my mom's tasty time, water and drink business... I get whatever I want from the profit... I get to save and pay my tuition fees from it... So my mom never taught me to hoe around rather she taught me how to use 10naira to make 50naira and then a hundred and thousand....

I salute your hustle. A lot of parents don't make provision, they'll just allow the kids go fend for themselves.
In the western society you are expected to fend for yourself after high school because they are jobs there, access to student loans and welfare. It's different here and parents should provide till after graduation.

Lamanii22:
My mom helps me a lot financially oo... School fees wise.. But no pocket money.. You'd get that yourself...

Get that from where? No wonder our young girls have degenerated into leeches beggars and hóés. Parents should not have kids if they can't care for them.

Maybe you can't cook and he doesn't know how to tell you.

Nice and inspirational. Some also did a low key wedding and are now living in squalor.
Everyone should study his situation. It's also okay to wait till you are comfortable. Like Socrates says, 'know thyself'.
I'm glad you both knew yourselves and took your decisions accordingly.

Richnerd69:
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Your argument and point is baseless . There's no information up there that points the lady in discussion to be religious fanatic. Extrapolating from your comment, You are not spiritually inclined , neither are you religious , so why do you misconstrue what you are deficit of, in regards knowledge?

Every good church going Christian knows, it's profitable wisdom to seek marriage counsel from your spiritual head, rather still Let Him give his blessings to the couple. Why would a church member get married or pick a spouse without being accountable to the people that oversee you?

The OP is not the kind of husband she needs, and if he's forced to go see the pastor, then the union will probably end in a debacle or a huge mess .
what you wrote up there reeks of atheistic propensity, rather still, you must be one.

To hell with your opinions. 'Pastors' have done more harm than good. Any sensible person should keep them where they belong - the pulpit. Bringing them into your private life is a recipe for disaster.
You have the power to reach God directly, through His son Jesus.
You are probably an aspiring pastor, seeking to manipulate families and go in between the legs of other mens wives.

https://www.pulse.ng/news/local/pastor-confesses-to-raping-church-member-attempt-to-do-money-ritual/ltcrjqy

http://silverbirdtv.com/uncategorized/24929/how-randy-pastor-raped-church-girl-severally/

https://www.legit.ng/1267393-married-woman-allegedly-impregnated-by-pastor-begs-husband-accept-it.html

https://punchng.com/31369-2/

God is not fighting for Nigeria. In the days of old, all those people seeking to cause problems for God's children will be wiped out.
I feel ashamed that in a country of millions of youths, half dead men keep oppressing us.

Audio millionaire. One small bored boy is using her to catch fun.

She's just a kid. My first child used to be really stubborn as a toddler. I was scared that I'll have a lot of work to do in the future.
He's growing up to be the sweetest and best behaved young man I know.

His younger brother is also following the same pattern and I'm not worried. Stop analysing and freaking over someone else's kid. She'll probably grow out of it. She's just 2 for goodness sake. She hardly knows left from right.

Marrying most Nigerian women is a challenge. Poverty rate in the country is too much that a lot of people see marriage as a form of poverty alleviation.
Your wife expects you to shoulder her responsibilities, her family expects you to also shoulder their responsibilities while your own family also expects you to shoulder their responsibilities.

That's why alot of struggling young men take forever to stabilise. Men should either marry from a comfortable home or marry a woman whose family has pride. Some families are not rich but they have pride and will never bother any in law. After all they were surviving all these years before in laws started coming.

Sometimes people ain't just ready for a relationship. Forcing yourself on her will end badly. It will eventually lead to disrespect. Either be friends or move on. Not everyone is even cut out for a romantic affair.

Bloggers sha, una suppose dey work for naija police, you'll probably do a better job.
Nothing new here, all the oloshos are either selling hair, bags or kayamata on Instagram.

Most of them are the online entrepreneurs you keep hearing about. The boss ladies who peddle their feminine goods and hide under being an online entrepreneur.

A figment of you people's imagination. These are the kind of silly stories they broadcast on WhatsApp.

I'm afraid I will tell you to forget her. People who are religious fanatics are not to be dealt with. Be rest assured her pastor will be the one controlling your wife. Her ideas, thoughts etc are going to be dictated by her pastor.

Her pastor comes before you. Telling you to forget it is the height of disrespect. I detest women who are brainwashed by pastors. Let the pastor come and see you at home if he's so interested in her affairs.

My brother you never see wife. Keep searching.

That means I have probably not done my home work well. Anyway, she'll give birth and continue school after she has weaned the baby.
Hopefully she has learnt her lessons and would make better choices. Gone are the days of shame, she would live with me and so will my grandchild.

These things happen and will always happen. Bad people are everywhere. Some women abscond after spending millions on them, either through education, setting up a business or helping them start a career.

Life happens to everyone in different forms. Dust yourself up and try again.

No problem is worth taking your life. There are a million who have it worse.