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ShopNextDoor:
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Location, Festac, Lagos

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veave:
Okay. Thank you. Please how much do you think a spacious 3bedroom would cost

Anywhere from 1m upwards annually.

The only thing you can do for a Nigerian, whether friend or family is to borrow or invest only what you can afford to lose.

People are too unreliable. They always come promising and begging. After giving them the money na so so story.

I only give what I can afford to lose, no sentiments, irrespective of whom you are to me.

Only the masses and unfavoured are subject to the law. The law is an ass.

FatherBona:
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Just a photo, just another Internet Challenge during this period of boredom and isolation.
Save your uptight act and frustration for the Jehovah's Witnesses when next they knock on your door.
Ewu!!!

Your father.
Get your wife to take camel toe pics and put online as an act of killing boredom. slowpoke.

That's all most of them are good for. Sex objects, what a shame. Women who want to be taken seriously should go and confront their fellow women for setting them backwards and sabotaging their efforts and stop blaming men.

Help2020:
Bro,my story is true.it took me time to type this post,why would I waste my time typing false story,what's my gain in doing that..As for your advice thanks a lot.

Did I doubt you?

I had one policy, always get a woman whom your close contacts do not know. It helps to avoid drama and problems.
As for your situation, it may or may not be true. If you love her so much then take your chances and be prepared for whatever challenges you meet.

Intentions are usually pure till either feelings start creeping in or rumours start circulating around or the wife starts hating you. Whatever the case, it usually never ends well.

Proposals are mushy and romantic but it's not for 'real men'. Be nice to your woman, treat her right so much that she'll be the one asking when you're going to put a ring on it.

No matter how you love her, let her show eagerness to want to be with you. Eventually, when you are ready, get a ring and tell her 'let's get married '. All those stupid drama are for wussies.

No wonder many women who are not keen on marrying a man are forced to say yes so as not to make the guy feel bad or they just say yes because it's expected of them.

We love what we love. If light skinned is your preference please go for it. I must also warn you that a beautiful woman who has a horrible personality will start looking ugly to you.
Your attraction level is a bit low but maybe with time it may improve as you spend more time together and get to know each other better. However, as a person, I will always choose a woman whom I share alot with and gives me peace over one whom I'm madly attracted to but makes life difficult for me.

Lol. Olosho nor wan go house go meet their pikin. Most of them can hardly cross the Onitsha bridge now because of the lockdown.

Nothing. We don't do regrets, everything is for a reason, we learn and move forward.

How many will he direct. What we need is massive campaign and then enforcement of defaulters.

Things don't always go as planned. Never invest in anybody expecting returns on investment, even family. Do it because you want and because you can.
That woman wasn't meant for you, be a man and take the pics down. Your own will come.

That man na mafia. Imagine bearing a grudge for a whole decade. That woman must have betrayed him. How was he able to keep a poker face for 10 good years?

Interesting how stereotypes work. One of the most gentle and respectable persons in my circle is an Ngwa man.
I'm shocked to read fellow igbos stereotyping their own people. It's quite disappointing. Cannibalism? I can't believe the b.s I'm reading.

Welcome to another decade. You are making progress with your life which is good. Work harder to establish financial freedom. Nothing beats having a comfortable life without having to beg or borrow.

As for relationships, don't be in a hurry. You will meet different women but bid your time. Don't focus too much on looks. Watch out for a woman who seems to have a genuine interest in you, especially non materialistic and from a decent background.
No woman has it all, neither does any man.

Qualities you should look for in a partner.
1 Like her enough to not mind spending the rest of your life with her.
2 Make sure you guys are not parallel. You should have similar goals in life.
3 Make sure she is good in money management.
4 Pray she comes from a disciplined family.
5 Let her like you enough to ask where the relationship is heading. Don't be the one pressuring her for marriage.
All the best.

Successful marriages are successful because one or both parties put sentiments aside. Marry whom you like, not necessarily love. Don't go for beauty or shape or wealth, go for compatibility, similar values, one whom you know will give you peace and you're good to go.
However a man or woman has to like his or her spouse. Having the best partner in the world without being attracted to them will not work.
As for the question, the hardest part of marriage is staying faithful for most men and remaining submissive for most women, especially this generation of women. It's not easy to be earning your own income and not be forced to disregard or challenge your husband from time to time.

RisenPhoenix:
Another fallen simp believing in the fallacy of love. Those women that love you will noy hesitate to murder you when they feel slighted or when it suits their plan. Continue loving and spending money. All those women you claim to love you probably only see you as their maga. They just saw through the initial stinginess and realised they would gain long term if they sucked up to you and you think they stuck by you. Continue getting dating advice from zeeworld. Na you dem go chop no be me.

You are still obviously a child.

contumely2:
I wouldn't argue with a butterfly which thinks itself a bird just because it flies.

I used to be like you many years ago. It took me 15 years to understand how things work coupled with it's nitty gritties and niceties.

Until you understand the concept of consideration in law of contract and understand Adams smith principles, you will never know that even the personality you are talking about is like money.

They are on the same level in economics and can be seen as cash ie consideration.

At any rate, I doubt if we are on the same intellectual wavelength hence it appears we are speaking at cross purposes.

You know nothing. Accept and learn. 15 years ago we had since concluded our lessons and gained life experience.
We are talking common sense you are talking Adam Smith. In your attempt to be smart, you have proved to be foolish.
You might as well analyse using Freud and Socrates.

RisenPhoenix:
Then you wasted your money by eventually opening your wallet and destroyed your own strategy by spoiling them.

You are only half right in that comment. While I totally agree that money should be made for one's own sake, it does not take away from your self esteem to have women attracted to you because of the money. In fact, all women are attracted to money, but you just don't have to spend on them to have them. Just having the money is enough attraction. If you start spending on girlfriends after sex, they will quickly start putting you on a ration and playing you while using you as a maga, because then, your commitment to the relationship will be more than theirs and they will know it. You have to hold the promise of spending over their heads. That's when you get to tap their deepest resources.



True. Making money with yourself in mind is the correct path. But women are still a side benefit of making money.



Reality proves you wrong. Money will bring you women unless you badly destroy your game. Those weren't rich guys. They were guys with a few bucks to throw around at the moment. Women can tell rich from show off.

Nigerians think life starts and ends in Nigeria. That Nigerians will worship a monkey with money doesn't mean that's how it works worldwide. Confidence is inbuilt. There are a million men out there who are confident but ain't rich.

Women are not attracted to rich men, they are attracted to their wealth. BIG DIFFERENCE. Take the wealth away and the woman runs away. They are millions of average men who have suffered challenges and their wives stuck with them. A woman will stick with you if she loves you.
It's only on nairaland where ignorant boys are of the opinion that women don't love. Women love, even olosho has someone she loves. I would rather have one women love me than have ten women flock around me because they want to milk me.

As for opening my wallet, I believe in spoiling a woman who is in love with me. I wouldn't attract you by flaunting cash but when we become an item, expect me to support you because I have the resources to. Women have left me because they felt I was stingy at the dating stage. Those who genuinely loved the 'stingy guy' never regretted it.

I've been married for close to a decade and have dated a fair share of women. Most of you here only recycle what some ignorant guys say, guys with low self esteem and little or no experience. Money is good for everyone but it will fail you if you want to use it as a tool to buy love. Be guided.

contumely2:
Rubbish.

The greatest asset a man has is his wealth.

Good looks, attitude, intelligence etc are ancillary.

The girl you thought was attracted to you because of YOU was unconsciously actually attracted because of the qualities mentioned above except if she has no options.

The average woman is hypergamous.

If you are a teacher and earn 20k and a guy working with shell earns 1m, she will likely go for the guy at shell.


In a few cases, she will be with you the teacher, if and only if she sees prospects or values some things you possess like character over and above the 1m

Leave nollywood and see what works in real life.


I saw where you said that he should hustle for good life and not to get women.

Lol, most men inherently hustle to get women because women are part of the properties to buy when having good life.

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Typical example of inferiority complex. The wife of the shell worker will still cheat with the teacher if he has more substance than him. You people overrate women.
Do riches attract women? Yes. Will it make them love you or be faithful to you? No.
Acquire riches for yourself not to attract women. Being a pauper wouldn't make you happy but saying you can only get women because of money makes you less than a human. Even dogs without money get females.

Another childish post. Your hustling is to attract puss? Not to live a comfortable life, not to add value to the life of family and other people in need?
Anyone with self esteem will be ashamed to know women are only attracted to him just because of money. Actually, they are not even attracted to him, they are attracted to the money.
I never spent any money on a lady I was asking out. If you find me attractive and decide to date me, only then will I open the wallet and trust me, I know how to spoil my women.
Boys learn, money will not bring you women, what you will get are hustlers, gold diggers and ho's. Hustle so you can live in comfort and afford stuff without begging or borrowing nor because you want leeches around.
Women who have self worth will always still turn down a 'money miss road'. I have seen loads of women turn down rich guys with poor personalities.

A figment of your imagination. 1000 Canadian dollar kee u dia.

You are already seeing red flags. It's better to quit while the ovation is loudest. Contrary to people's opinion, there are lot's of decent girls around but they might not readily come in the package you want.

I know someone who waited for his girlfriend to be pregnant before marriage. When she became pregnant, he did the wedding. She lost the pregnancy at 6 months. She conceived two more times after marriage but also had miscarriages. Four years down the line they are still TTC. There is little control man has over things, we must put our faith in God and let things be.

Apart from numerous green light, no one has come directly. Some told their friends or my friends that they liked me. Some just started calling themselves my girlfriend.

While it may seem like a good cause, it isn't. You have become at her mercy. When you break up tomorrow, she can ask the man to withdraw the job. What sort of man has no value for himself and doesn't mind getting a job via whoring? How will you benefactor respect your work?
You must also realize that tomorrow she can fvck the doctor if you guys lack money for treatment, fvck the lawyer to pay for legal fees for you guys etc. That ain't no favour bro, that's a curse.

You married a problem and trust me, this her attitude will continue. Your marriage is still young.