₦airaland Forum

Maybe she's lesbian..
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Don't ask her though..

Dude..never take women seriously..you'll just die of hypertension....love them with your head and keep an open mind...
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U can't make that guy back off..it's up to your babe if she can't set boundaries with the opposite sex...
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Since you've explained your own principles to her right from the outset and she's behaving like this, just keep a very OPEN MIND

This story is legendary...truly....very touching...!..
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plenty women are confused and co-fused with confusion!!!

NiggasInParis:
There was this girl i met in Ilorin late 2015, A law student as at then second year in Unilorin.

When we first met it was really interesting and fun. Infact the day we first met we had a swell time, good conversation remarks which led to me even accompanying her all the way to her house in Basin.

Got to even meet her dad and enjoyed a little bit of reception all on the first day we met.

Deep in my heart i was already down for her and was already making plans for the future with her. I had taken it that serious.

In physical features she was my dream type, slim, tall, straight, front and back well served in admirable proportions(a real turn on for slim girls)

As for her intellect and communication skills she was moderate enough though as a law student i expect more.

Now as a grown ass man who knows the hierachy in which i place girls i meet and usefullness of all the ladies on my radar... I already knew this was someone i will want to have a long term relationship with and possibly cross the bridge with in the future so i wasted no time in going straight to the point.

After a few chit chats, follow ups and calls and one informal meeting we went on a date were i asked her out with all my heart, 2nd time we were meeting after the first day we met.


Having replied with the famous "i will think about it response" i had thought she just wanted to be conservative and stretch me a bit you know..Normal forming things

But no. it took another turn!

She started becoming too reserved unlike the lively and jovial person i had met that got me attracted to her. Delayed giving me a reply and when She later did went on to tell me that she don't think she's ready for relationship but we can just be friends.


Really!!!

This was a girl i am sure was into me in every variables and means by which i cant explain here.
Did not say much and let it slide in the few days ahead by sublty killing communication with her..Little effort she made by starting any chat convo wouldn't yield as i woukdnt lead her on and i stopped calling her as well. The spirit was already weak!


Now You wont believe 4 months later in 2016 she called and was complainng i had forgotten her, that i claimed i loved her when I did not, asking that i never called her or talked to her after she said no. That i was suppose to continue persuading her, that really was into me too but just wanted to delay me a bit....

I was SPEECHLESS!

"Firstly i'm longer in Ilorin, secondly the love i had for you had died after the way things turned out and what you're just telling me now has buried it. If we must have something between us again, there will need to be some sort of rekindling- which will go on to reflect the lovely, receptive and good attitude of yours that attracted me to you in the first place"

That was what i told her

Since then i never heard from her again!

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That's how a lot of them are programmed.
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I'm sure if u didn't open up to her and just played along, the mystery would've kept her glued to u...
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I don't know why women don't like straightforward things..

The only thing that pisses me off about a new girl u are trying to woo is their boring attitudes on chat...
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Boring..super boring...
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If they are not boring, then they are pretending...
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sodiqapril:
like most Nigerian girls, she is boring AF...chatting with most Nigeria girls identical to chatting with a robot..i think its due to this their stupid pride...i've like five White girls I chat with on watsapp, we met on Instagram..(I use my real name and pictures), we are just friends.I've Even gone as far as making video calls with one of them..the level of maturity and lack of boredom in the way these girls converse has made me sworn not to waste my energy chasing Nigeria girls..what most of them understand is money but there are few exceptions sha

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U are so right.. seriously!

rosieluv:
Well said

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For real o

Kayus4real:
there was this girl I loved some times ago. I really loved her, I could do anything for her. she treated me badly, ignoring my calls most time and when she picked it, it would be a nightmare. She was so arrogant, rude and unpleasant. there was a day she told me she couldn't date me because I was so broke. She slapped me and threw dirty water on my clothes. It got to me that day and I was very depressed. I moved on.. despite the whole ugly event.

I got a job in a big firm two years ago and I can say I'm comfortable now. she called asking for an assistance I think I'm capable of rendering. Should I help her out? please I need your sincere advice..

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Don't even think of being nice..
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Block her number and don't let her call u again..

naijanewstv:
Good morning to you all. Please post and handle this for me. My marriage is 4 years and my wife is 29 years, I am 37 years old. After my first child, it took my wife 7 months to start allowing me touch her.

I didn't complain. Our baby is 2 years 9 months old. My wife is a stay at home mum. I work in my late father's company with my siblings and my mum. Please is it good, in a month, my wife allows me touch her not up to 4 times and it's with begging and pleading.

I got tired of talking to her and decided to bring her father in to speak to her. We traveled for the weekend for a wedding and my hope is to spend the Sunday at their place and we travel back on Monday morning because we left our son with my mother. In the afternoon, I went to speak to her father because her parents got divorced and her father trained them by himself. When I brought up the se!x issues for the man to plead with me and advise my wife.

He started asking me how many times should my wife give me se!x? is four times a month not enough? Is his daughter a yam that I can eat as I want ? That what nonsense am I talking about? That he is disappointed.

I lost balance and felt very bad. I left that day to the hotel . Everyone reading these post, please is se!x four times a month ok ? Is it that my wife doesn't love me or what ? I wanted to fix her somewhere in the company, she said our baby is still small. I don't understand her at all please. I need solution.

SOURCE: https://www.naijanewstv.com.ng/2018/09/my-wife-only-allows-me-to-touch-her-4-times-a-month.html

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Seriously..I feel for you man....
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This does not give u license to cheat..
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But it certainly increases the temptation quotient exponentially!!..
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Uniquetani1:
I think I am stupid in love.
Why will a Lady love a guy so much?

Why do good ladies always fall victim of fake love?

Why is true love hard to find?

Why am I finding it difficult to believe that good guys exist?

Why I am always heart broken when I fall in love?

I know I am wrong but my curiosity made me to snoop in my boyfriend's phone. I found how his friend and him are labelling me bad. How he flirt with other ladies; he compliment their pictures, telling them that they are pretty, he want to marry them, using romantic words on them like sweetheart, I will kiss you and all. It hurt me because he don't compliment my pictures. We had a big disagreement three months ago and got back together. His friends and most especially females are saying bad words about me. In a nutshell, he came back to the relationship out of pity. I am just hurt, I don't know if I should cry or laugh. I love this guy so much that I can't imagine him leaving me. I am stuck in this love. If I think of leaving, it will make me sick.

Maybe I am not made for love. :

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My dear..true love is hard to find these days..
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Do not love with your heart, so u don't get heart broken..
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Love with your head and never let anything take u by surprise...
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Maamin:
it can be very sexy at the same time unattractive if the body do not match up.

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Lolz..quite right!

UyaiIncomparabl:
Save your petty banter. Suck it up your ass! I do not care about your honesty!

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Hmmm..nawa o

For men.......it's just straight up lack of communication...no calls..no chats..no texts....
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For the women...it's virtually the same....but it has an added spice..whenever u call her or make an offer for you to spend time with her...she will ALWAYS claim she is busy!

alexistaiwo:
I don't know why some guys are so dumb.
Any confidential stuff sent or kept in your possession should remain confidential regardless of any changes of circumstances in your relationship with the sender.


In my phone data protection feature.
I have nudes of my virtually all exes including some intimacy videos which were created on a consensual basis.
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Even when things got rocky between us.
Showing any other persons or releasing any of the confidential stuffs have never crossed my mind.


In this digital age, emotional maturity is a very important tool to have in ones arsenal.

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How about adding that maturity to man utd's defence too??

Chris brown open road...that song can sooth me ehn
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Also..Lenny Kravitz..believe in me..

Her forehead!.. I love women with big, fresh and flashy foreheads!

gosh... I'm speechless

UyaiIncomparabl:
I don't mind.

.. sent uya!

UyaiIncomparabl:
Sept 21st.

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We are almost birthday mates..
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Am Sept 29th..
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Mind if i pm u?

pansophist:
Welcome to the hypergamous nature of the female (and for a good reason). A woman primary duty is to procreate for the best man she could find, and she will always monkey-swing when she finds a better deal. Its an ebolutionary way to ensure that the specie continues to survive for the better. It may seem like they love opportunistically, but it's about survival of the fittest.

Women do not love men as men thought they do. If you had been aware of this part of their nature, you won't even be scratched when any woman leaves you for someone she considers a good deal.

The only way to keep women generally is to continuously improve yourself in all areas (financially, physically, intellectually, professionally etc), to be better than the other options she might have, that loosing you will be a bad deal.

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Word!

I feel sorry for you man... You have to start from the scratch...
...bad thing about this experience is you will never trust a lady anymore..
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Rightly so!.. Try and love more with your head and not with your heart..!
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The lies some ladies tell, even if u catch them red-handed, can bring Hitler back to life!

Most of us are jokingly sending all these inter-tribal barbs between ibos and yorubas...
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Truth is that these jokes are reflections of our subconscious.. We are too tribalisitic in this country !
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Tribalism has wrecked this country and will continue to do so till only God knows when!

I won't! I can't! I shouldnt!.. I couldn't!.. I wouldn't!.. I shall not!
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Never ever!

She said.... " don't even think you are important to me "...
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This happened during one of our numerous quarrels.... I ended the whole thing..
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She taught it was a joke when she came back begging and crying...
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Somehow.. I couldnt just forgive her for those words...

I think if anyone is going to take down America, it maybe through some serious betrayal from enemies within or use of bio weapons ...
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No Human World Power is meant to last forever...
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I hate to say it.. But they will go down some day

Seriously I don't know why some ladies do this...
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If u want to hang out with your friends, why not schedule a different time?..
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why must u dilute it with a first time hook up which could really turn out to be somethng special?

MissRaine69:
I am ....

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From your neck... I can tell.. You are indeed tall...
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I am 6 ft 3"...we could make a good match

Honestly... It's another mystery about women.. All the ladies I've been with drool about my height..
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It does not get to my head though....I am more concerned about how tall my heart and pocket is...

foolbuster:
Been off and on now for over 3 years. During my active days I built a strong alliance had to hand over to a trusted officer just hope it's still in good hands. I have not played for close to 10 months now. That game is designed to get you addicted and take up all your time unless you have money.

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Very true

Injustice 2 ...that's my new love

Lilknight:
CMS football manager back then on my Nokia Express music, real throwback, I don’t know if anyone else knows this game, back then i have sleepless night just because of this game.

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Lol arsenal can cheat in that game ehn