davidylan:

Big bumper . . . you obviously didnt read the OP's post or you read it upside down . . .

for instance you said this - Let him go and work on his insecurity issue, you don't need such insecure being around you. You have not had an affair yet he can't trust you amongst your male friends to the extent that he asks you to put them on the phone whenever he calls you and now you have resorted to telling him lies about your whereabouts

Actually that's flatly UNTRUE if you read this portion from the OP - At big bumper he has never asked me to put them on phone,he doesnt even call me to know whom i was with,that day was the first, i just had the feelings he might cos he had been talking on the issue,his main argument was that i should be careful cos of my inexperience people may make me do what i do not want to do, and it makes absolute sense cos i have experienced it,

where did you get the idea he was "insecure"? All these "wise" people na wa.

tope5000:

Agreed maybe the guy have insecurities issue
But does it occur to any of u guys supporting the poster that MAYBE it was the girl that turned him into that with all these hang-up on calls rubbish i smell shyte here somewhere

I think there is def more to the story.

big_bumper:


THE ONLY REASON SHE is desperate to win back his affection and is trying to paint him in a good light and thereby unwittingly making herself come across as the baddie is because SHE THINKS HE HAS MOVED ON WITH ANOTHER GIRL. Bet you missed this out of her story.

Though i do not support her act, she lied about where she was going and refused to pick up that call BEC AUSE THE GUY IS PLAIN INSECURE.

tope5000:

[size=14pt]Agreed maybe the guy have insecurities issue [/size]

C2H5OH:

Yehp.  I totally agree.   Tope too smart.   It would make no sense for a loving boyfriend who can "have any girl he wants" to go beserk when I have done nothing wrong.

And it's not like this guy is suddenly hounding her for what she's done.  She is mad that he is now beginning to play the same game she has been playing all along.  He's now talking to random girls, and her insecurities are beginning to make her crumble.

big_bumper:

Come again Tope2000, can you repeat what you said, I didn't see that

tope5000:

Agreed maybe the guy have insecurities issue :-\
But does it occur to any of u guys supporting the poster that MAYBE it was the girl that turned him into that with all these hang-up on calls rubbish i smell shyte here somewhere

I think there is def more to the story.

English Language just died!

tope5000:

Agreed maybe the guy have insecurities issue
But does it occur to any of u guys supporting the poster that MAYBE it was the girl that turned him into that with all these hang-up on calls rubbish i smell shyte here somewhere

I think there is def more to the story.

davidylan:

You're with a dude at 8am in the morning, refuse to pick my repeated calls . . . what do you expect even the most secure dude to think? That its all a prank?

I laugh . . . let your dudes go visit a woman at 8am and hang up on you repeatedly . . .

davidylan:

what has this to do with anything? the critical thing is that you based your entire claims on a FALSEHOOD.

How was the guy "insecure"? A guy who had NEVER bothered asked who she was with before? Funny how people will defend the indefensible.

big_bumper:


Come again Tope2000, can you repeat what you said, I didn't see that

MrCrackles:




English Language just died!

davidylan:

"Insecure" based exactly ON WHAT? Pls can someone show me? Perhaps you females are privy to one story that the rest of us cant see.

C2H5OH:

I too would be worried if a woman I intend to marry is serving another guy breakfast in his bedroom at 8am.  To top it off, knowing she calls him honey and sweetheart would make me declare a state of emergency.

C2H5OH:

Yehp.  I totally agree.   Tope too smart.   It would make no sense for a loving boyfriend who can "have any girl he wants" to go beserk when I have done nothing wrong.

And it's not like this guy is suddenly hounding her for what she's done.  She is mad that he is now beginning to play the same game she has been playing all along.  He's now talking to random girls, and her insecurities are beginning to make her crumble.

astuto:

Leave her ALONE. These guys seem to have been bitten in some way similar to dis story. so don't blame dem. Dem fit continue like dis all nite

MrCrackles:




English Language just died!

big_bumper:

Dafidi, go and read the girl's story again, especially the first post Like I said the rest of her posts is her trying to win him back cos she thinks she has lost him, and hence is ready to downplay the guy's fault, check the thread title na

C2H5OH:

I too would be worried if a woman I intend to marry is serving another guy breakfast in his bedroom at 8am.  To top it off, knowing she calls him honey and sweetheart would make me declare a state of emergency.

~Sauron~:

There is nothing more to this story.
The babe is a little SLUT.
If she cannot babe up to take the guy's calls, i dunno why y'all expect her to own up she was shagging her male friend.

mandycini:

I have been in a relationship with this guy for sometime now,we really meant business in this relationship cos we designed to marry each other,at a point i became careless with the affair cos of reasons I thought were reason enough ,he spoke to me severally over my actions but somehow I just didnt see myself listening ,partly because i was inexperienced and partly cos i thought there wasnt any need for the talks cos part [size=14pt]though a very little part of his talks have been bothering on his being able to trust me with my male friends[/size] which am 1 million percent sure i have absolutely nothing with them,I mean I love this guy but i would accept i was careless.The last straw that broke the carmels back was that one  morning he called me,i was supposed to be at work but was just chilling with a friend(male) nothing was going on,he asked where i was i said i was with a friend,[size=14pt]and he asked could he know my friends name [/size] ,i found myself cutting the call,he called severally i kept busying the call,somehow i felt somehow telling him my friends name while my friend was there and [size=14pt]knowing fully well that he wouldnt let go untill i tell him whom i was with and knowing him,he could possibly ask to speak with the person,[/size] am not doing anything with these guy i was with he was just a friend, but this has destroyed my relationship with the man i love, am not saying i was right in my actions but i dont know what to do to win him back, i suddenly realised all he has been telling me, everything now makes sense, i cant imagine throwing away the dreams we shared ,the plans we made , this thing is killing me, please advice me , what do i do to get him be the loving, caring and patient guy he always was.

tope5000:

Dont let michelin89 see that
I know she is shagging that 'male friend' it obvious

big_bumper:


iN RESPONSE TO THE THREE POINTS HIGHLIGHTED ABOVE;

*He does not trust her having male friends, WAS SHE A PROSTITUTE BEFORE?

*Yes she was supposed to be at work, but when the guy called her, she told him she was with a friend, WHY DID HE WANT TO KNOW THE FRIEND'S NAME

* She cut the phone because not only would he have asked for the friend's name, he would have also requested to speak to them

IS THIS A NORMAL BEHAVIOUR

~Sauron~:

Michelin should GROW UP!!!
She needs counselling.

~Sauron~:

Michelin should GROW UP!!!
She needs counselling.

~Sauron~:

Michelin should GROW UP!!!