wavemasta:

The whole "insecurity" card seems to be overplayed. Most people here throw it around like they just heard the word.
This is a marriage bound relationship. To get there, theres been a lot of sacrifices and trust involved.
To tell a lie about who you were with, is unjustifiable. And calling her male friends pet names in front of the guy?
Does she respect him at all? Except if it was a joke and he knew about it.
And she wont be on NL spilling her guts if she was right.
Male friends or friends of the opposite sex are ok, but in this case she compromised her integrity.
Drop the "insecure" word.
And FYI, no one is 100% secure. When you love with all your heart, a little insecurity always lies there. The only thing is not to let it control you.
That doesn't apply to this case.
The girls BF had every right to act the way he did. I wonder how many of you actually respect the meaning of relationships, and whether or
not you respect those you claim to love.
Abeg!

michelin89:

@ tope, sauron and david

I can see how grown up you are.

I really hope I won't become like you.

michelin89:

@ tope, sauron and david

I can see how grown up you are.

I really hope I won't become like you.

wavemasta:

The whole "insecurity" card seems to be overplayed. Most people here throw it around like they just heard the word.
This is a marriage bound relationship. To get there, theres been a lot of sacrifices and trust involved.
To tell a lie about who you were with, is unjustifiable. And calling her male friends pet names in front of the guy?
Does she respect him at all? Except if it was a joke and he knew about it.
And she wont be on NL spilling her guts if she was right.
Male friends or friends of the opposite sex are ok, but in this case she compromised her integrity.
Drop the "insecure" word.
And FYI, no one is 100% secure. When you love with all your heart, a little insecurity always lies there. The only thing is not to let it control you.
That doesn't apply to this case.
The girls BF had every right to act the way he did. I wonder how many of you actually respect the meaning of relationships, and whether or
not you respect those you claim to love.
Abeg!

michelin89:

@tope
I wonder what you are on Nl for. I have never seen you say anything important. Always backing up the usual sauron, david and weak acid and you have gained notoriety. Ahahhahahha! Very typical. You are like the Paris Hilton of NL. All smoke---pardon---all boobs and no fire.

Me sef nor mind you.  

follypimpi:

Michelin tires are always very tuff and rough.  

tope5000:

DEATH
Yes i am NL's paris hilton
bet u wish u were in my shoes i can always posted u a [b]padded bra to uplift ur A- CU[/b]P

~Sauron~:

They also puncture after too much wear and tear.

michelin89:

Ahahahha! Masses. Let one stand out and everyone will shout immature because she has refused to dance to your tune. I am very glad I am different and don't mind it at all. Tomorrow I'll still come back to say the same things I have said.

@tope
I wonder what you are on Nl for. I have never seen you say anything important. Always backing up the usual sauron, david and weak acid and you have gained notoriety. Ahahhahahha! Very typical. You are like the Paris Hilton of NL. All smoke---pardon---all boobs and no fire.

Me sef nor mind you.  

astuto:

You guys are giving me d impression dat u are still hurting from michelin89's remarks. Mind u, she/he is no longer there, i think. so u are just bouncing back ur posts at urselves. Hmmmm

kay_pumpin:

Seems been "secured" is now a synonym for stupidity.

davidylan:

Do you understand what a relationship is at all? Its not about playing bf and gf like many of you think. It is a serious business that requires love, trust, respect and SACRIFICE.

~Sauron~:

Why don't you shut your mouth if you have nothing reasonable to say?

kay_pumpin:

Seems been "secured" is now a synonym for stupidity.

kay_pumpin:

Seems been "secured" is now a synonym for stupidity.

wavemasta:

I wonder oh. The 'secured' guy is the one who ignores the obvious signs right in front of him and swallows it all.

Its a small wonder why divorce rates are soaring high.

ibkaye:

The poster did not mention that the guy was possessive so we cannot assume such things, I do not blame the guy for his actions, It also did not say that he forbid her from keeping male friends, he just wanted to know the friend's name, that's all and she cut him off, he could have been been calling because he was worried in response to the sudden cut of the phone.

Poster, it is good that you recognise your mistakes, we're all human and all make mistakes, the best thing is to try to talk with each other, make up and improve on yourselves, work hard to make the relationship work, both of you.

wavemasta:

I wonder oh. The 'secured' guy is the one who ignores the obvious signs right in front of him and swallows it all.
Its a small wonder why divorce rates are soaring high.

~Sauron~:

IBKAYE??
What are you still doing out here at 11pm?
Go to bed before i count 3.

~Sauron~:

For a man to be secured these days, he must look the other way when another man is shagging his partner.

davidylan:

Would it be "normal behaviour" if your fiance was with another woman you didnt know at 8am in the morning? Answer pls.

big_bumper:

Hence the reason i said i do not totally support her act, but truth be told, the guy is a control freak.