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Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by Nobody: 11:52pm On May 25, 2009 |
oyinda.: when did he ever do this? Are you reading a different thread? tope5000: Everybody just dey talk their own . . . it doesnt matter if it has no bearing to what the OP posted. |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by Nobody: 11:54pm On May 25, 2009 |
People are just assuming, I'm sure that many people here did not actually read the poster's post, or rather, just skimmed through it, where on earth did the so called possessiveness etc come in? |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by Sauron1: 11:54pm On May 25, 2009 |
ibkaye: Follow me to bed? See this alakoba wavemasta: The Dark Lord hates any iota of dishonesty. |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by kaypumpin2(m): 11:54pm On May 25, 2009 |
wavemasta: The tell-tale signs are always there before the big crash. Ere ki l'aja n b'ekun se? What kinda male friend will my woman have that will require her "attention" as early as 8 am,to the point her primary assignment was relegated to the background wavemasta: I guess it is easier to maintain net gangsterism and play the devil's advocate than to maintain a healthy relationship nowadays. |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by astuto: 11:55pm On May 25, 2009 |
big_bumper:So say we all. |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by Nobody: 11:55pm On May 25, 2009 |
big_bumper: you never answered my question. What would YOU do? Be secure too? ibkaye: Even Ibkaye can see this. |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by Nobody: 11:55pm On May 25, 2009 |
~Sauron~:Ewuu, you go to your bed, I follow your lead and go to mine |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by tope5000: 11:56pm On May 25, 2009 |
davidylan: Lmao . . . . i had to go and read the story again cuz i dont remember where the guy told the poster to only talk to girls |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by Nobody: 11:57pm On May 25, 2009 |
I don't think some people read this thread at all. The OPs boyfriend never banned her from talking to guys. Up till that day, he never called her to disturb her when she was chilling with her friends. The guy just would give her advice, so she wouldnt be taken advantage of. Thats what a correct BF would do. The OP admitted something like that (being taken adv of) had happened before. The bf didnt do any wrong. I am sure the people defending the OP are people who do the same to their loved ones. If you want an excellent relationship, then pay the price. Else, remain free. And please read the OPs posts before bashing anyone. Not getting the facts right before talking is one of the things which can kill a relationship, and thats what some of you are doing. |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by tope5000: 11:57pm On May 25, 2009 |
davidylan: Thats because she is NL's baby paris hilton |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by C2H5OH(f): 11:58pm On May 25, 2009 |
oyinda.:Tsk tsk. I strongly disagree. He is not stupid. She was not banned. You tried to inject your own meaning into the post. The boyfriend never said she can only talk to girls. The girl said "a very little part of his talks have been bothering on his being able to trust me with my male friends" . Keywords: A VERY LITTLE PART. He simply expressed his feelings to his girl about her inner dealings with members of the male species. You should be able to express yourself in a serious relationship. |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by Nobody: 11:58pm On May 25, 2009 |
tope5000:See your mouth |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by Sauron1: 11:58pm On May 25, 2009 |
kay_pumpin: 8 am in the morning? Cheese n Rice. She prolly went there to take her black coffee and cream. Let's face it, some women have no decorum. ibkaye: I won't let you send me to Prison. |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by Nobody: 11:59pm On May 25, 2009 |
~Sauron~:Look see, I'm not jailbait, I'm like almost clocking 30 even |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by Sauron1: 12:00am On May 26, 2009 |
ibkaye: Like HSBC, i need your proof of identity. |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by oyinda3(f): 12:00am On May 26, 2009 |
part of his talks have been bothering on his being able to trust me with my male friends which am 1 million percent sure i have absolutely nothing with them, I guess he didn't "say" it. But it is implied from her post that her bf doesn't want her to see her male friends. And that's why she couldn't tell him where she was when she went to see her male friend instead of going to work. I mean if she was with her female friend she wouldn't find herself "cutting the call" or have problems telling her bf the truth. |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by tope5000: 12:01am On May 26, 2009 |
~Sauron~: lol maybe she just decided to bunk work n hang out with her male friend too |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by C2H5OH(f): 12:02am On May 26, 2009 |
kay_pumpin:LOL |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by Nobody: 12:04am On May 26, 2009 |
oyinda.: no one but you can imply such a far fetched untruth. She couldnt tell him where she was because even she realised it wouldnt make sense . . . at a man's house at 8am when you shld be in school? Puhlease. |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by tope5000: 12:05am On May 26, 2009 |
oyinda.: can u pls copy n paste the poster's story and bold the places where that was said. |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by oyinda3(f): 12:05am On May 26, 2009 |
davidylan: it's funny how she never mentioned 8am in her post. All she said was morning. . lol and she was supposed to be at work. The quote from her post below shows that the boyfriend doesn't like her to visit her male friends. part of his talks have been bothering on his being able to trust me with my male friends which am 1 million percent sure i have absolutely nothing with them, |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by follypimpi(m): 12:08am On May 26, 2009 |
oyinda.: So cutting the phone is now the best option Here comes another Michelin in disguise. |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by oyinda3(f): 12:09am On May 26, 2009 |
tope5000: funny how you found 8am (falsehood) in her post but you didn't see the parts that are more crucial to her story.
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Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by tope5000: 12:10am On May 26, 2009 |
oyinda.: Well if she didnt have anything to hide why this?
if she has nothing to hide. . . he wud let the guy speak to her friend @oyinda I dont care if it was 10am . . . what she did was fishy |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by C2H5OH(f): 12:10am On May 26, 2009 |
oyinda.:My 20-20 vision disagrees. We must be reading different posts. |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by Nobody: 12:12am On May 26, 2009 |
oyinda.: those are minor overlooked details that dont detract from the main points at all. oyinda.: Now this is a serious flaw as it is basically your own opinion. Her post does not convey any such claims. |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by oyinda3(f): 12:12am On May 26, 2009 |
follypimpi: no one said that. that's why I said they were both at fault. If she hadn't cheated on him before, she would be able to tell him where she was w/o any fear. call the rest of your gang and jump on me then. mtchew |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by Nobody: 12:14am On May 26, 2009 |
I have been in a relationship with this guy for sometime now,we really meant business in this relationship cos we designed to marry each other,at a point i became careless with the affair cos of reasons I thought were reason enough ,he spoke to me severally over my actions but somehow I just didnt see myself listening ,partly because i was inexperienced and partly cos i thought there wasnt any need for the talks cos part though a very little part of his talks have been bothering on his being able to trust me with my male friends which am 1 million percent sure i have absolutely nothing with them,The poster stated that he has not really been able to trust her with her male friends, not that he neccesarily banned her from seeing any of them and with behaviour such as skipping work to visit her male friend and cutting the phone when all he did was simply ask for the friend's name, who could blame him. He has a reason to not really trust her with her male friends, let's be realistic about this, the guy is only human, plus, this is someone he has discussed marriage with, not some short term fling, he needs all the trust he can get, give him a break. |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by Nobody: 12:15am On May 26, 2009 |
ibkaye: Ibk . . . na wa o . . . you get sense pass all these people. |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by oyinda3(f): 12:16am On May 26, 2009 |
davidylan: yes it does detract from the main point. 8am is very early in the morning and a suspicious time to be with a male friend unless there is reason behind it rather than just chilling The context in which the specific time was used is also evident of what Kay_pumpin was implying. read his post below: What kinda male friend will my woman have that will require her "attention" as early as 8 am,to the point her primary assignment was relegated to the background The poster never mentioned that she rushed urgently to a guy's house very early in the morning when all she said was that she was chilling at her male friend's house in the morning. those two different scenarios imply two different things. |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by follypimpi(m): 12:17am On May 26, 2009 |
oyinda.: How on Earth is the dude @ Fault He's playing his role as a real MAN. he has never asked me to put them on phone,he doesnt even call me to know whom i was with,that day was the first, i just had the feelings he might cos he had been talking on the issue,his main argument was that i should be careful cos of my inexperience people may make me do what i do not want to do, and it makes absolute sense cos i have experienced it He his in no WAY insecure but doing his JOB. I guess you wont mind if you call your boyfie up about 8am in the morning and his having Crunchie |
Re: What Do I Do To Win Back His Trust! by tope5000: 12:19am On May 26, 2009 |
davidylan: LOL Sista michellin wont be ibkaye's friend anymore |
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