Mrs.Chima:





A Black American woman dissed you huh? Nurse your hurt suga and bandage those wounds. I understand. Rejection is a mofo huh.

Mrs.Chima:

Those Nigerian girls love THAT MONEY you borrowed to flash.  It isn't YOU suga unless they are village girls because I know for a fact intellectual Nigerian women WOULDN'T EVEN spit on you if you was on fire.  

Mrs.Chima:

PureOhio,

Tom28 is the spokesperson of Jerry Lewis Kids Foundation. He has issues not only with Black American women, but man-lover men and white people. He stated in other threads that the only reason Nigerian men date white women is for papers. He is obsessed with HIV infection, (I think he is HIV positive but that a different thread) and man-lover men.
Akata with the igbo name is still mad .I just hope your sojourn on nairaland will fetch you a nigerian husband, haha!

Please do not take offense to ANYTHING he say. Even his OWN Nigerian brothers called him shameless IN OTHER THREADS. Now that pathetic.

Mrs.Chima:

PureOhio,

Tom28 is the spokesperson of Jerry Lewis Kids Foundation. He has issues not only with Black American women, but man-lover men and white people. He stated in other threads that the only reason Nigerian men date white women is for papers. He is obsessed with HIV infection, (I think he is HIV positive but that a different thread) and man-lover men.

Please do not take offense to ANYTHING he say. Even his OWN Nigerian brothers called him shameless IN OTHER THREADS. Now that pathetic.

tom28:

The girls i dated were undergraduates while i was in the university and i also dated a lady that worked in the bank and by the way u really dont need to look down at the village girls in naija because they have more class than a ghetto queen from the projects

tom28:

Hahaha you wish .Why in the world would i hit on a 48 yr old middle aged woman who is hitting menopause when there are younger more beautiful women around.I am just saying that the anger and frustration among you black american women tend to increase as u get older.Damm it must really suck being middleaged and lonely

tom28:

So those nigerians who are going to whoop my Bottom are they staying in your crib mrs chima?
Dont make me laugh because you nothing but all mouth .I recall some time ago a user in here referred to you as a m0nkey and you did nothing about it.I am going to speak my mind and if u dont like it there"s the X button you f00lish akata

tom28:

This akata with the igbo name is still mad.Well i just hope your sojourn on nairaland fetches you a nigerian husband, haha!

PureOhio:

tom28, why are you making all these generalizations?!

This has got to be by far one of the most disrespectful things I have ever heard on this thread. My mother is nothing like the women you've described. I've seen my fair share of loud and obnoxious Nigerian women but I don't say all of them are like them. Please stop making these generalizations about people. As a black man, I'm sure white people look at you as a black person and make horrible assumptions about you

tom28:

I have no issues with you and i do believe you might be  a respectable young lady and if what i am saying offends you i apologize but then i have no choice than to insult someone if she insults me.Its what is called bosoms for tats .Iam  just getting under the skin of that frustrated middle aged tranny(mrs chima)

tom28:

haha you so easy to piss off and you take this site too damm seriously.Just whats it about u akata women and your uncontrolled anger, lmbao!! :

Mrs.Chima:

You will have to d :Dan CALLING ME FRUSTRATED AND MIDDLE AGED to get under my skin.  You needs to be original and stop stealing other people's attempted words/insuljavascript:void(0);t.
 
Others who are TEN TIMES better than you intellectually have attempted to "get under my skin" and failed.  I do not take INTERNET serious and personal.   

Try again and HARDER, GRANDPA.   (I wouldn't hold my breath)

I know I am getting under YOUR SKIN though.  

tom28:

hell yea i am a 30 yr old grandpa , lmbao!!!

Mrs.Chima:

Dog years do not count, Grandpa.      How's the hot flashes? 

How many of your daughters/sons had children out of wedlock, Grampy?

tom28:

i am a young grandpa, haha!

tom28:

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=694530.msg8572914#msg8572914 date=1308806TRY HARDER, Grandpa.  Ask for assistance.  You WISH I would take t.  Keep dreaming Jerry Jr.

It should be papa jr and not jerry jr so learn it

tom28:

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=694530.msg8572914#msg8572914 date=1308806TRY HARDER, Grandpa.  Ask for assistance.  You WISH I would take t.  Keep dreaming Jerry Jr.

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For a moment i thought you might suffer a heart attack but then thank God you cooling off now .AnywaY i am off for now

tom28:

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For a moment i thought you might suffer a heart attack but then thank God you cooling off now .AnywaY i am off for now

Mrs.Chima:

You are a dummy who said Cubans aren't hispanic!   

It was priceless when you said 100,000 Black Americans beats 25 million Africans in the HIV infection race.  I shared what you said on another site and you was the hot topic for 1 week straight.  I shared some posts you wrote and white people thought you was a backwood nigger from Mississippi. 

I didn't even tell them what you were until after it dies down and they were like most Nigerian men are smart that couldn't be true.   

kandiikane:

Why do so many Akatas like using the "N" word on others some much? Only  ghettos use that sh[i]i[/i]t.

tom28:

As if you Americans are anyway intelligent.If i recall some few months ago Sarah Palin was arguing on tv that africa is a country while your Britney spears was saying africa is in japan .If these ppl are your representatives what can it be said about the average yank? I Have seen americans acting stup1d on the streets and on tv and it really dont matter about race because both akatas and wh1te yankee trash act both the same way.When you see wh1te trash then you know thats an american for sure. .Anyway we go have our discussion later

Mrs.Chima:

You are Sarah Palin in a man's body. LMAO@using Sarah Palin and Britney Spears as an example w and act hen they are slow just like him.

According to you, America is trashy but BUT YOUR PEOPLE leaving their country in droves. If Americans are academically inept then why would YOUR PEOPLE choose American education system? China/Japan is tough to scam into huh?

You are trash and you are not American.

Mrs.Chima:

So the Africans, Oyinbos, Asians, Hispanics, Arabs, and Native Americans that uses the Nigger word are ghetto too huh?  

Take your time.  

Mrs.Chima:

You are Sarah Palin in a man's body.   LMAO@using Sarah Palin and Britney Spears as an example when they are slow just like him.  

Mrs.Chima:

You are Sarah Palin in a man's body. LMAO@using Sarah Palin and Britney Spears as an example when they are slow just like him.



You are trash and you are not American.

Amya:

Mrs.chima  and tom28 get a room!

tom28:

And why would i want to be an American?
Your country has no culture and no identity.Many young black american kids these days have no black role model to look up to and your rappers tell your kids that the only way to make it is to go into the street b!tch up some niggah and make your money in crooked means.They tell u that school is only for whiteys and that real black men are gangsters .Not everybody is despirate in being an american

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Read my statements again - you will see that I DIDN'T LUMP as I intentionally chose the words a "large majority" ---- if you don't fall in that majority-----good for you.  My experiences with African men have been very good NOTHING NARROW about them.  From these very African men, those I dated and those I befriended every single one of them confirmed the negative image they had from their personal experience and/or their "heard of experiences" of AA's as a group.


You are still projecting your narrow experiences  as the standard occurrence in African vs AA relationships. You cannot claim to have dated or befriended majority of African men in the US or have you? So your experiences are very minuscule,so  when you make bold statements like majority of Africans have negatives views about AAs, you should have some facts to back it up. Having said that, Africans are more likely to be stereotyped in US than AAs-- Africans have more image problems in the US than AAs. In Nigeria for example, most people have  a very favorable view of Americans (black, white, yellow, green)> Nigerians who come to the US form their views based on what they see, but most Americans  form their opinion about Africans based on what's shown on TV without  going to Africa.

  Additionally, I have also spoken to Africans from Ghana, Zimbabwe, Malawi, Nigeria, Ethiopia, Rwanda-----the media has given AA's such a negative image and many of those same AAs have bought into that downward spiral----views of our ethnicity are global so I definitely can speak of this, the U.S. has been the largest superpower for as far back as I can recall and those of my ancestors can recall. 

Media outlets in Nigeria nay Africa are  not obsessed with AA's image problems. The news is not always tailored to highlight problems in AA communities, as such, most   Nigerians do not have preconceived bad image of AAs.

The U.S. pushed that viewpoint (read your U.S. History books) to other nations ----- so I can safely speak on a wholistic (not holistic - used more medicinally speaking) level.

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/holistic. In the context of holistic view ,  not wholistic view

  Globally there is a negative "prevailing view" amongst cultures including black cultures in 3rd world countries that AA's are undesirable on different levels.  As an AA I can state that without emotion as I like to face claims especially false ones.  I don't live in the dark----I want to see the hole before I step into it.  I'm not one to see something and turn away as though it isn't there.  If you don't answer the falsities they still persist.  I answer them right away.  Those countries that methodically without question kiss the azz. of the U.S. have bought into that view of AA's.

Your views are still skewed. Me against the world. To be honest with you, most people in 3rd world countries would love to trade positions with Americans nay AAs. I dont know what you are talking about.

@ OP - if a few measly miles of travel has put these guys off of you, your beauty, your intellect and your ethnicity------TRUST ME  that isn't the lot you want or need.  A man who loves to travel should be one of the qualities you like in a mate.  Travel expands the horizon on so many different levels --- all involved benefit.  If a small distance played a factor of showing "disinterest" - run from the despot, pathetic bunch.  I never met an African in the U.S. that saw distance as a hinderance

It's all about economics. Some people are not open to long distance relationships cos of time, money,intimacy and availability.