xxxtedyxxx: Hey pals...am teddy..aka sweetpapa. The purpose of this thread is to improve our dating game; and if u r aving any dating bottle-necks..u can tell us here and get ur advice. First tins first..pls no insults..if u don't like a post,simple ignore it. Let's help one another. Am gona be posting stuffs dat hav worked for me over the Years. Thankx for stopping by.

Note: IF U INSULT ME--- I GO SWEAR FOR UR DESTINY..Lols

bro..how do i attract gals while chatting with them on facebook and can you give me examples of wat to say wen i want to start a conversation wit them for the first tym

xxxtedyxxx:

@ a point..u will need to talk to her...one on one. Chatting is gud, but don't be limited to just normal I'm stuffs. Read pages 9-12.

my guy you are doing a good job. I posted an issue of mine some time last week and you gave a solution and amazingly it worked but I am having another issue .This girl is now my girlfriend we just started dating but she chats with me everyday I mean every time so In order not to talk talk and talk to each other too much I now scoped her today that my phone has crashed so as to have a reason not to chat with her. so that she can miss me a liltle bit. at least for a week . I want to know did I do the right thing? if not how should I rectify it.

clemmonce: my guy you are doing a good job. I posted an issue of mine some time last week and you gave a solution and amazingly it worked but I am having another issue .This girl is now my girlfriend we just started dating but she chats with me everyday I mean every time so In order not to talk talk and talk to each other too much I now scoped her today that my phone has crashed so as to have a reason not to chat with her. so that she can miss me a liltle bit. at least for a week . I want to know did I do the right thing? if not how should I rectify it.

what you did was very right. But instead of lying about your phone crashing. Why don't you lie with another thing, because she can see you online at anytime and that could be a serious problem if she detect you are lying. You can say you want to prepare for a professional course. So as to boost ur educational career ( she ll think of you as a person who have plan and future. And she ll get to like u more) that you want to prepare your self. Or you can just lie about something meaning full. It will be like using two stone to kill one bird( to one stone to kill two birds) MY KOBO

Hey hi guys... A girl in my hood hurt my ego, the first time i had a conversation with her she snub me so i chill out that was around February yesterday i saw her we had a nice conversation but she said she will give me her number next time we meet, so yesterday i saw her friends i told em i wish to see her they should help me call her out coz she stay in hostel but unfortunately it rained, today i saw her but to my surprise i call her she snub me again saying why should i come to her hostel with out her permission she yell on me... I like her and i can sense it she likes me too.. But i don't know her problem i feel so embarrassed what should i do .?

Kcblunt: Hey hi guys... A girl in my hood hurt my ego, the first time i had a conversation with her she snub me so i chill out that was around February yesterday i saw her we had a nice conversation but she said she will give me her number next time we meet, so yesterday i saw her friends i told em i wish to see her they should help me call her out coz she stay in hostel but unfortunately it rained, today i saw her but to my surprise i call her she snub me again saying why should i come to her hostel with out her permission she yell on me... I like her and i can sense it she likes me too.. But i don't know her problem i feel so embarrassed what should i do .?

take things easy bro...before you turn to a pest

Please I need ur advice on this one, I ve known this girl for about a year now and we have just been friends in school. She seems to like me and shows interest wen am near,even has a nickname for me. Now we are done schooling and we reside in the same city. I asked her for a date at an eatery last week and she obliged me. On a second date,I told her of my love for her,she asked wen exactly i started loving her,i replied that its been since we met back then in school but I wudnt want to further it then cos of familiarity, then she told me that she likes me but wudnt want to jump into a serious relationship with me so as not to make a mistake,cos according to her,once u are in,u are in. She said she is not gonna give a straight answer but its best we remain friends and allow our friendship to grow into a serious one, Am confused at her responses and dont know my fate now. I never expected that at all,so I jst told her I will respect her opinion. please,wat are my chances with her.I really love her. Thanks for ur informed and invaluable helps to us all.

Montaque: Please I need ur advice on this one, I ve known this girl for about a year now and we have just been friends in school. She seems to like me and shows interest wen am near,even has a nickname for me. Now we are done schooling and we reside in the same city. I asked her for a date at an eatery last week and she obliged me. On a second date,I told her of my love for her,she asked wen exactly i started loving her,i replied that its been since we met back then in school but I wudnt want to further it then cos of familiarity, then she told me that she likes me but wudnt want to jump into a serious relationship with me so as not to make a mistake,cos according to her,once u are in,u are in. She said she is not gonna give a straight answer but its best we remain friends and allow our friendship to grow into a serious one, Am confused at her responses and dont know my fate now. I never expected that at all,so I jst told her I will respect her opinion. please,wat are my chances with her.I really love her. Thanks for ur informed and invaluable helps to us all.

I pray you don't get friendzone,just start acting like her boyfriend....my 2cents

I ve already started out that way,but u know the intrigue that follows that,telling her u love her and she keeps acting indifferent,wont explain herself to u and u wont concretise wat u ve wit her. How do i solve dis?please

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clemmonce:
nice job bro. I am having an issue now. I dating a girl now we just started dating. she is cool and she respects me very well and I know she loves me well recently we had a liltle I call liltle because it is just minor. we had a minor quarrel ,I was sick I told her I was sick but she did not call me for like one or one and half day so I called her and asked her why she didn't call me all this while she said she is sorry that she is also sick then I told her I want to see her she should come to my house , she then said she sick that she is not sure she will come that she wants to get her self well but she will call me to inform me if she won't come. na so I vex I was kind of angry with the response so i told her not come again thru SMS. then I just free her no call no sms, she knew I was angry so she chatted that she didnot hear from me all this while , that what. is problem, i said nothing she knew i was angry so we just chatted normally. today I told i want to come around tommorow she said yes instantly but my problem now is this. There is this liltle coldness between us . i think she is angry that I could I just go angry with her just like that, and just ignore her for some time just like that I she has this feeling also that i am angry. but i have not told her that she offended me, i just left things the way they are. But i have this feeling of coldness between us. what should I do to solve rhis problem

drink hot water...the coldness go disappear.


ps:am sure if she forget ur birthday u will get angry...u ain't ready for a relationship jawe

Guys I'll like to say this very little thingy....actually its a reminder cuz it has been said b4*shout out to TeddY*... As we are all trying to master d skillz ov wooing from page 1 to here...1 very important one is dat...if she no dey feel u..she no dey feel u. Have that mentality that IF SHE SAYS NO ITS NOT A BIG DEAL...all u gotta do iz ONTO DA NEXT ONE...I no be pro yet oh...its just that yestday I got numbaz ov 2girls(in these two cases it seemed like a dream like say no be me)...nd I got bounced by 1...in essence wht I'm iz. D point for it iz don't love just yet...do a little bit ov try and see...play around be a player!

thank God I found u today

teamup:
thank God I found u today

dead thread

JohnnySarz:
dead thread

is not dead johny ther re lot to learn inside

Dead thread keh! Game never dies. Av just been busy...NYSC..I don't spend much time online like before..but pop tins...soon...few months to go...


am back n better..so let's roll

mrsuperswag:
Guys I'll like to say this very little thingy....actually its a reminder cuz it has been said b4*shout out to TeddY*... As we are all trying to master d skillz ov wooing from page 1 to here...1 very important one is dat...if she no dey feel u..she no dey feel u. Have that mentality that IF SHE SAYS NO ITS NOT A BIG DEAL...all u gotta do iz ONTO DA NEXT ONE...I no be pro yet oh...its just that yestday I got numbaz ov 2girls(in these two cases it seemed like a dream like say no be me)...nd I got bounced by 1...in essence wht I'm iz. D point for it iz don't love just yet...do a little bit ov try and see...play around be a player!

Yea u r right. Dating is a numbers game. just because u didn't succeed with an approach doesn't mean the next two u engage in won't succeed.

Its all about trials and rejection. Its better to try....than to just sit there and watch a chick pass u by. Even if u get blown...at least...you approached her. By doing that, you are stretching your comfort zone; and telling your brain not to get anxious wen it comes to making approaches.

Nastydroid:
drink hot water...the coldness go disappear.


ps:am sure if she forget ur birthday u will get angry...u ain't ready for a relationship jawe

Calm down bro..we r here to support each other, and not the other way round. Relax

Been a while pass...miss u all...am sorry if I avent replied some posts. Will do dat very soon.

Take dis my facebook opener. It works fine wen u use it on fbook chat...and not messages. Cos it works better with instant replies. She is bound to reply 7O percent of the time. Then u can hook the convo..and take tins from there. Read pages 0-12.

Here is the line " I wud av poked you, but thats be a bit long. hello, i saw your profile and thought, goddamn, shes gorgeous! so i had to send you a message or I wud be regreting it, im <insert ur name here>

Not using ur real name on fbook..creates more mystery.

Don't forget...facebook is a numbers game too.. So play some random game. Don't just send it to only one babe, and say it doesn't work. Try like 2O...and see the ones dat will pull through with a reply. Den hook the convo

xxxtedyxxx:


Calm down bro..we r here to support each other, and not the other way round. Relax

alrite bro,btw welcome back

Thanx






Keep it coming guys.

xxxtedyxxx:
Thanx






Keep it coming guys.

it will be really cool if you could resurrect this thread bro.. We all missed u

Nastydroid:
I pray you don't get friendzone,just start acting like her boyfriend....my 2cents

Gbam!

xxxtedyxxx:
Dead thread keh! Game never dies. Av just been busy...NYSC..I don't spend much time online like before..but pop tins...soon...few months to go...


am back n better..so let's roll

thnk God u're stil alive, was beginning 2 wonder if somtin bad has hapened dat i haven't been seein u online..... hw ur service

Hello teddy. Great work kudos to you man. I really need your help on this. I met this girl at a school program and asked her to help me with a suggestion on getting a birthday gift for a friend (just to get a convo started) after complimenting on her hair style.well she gave me an idea and we had a little chat. I asked for her phone number and she accepted giving me her phone number ok.but my phone was off.so i decided she should write it on my the end of my sleeve. She took a pen out of her bag and did that. We hugged later on and went ways after the goodbyes. I called her the following day in the afternoon. And after introducing myself, she said oh ok. And asked me that " so what do you want to tell me". And after that, she ended the call. I tried her line immediately but no answer. I tried it in about 10 minutes time as i thought maybe she was busy but still no reply. I haven't contacted her again for close to 5 days now. I'm so confused about her reaction and i don't know what to do. What buffles me is that she even told me the department she was in and told me to come to her class on Monday.so that we could talk about the birthday gift i wanted to get for my friend. And also, we starred at each other from the beginning of the program to almost the end of which i.mastered courage to approach her.I'm so confused right now. Please do help me out. Cox i really
want this girl to be mine.

Kell792:
Hello teddy. Great work kudos to you man. I really need your help on this. I met this girl at a school program and asked her to help me with a suggestion on getting a birthday gift for a friend (just to get a convo started) after complimenting on her hair style.well she gave me an idea and we had a little chat. I asked for her phone number and she accepted giving me her phone number ok.but my phone was off.so i decided she should write it on my the end of my sleeve. She took a pen out of her bag and did that. We hugged later on and went ways after the goodbyes. I called her the following day in the afternoon. And after introducing myself, she said oh ok. And asked me that " so what do you want to tell me". And after that, she ended the call. I tried her line immediately but no answer. I tried it in about 10 minutes time as i thought maybe she was busy but still no reply. I haven't contacted her again for close to 5 days now. I'm so confused about her reaction and i don't know what to do. What buffles me is that she even told me the department she was in and told me to come to her class on Monday.so that we could talk about the birthday gift i wanted to get for my friend. And also, we starred at each other from the beginning of the program to almost the end of which i.mastered courage to approach her.I'm so confused right now. Please do help me out. Cox i really
want this girl to be mine.

Don't be confused. Your confusion will only make u start feeling desperate. Relax..chill...bro

U played d game well..u did fine..kudus.

When she told u..."So what did u wana tell me"?

Did u tell her anytin?...

I feel she was expecting you to go direct ryt there.

" It was fun meeting u...wud be cool see u smile again..over a table for two"

Something like dat wud av sparked her interest.

When a girl doesn't pick ur call..it doesn't mean she don't wana answer or talk to u. She might really be busy...give her a few days off..like 2-3days...den reinstate d convo...with sth about ur first interaction.
From d beginning ur game was indirect, den it became direct...but u now acted indirect again.

You shud try and be congruent with approaches. It aint easy..I still make dat mistake a few times.





"Hey...miss runaway...how's ur day been..I get d feeling u r shy girl who likes to take tins easy...hope u r smiling..will talk to u later.."


Den u can call her later. Am sure she is gona be receptive. Make her miss u. Don't be desperate. Game other chicks. If u don't av other chicks..u gona start acting desperate and needy.

Ok. But i didn't get the chance to even say a word. As i was about talking, she cut the Call. So what do i do now. Should i text her or call her or go search for her class.and from my previous message does anything look like she's interested? I always mess up when i really like a girl. So what do i do next. She's on whatsapp but i haven't sent her a text

Line for direct game.


"You are absolutely gorgeous, I had to meet you. I'm xxteddy"


U just state ur interest straight up. Knowing how to pull through with a convo..can help a lot. So use her replies to get other stuffs to talk about.


Stage1 stage 2...stage 3....analoguous to ...opener, tease her,maker her laugh, initate little rapport, den u close...get her nbr,bbpin..etc..


I prefer getting her whatsapp nbr...to Bbpins. Bbm sucks. Go for d nbr, cos u can still call her after a moment of whastapping.

Ok bro. I'll take the leap of faith

Ok I'll take the leap of faith then

Kell792:
Ok. But i didn't get the chance to even say a word. As i was about talking, she cut the Call. So what do i do now. Should i text her or call her or go search for her class.and from my previous message does anything look like she's interested? I always mess up when i really like a girl. So what do i do next. She's on whatsapp but i haven't sent her a text

Yea she is...if a girl isn't interested..she won't comply. Its just d fact, she complied wen she wrote ur nbr on ur sleeve. Dts a plus.

Just meeting a girl, and liking her will only make u desperate. Learn to lay back..and see if she is worth.

U r probably kinda getting desperate wen u see girls u like.. Learn to av dat abundance mentality. There r millions of girls out there bro. Don't put all ur eggs in one basket.


Game many girls @ d same time. Don't dull.


Chill for a while..den text her, like I said. Give her a call later. Just chat normal. Don't tell her u missed her oh.

Kell792:
Ok I'll take the leap of faith then

Yea dts d spirit