jmoore:
Remember to give her pension if she breaks up with you.

freecocoa:
Na wa o.

This dating seems to be a very lucrative business o, I've never been in that place where a guy gives me money constantly as a bf, talk more of salary, abeg make una let me in on the secret na, e be like say I dey dull o.

boynigeria:

first of all u dont look like u make 30k not to talk of sending a babe that much, sorry to say that
plus are u married to her or ready to marry her soon(by soon i mean in d next 6 months)
cos i feel its a lot of responsibility...its not like im saying u should not spend for her o but it should be spontanous mehn.
ive paid for my ex's masters fee before so its not like im against spending for ur chic
but to me it should be like u feel she doesnt have money u send to her, u have excess u send, u take her out, shopping and stuf but monthly alawe kee, when shes not doing her NYSC in ur room

smvinreal:
If you up to the task i don't see anything bad in that

Anazoric:
Sounds like a made up story.. Monthly allowance at 23.. which country do you reside and what do you do for a living.. is she an Orphan? Is she one of the displaced rescued girls from Sambisa forest? You will regret this terribly.

Take it from me, a woman.

adrainuche:


Please this is not a case of magarism

crowns2:

Have you mastered the art of giving a mind blowing B.J and twisting waist while horse ridding? While you are at it and the man is screaming: 'take the lexus, take the cheque, my money is yours, my life is yours, do what you want with me', all because of the earth shattering orgasms you are giving him? LOL You need to get that skill gurl

Just kidding......just being naughty today

Ishilove:
You have set a dangerous precedent. Doesn't she have parents to assist her? 30k is more than some people's monthly salary. Asides that, it seems she is only with you for the money. The money is what is keeping the relationship together, and the day you're unable to keep up with your financial responsibilities, things will fall apart.

You need to seriously wake up from your fool's dream because you strike me as being incredibly naïve.

I doubt this story though. It's too unrealistic and I find it hard to believe that such level of 'mumurism' exists in present day Nigeria. No offence.

AKMoney1:
Wait ooo, you are out of naija and sending money to a gf on a regular basis? Chisos



And one guy dey yansh the babe after cooking for him with your money and I hear say you no be Maga? Then you be certified mugu.



Na your type dey spoil this naija babes for us I swear, if una eventually break up the girl go dey find another person wey she go milk dry.


Woman wrapper

Sultannayef:
@ OP. I did exactly what you're doing now.. the only difference is her monthly allowance was way higher than what you're currently dishing out... I was young, naive, and stupidly in love.. that was 7 years ago. It's not worth it.. you will definitely regret it sooner or later. The long-run effect is killing. You have to stop by any means possible. And I bet you, if you stop giving her money, her attitude will change. I beg you in the name of God, stop!! Date ladies wherever you are and have fun. You're too young for this irresponsible responsibility.

adrainuche:
Its been more than a year since I started dating my present GF and money seems to be one of the major problem in our relationship ... There's no need to know which part of Nigeria she's from

Previously I send her money at will or when she asks but I noticed it was becoming too rampant and sometimes recursive, so I decided to place her on monthly allowances .

Another problem has boiled out she says she wants
30k per month so in 12 months (NVM) although to me its a bit better because previously am sure I send her more than 30k a month, ...

So please I want to know if its a good idea for one to place his GF on monthly allowances and how much is ideal I once insisted I slash her monthly allowance to 20 or 15k monthly but she nearly killed me

Some of my friends feel its a bad idea that it seems too formal like as if dating me is a job, she's 21 and am 23 , we are both in university tho I don't study in naija presently ...



Am sure some Elderly Folks may find this insipid am honestly sorry

adrainuche:
Its been more than a year since I started dating my present GF and money seems to be one of the major problem in our relationship ... There's no need to know which part of Nigeria she's from

Previously I send her money at will or when she asks but I noticed it was becoming too rampant and sometimes recursive, so I decided to place her on monthly allowances .

Another problem has boiled out she says she wants
30k per month so in 12 months (NVM) although to me its a bit better because previously am sure I send her more than 30k a month, ...

So please I want to know if its a good idea for one to place his GF on monthly allowances and how much is ideal I once insisted I slash her monthly allowance to 20 or 15k monthly but she nearly killed me

Some of my friends feel its a bad idea that it seems too formal like as if dating me is a job, she's 21 and am 23 , we are both in university tho I don't study in naija presently ...



Am sure some Elderly Folks may find this insipid am honestly sorry

giving her all your earnings don't matter to me. my major concern is, she ain't appreciating. People who don't appreciate and those with too much love for money don't fit into my life style. This applies for both genders.

This ain't different from soliciting a prostitute. The kinda authority she has, got to prove that you are paying for sex. Literarily, she said "if you don't pay me, no more sex. People with this trait hardly keep one guy. They move from one guy to the other like buhari trekkers moving from state to state.

She's more like auction. If your bid ain't good enough, she goes to the highest bidder.


Good luck my friend.

adrainuche:
Its been more than a year since I started dating my present GF and money seems to be one of the major problem in our relationship ... There's no need to know which part of Nigeria she's from

Previously I send her money at will or when she asks but I noticed it was becoming too rampant and sometimes recursive, so I decided to place her on monthly allowances .

Another problem has boiled out she says she wants
30k per month so in 12 months (NVM) although to me its a bit better because previously am sure I send her more than 30k a month, ...

So please I want to know if its a good idea for one to place his GF on monthly allowances and how much is ideal I once insisted I slash her monthly allowance to 20 or 15k monthly but she nearly killed me

Some of my friends feel its a bad idea that it seems too formal like as if dating me is a job, she's 21 and am 23 , we are both in university tho I don't study in naija presently ...



Am sure some Elderly Folks may find this insipid am honestly sorry

pak:


If there's a lady who has never for once disappointed on NL after years and years, it's ishilove!
May God continue to bless you

donttouch:
Seun:

Pla can u help remove/delete/wipe/erase my name from the list of those who visited this thread, because if my unborn children find out that I read this poo, they will disown me

adrainuche:
Its been more than a year since I started dating my present GF and money seems to be one of the major problem in our relationship ... There's no need to know which part of Nigeria she's from

Previously I send her money at will or when she asks but I noticed it was becoming too rampant and sometimes recursive, so I decided to place her on monthly allowances .

Another problem has boiled out she says she wants
30k per month so in 12 months (NVM) although to me its a bit better because previously am sure I send her more than 30k a month, ...

So please I want to know if its a good idea for one to place his GF on monthly allowances and how much is ideal I once insisted I slash her monthly allowance to 20 or 15k monthly but she nearly killed me

Some of my friends feel its a bad idea that it seems too formal like as if dating me is a job, she's 21 and am 23 , we are both in university tho I don't study in naija presently ...



Am sure some Elderly Folks may find this insipid am honestly sorry