temi4fash:


Bros... have you changed your principle of No sex?

Don't start what ypu cannot finish answer these we can know what to do in your case

Bros na fear things.....I am always afraid of what ll happen next

Good job guys.

judajix:




Bros na fear things.....I am always afraid of what ll happen next

Bros if you know you cant bear the consequence please stay out of it. Don't let one babe come and ruin your life oo..

Don't change very strong beliefs that has worked for you over time cos of babe.. And if you are make sure u know why u doing it.

temi4fash:


I doubt if youbhave been friendzoned but I think you guys would be moving towards the line of FWB..

the babe just likes you and don't blow it and don't take advantage of it.. just be cool and nice (not stupid)

Thanks mehn, you just gave me hope

Good job guys. Keep balling and keeping it real. Am back n better. Love u all....never giving up is the key...persistence is very important. Persistence without despiration....keep balling.

lapulgaatomica:
@4, what of in a situation when it's my gf and i'm the one doing all the investment and she picks a fight when i tell her about it?

u r d one doing all d job, dat means she is d one in control...to reverse d situation, don't act or react, even wen she is angry or upset and she puts everything on u, just smile and don't talk about it, d less u worry, d less real girls appreciate or like u. An example is if u ask a girl out on a date, she knows about d date already, u guys av planned about it, and @ d end of d day, she flakes, she doesn't show up and ur alll alone. Some guys will call her and start asking y she didn't come or sth stuffs, y she didn't show up. Don't do dat...bone her for dat day, call her d next day, and sound fun, don't chat her about y she didn't come, just talk normal, ask her how her day went n oda stuff ( av u eaten, hope u r cool), etc..don't ever ask her y she bleeped u up or y she didn't show up. Trust me, she will respect u cos u r different, it has happend to me most times, she will be d one to check on u, and d next date, she will even show up earlier dan u.

Ur confidence and game improves wen u toast or chyke more dan one girl...imagine chyking 4girls @ d same time. Ur confidence improves becos ur dependency doesn't lie on one girl. Game losts of girls, talk to girls, get numbers, chat em up. Catch ur fone, without any goal in mind, and see how ur dating success will improve dramatically. U don't av to be good looking, just be looking goood.

Money is good. Don't forget dat.

U can't date everygirl...dnt forget dat, but u can date lots of girls, u win some u lose some. Anyone who tells u , u can date any girl is just fooling u.

xxxtedyxxx:
u r d one doing all d job, dat means she is d one in control...to reverse d situation, don't act or react, even wen she is angry or upset and she puts everything on u, just smile and don't talk about it, d less u worry, d less real girls appreciate or like u. An example is if u ask a girl out on a date, she knows about d date already, u guys av planned about it, and @ d end of d day, she flakes, she doesn't show up and ur alll alone. Some guys will call her and start asking y she didn't come or sth stuffs, y she didn't show up. Don't do dat...bone her for dat day, call her d next day, and sound fun, don't chat her about y she didn't come, just talk normal, ask her how her day went n oda stuff ( av u eaten, hope u r cool), etc..don't ever ask her y she bleeped u up or y she didn't show up. Trust me, she will respect u cos u r different, it has happend to me most times, she will be d one to check on u, and d next date, she will even show up earlier dan u.

Reserve psychology on point

xxxtedyxxx boss, i've got this issue....i've been out of this dating game for a very long time so chyking girls have become a big challenge for me. I need to get back in the game but i'm kinda clueless. After seeing this post like 2 weeks ago i've got someone to hook me up with one really cute girl in my area and i need ur help in making sure i didnt mess the whole thing up.

wow I'm so glad that you're back bro @xxxteddyxxx
I rilly need to chat u up bro
please just leave a msg on whatsapp 08100752608

allandutch:
xxxtedyxxx boss, i've got this issue....i've been out of this dating game for a very long time so chyking girls have become a big challenge for me. I need to get back in the game but i'm kinda clueless. After seeing this post like 2 weeks ago i've got someone to hook me up with one really cute girl in my area and i need ur help in making sure i didnt mess the whole thing up.

The things is like driving a car.. even if its been long you have done it.. Once you are in it for the right reasons you hsve no problems. Just be ur self and don't over do anything.

xxxtedyxxx:
alryt, drop it

bro I got an unusual problem that require your advice,I created a thread for it pls help me here https://www.nairaland.com/2660310/advice-urgently-needed-#38910334 thanks and God blessed.

xxxtedyxxx:
alryt, drop it

bro I got an unusual problem that require your advice,I created a thread for it pls help me,your attention is needed here https://www.nairaland.com/2660310/advice-urgently-needed-#38910334 thanks and God blessed.

wow I'm so glad that you're back bro @xxxteddyxxx
I rilly need to chat u up bro
please just leave a msg on whatsapp 08100752608

am still waiting

temi4fash:


The things is like driving a car.. even if its been long you have done it.. Once you are in it for the right reasons you hsve no problems. Just be ur self and don't over do anything.

Thanks a lot bro.......

wow I'm so glad that you're back bro @xxxteddyxxx
I rilly need to chat u up bro
please just leave a msg on whatsapp 08100752608

am still waiting tanks

please say something bro I really need help big time

Thumbs up @Xxtedyxx and fellow Nlanders...dere is dis girl i dated in skool but nw i am out of skool for IT and she is still in skool for her second yr....she had a fiance dat is in abuja and i knw him through phone call nt physical though..after my final exam i wanted 2 call d relationship quit for her 2 face her fiance cos am nt ready 4 marriage and she is 24yrs but i didn't av d courage and boldness 2 tell her.....she called me recently dat her mom called her dat she cannot get married 2 her fiance dat dey ar nt compatible....so bro wot did u feel abt it...
NB: d girl fiance is a workin class and he always help her financially..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3eJkNpNOxeg

Ok...peeps,i av messed up wit my gf big time,n i want 2 go back d very beginning as 2 how evrytin started goin in2 ruins,we wey jst frnds at first,i gave her gud lafs over fone,chats and all,and funi enuf,i ws shocked wen she told me she wants 2 visit me,i neva askd 4 it tho...well i accepted,she came n mehn,there ws so much chemistry,i kept it pro..jst teases,funi chats,jst hand touchin,no hugs,nufin..n then she went home,we continued on our chats stuff,we wey so connected,true!...well she asked 4 a 2nd visit,n holy shit!..this gal dressed so hot,my view of a romantic relationship changed 2 a sex type...well,i thank God now dat i did play my cards well,..she was testin me!!....evrytin dat day ended with jst hugs and kisses(french)..some guys here will say,"guy yu eff up":truth is am a virgin...yea yea...well,even tho she wanted testin me at first,i noticed later on dat she wanted sex wit me so badly,well tins tuk a switch wen she asked me on chats hw many gals i had effd,i wanted playin d cool guy,i didnt want to lose her cos i tot telin ha am a virgin wuld b a turnoff,i lied 2 her n said 5gals,sumtin i had neva done wit any...she ws like,hmmm...then oh my!...i ws so stupid,i went ahead to show her my obsession abt sex,even tho i had neva done it,like tell her my sexual fantasies,n am sure dis made her go,"ewww!"...i did dis cos of d idea dat since she's my gal,i culd tell her anytin,even to extent of tellin her i used 2 masturbate..stupid shea?..lil' did i knw her whole view of me changed!..she didnt trust me anymore,bt still loved me...dis made her started actin aloof bt she still showed she cared once in a while,well i read dat in a wrong way,i tot she ws seein anoda guy n dt ws y she ws losing interest,bt she wasnt,well sometin happind durin d cos of our lil' frenzy...she told me she had failed her post-utme,well i shud av blivd her,reason i dint ws dat i felt since she ws goin 2 be admitted in anoda skool frm mine,she ws abt to dump me n start a nu life....well her skool's admission list came out n outta curiousity i chekd,i saw her name,i culdnt match dis,i tot she lied to me,i felt betrayd...i found out she wasnt lyin wen a cousin of mine hu's already in dat same skool told me dat some dpt. admits students wit low post utme scores wen d no. Of students dat failed wey many..wel b4 i had found out dis truth,i had already accused my gf of nt wanting to tell me abt dis n threatnd her wit a brekup,she told me sumtin dat leta pushed me to findin dis truth,like why wuld she hide it wen eventually,i'll find out leta...afta i found out d truth,i asked 4 her to 4giv me,she said she's done dat bt dat we cant continue,dat she hates my caracta n is scared of wat i'll do nxt...well i decided to let tins slide,pipu told me to bak off frm her,i culdnt...durin dis brekup,i told her d truth abt my virginity,she said she doesnt know y am tellin her dt now n dat i shud av told her n dt she admired my courage of bein one....i told her its cos i loved her,n dats she's suposed to know even tho we were nt tugeda again,she said she just wants to be friends wit me,well recently i felt she ws stalking me,on all social medias,signs dat she still loved me bt wasnt sure of her feelings,well i know i shud av avoided contacts wit her,cos i made it get to an extent she overheated n cos of her insults n anger,i jst removed her and cut all ties wit her...well i jst woke up one mawnin n found out dt i still lovd her sooo badly,well we still had each oda on facebook..so i told her i wanted to see her,she said nope...i called n still insisted bt she kept sayin nope,well back on fb,i apologised for evrytin i had said to mek angry,she apologised for insulting me dat she ws angry,i tried to mek her see dat we culd still work tins out,she said dat all i had did both before n afta d brekup dat she has found she doesnt have feelings for me anymore,i still pesterd her 4 approval,wich is so not d right tin to do,she told me dt weda d fact dat we r nw frnds,ws it nt okay?...and dt she doesnt see us happenin again,well she spends most of her time online dis days,probably am afraid its a nu guy...tho she told me there's no nu guy,she loved me deeply n gave up wen i ws puttin up these crazy caracta,i really want to get back wit her,but dont know how,i now see dat d initial stage of d brekup wuld av gotten her back,bt now am not so sure...can i do anything to change dis,tho av already started a no-contact rule...i still need help.tanx.

Davhid:
Ok....

Well, you fell into the trap she set by saying you slept with five girls, you should have teased her and make her guess then anything she says, you can continue the convo from there.

Just forget her(might be hard at first) and game other chicks.

guy's [color=#990000][/color] I wanna make a suggestion tho i don't know maybe they've done it b4... about a WhatsApp group for us ..


how do you see that guy's

xxxtedyxxx:
U can't date everygirl...dnt forget dat, but u can date lots of girls, u win some u lose some. Anyone who tells u , u can date any girl is just fooling u.

Bros, you should open a school. I'm feeling you.

lekinsi100:
Thumbs up @Xxtedyxx and fellow Nlanders...dere is dis girl i dated in skool but nw i am out of skool for IT and she is still in skool for her second yr....she had a fiance dat is in abuja and i knw him through phone call nt physical though..after my final exam i wanted 2 call d relationship quit for her 2 face her fiance cos am nt ready 4 marriage and she is 24yrs but i didn't av d courage and boldness 2 tell her.....she called me recently dat her mom called her dat she cannot get married 2 her fiance dat dey ar nt compatible....so bro wot did u feel abt it...
NB: d girl fiance is a workin class and he always help her financially..

And the fiancé believes she has been faithful all this while!! Me thinks you should stop seeing her. God knows who she'll date behind you when you take her seriously.

darkmata:
Guys, I need una analysis 4 dis mata. we all undastand d importance of a lady investing in a relationship. there is dis lady I've bin dating 4 a year nw, n we agreed in a "no sex relationship" (but deep down I ain't kul wit it). She does most of d investing like , calling more, texting me first, there was a time she got me a gift self, wen there wasnt really any occasion sef, but afta all dis I haven't kissed her( [b]we do cuddle [/b]though) i hav gone 4 a kiss a couple of times, but she do back out. we do even sex chat most times. But my confusion is dis , since I haven't really kissed her, I do feel a times DAT I have been friendzoned. am I right? have i bin friendzoned?

Bruv, u're getting friendzoned gradually....

I'm even having a feeling u've been friendzoned already...


Don't make this ridiculously rookie mistake again..


Cuddle == before ==> fvcking


You don't cuddle before you fvck..

You fvck before you cuddle

Cuddle == after ==> fvcking...


She hasn't done anything worth it to gain ur cuddling attention.


#Peace

Davhid:
Ok...peeps,i av messed up wit my gf big time,n i want 2 go back d very beginning as 2 how evrytin started goin in2 ruins,we wey jst frnds at first,i gave her gud lafs over fone,chats and all,and funi enuf,i ws shocked wen she told me she wants 2 visit me,i neva askd 4 it tho...well i accepted,she came n mehn,there ws so much chemistry,i kept it pro..jst teases,funi chats,jst hand touchin,no hugs,nufin..n then she went home,we continued on our chats stuff,we wey so connected,true!...well she asked 4 a 2nd visit,n holy shit!..this gal dressed so hot,my view of a romantic relationship changed 2 a sex type...well,i thank God now dat i did play my cards well,..she was testin me!!....evrytin dat day ended with jst hugs and kisses(french)..some guys here will say,"guy yu eff up":truth is am a virgin...yea yea...well,even tho she wanted testin me at first,i noticed later on dat she wanted sex wit me so badly,well tins tuk a switch wen she asked me on chats hw many gals i had effd,i wanted playin d cool guy,i didnt want to lose her cos i tot telin ha am a virgin wuld b a turnoff,i lied 2 her n said 5gals,sumtin i had neva done wit any...she ws like,hmmm...then oh my!...i ws so stupid,i went ahead to show her my obsession abt sex,even tho i had neva done it,like tell her my sexual fantasies,n am sure dis made her go,"ewww!"...i did dis cos of d idea dat since she's my gal,i culd tell her anytin,even to extent of tellin her i used 2 masturbate..stupid shea?..lil' did i knw her whole view of me changed!..she didnt trust me anymore,bt still loved me...dis made her started actin aloof bt she still showed she cared once in a while,well i read dat in a wrong way,i tot she ws seein anoda guy n dt ws y she ws losing interest,bt she wasnt,well sometin happind durin d cos of our lil' frenzy...she told me she had failed her post-utme,well i shud av blivd her,reason i dint ws dat i felt since she ws goin 2 be admitted in anoda skool frm mine,she ws abt to dump me n start a nu life....well her skool's admission list came out n outta curiousity i chekd,i saw her name,i culdnt match dis,i tot she lied to me,i felt betrayd...i found out she wasnt lyin wen a cousin of mine hu's already in dat same skool told me dat some dpt. admits students wit low post utme scores wen d no. Of students dat failed wey many..wel b4 i had found out dis truth,i had already accused my gf of nt wanting to tell me abt dis n threatnd her wit a brekup,she told me sumtin dat leta pushed me to findin dis truth,like why wuld she hide it wen eventually,i'll find out leta...afta i found out d truth,i asked 4 her to 4giv me,she said she's done dat bt dat we cant continue,dat she hates my caracta n is scared of wat i'll do nxt...well i decided to let tins slide,pipu told me to bak off frm her,i culdnt...durin dis brekup,i told her d truth abt my virginity,she said she doesnt know y am tellin her dt now n dat i shud av told her n dt she admired my courage of bein one....i told her its cos i loved her,n dats she's suposed to know even tho we were nt tugeda again,she said she just wants to be friends wit me,well recently i felt she ws stalking me,on all social medias,signs dat she still loved me bt wasnt sure of her feelings,well i know i shud av avoided contacts wit her,cos i made it get to an extent she overheated n cos of her insults n anger,i jst removed her and cut all ties wit her...well i jst woke up one mawnin n found out dt i still lovd her sooo badly,well we still had each oda on facebook..so i told her i wanted to see her,she said nope...i called n still insisted bt she kept sayin nope,well back on fb,i apologised for evrytin i had said to mek angry,she apologised for insulting me dat she ws angry,i tried to mek her see dat we culd still work tins out,she said dat all i had did both before n afta d brekup dat she has found she doesnt have feelings for me anymore,i still pesterd her 4 approval,wich is so not d right tin to do,she told me dt weda d fact dat we r nw frnds,ws it nt okay?...and dt she doesnt see us happenin again,well she spends most of her time online dis days,probably am afraid its a nu guy...tho she told me there's no nu guy,she loved me deeply n gave up wen i ws puttin up these crazy caracta,i really want to get back wit her,but dont know how,i now see dat d initial stage of d brekup wuld av gotten her back,bt now am not so sure...can i do anything to change dis,tho av already started a no-contact rule...i still need help.tanx.

Move on bro. But learn to boycot questions when you meet the next girl, not every question should be answered plainly. You effed up with that answer you gave to her question. Next time, answer such question by not answering it. Be mysteriously mischievious.

[b][/b]PLS HOW DO I TOAST A LADY ....EITHER THRU MEDIA, OR ON THE ROAD......WHAT DO I SAY...??

Ok...peeps,i av messed up wit my gf big time,n i want 2 go back d very beginning as 2 how evrytin started goin in2 ruins,we wey jst frnds at first,i gave her gud lafs over fone,chats and all,and funi enuf,i ws shocked wen she told me she wants 2 visit me,i neva askd 4 it tho...well i accepted,she came n mehn,there ws so much chemistry,i kept it pro..jst teases,funi chats,jst hand touchin,no hugs,nufin..n then she went home,we continued on our chats stuff,we wey so connected,true!...well she asked 4 a 2nd visit,n holy shit!..this gal dressed so hot,my view of a romantic relationship changed 2 a sex type...well,i thank God now dat i did play my cards well,..she was testin me!!....evrytin dat day ended with jst hugs and kisses(french)..some guys here will say,"guy yu eff up":truth is am a virgin...yea yea...well,even tho she wanted testin me at first,i noticed later on dat she wanted sex wit me so badly,well tins tuk a switch wen she asked me on chats hw many gals i had effd,i wanted playin d cool guy,i didnt want to lose her cos i tot telin ha am a virgin wuld b a turnoff,i lied 2 her n said 5gals,sumtin i had neva done wit any...she ws like,hmmm...then oh my!...i ws so stupid,i went ahead to show her my obsession abt sex,even tho i had neva done it,like tell her my sexual fantasies,n am sure dis made her go,"ewww!"...i did dis cos of d idea dat since she's my gal,i culd tell her anytin,even to extent of tellin her i used 2 masturbate..stupid shea?..lil' did i knw her whole view of me changed!..she didnt trust me anymore,bt still loved me...dis made her started actin aloof bt she still showed she cared once in a while,well i read dat in a wrong way,i tot she ws seein anoda guy n dt ws y she ws losing interest,bt she wasnt,well sometin happind durin d cos of our lil' frenzy...she told me she had failed her post-utme,well i shud av blivd her,reason i dint ws dat i felt since she ws goin 2 be admitted in anoda skool frm mine,she ws abt to dump me n start a nu life....well her skool's admission list came out n outta curiousity i chekd,i saw her name,i culdnt match dis,i tot she lied to me,i felt betrayd...i found out she wasnt lyin wen a cousin of mine hu's already in dat same skool told me dat some dpt. admits students wit low post utme scores wen d no. Of students dat failed wey many..wel b4 i had found out dis truth,i had already accused my gf of nt wanting to tell me abt dis n threatnd her wit a brekup,she told me sumtin dat leta pushed me to findin dis truth,like why wuld she hide it wen eventually,i'll find out leta...afta i found out d truth,i asked 4 her to 4giv me,she said she's done dat bt dat we cant continue,dat she hates my caracta n is scared of wat i'll do nxt...well i decided to let tins slide,pipu told me to bak off frm her,i culdnt...durin dis brekup,i told her d truth abt my virginity,she said she doesnt know y am tellin her dt now n dat i shud av told her n dt she admired my courage of bein one....i told her its cos i loved her,n dats she's suposed to know even tho we were nt tugeda again,she said she just wants to be friends wit me,well recently i felt she ws stalking me,on all social medias,signs dat she still loved me bt wasnt sure of her feelings,well i know i shud av avoided contacts wit her,cos i made it get to an extent she overheated n cos of her insults n anger,i jst removed her and cut all ties wit her...well i jst woke up one mawnin n found out dt i still lovd her sooo badly,well we still had each oda on facebook..so i told her i wanted to see her,she said nope...i called n still insisted bt she kept sayin nope,well back on fb,i apologised for evrytin i had said to mek angry,she apologised for insulting me dat she ws angry,i tried to mek her see dat we culd still work tins out,she said dat all i had did both before n afta d brekup dat she has found she doesnt have feelings for me anymore,i still pesterd her 4 approval,wich is so not d right tin to do,she told me dt weda d fact dat we r nw frnds,ws it nt okay?...and dt she doesnt see us happenin again,well she spends most of her time online dis days,probably am afraid its a nu guy...tho she told me there's no nu guy,she loved me deeply n gave up wen i ws puttin up these crazy caracta,i really want to get back wit her,but dont know how,i now see dat d initial stage of d brekup wuld av gotten her back,bt now am not so sure...can i do anything to change dis,tho av already started a no-contact rule...i still need help.tanx.

wtf is this? guy dem no teach u english for school ni? go and give ur post spaces jor

op...i need ur little advice
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there is this gurl in my street,am havinq crush on her,nd we will just pass each other without greetin so my concern is how to catch up nd start a convo with her and we just got to the street 2mnthz ago
Guy Gimme Loqic bro

Aw

xxxtedyxxx:
your ultimate goal for dis chick should be ban.gin her. Not her accepting you as her bf. Since she already said she is seeing smone else, ur best bet, is not to bring up such topic but to run ur own game differently. Pulling her towards u, acting like a potential bf already. Girls can have sex with anoda guy irrespective of whether dey have a permanent bf. It just depends on how u play it n not bring up issues or questions about her new guy. In other words, u remove the yes or no thing from her mind.

...teddy bro its been long o,kai since all vhiz yrs,mke we roger wella 4 whatsapp na,send me ur numba thru email since u don bcom celebrity