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Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 2:23am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ginaz: No vex abeg. Wasn't trying to sweeten my post, I only wanted to ensure I don't come off rude or aggressive. No be fight I come fight. Last last, all mallam with im kettle. Peace! |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by freshvine(f): 2:25am On Oct 16, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: True love is tested in the time of trials. Jesus died for our sins so that we may be redeemed. The bible says all have sinned and come short of his glory and we are made imperfect so that his words should be justified. Jesus showing example gave a golden commandment saying "love your neighbor as you love your self " and let me remind you, when God wants to deliver or redeem a sinner he sends a Human being who will carry out the assignment and in this case, he sent a woman to the Gucci guy and she did a perfect job. There's no way to show LOVE than commitment and selfless approach. Stop hating on a woman who got back a lost soul and made him a husband. 3 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Magnoliaa(f): 2:34am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ginaz: So, what are you arguing against here? You support that women shouldn't take bullshit (even though I still don't get how our 'power' fit in here) and that's what the women on this thread have been saying. If it’s too much then walk away . If you wanna stay STAY!!! If you wanna walk away WALK!! If you’re not so blind you would have seen where I said physical violence should not be condoned. You see, earlier cultures and the one in Nigeria presently thrived on that notion - the one that a woman should take bullshit and try to make a man better. It was/is the norm. A man cannot and should not take bullshit; a woman can and should take bullshit...... so, what is wrong with women rejecting that? Saying they cannot take bullshit *because* men cannot? If women didn't use to take rubbish from men, do you think there'll be a crying now? What'll be the purpose of the protest now? 3 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by freshvine(f): 2:35am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Mstick: Women have power of control, they influence decisions and the most dangerous ones can manipulate their husbands into doing the inevitable. Start with the family settings before you shout down a lady schooling you. 1 Like |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Magnoliaa(f): 2:37am On Oct 16, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: They don't want to have opinions, but they want to enjoy what feminism fought for abi? 4 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by freshvine(f): 2:42am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Magnoliaa: Define bullshit? You bring up rhetoric to fancy your ignorance. Are you telling me your mom hasn't influence your dad in any decisions in the home front? Do you know that world leaders have wives and their women are their first special advisers and assistants? 7 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Psalm2423(m): 2:44am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Michellekabod2: Lol. What does my existence have to do with her? Everyone has the right to live life to the fullest, it’s not my problem. Everyone needn’t know me. They’re still lots of persons in Nigeria that don’t know her, I can swear I don’t know what madam looks like. I’m not that jobless to check her out on Twitter. Gucci gave Keisha $2 million before going to jail. If it were you, from all you just said above, you’ll probably be married to your dream boy while he’s suffering in jail. Did Gucci force her to wait on him? Love is not always a mutual feeling. If I don’t like you, oh pa ri. There’s nothing anyone can do about it. However, I’ll still keep you in my arsenal, so I’ll have more plates to spin. Back to Snoop. He said not to envy her, and that’s what you should do. Only those that put up with shit deserve the best. You want to marry a rich guy, do you know the mental we all go through just to make money? To make money legit in Nigeria is hard if you don’t have startup capital. Those of us that have passed that stage will tell you. That’s why most guys keep clubbing trying to forget the psychological trauma of being broke or poor. I state and will continue to say it. If women take on the roles of men, and men started depending and demanding from ladies, you’ll see a lot of male Keisha. 3 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by freshvine(f): 2:53am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ginaz good morning. Don't mind all these wannabe feminists. They've tattoos, nose piercings, silicone behind and front, ankle chains, waist beads, color riots bodies and claws and you'd be arguing with them thinking they are humans, no way... stay very far from them they're contagious 4 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Psalm2423(m): 3:01am On Oct 16, 2019 |
freshvine: I would have loved to say more, but some folks will call it female bashing. I don’t care though. This third wave feminism is crap. Women always love shouting inequality and whatnot. I still don’t believe that people can be so dumb in this decade. Men work longer than women on an average. The money they get from this work is shared with the family. Women work, and the average lady bags her money for herself, and feeds on the husband. If we want equality, let both parties bring equal amounts, and let the woman add more since the man provides shelter. All women have their opinion. The law court allows women to divorce, and in more often than not, go with a huge sum as alimony, and also receive periodic payments in the case of a children born in wedlock. Why can’t men take the children, and women pay the money needed to train the child? When it comes to sexual harassment, it doesn’t matter if a girl kisses me out of the blue. If I report to the cops, they’ll simply laugh at me and ask if I didn’t enjoy it. When I do same to a girl, Twitter will bash me, I will have a hard time building relationships and my career, and the church will come to my house to advise me. Where’s the equality for the man? A man has to ask a lady out, take care of her, feed her, and do all sort of things for her. @magnoliaa Have you ever worked hard only to give the money to your boyfriend or husband sitting lazily in the house? Don’t talk about house chores, a civilized bachelor’s home is neat. But no, you guys demand that we work, and give to you at your request. Where’s the equality in that? Feminists don’t know what they want. You want to be heard, but we can already hear you. You vote, you work, you flaunt around town, you have pastors, politicians, governors. Can you name one thing that men enjoy today that you don’t enjoy? And can you not name numerous stuffs that you enjoy on the health of a guy? I’m not bashing feminists. I just want to know what you guys want, cause as it is, the world looks equally balanced. 4 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Mstick: 3:04am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Oh please take several seats, power of control ke, with the power of control you claim women have see how great women right is in Nigeria. Family settings? Buhahahaha the one the wives are beaten blue black every other day without a say even in their own kitchens or am I missing something? freshvine: yes of course number one being our own Aisha buhari, see the way her husband puts her first and respects her. freshvine: 3 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Mrdeuteron(m): 3:10am On Oct 16, 2019 |
internationalman:What Happen 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Qadaffi2idiamin: 3:12am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Its people like this aunty that will say maintaining vagina is big wahala.. Now she want some ass worshippers to follow her around in the name of love. Aunty I maintain my dick with #150000 every month. Royal pennis |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 3:18am On Oct 16, 2019 |
American suffering and naija suffering no be the same suffering ooo. She's having the right conversation with the wrong people. This is a local problem on an international platform. In the west You can (if you want to) hold down A man through his wild youth(this can last until he is over 35 yrs old sometimes) You can over look the cheating, the poverty and many other vices depending on Your options (family support system, government and state support, a Liberal society... etc). Nobody would ever advise you to take this option because it is not a healthy option but if you did decide to, for the sake of love, then America and the West offers a net to minimise the damage. Let's not forget no be every man that blows like gucci whatshisface... It's will always be a risky option. I don't know why snopp is trying to sell it because loyalty and respect is gender neutral and it is not for one person but two people in a relationship. I'm really confused by this... It feels like... 'lost in translation' Toke and snopp 2 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Magnoliaa(f): 3:30am On Oct 16, 2019 |
freshvine:Seems like you haven't been following this thread, if you have, you wouldn't be asking me that. Follow the discussion, get its drift. Are you telling me your mom hasn't influence your dad in any decisions in the home front? no, i don't. tell me who these world leaders are, how their wives assist them. While at it, link this random 'post' to what it's got to do with mine that you quoted, and what point you're trying to make exactly I'll be waiting. 1 Like |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by gbagyiza: 3:31am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: It is not their fault, it has been ordained by God since from the creation. The truth is that a man can't survive without a woman. A woman was made by picking some of the ribs from the man n the main purpose of attaching a woman to a man was to be a companion/helper for man. If you take a close look at a man's life, they find it difficult to survive without a woman by their side. So, part of their duties is to help reshape a man's life by making a lot of sacrifices for him. Women should not be angry it has already been ordained from d beginning. I used to tell my wife that a woman is the pillar in every home. Once a woman pulls out of her marriage the family will not be the same again. 2 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Mftivi: 3:36am On Oct 16, 2019 |
generationz: yall are funny. If men hates women that much there must have been a gender war which women won to secure their freedom and there will be another one which you currently are speaking of and I hope they kill all the men 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by naijadrivablog: 4:39am On Oct 16, 2019 |
liliandrew:Shiloh 20.... loading. 2 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by bluefilm: 4:42am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Abeg wetin be the latest on the NLC strike? |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Acidosis(m): 4:48am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Toke is right. No woman deserves to suffer in the name of love and marriage. But if you deliberately date a womanizer, a drug addict, convicted criminals and internet scammers, you're supposed to suffer and pay for sins you didn't commit. We are having this discussion because those involved are drug addicts and convicted criminals. I don't have any time and advise to waste on women in this kind of situation. 2 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by B2joa(m): 4:50am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ok |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Jaqenhghar: 5:00am On Oct 16, 2019 |
don4real18:He is saying one thing. She is saying another |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by TOPCRUISE(m): 5:04am On Oct 16, 2019 |
So men are the ones that must suffer 1 Like |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by antadiop2: 5:05am On Oct 16, 2019 |
My question is for all the women in this forum: Which scenario do you prefer, 1. Catching your dad with another woman. 2. Catching your mom with another man ? Please there’s no both or neither, you have to choose an option. God bless 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Thunderblasts(m): 5:25am On Oct 16, 2019 |
My dear Toke no just follow at all. Why bashing loyal women? She should take a look at her life before giving her feminist advice upandan. I pity her type ooo! Last last old age will teach her some lessons. That time no kid or relation go reason her matter sef |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 5:26am On Oct 16, 2019 |
[quote author=liliandrew post=83162986]Author, actor, and media personality, Toke Makinwa Condemns the glorification of suffering before you find love. In a post shared by Snoop Dogg on Instagram, he made a re-post of a man whose wife stood by him, even when she knew all the crime he has committed, she still made him a better person. God bless Toke for this. Some women and ladies still need brain resett to understand that its not a man's world. You treat me fairly, I treat you likewise otherwise, to hell!!!!!!! Rubbish! |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by kurupt1: 5:29am On Oct 16, 2019 |
freshvine:See wetin dey comot from person mouth,later you will say these women get sense?? 3 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 5:35am On Oct 16, 2019 |
cococandy: I was with you until you made this statement. Do I take it that you're unfortunate enough to be suffering and expect a woman to ride along with you? You're quite mistaken |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by GeneralPula: 5:57am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ginaz: This is one sensible F right here! Kudos! 1 Like |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Americanboy35: 6:00am On Oct 16, 2019 |
freshvine:God bless you sister |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Ladycewhy(f): 6:02am On Oct 16, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:Thank you, i wonder who told them that they are babies ,the only baby a woman a should look after is the one she bore ,if he is a baby its his mothers duty to fix him ,nor be you born am. He is a full grown man,you are both adults no woman should accept the responsibility of refining a grown man. A real man should fix himself before seeking out a partner, women are not baggage managers or rahabilitators. However if any woman feels they are born to be saviours and feel the need to work hard to earn a ring, they are free, but it should never be a standard for other women who decide to have self esteem and value their sanity cos i must tell you it is draining to mould a full grown adult. Its not a woman's duty to fix her man or stay through disrespect it usually doesn't end well ,forget Gucci's case is one in a million case , but i have to ask how many nights of headache his wife had to go to bed through all the public disrespect the drugs ,the jail ,the public cheating. If she didn't at one time need to see a therapist i would be shocked . So to get a ring of Mrs one has to come out worn out emotionally and broken in spirit, lol. 1 Like |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by GeneralPula: 6:11am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Michellekabod2: Lol...Abeg, don’t tell this to your future female kids! I’m not saying your wrong, but do not! |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by GeneralPula: 6:16am On Oct 16, 2019 |
generationz: Asaro |
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