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Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by madridguy(m): 7:50am On Oct 16, 2019 |
God bless you. Ginaz: |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by zinny377(f): 7:53am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ariza:Thumbs up 1 Like |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Ginaz(f): 7:53am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: Yes dear , I totally agree. |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Ladycewhy(f): 7:59am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ginaz:i edited my post please read it. |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by dederocs(m): 8:01am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Another vain girl, with everything fake. 1 Like |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 8:19am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Psalm2423:This is the most disgraceful post I have read! Toke had a problem with Snoop Dogg not the couple...did Toke by any means condemn Keisha for staying?is a matter or choice for the couple,I mean it's their private life....her issue was "expectations" that a female should be able to keep up with such poo in order to enjoy which is what Snoop Dogg potrayed. So what you imply is that anyone providing can do poo? If am richer than my bf and I sleep around,do drugs,stay in jail,he can stay as long as I provide?instead of advocating for her to stay because of love you are looking at it from a materialistic view? Why do you always switch gender while replying my posts? Why can't you answer me straight up? I am asking if a gal is richer than her gf and provides but sleeps around,go to jail,does drug etc will the guy stay? Yes or no,stop switching gender roles and telling me if guys could bla bla bla Likewise if a gal got pregnant for another guy,will the guy stay? Simple yes or no,no need to switch and say if guys could get pregnant bla bla bla... |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Ladycewhy(f): 8:21am On Oct 16, 2019 |
12inchess:The ones who have successful walked out of abusive and draining relationships are actually the ones with the most rational views on issues,they have seen it all and are likely to predict an end from the beginning of a relationship from their own mistakes they made. No one tells a tale of war better than a person who was there on the battle field. We must realize that there are very badly raised men out there,men who have killed their wives ,men who have impregnated their daughters. I used to have a neighbor that will beat his wife drag her out nak3d ,and women in the street will have to give her wrapper to cover her, . I used always wondered why a woman will allow herself be put through all that? More importantly her children were watching this and i am sure it will impact on them negatively. Such a woman does not need 20 years marriage experience to be able to tell women to have self respect ,value themselves and have self worth and never allow a man treat them like trash. You see this people here who are glorifying this toxicity they call loyalty are probably like that woman's children, they saw it happen in their house hold and think it should be a standard for relationships. But life doesn't have to be complicated if two adults fix themselves before coming together. 1 Like |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by jamboloun: 8:37am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Before I continue my comment let me ask u some questions ma "would u rather be a builder or enjoying that which is built" Wat sister Toke dnt understand is the fact that women are the determinant of wat happens to & in a man in the home and more. weather a man Wil be happy or not, lying in the hand of a woman. Not necessarily mean the woman is the reason for the unhappy in the first place. A woman can come into any man's life and change it completely. Wen a virtuous woman comes into a man life that man is made already. No wonder the Bible says " wen a man finds a woman, he findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour of the Lord. Such a man with bad track record needs a woman to put up wit him and that Wil always stand by him and dis does not mean the woman is at the receiving end or inferior to such man. Women are a builder, corrective virtue, molder, and a salt Wic reveal the sweetness of others, they are the best manager and counselor. They are not fashion the same way with men. God internationally did it dat way so as to make a good compliment to salvage situations. The problem we have dis days is Becos of our too much education and knowledge. U are not meant to compete with men and nor men to complete with women. imaging wat we happen if all of us are tall and no one is short, or if all of us study engineer and no one is a lawyer. Or we all work in the bank and no one is a farmer. There Wil be problem. I am not always comfortable wen I see some so to say elite women maybe Becos of their money or knowledge, always want to run and equate them selves as men, that's why many of them can't find their compatibility in men, is either they are not married or still single even at 45, dnt av good home then filling for divorce. That is wat u get wen u always want to see ur self as men. There is noting bad in a woman puting up wit a man after such a man has mess up one time other the other, that does nor make such woman inferior in anyway. Anty makinwa u need to come down from your high horse. Stop seeing Everything in the light of ur money or fame and your certificate. Else u Wil always be getting things wrong. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Wendybrown(f): 8:44am On Oct 16, 2019 |
mhizsuzzy: Pls tell her. Women really needs orientation. You're a woman doesn't mean you should endure all sorts of emotional and physical battering for crying out loud. You're to complement your man and vice versa but definitely not to reduce yourself to a lesser person so the society can crown u 'wife material'. Stop accommodating nonsense! I really really pity women, If our mothers should tell you what they've endured in the hands of these men you'll weep,It even led some to their early grave and you'll still see some supposedly enlightened women willing to subject themselves to similar tortures so as to be termed as wife material. It's a pity. 1 Like |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Wendybrown(f): 8:48am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: Thank you for this. Toxic people everywhere. |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by DonroxyII: 8:50am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ginaz:Ginaz !! |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Ladycewhy(f): 9:07am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Wendybrown:I went to the village one time and i was amazed at how strong this people are ,so i decided to follow them to the farm for two days on third day i broke down. I gave the example up there to further buttress my point, these people like the villagers are used to it, their psyche has been conditioned to take it but you see a lady who comes from a loving environment where her dad was a good example of how a real man should be will like break down and be drained. I am not talking down on women who decide to take whatever trashy behavior men throw at them ,i will say good for them do you ,but not every one is built for such and it should not be a standard for everyone. Its not a competition of who is more patient or who tolerates bullshit more as a woman. Knowing how i am built i cant stand all she went through, its too much to bear, the sleepless nights, the times you feel so much pain in your heart that it resembles a person physically stabbing you, the times you wonder what he sees in this other women and you wonder why you just cant be enough for him, the times you are so desperate to make him love you and be the man you want that you are willing to do whatever it takes and so on. Life doesn't have to be so complicated and draining like this and not every case turned out well, Gucci is just one case but you see the rest one million cases ended with women loosing themselves or even their lives in the process. |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Psalm2423(m): 9:08am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Michellekabod2: The answer to your question is simple. If women are the ones doing the providing, a man will sit and what her do her bullshit and stuff. As long as when he feels like eating, you provide. When he wishes to flaunt around town, you provide. If a man depends on you financially, and never wishes to work, then you can get pregnant for another man, and I can bet on my balls that he’d stay; cause he’s lazy, and laziness is the default setting of a woman, that’s why she’d stay. What is love if I may ask? Women love your pocket. If you have a fatter pocket, and your guy only loves your pocket, I can assure you that he’ll take all nonsense from you as long as he has someone providing both basic and mere wants of life. If you as a lady can take a man to Abu Dhabi from your purse, feed him from your purse, cloth him from your purse, take care of his family from your purse, I and all the redpillers on this forum will support you if he leaves you for another source of financial dependence (which in this case would be another lady). Now I want to ask you a question. As a woman, you wish to gain financial dependence on a man’s sufferings right? Your case might be different (it isn’t to be truthful), but that’s what an average woman wants. Now, if your boyfriend takes care of you even when he’s in jail, sends you money, build a home for you, give you a one year tour of the Bahamas with all expenses paid while he’s in jail, won’t you stick with him? Now, if you know that he’d still be rich when he comes out, won’t you stick with him? If your answer is no, then that means you’ll have rejected all the gifts, which by default, a woman won’t do. You won’t leave a dying Alhaji of 60 years willing to provide all your needs to follow a broke nigga of 21 that’s still looking for means to eat thrice a day. If you feel my post is stupid, then it’s your business. Next time, before you talk bout something, you need to look at it from both aspects, that’s how you know if you’re intelligent or dumb. If a scientist wants to argue something, he brings out two hypothesis, and that’s the reason why you must switch the man’s place with that of the woman, so as to grab the concept before proposing. So yes, if he’s dating you, and he can depend on you financially to feed even his younger sister, and he sees a financial future with you, then you can Bleep the Prince of Abu Dhabi, and your boyfriend will still stick with you. But that’s not how a man is programmed, cause we are independent but you guys are not, no matter how much you try to hide it. 2 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Korllami007: 9:14am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Psalm2423: 1 Like
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Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 9:14am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Michellekabod2:lol. Pseudo science and feminist lore. Lol. That's from the same narrative that claim men have dysfunctional penis when they reach 40 and that there's no biological difference between men and women. Sex with different men loosen vagina facts don't care about what you want to be true 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 9:16am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ariza:you think sex was all Gucci was offering the lady? 1 Like |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Korllami007: 9:21am On Oct 16, 2019 |
lilbest4: I laughed when I saw her post. Go and check the number of young women who are looking for ways to tighten their vaginas with alum and lime and buying vagina tightening cream. South Africa pantles dancer did surgery to tighten her Vagina. |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Psalm2423(m): 9:22am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Korllami007: Lol. |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Psalm2423(m): 9:26am On Oct 16, 2019 |
lilbest4: Please leave awon feminists joor. Was Gucci even demanding money from her? They don’t know the full story just like Toke and they’re here crying inequality. If the Lord was to make everything and everyone’s responsibilities equal, they’ll still cry foul. Feminists are like babies, they want what’s in another person’s hand. Even when you give it to them, they’ll still demand that of another person. 2 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by natureboy2(m): 9:28am On Oct 16, 2019 |
doitforyou: But women celebrated JACK in TITANIC that he DIED for the love. So what is wrong in guys celebrating Gucci Mane's wife?? It's not like she even died for love � 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 9:40am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Feminists will always rant... Nobody cares as long as they are just keyboard warriors!!! Anybody will fight for anything dear to him/her... If the wife choose to fight for her own marriage knowing fully well that it is better to continue in that relationship than looking elsewhere for another single dad to wife her, that is her choice!!! If it works out fine, she will enjoy it very much... I don't know why this frustrated single feminist, who rely on intimacy gadgets for love, get triggered once anything that has to do with perseverance is discussed.. 1 Like |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 9:40am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Korllami007:even toothpaste lol 1 Like |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 9:46am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Nnemuka:You called him demented na Why taking his comment serious?? "Demented" worse than "stupid" |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Wendybrown(f): 9:48am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: You know this can be likened to Tyler Perry's Acrimony. These were major reasons coupled with the wife's ( I've forgotten her name) her temperamental issues that drove her mad, I don't know if you've seen d movie. It was like despite all d storms she weathered with him,now d big question is, Couldn't she have walked away? Well basically I'll say different strokes fr different folks and like u rightly said it shouldn't be a yardstick fr other women to emulate,we'll should just do whatever works for us. How's your day going sis.? |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 9:50am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ginaz:Most women has forgotten their "God-given role".. All they want to do is to Slay!!! No matter how giid a man is, a woman should be able to make him better and vice versa... And if he is a bad or good/bad man too, a woman should be able to play vital roles that will improve him and vice versa.. But this generation of Slay things don't want to be useful at anything... They just want to be the receiver, from the bed and to all other aspects of life!! |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Chukapage(m): 9:51am On Oct 16, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:Lmao This one don fear for this one but I thought your a FEMINIST now ,I once saw a FEMINIST post on Facebook calling for massive abortion of the MALE child to kill them in other for the females to dominate I am SHOCKED you as a FEMINIST is AGAINST that lady's proposal confused contradictory Ideologies everywhere |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Ladycewhy(f): 9:54am On Oct 16, 2019 |
franchasng:the demands made by women is the same reason women can go to school today, its the same reason women can vote ,its the same reason women can work and earn for themselves and not be locked up in a house all their lives ,its the same reason a widow can take over her husband's property without having to be transfer to the next male in her husband's family ,a woman is the same reason twins are allowed to live today and not thrown into an evil forest and so on. And you are right men dont get pregnant, do you know hormones during pregnancy makes woman loose control over their body and the pain experienced from pushing out a baby is the same as setting a human being on fire.lets not even talk about menstral cramp that women have to go through every cycle Dont you think after all this struggle no woman should have to add an ill raised man to her plate of troubles?Its tough being a woman already why does she have to be made to babysit a grown man and teach him how to get his sh1t together?why does the burden have to be put on her shoulders to fix a grown man so she can be happy as if she didn't have her own struggles to deal with? |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 9:56am On Oct 16, 2019 |
generationz:Yinmu |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 9:58am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Mstick:Yinmu |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 10:00am On Oct 16, 2019 |
freshvine:You will just marry your intimacy gadget |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by philip0906(m): 10:01am On Oct 16, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: The difference is, Guccimane did all those (drugs, cheat etc) but today she is reaping Money, fame, luxury & comfort all from Gucci etc Reverse the role & what will I gain as a man? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Beverlyjean(f): 10:02am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ariza: I laff at people like u ... Toke and Juliet that can't keep a man is advising... A time will come when men will stop marring women, a time will come when men will stop providing financial obligations... A time will come when men will say enough is enough and women will go bk to how it was in the stone age... Women are over doing it... But if the man is dangote or buhari, she will stick with him due to the massive financial benefits and power... Now Hu is decieving Hu... Y dint Hilary leave bill when he was caught cheating... Why dint Beyonce leave jay z when he was caught cheating severally... Soon men will start acting like p.diddy... then the table will turn totally... Men are more opportuned than women... How many women are in the top 100 richest people in the world... How many women have invented or created something new... Women will always bank on the success of men... |
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