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wow!

MRbrownJAY:
you see,the above in bold is the reason why so many women BEG rather than go find a JOB (or something) to sort their lives. why would anyone expect to receive gifts etc to SORT THEIR LIVES?! if they really have problems, shouldnt they talk to their FAMILY (parents, siblings, uncles aunts etc)?!
think of this issue like the beggars at street junctions: instead of giving them kobos (which will keep them begging FOR LIFE), teach them to be self sufficient. . . . . . . unless you are the kind of man that WANTS your gf to depend on you.

we are the ones who teach these women to be OUR responsibility, by these silly acts. if a woman has problem, TELL/HELP HER TO GET A JOB, TELL HER TO GO ASK HER PARENTS, TELL HER TO SELL HER BB TO RAISE THE FUNDS, TELL HER TO CUT ON NONSENSE SPENDING. . . . . . . . . . the fact that she would come FIRST to you, before trying to sort the issue out in the ways i just mentioned (and you quickly oblige), is the reason why many become professional beggars.

when did dating meant that someone became your responsibility?! FEAR is the reason why so many men pay up.
- the FEAR that some other guy could help her and thus make you look like you are poor (that's your stoopid ego talking)
- the FEAR that some other guy could help her and thus get closer to her (that's your insecure self talking)
- the FEAR that she may do something crazy (like runz) to get the money (but then you are simply dating a who.re)
- the FEAR that because you didnt give her the money, the r/ship will be over (but then the basis of this r/ship is completely wrong).

NOTHING should happen to your r/ship if you dont give her the money, if something does then i am safe to say that you ARE indeed in the wrong r/ship.
btw: unless it is a REPAYABLE LOAN, there is no reason why anyone should pay someone's (they aint LEGALLY married to) school fees.

LMAO @ tell her to sell her BB
BB is a status check for a typical naija babe. She'll rather go hungry than sell it. If you doubt me, ask Mrs Chima. 

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=806224.msg9591242#msg9591242 date=1321718582]Na wa oo[/quote] culprit!

sexkillz:
[color=#000055][size=14pt]This is as realistic as it gets! if you dont understand the semantics of a relationship, you have no business being in one. . .[/size][/color]

I hear you. Love doctor,

Like say you dey give

shiri nshi nshi puo n'uzo biko

sexkillz:
When the two individuals in a relationship realizes that “There is more happiness in giving, than there is in receiving”, they’ll work towards giving more of their time, affection and gifts, to the significant other and simultaneously, they are both receiving. Just how happy do you think those two would be?

Quit being idealistic and get real. I support giving but you'll end up making them girls feel like "that's how its suppose to be"
Afterall, if you can't give material things, you can give moral and emotional support including all na still giving

@OP

You made some valid points. However, there is this stereotypical perception that "giving" is a factor for successful relationship. Though this might appear to be true because we have consistently factored it into our Psyche, a successful relationship can only occur when both parties feels a sense of equality in shared responsibilities.  The motive behind the giving is what truly matters. I believe that one should readily offer assistance to a friend without expecting a payback of whatever form. However, it is only natural for guys to put up some form of defense immediately a female friend makes giving a "criteria" for you to exist as her friend. Sadly, this is the case with most Nigerian girls i have come across. It doesn't need to be pronounced but you can "feel' it. To buttress this point, most (Not all) ladies believe that it is a man's responsibility to see to the welfare of his girlfriend financially. I believe that a man should assist whenever he is capable but we should continually purge our minds of this concept. Even the United nations have preached "equal opportunity" employment to ameliorate wealth distribution among the sexes. In the present world, Money is evenly spread among the sexes, so everybody should pay his bill!

llbhuds:
Kosovo is worse dan living in an arab nation

Actually, living in "arab" nation is not bad.

I cant find any security feature or isn't their any?

"Bia nwanyi a"
"This girl"
"Lee anya"

"hey you"

"look here"

"come"

mehn, things that i call her are so many that attimes she just ignores me and burst out laughing, saying that am so fake
Honestly i don't know how to be mad. i wish i know.

choc choc choc chocomilo, chocomilo one by one choc choc choc chocomilo. CHOCOMILO MILO MILO  

The real chicken flavor, Magi Chicken is the one, delicious exciting, Magi chicken is the one  

which other one     i miss naija!

I promise to establish an airport in all the 36 states of the Federation. By this means, trade and commerce will be encourage in our concerted effort to attain vision 202020 - Goodluck Ebele Azikiwe Jonathan (GCFR) President of the Federal Republic of Nigera.

Chai!

SuperMan pass superTed even if you add Spotty join.

You can't do norren about it.
If i were you, i will scare the living day light out of your dads mistresses.
Make them fear you pass Bokoharam.

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Blame it GEJ

She did what she's paid for.

Vicjustice:
But is this question supposed to be coming from someone who has had experience with an embassy and has traveled abroad, and is now residing in Ukraine?

@Op

dawn never reach?? abeg nak us the full tory.

does she have to wear nixoderm on her face for every occassion?

cito us:
Last time I was home and asked a girl i just met wat she does for fun;'I love to go shopping' was her answer. I asked her to change her routine so we can have some fun getting to talk and know each other. She asked me when am gonna pick her up for shopping. I told her to call me after she is done shopping so we can go do something else. She never answered my call after that. ,

^^^ you never see anything  

na front tumble i use escape  

Madam, give me fried rice with chicken, put goat meat on top. Do you have torso? yes that one, put two. Give me plantain on a seperate plate with moi moi. put small egusi soup on top of the moi-moi. Put beans on another plate with salad. wrap meatpie take away, two pieces. I am seating on table 3 bring it later. please bring coke and bottled water ok. Thank you.

Nigerian girls! i no fit shout  

That was my last  

And Jona is busy given National awards.

You would be surprised what people of other countries think of Nigerians. I don tire to answer questions.

dem dey use am go heaven? abi e dey fetch monthly stipend?

Not until i see the "value"!

Laudable idea! am in!

online charity org? NO!! (Nigeria and online and money = suspicion)

registered charity org with physical address? I'll be the first to draw my check.

Kai! mbanu!!!

Honey, whisper something dirty in my ear.
Pdp!!!

lmao!!


Nice one

justwise:
You can't have two e-passports, its fraud.

Exactly.

frakie:
PLS, I WILL LIKE ANYONE IN THE HOUSE TO ADVICE ME, i have the new e, passport, but i want to do another one, i will like to add another name to my name, on the new passport , pls is it possible for me to get a new passport. the old one is still with me, not damage and not expired, i welcome all comment, except insutive ones, thanks

you are not too far away from kirikiri. Keep pushing and you'll get there

kunlekunle:
u think chinese products were made with goodluck, no.there must be a govt policy to achieve these.

lol

Off-point but funny

MISS NIGERIA __LAGOS

who for pete sake advised her to pick the form??

Tomorrow LAgos babes go dey form - - island babes