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So now Baba Ijesha is the victim and the 14 year old is the one being character assassinated. Guess it is playing out just like most rape/sexual assault cases in 9ja. What we are also learning now is that video evidence which shows oral and visual confirmation is no evidence at all, at this point I'm not even sure if the police caught Baba Ijesha in the act whether it would be enough. It seems the only way for victims to get justice in 9ja is to have rich powerful people on their side or just be lucky. All in all, the shitshow continues......9ja I hail o

SmartPolician:
Are you sure that woman ever loved him or his money?

As president, Obama was once involved in sex scandal but Michelle is still with her grass-to-grace husband.

If difficult to find true love if you are rich. That's the story of Bill Gates.

Abbey621, no long-term relationship ever ends with tht two parties happy. It's not possible.

I have an uncle that ended up parting with his wife because she was an only child and chose to relocate back to Sweden to be closer to her aging parents. Till date they are still friends and have 3 beautiful grown up children.

We just love conspiracy theories in this country, Epstein was friends with majority of those wealthy people. Melinda and Bill had been separated for over 5 years nowlon g before Epstein's scandal; this is why the divorce was settled amicably without too much legal back and forth.

Kimjongun:
C++ is an hot cake in the US na, all these big companies over there are looking for C++ guys, the problem is they don't offer Visa sponsorship

They do o but you have to be highly competitive. You can't be a fresh graduate or less than 7 years of experience because you're competing with Indians and other Asians and those people dey work as if someone dey hold gun to their head .

shegzhkn:


oloko D i no sabi say u sef dey write code o.

My first degree was computer science na, even tho I've moved into I.T business more than programming, e no dey finish for body

aikyg:
I won't advice anyone to learn C, if you are not an engineer or do not have a understanding of computer architecture, pointers, stacks and stuff. Just go with Python and PHP, if you are a mere mortal.

Perhaps in Nigeria where we are still using slo mo but over here in the USA, you don't have to be an engineer, we have business analysts, AWS developers, cloud developers etc that will tell you that their foundation was built using C language.

This is like wanting to build a house and not buying land. Most new programming languages are just C programming modified and expanded using object oriented programming. If you're new to programming you want the best foundation as possible, learning C programming and even C++ helps you to get this foundation and ensures that you can adapt no matter what the cruel world of systems development throws at you. From Java to JScript to Phyton and Swift, you become so flexible that you can never be outdated or overlooked.

saphiere:
Your wife point you gun to eat?

She get one kind gift I never see someone that can beat her soups

saphiere:
Pot belly is caused by beer not a woman.

Then I must be an anomaly because my belly just won't go down yet I don't drink beer but I fit finish 5 wraps of fufu when my wife prepares correct ogbono soup

dreality:
Western world created this divorce laws to favour women. Until you black men say no to these unfair court marriage laws, nobody is going to help you

Imagine one day your father was bewitched and decided to leave you with your mom and abscond with a pretty woman. Would you want the court to fight for you or would you want it to say f*ck you, you're on your own?

chatinent:
She could have gotten a good lawyer to get at least half his fortune for her acrimony.

She was already a billionaire even before the divorce so sounds like they both got what they wanted without nasty legal proceedings.

akeentech:
No let any woman drag u go registry, do your wedding traditionally that’s all

If you like do traditional or no wedding at all, if you're in the USA, as long as the woman has established duration and residency with you, she go collect her share by law.

saphiere:
Yes so. We own the future. How are you?

You met her in-shape (probably curvy shape) you disfigured the shape through childbirth. Can you return her to her original self? No! So you have to pay for the damages.

Please don't type like a nomad, show a little intelligence. It's like a husband blaming his wife for his pot belly because she cooks delicious but fatty meals.....Very funny! You could have argued that they built the wealth collectively because she allowed him to focus on business while she took care of the domestic front but you women always love to use childbirth and sex to show your worth, as if na man you dey do favor.

rlcanon:
BROS,YOUR NONSENSE STATEMENT IS OUT OF THIS WORLD.I MAKE IT KNOWN TO YOU TODAY THAT UNDER GEJ,YOU AND FAMILY WERE ENJOYING CRUMBLES,BUT UNDER BUHARI THE BIGGEST FOOL YOU AND YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY ARE CURRENTLY LIVING TOTAL ABJECT POVERTY AND PENURY.BROS,YOU AND YOUR FAMILY DON CHOP THIS WEEK? NEEDLESS,TO SAY TODAY.MY PRAYER FOR YOU IS TO BE A VICTIM OF MAIMING/EXTRA-JUDICIARY KILLING WHICH IS APC REGULAR TRADE MARK.

BASTARD OF NO DESTINATION AND OF NO NATION.BORN THROW WAY PIKIN.

No need to type in caps we can see your frustrations even without it, trust me even the person you're venting for is as frustrated as you. You were chopping crumbs under Jonathan but did not realize your suffering was just being passed down to your older years and your children. There would be no Buhari if Jonathan did the right thing but alas here we are. Now to the rest of your points, this is where I agree with you, Buhari is 10 times worse than Jonathan, Jonathan was clueless but this bubu na catastrophe, he makes Jonathan look like a saint, if we could go back most of us would choose Jonathan because it is better to enjoy now than to suffer now and still suffer later.....This country don cast, it remains 2023 for the mortal kombat finishing move by the cabals...Fatality, Flawless Victory.

Ofodirinwa:
You grew up in a household with 2 adults. Both of them were managers. But in your brain me saying Nigerians are overrepresented in Management is something hard for you to count. Both of them then ended up getting their doctorate or masters but because you relish in self-pity you're in a thread that addresses such people as losers and not real managers trying to prove how your father and mother were fools.

But since you're into IT audit, here's some data for your dense skull.

Average base salary
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18.1k salaries reported, updated at April 29, 2021
$56,856
per year
The average salary for a manager is $56,856 per year in the United States and $10,000 cash bonus per year.
https://www.indeed.com/career/manager/salaries

the average fastfood manager makes the median for managers across the country. But you people are in Nigeria using for father's data to say 'my father was a manager' LOL











10 Nigerians who are big shots in Silicon Valley

TITILOLA OLUDIMUAPRIL 20, 2017

There is an unofficial saying that Nigerians are everywhere on the face of the earth, doing big things. Did you know there are Nigerians pulling major weight in major tech companies in Silicon Valley like Apple? Most people didn’t.

We took out time to make a list of Nigerians that have ingrained themselves in the Silicon Valley tech circuit through their positions.

Remi Dada


Remi is the head of B2C product marketing of YouTube, Sub-Saharan Africa; he was formerly the head of B2C product Marketing, Nigeria at Google.

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He holds two degrees; a BSc in Architectural studies, and an MBA from the University of Illinois, Urbana-Champaign and Howard University respectively.

He studied Architecture at the University of Illinois and studied Marketing three years after at Howard. He has over 10 years of experience in designing and constructing innovative and collaborative tech office spaces.

Mojolaoluwa Aderemi-Makinde
Silicon Valley big shot; Mojolaoluwa

Mojolaoluwa is a business strategy and development professional with over 11 years experience across various sectors including technology, finance, retail, media among others. She is currently the Industry Manager- eCommerce (Travel and Retail) and Finance at Google.

She has a background in Computer science from the University of Lagos and holds a Masters degree in Management and Strategic Information Systems from the University of Bath, United Kingdom.

Ime Archibong
Silicon Valley big shot, Ime Archibong speaking at the Facebook Fireside Chat in Lagos

Ime Archibong is the Director, Strategic partnerships at Facebook. He leads a team focused on accelerating Facebook’s product strategy by establishing partnerships, driving products integrations and unlocking new business opportunities with leading companies across multiple industries and sectors.

He and his team have worked on everything related to Facebook including the Messenger app. He played a significant role in Mark Zuckerberg’s visit to Nigeria.

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Prior to joining Facebook, he was an Advanced Technology Business development Professional at IBM for a little over 3 years.

He is an alumnus of YALE University where he studied computer Science and electrical engineering and holds an MBA from the Stanford University of Business.

Nnamdi Abraham-Igwe


Nnamdi has been the Emerging markets Lead at Google since 2012. He started his career at Google in 2004 where he was a network engineer and has since climbed up the ladder to hold a lead position.

Nnamdi holds a degree in mechanical engineering from the University of Nigeria, Nsukka. He took a project management course at Stanford University and then proceeded to get an M.S in Telecommunications (minor computer science) from the California State University, East-bay.

Chukwuemeka Afigbo
Emeka speaking on Facebook free basics in Lagos

Chukwuemeka Afigbo formerly worked at Google before joining Facebook. He worked at Google until 2015 before being replaced by Aniedi Udo-Obong. Emeka is the manager, Strategy Product Partnership [/b]focused on helping developers in Africa and the Middle-East succeed by leveraging Facebook’s platforms.

He was also instrumental in Mark Zuckerberg’s visit to Nigeria. He’s an alumnus of Command Secondary School, Abakaliki and the University of Nigeria, Nsukka where he studied Electronic Engineering.

Bayodele Olutu
Bayodele Olotu

[b]Bayodele is the Product Manager- Chrome and Android at Google, North America. Prior to joining Google, Bayodele was the design, planning and optimization lead at Ericsson. He also previously worked at Celtel and Zain Nigeria and also at Huawei Technologies Nigeria.

He studied mechanical engineering at Obafemi Awolowo University. He holds an MBA, business administration and project management from the Manchester Business School.

Morin Oluwole
Silicon Valley big shot, Morin Oluwole

Morin is the head of Luxury at Facebook and Instagram [/b]where she manages Facebook and Instagram’s global luxury client partnerships. Prior to landing her current role, she was the business lead to the VP Global Marketing Solutions.

She holds a BA and MA from Stanford University in Human Biology and sociology and an MA in Management from Columbia University.

[b]Morin speaks 5 languages and has lived in three different continents. She joined Facebook when it was a small startup of 200 people.

Bunmi Banjo
Bunmi Banjo at Google office
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Bunmi is the head of Brand, Reputation and Digital skills, sub-Saharan Africa at Google where she leads a team that drives the company’s effort to equip millions of SMEs with Digital skills for jobs and business growth.

She started her career at Google as the Head of SMB marketing, Google Nigeria. She is an alumnus of the University of Toronto where she majored in Psychology and Biology.

Yinka Somotun
Yinka Somotun is the Senior Director, Global Procurement at Oracle. He leads a worldwide team of contract professionals in five international locations responsible for negotiating and managing Oracle’s procurement contracts.

He has a background in Law; a Bachelor’s degree and a Masters degree in Law from the Lagos State University and the University of Lagos respectively. He had previously played legal roles in Texaco and Chevron.

Olaoluwa Okelola


Olaoluwa Okelola is one of the few Nigerian-born software engineers at Facebook. Before he joined Facebook in 2007, he worked as an engineering intern at Google from May 2006 until August 2006 and prior to that, he was an intern at Microsoft.

Olaoluwa is from Ibadan, Oyo State, Nigeria. Having completed his secondary education at the International School Ibadan, Okelola proceeded to Avi-Cenna International School and Howard University, Washington DC, to complete his secondary and university education respectively. He holds a degree in Systems and Computer science.

Olaoluwa has a good relationship with Facebook CEO, Mark Zuckerberg.

The presence of these remarkable Nigerians calling shots in big tech companies in Silicon Valley is evidence that Nigerians are one smartest set of people on planet earth. However, Nigerians can do more to become more by chasing their dreams and aspiring to attain remarkable heights.

Do you know any other Nigerian who plays a lead role in Silicon Valley? Please let us know in the comments section below and we will update this list accordingly.

https://techpoint.africa/2017/04/20/nigerian-big-shots-silicon-valley/



IT Auditor ^Explain that.

Clap for yourself, you've just argued using apples and oranges theory, I didn't know your father and mother making less money made them fools but glad you brought it up. Average salary for a fast food restaurant manager is less than $60,000 according to your own data and you believe this is a salary worthy of a manager? I can see that suffering is in your blood, I made more than that as an entry level I.T auditor. Now in management I am making over $150,000 a year after taxes, if you don't see the major difference between a manager that is earning less than $60k and those earning well over $100k then you are clueless.

Moving on, you highlighted 10 Nigerians in top management, here's a shocker did you know I can also point out 50 Asians in top and middle management in the USA. I can also point out 30 Latinos in the same position. So what makes you think Nigerians are OVERREPRESENTED? Abi you don't know the meaning of the word?

Now when we talk about management in entirety, we are talking about top, middle and entry level. We are talking about CFOs, VPs, Directors, Managers, Supervisors and in some company Team Lead. Your myopic view is so obsessed with searching on Google that you have yet to disprove my assertions. How many Nigerians are in management at Grady, Emory or Northside? How many are in management in the USA as a whole compared to Latinos, compared to black Americans or Asians? For a group to be overepresented shouldn't they at least come in the top 3? Next time tailor your argument on what you know, the data simply does not suppoort your sentiments and bullshit rhetoric!

mapet:
1. You're a non-starter. How do I or can I now the "you" that I'm arguing with when your submission is sub-par?
2. I wonder if t's my fault that you have comprehension issues. Or do I need to refer you to look at the topic again (something you should have done before making low-level off-topic submission. You brought argument that is not in context of the topic of this discussion and your emotional-laden submission here bereft of any sound analysis is useless to me.
3. Let me make it easy for you - By Law are cases of Kidnapping & Banditry State or Federal? Save yourself some shame if you have any, stop digging. Any other useless submission you make that speaks outside this context simply makes you look shallower

It's clear that you're just plain ignorant and was probably dropped on the head as a child. First you attacked me by saying it is unintelligent to expect the Federal government to declare state of emergency due to kidnappings, you now maintain the viewpoint that the entire premise is against the opening topic? Yet I'm the one with the subpar argument? You could have done yourself a favor by not quoting me but your constant need for validation meant you couldn't resist, I'm not going to sit here and argue against your strawman theories because you obviously know nothing about the Constitution. Yes kidnappings are prosecuted by the states but does that negate the power of the Federal government to intervene? What does the law say about matters of national security/terrorism? If the danger of one state leads to the danger of others, does the Federal government just sit back and drink kunu until the entire region is affected? I know topics like this one is far beyond your thinking capabilities but I don't think I can make it much simpler for you, even my 10 year old nephew can deduce what I'm getting at, so please refrain from quoting me again unless you want to be unfortunate in life but if you refuse then continue arguing with your keyboard because I won't dignify you with another response.....PEACE!

Life na turn by turn, it's not about how fast but how far. You mates that got jobs, kids etc are your viewpoints but what of those that are yet to? You ignore those because all that matters to you is glitter and gold. You said you've learned many money making skills and are yet to make kobo out of it, do you mind explaining?

Are you good at creating videos for ecommerce?
Any good at social media advertising and marketing?
Any good at search engine optimization?

These are just some of the hot side gigs you can do if you have the proper skills, I pay people anywhere from 10k to 30k per month for these and they don't have to leave their home or stress. Imagine if you had 3-4 of these gigs per month?

onenaija001:
we always cry that the whites hate us when we always hate ourselves. I lived in the north all my life, do you know how derogatory it is to hear a hausa man call a non-muslim like me "arne" meaning and infidel? And also southerners calling northerners "aboki" in disrespectful ways.
I condemn racism in anyway, shape and form but to make these whites like us why not we love, tolerate, and build each other.
The way we are so intolerant to each other in this country are we sure we won't be more hateful than the whites if reverse was the case?

NO ONE WILL BELIEVE IN YOU IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE IN YOURSELF, AND NO ONE WILL LOVE YOU IF YOU DON'T LOVE YOURSELF.

You're confusing religious and tribal bigotry with being hated because of your skin color, your theory suggests as blacks we should be monotone meaning we should not have difference of opinion regarding religious and tribal beliefs, when we refer to blacks I hope you know we have black people outside of Africa and I hope you know some whites despise other whites because of these same religious and traditional beliefs hence it is a human flaw not necessarily an African one. All hate is bad but this particular issue is about people who think one skin color is superior to the other, a well proven fallacy.

mapet:
Let me make some assumptions from your write-up here

1. You've hardly read the "constitution" in which you conjure this argument.
2. It will be unfortunate if you've gone beyond O'level and make watery argument like this. Pray tell, why would a Federal Government take declare a state of Emergency and take over a case of Kidnappers and Bandits already caught? Is it that you struggle with the context of this discourse, hence your exaggerated pseudo intelligence?

The issues are simple. By current laws Kidnapping & Banditry are prosecuted by states. Laws are written and amended from time to time They are not based on emotional feelings of near-non-existent people

When you argue make sure you know with whom and what you are arguing about, your jabs about o level and other insults portrays you as a delusional loudmouth. The Constitution is very clear on the powers of the Federal government to declare a state of emergency, the Constitution is also very clear about the protection of lives and the rights of every Nigerian to live peacefully without fear or intimidation. Your ignorant deluded mindset wants to school me about the Nigerian Constitution? Did you just said, a case of kidnapping? You meant cases upon cases, you meant killings upon killings. are we talking about those alreasdy caught or the constant kidnappings still occurring? In a sane society, marshall law would have been declared but low IQ minds such as yours will defend the indefensible. You mentioned, by current laws Kidnapping & Banditry are prosecuted by states, did I argue against this? My argument was strictly focused on the federal government not carrying out its duty of oversight and watching as things continue to deteriorate.

I would have taken you more seriously if you argued based on merit rather than try to portray intellectual superiority through insults but alas a dog must smell yansh no matter the training. Improve your netiquette and check yourself before you wreck yourself!

osazsky:
Yoruba sha..woman go beat woman..this can nerver happen in benin..just try insult a benin man the guy go use stabilizer stone him wife..proudly edo

Don't worry, a guy is out there saving one stabilizer for your daughter God willing......Make sure to thank him o

We all hear one side of the story and automatically become judge, jury and executioner. Ladies are fond of doing this when they are unsure of themselves, all the guy's bad habits were eloquently detailed yet she failed to mention how they got together. School mates but how did the relationship start? Before discussing marriage surely you must have discussed past relationships, habits, pet peeves and so on. Surely you must have discussed religion, having kids, values and character?

Let nobody deceive you, you've only dated for 5 months, there is no way you can call what you have LOVE, it is simple affection and like. You like the guy enough to marry, the guy likes you enough to want to settle down but for real love to manifest it can only come from battling what life throws at you. It can only come from series of events and decisions. How do you react to his bad habits? How does he react to yours? Are you the type to dabaru everything onced the going gets tough? Is he the type to never forgive?

You can always back out of a marriage, dem no dey arrest person for it but if your reasoning is because you don't like some of his habits and you believe another guy wouldn't do something like this or worse then you're on a long thing! Every human makes mistakes or puts a wrong foot or hand every now and then, what matters is learning from it. If you feel he is hopeless and cannot improve then leave his ass but if you genuinely feel that this guy cares for you and in time will become the man you want him to be then by all means STAY!

mapet:
No need getting overtly emotional over this. I believe Lai Mohammed landed a truism in an counter-productive manner. Banditry according to the law can only be prosecuted by states in locale where such occurrence takes place. If that's the position of the law, it then implies that states should oil their legal system and diligently prosecute those caught....as Lagos is doing same to Evans

Go and read your Constitution very well before believing one delusional goat. Every Nigerian has the right to a peaceful environment, the right to liberty, this much is guaranteed by the Nigerian Constitution. What is the result of kidnapping? What is the result of banditry? Are humans harmed or killed? Does it threaten people's liberty? If the answer is yes then the Nigerian Constitution gives the Federal government the power to overule the states or declare a state of emergency. This is the 21st century, let nobody bobo you

Have you really sat down and listened to his music? Do you think blowing is by releasing album? Without BBN, let this guy release the same album as a nobody, would you buy the album? If you can answer this honestly then surely you know the answer to your own question

baralatie:
Bill gates admitted it on live tv show with ophra winphrey.and he told melinda about it.
I like the way she handled the whole discovery though

When? Which episode? I can easily find it online if you remmeber the year and/or episode of the Oprah Winfrey Show.

baralatie:
bill gates and his wife grew apart in idealogies.
and idealogies can seriously affect relationships most especially if it can't be reconciled
melinda has tried and put in her best in this relationship.she had encouraged him.even when he had an affair she stuck with him.she has 3 grown up kids.
what does she want again
she is also going into grandmom phase.
totally different from bill (he is still pushing into new frontiers of idealogies and all that).

Where do you guys come up with these stuff? Bill cheated on Melinda?

Righteousness2:
That's his Problem! That man is one of the most wicked human on earth camouflaging under philanthropist activities..

As a Christian, you condemn a man without verifying facts for yourself? Very righteous of you!

mofedamijo:
I believe you based on my experience. Most Nigerian Doctors in Maryland prefer not to be at the top management level. I am talking about very talented and well respected Doctors in different fields.

UMMC, Maryland can boast of 10 Nigerian Doctors, I think just one or two of them are at the Top. As a matter of fact, I heard some of them don't want to be part of the Top Management.

The guy you quoted is just ignorant, or probably, yankee sey shak ham.

I'm not even talking about top management like Vice President or CFO, I'm talking about regular management like mid or entry level. Majority of Nigerians are more likely to be good foot soldiers than to dabble into office politics. Nigerians are numerous in the USA, we can be found in almost every sector but only a few of us will ever smell top management, it's a combination of ambition and politics. I've been in management for 3 years now and a promotion is coming up into middle management but guess what, I'm still doubting whether the extra money is worth the additional stress and moving my family to the midwest, the 9ja in me is saying, ogbeni wetin you dey find

Ofodirinwa:
You also don't know what you're talking about because Nigerians are overrepresented in Management in the US and Canada lol.
What do any of you gain pretending you don't live in Nigeria? Just be honest with yourselves. I'm reading these posts and laughing.

Only someone that's in Nigeria would say something as pathetic as 'real management with office and everything' LOL. Nobody that has left Nigeria for more than 6 months would say the nonsense you're saying LOL. A KFC/BK manager is a salaried position your slowpoke lol dumb.

In what inch of Canadian or US soil have Nigerians ever struggled to become managers in? Show me where you're getting this problem from.

You're so ignorant, is it about being salaried or getting paid respectable figures. Average KFC manager makes less than $50,000 a year before taxes, if you believe this is a salary worthy of a manager then you're even more daft than I imagined! My mother was a KFC manager for 4 years before going back to school and venturing into healthcare, my father Burger King manager for 6 years before completing his masters and working for the US government. The rubbish you wrote above is for your own pocket. Nigerians are overrepresented in management in US and Canada....did you pull this statistic out of your ass? Nigerians are not even in the top 5 in terms of representation. We have White American males, white American females, black American male, Asians, black American females, Latinos and then you can start talking about Nigerian or Northern African countries/Arabs.

As a seasoned I.T. auditor who has found himself in management, I can count the number of Nigerians that are managers in the I.T field, even sectors like healthcare where we expect Nigerians to dominate because of its allure, we often find that Nigerians shy away from management and are content with just being nurses. From Grady hospital to Emory and Northside here in Atlanta, the number of Nigerians that are managers or supervisors represents less than 10%, if this is what you call overrepresentation then you're high on cheap pepsi!

BigBashiru:
I get your point...m West africa has the blackest skinned Africans and is the most backward. Tunisia and Egypt and the magreb countries like Morocco all have lighter skin and their countries are more developed than black Africa.

What's wrong the black mans brain is a hatred of discipline and work.... ppl hate hard work.

Yet it was in Egypt that we saw a man set himself ablaze to protest the economic situation and the government. Well I guess in a show of sh*t, kondo will feel more important than watery sh*t

I can tell you from my own experience and from observing many of my Nigerian friends in mmanagement position over here, 90% of what you wrote is plain fallacy. For a Nigerian to reach management position over here it takes a combination of education, experience and confidence. Majority of what you wrote can be summarized as lack of confidence which is very counter productive.

I keep telling people here on Nairaland, why must we generalize? How many Nigerians in management abroad do you know? I'm not talking about management at KFC or Burger King, I'm talking about real management with office and everything. In fact, I would say the biggest hinderance to Nigerians abroad in terms of making it into management is our loud tone of voice and often our ability to take things too seriously.

Some countries and their citizens are on special list for fraud and scams yet you wonder why the facebook algorithm bans your account. It is simple, the poeple you sell to, even your friends one or more of them have reported you by flagging your content, it could be an angry customer or a competitor but once this happens, facebook reviews your account and anything can be used against you.

Are you located in Nigeria but collecting payment in USD? Are you selling digital or physical goods? Are your deals too good to be true? Did you look at your account quality score? Keep in mind, Facebook does not owe you any explanation, they can ban and unban you as they please.

Grab your bible or any holy book you're familiar with and let it be your date, fall in love with the book of Psalms, start with Genesis and end with Revelations, invest deeply in the word of God and let the spirit lead you to someone that shares the same beliefs as you. You want to date with conditions then be prepared to offer those conditions to those who truly believes in terms. You can't keep offering cheese sandwich to agbero where amala and fufu dey. You can't offer bible to a homeless and hungry person instead of food and shelter. Fall in love with someone that sees the world as you do otherwise you are bound to keep finding yourself asking the same question.