₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: Register • Login • With Google • Trending • Recent • New

Stats: 3,345,033 members, 8,515,094 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 November 2026 at 04:23 AM

Toggle theme

Abbey621's Posts

Nairaland Forum › Abbey621's Profile › Abbey621's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 201 202 203 204 205 206 207 208 209 (of 311 pages)

Celebrities › Re: Daddy Freeze Tells AY: Christmas Has Nothing To Do With God by abbey621(m): 6:54pm On Dec 21, 2018
The knowledge of this guy is too deep, I just hope the religious fanatics don't get rid of him for exposing them....I'm genuinely worried about him!
Politics › Re: Buba Galadima: The Man In Aso Rock Is Not The Buhari That We Used To Know by abbey621(m): 6:27pm On Dec 21, 2018
Sochimaobim:
This is getting seriously embarrassing! Why can't Mr President come out and openly clear this once and for all. I'm not talking about verbal clearance but doing all those things Nnamdi Kanu said he can't do. U may ask why will a President do such, but it has really gotten to that. If he keeps delaying, the speculation continues, and the shame remains on him, but if he clears this, then the speculation stops and shame is on them
Because a president of a nation is not your scapegoat for conspiracy theories. If the concern is truly great, put pressure on the national assembly to conduct a thorough investigation including medical records and going to Sudan and interviewing members of Jubril's family.
Celebrities › Re: 'Logo Benz': Olamide Apologizes To Fans by abbey621(m): 4:01pm On Dec 21, 2018
kiddoiLL:
Evolution bro...The world keeps evolving, I know the numbers of juju movies I saw too as a kid, and stuffs I heard, but upbringing back then and the sense of responsibility that our parents put on us back then... you can't compare the world now to how it was back then
I'm not comparing, I'm just stating a fact that music is not more influential than movies or other forms of entertainment. Just because you hear ritual killings in a song does not mean seeing it in the movies or on TV is less of a concern. In fact, it is the job of entertainers to bring attention to such issues, information is key, what you choose to do with it is an individual responsibility not a collective one. Like you said we were exposed to such things back then and much more and most of us turned out decent.
Romance › Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by abbey621(m): 3:11pm On Dec 21, 2018
MrBrownJay1:
What kind of deluded person only takes PART of my whole post and then says i see things in black and white..... Maybe, Juste maybe, you should use your Brain and read the whole statement again.....here it is: Whether that woman has a valid green card (or not) is irrelevant/secondary here.... If you are in a r/ship with a woman that wants to move indefinitely to the other side of the world (talking about coming back FOR YOU instead of going there WITH YOU ) then thats the moment you guys should accept reality and part ways, as its obvious you guys have different life plans.

now if these guys have similar life plans to move to their eldorado (aka US) then they should sit down and decide how they will attain such feat, in an intelligent/plausible way. If your babe says she is leaving to the US with no plans whatsoever (but a tourist visa) then she needs a mind resetting dirty slap Asap.




What the hell are you talking about?! EVERYTHING WRITTEN ON THIS THREAD IS ABOUT THE OP's INITIAL POST.... Now do you know what it is or do i have to spell it for you?! You foolishly came for my post who was a response to a the subject at hand, aka a woman wanting to move to the States WITHOUT a valid immigrant visa!!!! So all your NONSENSE about traveling with a green card and/or visa lottery rubbish is ARRANT GIBBERISH!!!



Then, as i started earlier, let BOTH partner in this r/ship agree to this nonsense of having one partner leaving with NO aim, NO prospect, NO legal means to stay in that country, while talking about coming back for the other party



Yet you are the one who wrote the below deluded statement.... About leaving with a green card gained via a visa lottery while this whole threatened is about the opposite, BWAAAAAAAH!
Like I've said earlier, it's pointless arguing with someone with a limited vision. My initial reply to you was to the bold part of your statement not your entire statement, if only you had the sense to analyze instead of blindly critiquing there would not be any need for this back and forth. Anyways, I said what I said, if you don't like it, feel free to argue with your internet!
Celebrities › Re: 'Logo Benz': Olamide Apologizes To Fans by abbey621(m): 3:07pm On Dec 21, 2018
Valerie47:
Have heard of dstv/gotv parental control for kids? you can lock those music channels and leave movie channels which I'm sure African magic don't show any sexual act in their movies, but music is something you can listen to anywhere even without knowing, a child can go to school and other children sing this olamide song to him, don't you think as time goes on, he will also sing with them or let's say in an occasion, this olamide song is being played, the child will listen cause you can't stop him form listening.
That ain't happening! Majority of Nigerian parents cannot operate DSTV properly not to talk of those who can't afford it. There's no parental control for watching DVD or one of those movies on Nigerian television grin grin grin
Celebrities › Re: 'Logo Benz': Olamide Apologizes To Fans by abbey621(m): 3:05pm On Dec 21, 2018
kiddoiLL:
7 years old of this century won't understand the song bro? Are you aware of kids accept and process things now faster than past years? I have seen so many of them at such tender age singing and shouting “Won ti po omi gutter pó” from Olamide's science student..how long do you think it'll take before they start looking for the meaning behind omi gutter?
They can sing along but most do not understand it. I grew up in Mushin, slangs and yoruba curse words are part of out OT but most did not understand it till much later on, but guess what we did understand? Seeing Baba sarata beat the holy ghost out of mama sarata, seeing Fadeyi Oloro on tv use juju on someone. To say music is much more influencial than what you actually see on the street or the movies is inaccurate to me, at best you can attribute equal influence.
Celebrities › Re: 'Logo Benz': Olamide Apologizes To Fans by abbey621(m): 3:01pm On Dec 21, 2018
Valerie47:
Have you heard the adage "music is life? when you listen to music, you hear the words, these lyrics become your thought and your thought becomes your action, reason why I don't open any graphic picture is cause I can't get it off my head, I keep seeing it, so its the same for music, you sing along, before you know it, it becomes part and parcel of you.
I am not disputing that but even with your statement, you are admitting that you can't open any graphic picture cause you can't get it out of your head. So why then would a child be less influenced by what they see on tv than what they hear on the radio or cd player?
Celebrities › Re: 'Logo Benz': Olamide Apologizes To Fans by abbey621(m): 2:53pm On Dec 21, 2018
Valerie47:
That's not true, I have taught in a class filled with 7years and 8years olds, these children know more music than I can ever imagine, during break time, some of them sing different songs and dance the dancing steps. You think they don't know anything till you become their teacher, I remember the day one explained what sex means 'cause I told them sex had to do with gender when we were having lesson on "Collective noun", the little boy was busy explaining sexual inter course, how do you think he knew about it?
But have you ever tried to compare it tonaming characters in Nollywood? Most 7 year old recognize all he stars, most of them watch these Nollywood films with their siblings and/or parents. The point is simple, music is not more inclined to be influential than other forms of entertainment when it comes to a 7 year old in Nigeria, the same case yyou made about the little boy explaining intercourse could be made if he watched it in a movie or peeked in his parents' bedroom.
Celebrities › Re: 'Logo Benz': Olamide Apologizes To Fans by abbey621(m): 2:25pm On Dec 21, 2018
kiddoiLL:
Nigga keep quiet... might be on the news, might be in movies..But you're aware Musicians are one of the biggest influential people on the planet...
a 7 years old kid might not give a fvck about movies and stuffs but focus on animation, but that same 7 years old kid gives a fvck and will listen to music anytime it plays.. you should know better, as an artist, some lines are meant not to be crossed when it comes to your lyrics. Knowingly or unknowingly Music affects the mind in ways people don't know. So you can't put out such bad lyrics out and just come out to say stuffs to justify your actions..
Like someone once said Nigerian entertainment industry doesn't welcome Critics, Reviews and Ratings. A professional or fan try to do that, they'll be branded as hater.
I'll rather spend my whole life listening to EDM songs than spend half my life supporting and promoting the garbage Nigerian artists put out. And to think the artwork of the song has a female pant right there is much much worse considering the rate at which people are being attacked and lynched for attempting to use panties for ritual. Will you claim it's a coincidence? Or what excuses do you have for the pants??....
Sit down, cool down write music, una no go do... na to enter boot start to dey freestyle trash una sabi
A 7 year old would not and should not understand the lyrics to such songs, in fact some adults merely listen to beats. Movies and TV shows are much more likely to affect the younger ones because it is much more visual. The average 7 year old has watched more Nollywood movies involving rituals, kidnappings and other vices than music promoting such. You are right to criticize the concept or the motive but your example of the 7 year old and that of music against other mediums falls flat.
Celebrities › Re: 'if I Do Amazing Songs It Won't Trend' - Olamide Defends His New Song by abbey621(m): 2:17pm On Dec 21, 2018
AlfaAce:
What is this one saying? before olamide started singing arrant nonsense,was he not trending? Did it have to get to this? encouraging ritual killings? Little wonder why Yankee is a war zone as it has to do with gang related crimes.If he feel you have to sing a song as stupid as this because of 'mass-appeal',his artistry is questionable.
Eni Duro
Boys are not smiling
Apa ti Jabo
Owotabua

All these were early in his career, I suggest you go back and read the lyrics and then come back here and explain how it was more inspirational or relevant than the song you are criticizing!
Romance › Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by abbey621(m): 2:12pm On Dec 21, 2018
MrBrownJay1:
Here you are again writing ARRANT GIBBERISH!!!!



And that is a very Poor choice of example because, AGAIN, life/marriage back in our parents days is way different than now.... Expecting anyone to live/act today like in the past is not only wrong but also very foolish.



Look at all the ARRANT IRRELEVANT GIBBERISH you just wrote... Do you even understand English?!
NONSENSE #1 you talk of immigration to the US with a green card gained via visa lottery while this issue is about someone who plans to relocate to the US without a valid visa to immigrate to the US.

NONSENSE #2 if a married person gains a visa lottery then he/she can simply add their spouse (and even minor children) to their successful application. There is NO NEED for their spouse to be left behind. The people who go back, after few years for their spouse, are usually those who leave without a valid mean to work/live in the US (aka the OP issue) and get married in the US to gain legal means to stay in the US..... thus when they finally get permanent residency (or citizenship) they go back for their partner. Now there is nothing wrong with that (to each their own misery) but as i stated earlier, if that's the plan then let BOTH party agree to it BEFORE leaving (aka having a common plan)



What theory exactly are you talking about?! The one i gave 2buffagain about this issue not being a straightforward one, or the theory i gave you about what it means to be in a r/ship?!?!?!?!?!

Here it is again:
Perhaps go back to your initial post and read the bold part that I highlighted instead of behaving like a chimp.

If you are in a r/ship with a woman that wants to move indefinitely to the other side of the world (talking about coming back FOR YOU instead of going there WITH YOU )
This made no mention of greencard or no greencard, just a general statement which encompasses all groups, this is what I called BS on and gave you the example of how it was done back then and was still in vogue as recent as 2009. Your BS theory is just that, BS! Now to challenge your other BS statements, if your spouse won the visa lottery and you never included them in the initial application, you run the risk of visa fraud, many have been denied just for that, but moving on we are talking mostly about BF/GF relationships as stated in the OP, goodluck convincing a VO that you got married after the application. Like I said earlier, your lack of exposure is exposing your limitations, your heart might be in the right place but you just can't make generalized statements and expect everyone to marvel in your BS.....
Romance › Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by abbey621(m): 12:15am On Dec 21, 2018
MrBrownJay1:
Your FIRST mistake here is to try to compare marriages of the past with today's Marriages. trying to compare the way our parents lived with the way we should live in the 21st century will have you fail time and time again.

Your SECOND mistake is to not focus on what i wrote, and instead write gibberish. I will post again my initial post so you stop getting confused...... So FOCUS:
Whether that woman has a valid green card (or not) is irrelevant/secondary here.... If you are in a r/ship with a woman that wants to move indefinitely to the other side of the world (talking about coming back FOR YOU instead of going there WITH YOU) then thats the moment you guys should accept reality and part ways, as its obvious you guys have different life plans.

now if these guys have similar life plans to move to their eldorado (aka US) then they should sit down and decide how they will attain such feat, in an intelligent/plausible way. If your babe says she is leaving to the US with no plans whatsoever (but a tourist visa) then she needs a mind resetting dirty slap Asap.

Now, last but not least, there are women and WOMEN out there. Many streetwise sistas wouldnt need to sell their souls, body and/or marry some demon to make it in the US (or anywhere Else) so it's also down to what type of woman you are dating
The problem you have is shortsightedness. Your lack of exposure limits your abiity to see beyond your limited thinking. I chose to give you examples of how our parents did it back then just to show you life/marriages are not black or white. As recent as 2009, many people still gained visa lottery and had to leave their partners, fast forward 3 to 5 years later, they are citizens and majority of them have brought their partners here to the U.S., the last statistics from the Dept. of State shows that more and more permanent resident greencardholders brought in their spouse after citizenship than past decades. Your theory is ridiculous and holds no weight, you can continue in your ignorant ways and keep trying to make sense of nonsense or admit that you gave a generalized advice which does not hold true for everyone....The choice is yours!
Celebrities › Re: 'if I Do Amazing Songs It Won't Trend' - Olamide Defends His New Song by abbey621(m): 11:11pm On Dec 20, 2018
Omoluabi16:
This 'the street' you going on about. We should hope to sanitize the street. Or should the street be riddled with criminals now? No need for legit hustle be that..the same street wey ighalo or okocha and others made it from. You called Him a genius..he will smile to the bank why the streets become more unsafe. Pray make no hustler from 'the street' use your head or sister head take hammer buy Benz. Condemn what is bad. Music is an influence. Olamide has fans..
It is the job of artiste to write about what is happening around them, is it not? The American rappers that write abou naked babes, marijuana and so on, dem get two heads? Please let's stop being so freaking rigid in this country, live a little!
Celebrities › Re: 'if I Do Amazing Songs It Won't Trend' - Olamide Defends His New Song by abbey621(m): 11:09pm On Dec 20, 2018
AlfaAce:
Bros,Nonsense is nonsense, no matter who it is for.If this is what you call 'genius',then you know nothing!
I know nothing? Come over to yankee and see the hundreds of rap artiste rapping about nonsense yet they are in the game. Out of every nonsense there is some sort of sense.
Celebrities › Re: 'if I Do Amazing Songs It Won't Trend' - Olamide Defends His New Song by abbey621(m): 10:47pm On Dec 20, 2018
A good musician knows his or her base and adapts to it. Olamide's music is for the street, once in a while he does something for everyone but mostly it's for the street. The question haters should be asking is simple, why would he change a winning formula? The more outrageous, the better and honestly this guy is smiling to the bank....That's what I call genius!
Romance › Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by abbey621(m):
MrBrownJay1:
A r/ship is a partnership, so the moment your partner is thinking of LEAVING FOR GREENER PASTURE without you, and with no aim whatsoever, then that partnership is dead and gone. There is a time when people have to face reality and accept the writing on the wall...... Hanging on for "god knows what" is simply a waste of time/energy/life.
If that's the case half of the relationships/marriages of the 80s and early 90s wouldn't exist today. I wouldn't exist and so would so many others, I call B.S. on your theory because you have no idea what you're talking about! You speak from a simpleton point of view where everything is black or white, you speak from an absolute point of view forgetting that life is full of flexibility and we often journey through it not on a straight path but full of twists and turns.
Romance › Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by abbey621(m): 12:09am On Dec 20, 2018
MrBrownJay1:
Bro 2buffagain, you brought a lot of great points to the table, but when it comes to love and immigration, its never a straight forward issue.

But let me clarity a few points you raised:



Wether that woman has a valid green card (or not) is irrelevant/secondary here.... If you are in a r/ship with a woman that wants to move indefinitely to the other side of the world (talking about coming back [b]FOR YOU instead of going there WITH YOU ) then thats the moment you guys should accept reality and part ways, as its obvious you guys have different life plans.[/b]
now if these guys have similar life plans to move to their eldorado (aka US) then they should sit down and decide how they will attain such feat, in an intelligent/plausible way. If your babe says she is leaving to the US with no plans whatsoever (but a tourist visa) then she needs a mind resetting dirty slap Asap.

Now, last but not least, there are women and WOMEN out there. Many streetwise sistas wouldnt need to sell their souls, body and/or marry some demon to make it in the US (or anywhere Else) so it's also down to what type of woman you are dating.
The bold part of your statement get k leg! Like the OP mentioned, if you have a greencard, the path to citizenship is much smoother hence any woman or man can bring their lover over. By burning bridges and calling the relationship over, many people unknowingly killed their own future with their own hand. I do like the second part where you stated there are women and WOMEN, the right WOMAN can be a blessing.
Celebrities › Re: Runtown Has Been Banned From Entering US (video) by abbey621(m): 3:55pm On Dec 19, 2018
Ugosample:
Did you say the USA is nothing? huh shocked


Issokay


America is not heaven tho, that's to sure

But it has its own clout
It's nothing as long as you've got your own money, it's only something to people still chasing the paper.
Celebrities › Re: Runtown Has Been Banned From Entering US (video) by abbey621(m): 1:16pm On Dec 19, 2018
Young man stay in your country, the U.S. is nothing when you've got money and fame. If you need a vacation badly, go to Aruba, Bahamas and so on, the U.S is severly overated if you've got your own cheddar!
Family › Re: Man Caught His Wife Pants Down With Another Man by abbey621(m): 1:52am On Dec 18, 2018
jubrilELsudan:
THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS YOUR MUM AND HER DAD HAVE BEEN SECRET LOVERS FROM THE PAST AND THE REALITY IS YOUR WIFE'S FATHER IS YOUR REAL FATHER. HE WAS FVCKING YOUR MUM AND SHE GOT PREGNANT FOR HIM AND GAVE BIRTH TO YOU. SINCE SHE WAS MARRIED TO THE MAN YOU THINK IS YOUR DAD, SHE AUTOMATICALLY GAVE HIM THE PREGNANCY.

I AM THE PERSON YOUR WIFE WAS SENDING THE NUDE PICS TO. I HAVE BEEN FVCKING YOUR WIFE AND CUMING IN HER MOUTH.

Crime › Re: Yahoo Corper Arraigned Over £12.5m Internet Fraud. Photo by abbey621(m): 11:40pm On Dec 17, 2018
Was a warrant secured before the raid? Was a warrant obtained before looking into his laptop and conducting computer forensics? A competent lawyer will have the case dismissed easily but it might be better for him to face some jail time so as to learn that crime truly does not pay. Watching Hushpuppi and co. online does not mean you can emulate them, head pass head grin grin grin
Crime › Re: Heartless Okada Rider Machetes Benefactor To Death by abbey621(m): 8:45pm On Dec 16, 2018
“I am a Christian and I will not lie. I did it, I killed him and I believe if I say the truth, the truth will set me free. I wanted to steal the motorcycle, so, I stopped paying him the money. I didn’t know he would find me because I changed the route he knew I was plying.
Properties › Re: Legal Advice Needed, My Landlord Just Brought Quit Notice For All Tenants. by abbey621(m): 4:58pm On Dec 16, 2018
I'm in an almost exact situation. I gave first notification along with renewal notice back in March of this year, his rent expired in August, I just gave him another quit notice in November. Any lawyer or person with knowledge of Lagos laws willing to advice? Do I just wait it out and let him use an additional 6 month from Novemeber or are there other legal remedies. Tenant is on a yearly lease and rent was due back in August.
Politics › Re: Who Won The Vice Presidential Debate: Yemi Osinbajo Or Peter Obi? VOTE HERE by abbey621(m): 5:43pm On Dec 15, 2018
Asshurbanipal:
Your analysis sound like self consolation
I'm yoruba, so how does self consolation apply?
Politics › Re: Who Won The Vice Presidential Debate: Yemi Osinbajo Or Peter Obi? VOTE HERE by abbey621(m): 1:42pm On Dec 15, 2018
Codes151:
what is Biafra? Did they tell u that every one from the south is biafran or everyone Atiku supporter is Igbo?

A simple vote, instead of to vote and pass, your hear talking poo...
Mindset of the majority defines an area or region. Majority(70%) of Igbos want Biafra, it is as clear as white on rice. In regards to Atiku's supporters we know he is not winning the Southwest, we know he's splitting the North but his true stronghold is the South/South and South/East where Buhari is detested and Obi is seen as a decent politician, so my analysis still stands, the choice is a lose-lose-lose situation for Nigerians.
Politics › Re: Who Won The Vice Presidential Debate: Yemi Osinbajo Or Peter Obi? VOTE HERE by abbey621(m): 3:24am On Dec 15, 2018
You call that a debate...lol. The question my South/South and South/East brothers and sisters should be asking is simple:

1. Will Atiku make Biafra a reality?
2. Will the marginalization stop?
3. Are we saying your people were not marginalized from 1999 to 2007? What gives you all the impression that the Atiku of then is not the same Atiku of now?
4. The hatred for Buhari should be equal to the hatred for Atiku. Are you guys really expecting Obi to become president after 8 years?
5. If you answered "NO" to question 1 and 2. Are you not ashamed?

Dilemma for all Nigerians: Vote for Buhari = Suffering; Vote for Atiku = Suffering; Don't Vote at All = Suffering...... cry cry cry
Romance › Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by abbey621(m): 10:26pm On Dec 10, 2018
Just one question, you don knack? If yes then knack some more and GTFO and if no, try to knack ASAP and if no luck cut your losses!
Politics › Re: This Fine Picture Of PMB & Wife Go Pain Them - Joe Igbokwe Mocks Buhari 'Haters' by abbey621(m): 9:21pm On Dec 10, 2018
LibertyRep:
Garba Shehu and Femi Adesina can't represent him all the time. Nigerians want to have their President talk to them, that carries more weight and perhaps shows who is in charge.

Ha can't be holed up inside the rock or be held 'hostage' by the infamous two-man cabal ( according to Aisha, his wife) and except Nigerians to keep quite. His actions and or inactions are what is fueling the Jubril rumor and it seems he enjoys it.
Like I said he's free to interact on rrelevant matters, not matters of human clone and other nonsense!
Politics › Re: This Fine Picture Of PMB & Wife Go Pain Them - Joe Igbokwe Mocks Buhari 'Haters' by abbey621(m): 8:58pm On Dec 10, 2018
LibertyRep:
Uncle Joe, please tell PMB and or his handlers that a live media chat with Nigerian journalist, on a national network will go along a way to dispel the impostor rumor.

Would that be too much for a president to do?


But he already did in a far away Oyinbo land. In any case, presidential media chat should be a regular event. When was the last time you listened to PMB's live address to the nation?
That's the mistake he made, he gave the theory more fire. Media chat is important on relevant topics but he does not have to attend, that should be the job of the communications director or a representative of his.
Politics › Re: This Fine Picture Of PMB & Wife Go Pain Them - Joe Igbokwe Mocks Buhari 'Haters' by abbey621(m): 8:35pm On Dec 10, 2018
LibertyRep:
Uncle Joe, please tell PMB and or his handlers that a live media chat with Nigerian journalist, on a national network will go along a way to dispel the impostor rumor.

Would that be too much for a president to do?
Yes it's too much, no president should entertain such a ridiculous theory!
Sports › Re: Ernesto Valverde: "Lionel Messi Is The Greatest Of All Time" by abbey621(m): 8:31pm On Dec 10, 2018
The real Ronaldo is the greatest football player ever. Dominated on 5 different teams, excellent for both club and country, rose through near career ending injury to dominate once more. Went to Barca, DOMINATED! Went to Inter, DOMINATED! Came back to Spain, joined Madrid and DOMINATED! One can only wonder if he was never injured from 99-2002, what records he would have shattered....GOAT!

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 201 202 203 204 205 206 207 208 209 (of 311 pages)