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Preshieben:
Omoh...
I know I'm not supposed to be worried but I have to

Whenever a guy approaches me,no matter how nice and lovely he looks,
All I think is,he just wants to explore my pussie and move on..and gbamm I'll just ghost him and this goes on with every guy I meet.

I've had failed relationships, infact the last one ended when I discovered my ex bf was cheating on me with my cousin that I'm four years older than and I'm sure that I've moved on completely but I don't seem to trust any guy any longer

The way I reject men who approach me cos all I think is "he only wants to fvck you, nothing else" is sooo alarming, and I fear if I continue like this,I may not marry

How do I change this mentality?
How do I change my mindset about men abeg?

The best way forward is to do unto others as you wish they do to, so apply the following to yourself "Whenever a guy approaches me,no matter how nice and lovely he looks,
All I think is,he just wants to explore my pussie and move".

Easyincome24:
What could be wrong disqualifying a lady in a job interview for wearing a leg chain?



https://mobile.twitter.com/JojoNitq/status/1502744937007300620

Let that useless friend give her chained leg friend job now since it has nothing to do with it poverty stricken dumb numb head girls everywhere.

LordLugard1:
https://www.newtelegraphng.com/police-plan-2-week-strike-over-salary-outdated-weapons/

Good news, 2 week of self defense.

politicoNG:
Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7027064/dispatch-rider-caught-baby-inside#110978868

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5gSat1grRvY



https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/3/he-is-innocent-he-did-not-kidnap-my-baby-mother-exonerates-dispatch-rider-of-any-wrongdoing-following-claims-he-was-caught-with-a-baby-in-his-delivery-box-video.html

Madwoman mother of the child thank you for inventing a new form of kidnapping kindly visit the nearest police station or government child support office for your patent.

politicoNG:
Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7027064/dispatch-rider-caught-baby-inside#110978868

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5gSat1grRvY



https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/3/he-is-innocent-he-did-not-kidnap-my-baby-mother-exonerates-dispatch-rider-of-any-wrongdoing-following-claims-he-was-caught-with-a-baby-in-his-delivery-box-video.html

Tvc breakfast crew pls bring this woman on air live.

politicoNG:
Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7027064/dispatch-rider-caught-baby-inside#110978868

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5gSat1grRvY



https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/3/he-is-innocent-he-did-not-kidnap-my-baby-mother-exonerates-dispatch-rider-of-any-wrongdoing-following-claims-he-was-caught-with-a-baby-in-his-delivery-box-video.html

Feminine organization pls bring this woman to television live program.

politicoNG:
Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7027064/dispatch-rider-caught-baby-inside#110978868

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5gSat1grRvY



https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/3/he-is-innocent-he-did-not-kidnap-my-baby-mother-exonerates-dispatch-rider-of-any-wrongdoing-following-claims-he-was-caught-with-a-baby-in-his-delivery-box-video.html

They both should be arrested for child abuse, and attempted manslaughter for all the danger, hazard and safety reasons.
Social worker should collect the child from the woman.
The guy could have been killed for his stupidity and mental issues and that would have been justified.
A sane person knows there are rules and regulations not to talk of a certified rider.
Even with the amount of crimes all around the woman and his brother chose to be this stupid it means they careless about the happenings in the nation, too bad.

etokhana:
https://dailypost.ng/2022/03/13/2023-ngf-insists-on-producing-president-from-fold-takes-on-apc-pdp/?utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Twitter#Echobox=1647165606

The formula that produced GEJ.

2mercy:
https://pmnewsnigeria.com/2022/03/11/wealthy-people-with-n1bn-worth-but-owing-banks-n10bn-are-stupid-oyedepo/

Why call them wealthy they of all men most miserable.
I have said let there be a day of pay your debt nationwide and see the results.
Most glorified poverty stricken masquerader forming rich will eventually get back to their respective places.

Favfables1:
The same way I risk my neck for my spouse is the same way I expect my spouse to stick her neck out for me, if she can't do that, then there's no point being together ...

1. She's a match
2. She has 2 good kidneys
3. The man is not just her husband, he has made sacrifices for her in times past, he "partly" sponsored her through school...

And yet, she can't give him her kidney??
So all these things doesn't count for nothing??
Doesn't the vows she took mean anything to her??

Well....
Since she's hesitant, then no one should force her into doing whatever she doesn't feel like doing, they should look for an alternative....

And besides is there no one in the man's family that is a match for him??

The scale is once you are married family is mere formality as two adults you both are the principal, the bible says the two becomes one not the man or the woman with his or her family.
Therefore the wife is the priority even if there are several matches.
The other people who could make such sacrifice are the parents yet he is probably not their only son so as long as the wife matches she is the perfect candidate and if she want to divorce me she should be bold to tell the court her reasons while emphasizing for better for worse and the dignity of the vow she took.

ValCon888:
Nigerian girls don't marry for love. Know this and have rest of mind.

For better for worse don jam road block.

Gbam.

Flexherbal:
This is something you both need to sit down and have a mature conversation about.

I disagree the son must be a wicked devil and completely irresponsible as well as a national disgrace to the world.

Karleb:
@rubyjade

Is this real or made up?

You need to change your circle of friends and family. Too bad! Two weeks and no one showed up? That's ridiculous!


Mine was this grand aunt of mine. The most terrible woman I've met in my life.

It's real and may you never experience it in it's highest form.

Abujaexpress:
I was really baffled by what my heavily pregnant goat did yesterday.

Actually, we have been keeping the goat and she put to bed early last year, a he goat or kid which has grown since them. We use to keep and confine both of them indoors untill the goat and it's kid started showing the crave to step out and hustle to feed and play/mingle with thier likes. We started letting them out in the morning and by evening time, both will come back home and even if they meet the gate locked, they will be using thier limbs and heads to scratch on the gate as notice to us, until the gate is opened for them.

But gradually, they will go out and not come back home, untill after maybe several days, before you will see them. From days of remaining outside, it turned to weeks, while we were always keeping close watch on their whereabouts. Infact, the day I went out searching for them, immediately the she goat sighted me, she ran to me and followed me home while the kid later came back home to join the mother.

What actually shocked me yesterday was that, for over three weeks, the goats have been away from the house, but surprisingly on Wednesday morning, the pregnant goat came home, this time around in the morning, scratching her head and limbs seriously for the gate to be opened for her. Since it is unusual seeing the goat in the morning and because we were going out for work, my wife wanted to send it back to the fields, but the goat refused to go, instead it entered the compound.

We left for work and coming back home in the evening, lo and behold, the goat had given birth to two bouncing kids, hale and healthy. This really baffled me that a goat could know that she was in labour and she had the sense to come back to the house to give birth!!!

Honestly, when I got home, I have to clap for the goat. She gave me reasons to believe that goats, if properly cared for and tendered, can really act reasonably like human.

N.B. I will upload the picture of the goat and the kids later, when I get back home.

No be news even if she is far away and couldn't make it she will still come with the kid when they are fit to take the journey with her to introduce them to you animals are loyal unlike the so-called higher animal (Humans).

Iyaebe:
Nigerian guys are just average in size but overhype themselves on social media, I've requested and seen variety of sizes in my naughty and curious days,even nairalanders sef but it's just there nothing extraordinary. Guys can sabi send their dick pics sharp sharp sha kikikiki.Do you remember [b]when casalindal exposed the dic pics of nairalanders? it was funny, so many unhealthy dicks out there. I [/b]heard and learnt its not by size sha

Pls confirm.

MadamVanessa:




Fake women everywhere , faking their life just to get married to a man.

Why pretending to be who you're not, you just want to pretend just to get married.

Op your wife wasn't a phila let's not even talk of nthropist, she's a selfish and a self-centered kind of person. She knows the type of person you are hence she pretend to be a giver and she succeeded in pressing your mumu button.

She wanted you to marry her and she has succeeded, now is the time for her to show you her real self. If you're not comfortable with the marriage , you can opt for divorce . Let her take her self-centered body to somewhere else.

She only told him fictitious stories.
Women have made me coined words like no be every market Dem dey sell with mouth!

PrinceOfLagos:
https://dailypost.ng/2022/03/11/2023-its-better-north-retains-power-instead-of-south-west-deji-adeyanju/

RUBBISH!
Power shall come to south east and vp slot to northern region rightfully deserving.

omoredia:
We must make our laws work. That's the way to reduce crime. People are so confident committing crimes cos they know our legal system has alot of loopholes.

Support

#omoredia4president2023

I wouldn't say loopholes but irresponsible leadership and deliberate mechanisms of mischievous act.

lexy2014:
From the story, why didn't the police use the guys story to track down his fellow kidnappers? Why is d police in such a hurry to prosecute d guy?

I wonder o.

Olunmercy56:
truth to be told, how could a married woman be sleeping with another man? Because of lack of accommodation? I understand her but what is bad is not good, why not somewhere else or beg for help. it's not the end of the world. Now hidden secret is out, how would the husband feel now?

You are right but there are questions to be asked and why the woman was homeless so I would not blame the woman for the sacrifices she had to make but for her not being proactive and even active once she was threatened until the damage had already been done.

NigeriaNawa:
The Polish and Eastern Europeans including Russia are some of the most violently racist people you may ever encouter. Avoid those countries.



https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10582755/Indians-Africans-Middle-Easterners-border-Nigerian-student-escapes-Kyiv.html

Each continent is a enough for any member state citizen to sojourn going intercontinental is overwhelming but some continent just work hard to eradicate themselves if it were possible.

sharpden:
https://todaypoliticsng.com/catholic-priest-suspended-for-banning-igbo-songs-reinstated/

So the Catholic church just reacted to the social media clip without internal first hand checking.

[quote author=GloriaWisdom9 post=110863023]They were both in the same university,the same level and the same class.
This guy happened to be in a relationship with someone else, but when he set his eyes on this other bae, he gave up the relationship and started dating this new girl.

Everything seems to be moving really fast they were already in final year in school, they seem to be in love with each other, she really wanted to be engaged in her final year, you know how it feels when you graduate with a husband and a certificate that was her goal.

Oh boy watsaap. ... this dude wasn't making any move towards engagement because he likes to do things on his terms, he felt he wasn't ready for that sort of commitment.

Months rolled by, and nothing happened except the usual hangout, chit chat, partying, so she got an idea to get pregnant for this dude which she did. Little did she know that that was her undoing because he was already making plans to leave the country which he did two months into her pregnancy to get his master's.

The baby has long been born he is not back and not even talking about anything of such.

What can she do.
Lovey Dovey.

Pregnancy is neither proof nor receipt of love.

[quote author=GloriaWisdom9 post=110863023]They were both in the same university,the same level and the same class.
This guy happened to be in a relationship with someone else, but when he set his eyes on this other bae, he gave up the relationship and started dating this new girl.

Everything seems to be moving really fast they were already in final year in school, they seem to be in love with each other, she really wanted to be engaged in her final year, you know how it feels when you graduate with a husband and a certificate that was her goal.

Oh boy watsaap. ... this dude wasn't making any move towards engagement because he likes to do things on his terms, he felt he wasn't ready for that sort of commitment.

Months rolled by, and nothing happened except the usual hangout, chit chat, partying, so she got an idea to get pregnant for this dude which she did. Little did she know that that was her undoing because he was already making plans to leave the country which he did two months into her pregnancy to get his master's.

The baby has long been born he is not back and not even talking about anything of such.

What can she do.
Lovey Dovey.


she really wanted to be engaged in her final year, you know how it feels when you graduate with a husband and a certificate that was her goal.
Oh boy watsaap. ... this dude wasn't making any move towards engagement because he likes to do things on his terms, he felt he wasn't ready for that sort of commitment.

Months rolled by, and nothing happened except the usual hangout, chit chat, partying, so she got an idea to get pregnant for this dude which she did. Little did she know that that was her undoing because he was already making plans to leave the country which he did two months into her pregnancy to get his master's.

What sort of goal is that?
What are they chit chatting about if she has such goal.
In my own opinion I think a law should be passed to severely punish women for this endangerment.
Doing things against one's consent is rape and to just bring another human into this world is enough crime not to talk of the manner in which the baby is brought into the world worst is using innocent sperm as bait.
Again women should face from life to death penalty for this evil.
You can argue as much as you can but one counter argument I have is the child is always a bait either bringing it or false pregnancy because such women are destiny destroyers all it's all about the money though.

Yuakwon3:
Make this type of lady catch you for bed if your prick nor peel make I know weytin kosam

Na the oza room she is a professional dancer the guy go run.

TheABOMINATION:
What exactly went wrong with this man, how come he wasn't content with the fame and honor that came from being regarded as a super cop.

Because he was never one.

Shalommy:
He's hardworking despite his condition. God will send a helper to him. Chaiii..

Any able bodied begger should be considered criminal especially in Lagos.

Mystic969:
The lady did well to refuse... With this kind of behavior, marrying him will be hell.

Why don't didn't she did well to reject the gift also or where was her sense of judgement then.

Rtk5:
I went to my director's office to get something from the secretary, i met the presence of a lot of people including a visitor, so i left.

While going he called me back infront of everybody and said didn't you see me?

I answered by saying how? he said, so you can't greet me? I now told him but i greeted you earlier on while you were outside but you never answered.

Then he said that means you didn't open your mouth loud enough. I replied by saying sir, even if i don't greet you, my mind might be somewhere else, then he said why will your mind be somewhere else, your mind must always be here.

I said it is not possible for my mind to always be here sir.

That was all and the following day, i received a letter of suspension without querry. I was asked to sign the letter but i refused and i told the secretary that before i leave all my outstanding salaries should be paid to me. But they refused saying until i finish my 4weeks suspension, I refused and then threatened them with legal action.

Then I received this text today.

This to me is rude and reckless of you "answered by saying how? he said, so you can't greet me? I now told him but i greeted you earlier on while you were outside but you never answered"

You are probably someone who talk back and like ill mannered individual you are in formal environment so you should have been discreet. For instance dragging where your heart is, is so stupid.

[quote author=nwekeugochukwu post=110814178]A Nigerian mum lost her three-month-old baby after leaving the child at a crèche, IGBERETV reports.

Twitter user @Lolo_cy who shared the sad story online said no one knows what happened to the baby only that the mother came back to pick her baby's dead body.

She wrote;

Pls only post a complete version of issues like this.
Was the woman called to the hospital, was the child taken to hospital for any emergency, or was the baby dead in it's sleep pls tell us something to reason with even if it's one side of the story.



https://twitter.com/Lolo_cy/status/1500387723064057857?t=rpOIKoXPwMkvP7UhpEqb5Q&s=19[/quote]

canada2022:
Take heart woman.
Proper investigation should be conducted to confirm what happen.

People should not blame the woman for dropping her baby there. If you were in her shoes you will do the same.

Should there be blame at all?

wolesmile:
Will one now say the pastor refused to train his child in the way of the Lord?
But truth is, a child that will be bad, will be bad.

He failed.
There is no bad child only bad parents.
In case you are contemplating your 'But truth is, a child that will be bad, will be bad'
statement pls get to work by studying parenting responsibilities. Cos that is a lie from the pit of hell