₦airaland Forum

KingZaddy:
it is completely natural for a woman to want rich guys, everyone loves a good life but the wealth is not all there is.

she wants him to man up and dominate, correct and direct her, assure her even when its very bad.


most importantly, never be too available for her, never! make her miss you, let her mind get confused with wether or not you love her.


if the rich kid has this then she will die with him

Thank you sir!

Those qualities your listed up there are labelled as TOXIC MASCULINITY by these angry vagína people. But the twisted thing is, if a guy does anything nicer than that, they would shun him, dump him or cheat on him. Straight!

Men must cultivate and propagate those qualities if they want to deal with the average naija babe. There are some cool, calm, quality women around. But what are the odds that you’d meet them at first? Better to be prepared for the prevalent than stumble through life hoping for the rare.

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Please nairalanders, Is it That i gave him Doggy or is it that i was very fast in Riding his dick ?

Shoutout to Scientists

I googled your symptoms. Sorry. Looks like a severe case of Covid-20. Head down to IDH yaba for isolation.

Nice. I certainly do not agree with picking fights unnecessarily, but your last sentence expresses so much truth!


Be ready to walk away from bullshît. If you accept it once, she will always expect you to accept it again and again.

Some people say you shouldn’t throw away a relationship because of a small issue. Lol.

People are willing to hold on to a relationship/marriage that irritates them daily, rather than address the problem once and for all. That’s how they end up in a 30 year old marriage that’s actually 29 years of perseverance.

Many Nigerian parents tell their adult children to endure and tolerate stuff in marriage. Let me not go there sha. But please know what you can tolerate and what you just cannot accept. Trust your judgment and be a man of principle.

Sultan you have said it all.

2 crates of fura for you.

StacyO:
*fueling station* dear.

You’re wrong sweetheart.

Lol. That’s theft.

Lol.

If you beg her and she no gree, free her jare.

Na cheat you cheat. You no kill person.

But you sef. You shouldn’t have cheated. Well, let me not judge you cos I don’t know the size of the yansh that clouded your judgment. There are things in this world sha.

Some people want to spread this shît.

Granted, government facilities are nonsense especially when they are offering free services but can’t you at least consider the lives of healthy people?

We all know that person won’t readily disclose their condition to people cos they fear stigmatisation. But this also endangers everyone who comes in contact with them. Isn’t it a crime to spread a virus knowingly?

This guy doesn’t value his peace of mind.

Busy?

Ogba market is not as busy as some night markets in Lagos.

Let’s see pictures from Mushin and idumota.

Gvnl:
A man should not go back to his woman if she cheats but a woman can do go back to her man if he cheats?

I still don't understand why men are always given this preference.

Auntie, I didn’t mention that in my comment. Where you see am?

Amanda4life:
Yes only the matured and very rare young ladies.

This job should mostly be done by a parents at younger age.

Once you don't hide anything from your female child at early stage of her life before she goes into TEENS.
If you can capture her mind and make her sew the world of love differently, she will grow to be different from her peers


But most parents may feel its too early or may not really have time for such

If you fail to do this , it means that you are leaving that child to be taught by life experience s, which may not be good at all.
Some, as a result may become feminist, while some may not live to tell their stories.

Not good for a woman to date many men before getting married

True.

Court marshals are by default never open to the public. That means the military can lie to us and we will have no choice but to accept it.

One thing we know by experience is, the military looks the other way when soldiers prey on civilians and more so when a soldier was harmed by those civilians.

We don’t trust the army to do the right thing. They have systematically trained these soldiers to treat civilians like shît. Warri people will smell pepper unless their leaders intervene.

You need to determine if you are only reacting to her or if this is how you would treat any girlfriend.

If she is the trigger then get out of that relationship before she ruins you.

If you get that way with any girlfriend then stop dating till you can manage your anger. Never react physically when you’re angry. Anger can make you do things you’d regret.


Guys I hope you can see that she has remained with him for a year now, despite his quick temper.

That’s women for you. If he was one cool dodoyo guy, she for don dump am tey tey. Nobody understands women. They don’t even understand themselves.

Cijo:
You have said it all my guy. "If you condone nonsense she will take advantage and ruin you"something like that is happening in my relationship now.at first you be like is( ok) when you can't take it anymore and tells her to stop, my man you don enter oh.that's 1 of the mistakes I made today in my relationship and is still hurting me.

Man, I understand. You have to take a few minutes to reflect on your relationship and decide if it is toxic or not. If you determine that it’s toxic, you know what to do. No man deserves to be stuck with a babe that is an unrepentant manipulator.

idtwo:
Being abusive will not help you.
So oga Mr IQ & brain drain, the number of doctors we have in this country cannot effectively manage 200+ covid-19 cases? I thought you have sense? But I was mistaken.

If you had sense, you’d know that even before the pandemic the health sector was grossly understaffed and that this pandemic makes the situation even more dire.

But I’d be expecting too much from you, considering your pedigree. Ignoramus.

OhGeeBee:
It means...
She did her waiting and you didn't open up then. Now that she has probably moved on you're now sending text.

That kind of scenario is kinda painful you know

He walked right into it.

Op, you’re in for a long ride. Whatever happens, don’t do things you’d be ashamed to even remember in future. That means, keep things cool and calm and smooth. No rush. No panic. Just

Makavelli25:
Wawu
Check very well,that guy aint from NIGERIA

Haba it’s not that bad na.

Nigeria has better official survival rates than most first world countries.

Students in Wuhan begged to be evacuated but FG refused. If they aren’t infected now, they’d probably not be infected, going forward.

Also, considering our penchant for halfhearted service and corruption please, abeg, double check on the sanitation of the planes. Don’t let sloppy workers infect healthy people.

idtwo:
A more foolish mindset will be hard to imagine. The feat being done now by our doctors is not clear to you ba.
Why are some Nigerians deliberately foolish?

You should ask your grandfather.

I mean! How could any anyone with even the wits of a preteen miss my point?

Honestly, it takes a special kind of stûpid for you interpret my comment as dismissive of the great work done by Nigerian health workers. I actually implied that we are understaffed due to brain drain and need all the help we can get, especially from those who have dealt with this pandemic far longer than we have.

Quit reasoning like someone with a double-digit IQ. If your father failed to help your intellect, you should strive to be better yourself. Why? Cos at the moment, with what you have written, the apple doesn’t fall from the tree. He cannot help you with the handicap you both share.

I have no time for your kind. You have no value to add to any discourse.

fieryy:
The lady is gorgeous!

You can say that again, my sister. The first thing I thought. The guy carry eye go market.

sosa993:
:Dq

You read me well. I didn’t really mean to be mean, and all that shît. I love my dear African women very much. Just that I wanted to show her the other side of her argument.

micflo28:
Why is this govt stupid? The world is cutting ties with China and looking inward for ways to curb the spread we are busy inviting the vectors and origin of this virus problem. Must we depend on externalities to solve our problem. People are suing China billions of dollars for damages, the least we ought to do is to halt all debt servicing with origin from China. The world is not happy with China, Nigeria should not make them heroes.

Chinese doctors arrived in the U.K. a few days ago to assist them too.

Bro, Chinese doctors have worked with infected patients longer than others. They managed the situation and their country is free of the virus today. They obviously know what their jobs.

And we need help. Too many of our doctors have emigrated.

sosa993:
But why are you so mad at the girl for liking white men yet you think it’s cool when a black guy says he likes whites women. That’s just totally weird.

And it’s more weird you think white men date black women cause of curiosity but white women date black men for sexual prowess. Please what does curiosity mean in your dictionary.

The mere fact anyone would be happy that a certain female race treats them like a sexual lab rat amazes me.

If she’s team white men then it’s her choice same way a black man can be team whites women.

Of course I was mad at her. But not anymore. So you too, no vex.

Keepem:
The fact is, whites ladies like to explore your simplicity. So they don't demand you build castles in the air, just be yourself and honest and be 'rideable'

Good bants

iammiracle1:
How is it a win? That white ladies seem to "like" black men because of their sexual prowess, I used to think this was a good thing until I realized that it's a big slight to us that they only like what we can do in bed, or how much money we have in our account, we are worth much more than our bed antics or swag never let this so called white women play on your manly intelligence.

A win because the men get laid, which is good for a sexually active person. And a win because it’s more likely than what she described.

Gosh, some of you should calm down. Besides it’s banter directed at a certain person who says she is “teamWhiteMen”. Context please.

Zooposki:
Actually statistics show that marriages most likely to succeed are black women/white men, while the marriages least likely to succeed are white women/black men.

Let me accept your statistics, however we are talking about attraction and the likelihood of a relationship between them.

PHijo:
Tired old men settle for Black or Asian girls when the kind of White women they wish to be together with won't accept them. Most prefer Asian girls because unlike their
African counterparts they are not too demanding when it comes to money.
Another thing is the assumption White people have about Black women's sexual organs. They believe it is large, they believe Asian women have smaller organs. They settle for smaller organs and Less stress.

Emphasis on “less stress”.

They think black women are stress personified. Even many black men think so.

Petyprincess:
interracial relationships are beautiful Sometimes dating outside your race gives you more opportunities nd experience! If you are a black girl nd you ve never dated a white guy you are missing alot!!
#teamwhitemen

You forget one thing. By default you are not that interesting to a white man. More like curiosity or a risk. There is a stereotype of angry uncultured women that colours the general perception of black women.

For guys though, it’s more of an assumed sexual prowess. Which is still a win.

Good luck with your “teamWhiteMen”

Bro that outro nearly gave me a heart attack. Come on! I wasn’t prepared for that loud music.



I was smiling like an idiot when she was saying what she likes about him. That guy don scatter her head. One crate of beer for him.

Oyinbo babes, despite their enlightenment and education, surprisingly accept simple gestures as proof of love. Unlike naija babes that want you to do PhD-level research before she believes you truly love her. Then she’ll still leave you for a guy who is obviously lying to her.



Anyway, Russia is an especially difficult place for interracial relationships cos of its casual racism.

I wish them all the best.