₦airaland Forum

I won’t pay rent again. Let’s see who will kick me out.

chigoizie7:
Like I have said earlier.


Two things are involved.

1. If you ask her for a fling and she say NO.

2. Toast her, if she accept you, then Bleep her and move on.


Either ways, one is going to be heartbroken if you go for number, but if she accepts number 1. No heartbreak will be involved.


The choice is yours. I had thought option 1 is ideal for mature adults that knows what they want. However, because of the way our society is , I always go for number 2, my only regret is that the girl in question, ends up being hurt or heartbroken.

But , it is what it is. Life goes on

Well said bro.

Many ladies will tell you to tell them your true intentions, upfront. But na lie. They will always tell you “No”. They are always setting themselves up for heartbreak.

Some want the fling too but they’ll be forming good girl.

Ebonygirl1:
One of the reasons I dislike some Nigerians. Couples be hiding shitt from each other. If he's having a steady income, isn't he supposed to tell her since he sees himself spending his life with her? Its one of the things that increases his chances of marrying her.

Increase his chances of marrying her? Like she’s what? Miss World or what?

See woman thought process o

sinaj:
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[Facepalm]

No, no, no. You read my comment wrong. Too hasty. Let me explain.

So, the story is about “shît”.

You wrote “...copying and pasting people’s shît”

Pun detected. A play on words with a pinch of humour in the mix.

I wrote “No pun intended?” With a Question mark.
Meaning I saw the pun in your response.

I don’t like explaining stuff like this.

Spiritfun:
I'm a very confident man! I go for what I want anytime. If she doesn't want me, I'll move on and never look back cos keeping her around will block potential friends

Just don’t tell her your plans before proposing. If she says yes because of it, you won’t like what you will get o.

End to end encryption prevents interception. To begin to decrypt messages between two users is mighty stress. Imagine millions of users then.

They’d rather invest that money in themselves (steal the funds) than bother with such surveillance.

sinaj:
Fear God when copying and pasting people's shit

No pun intended? I doubt that.

As a man, that’s the proper thing to do. Your woman should be the one loving you more. It’s the surest way the relationship can survive.

Lol.

You think she has the qualities you want in a wife.

She doesn’t think so of you.

Pot of beans.

If you influence her into saying yes by telling her your travel plans, you are building a house on sand.

12345baba:
Go for pre natal diagnosis to find out the genotype of the child, it costs around 300k in Lagos. Results come after a week after that una go fit decide on what to do. No fear

OP has started receiving bill even before delivery. All because of konji.


I know some other nairalanders are dating their fellow AS and they are going to read about his plight and still make the mistake of nacking raw. The bills will pile up. Na then una go know say khaki no be leather.

Ifemide123:
If this is her very first pregnancy and you're both AS, the probability of having SS as first child is low. You're probably gonna have an AA or AS. Sha be careful and dont get her pregnant the second time.

Wrong. The probability remains the same for every pregnancy.

There is a 25% chance for an SS baby, every time she gets pregnant.

And let me tell you something, 25% is actually too much of a risk to take.

Honestly I no pity una at all at all.

A whole graduate threw away his common sense because of sex. Konji na bastard, true true. I think we should be congratulating you and your woman.

I once followed an SS patient on twitter. She hates her parents with passion. Because they were selfish like you and went ahead to have kids. They face the pain of watching her suffer and they still face the scorn in her eyes when they tells them it’s their fault.

We need laws that will jail couples like you who decide to be selfish and throw caution to the wind.

Experience is the best teacher.

In this case you want that experience to be your own. You guys don’t want to learn from the experience of parents facing the pain that comes with caring for an SS child.

No, you want to risk it all on the altar of sweet sex.


I can see someone mentioning a genetic intervention for AS/AS couples. I have not seen the same person mention the cost and the location of the hospitals.

If you like, continue with your lack of self control.

Alexaonfleek:
Abegggi
This is all audio.Nowadaus,wife contributes financially in most houses,even more than the husband in some cases.

Abeggi. Don’t make a rare instance look like it’s the norm in Nigeria.

In reality, even Nigerian feminists avoid guys who want to split the bills. They prefer patriarchal men. Men who take up “responsibility”.

Dreiwizzy:
For reasonable first sons only. Some are selfish, they don't care at all

Once a firstborn decides to face his own problem Nigerians will call him selfish. He has enough problems of his own to deal with. Don’t add to it.

bukatyne:
What is your definition of love?

The question is do you love yourself?

You didn’t have to quote the lengthy post . Come on!

Dem go fight war for this thread.

Jewessgratitude:
For your info uncle and those saying I'm struggling to enter VI or Ikoyi through marriage, I was born and brought up in Ikoyi. Awolowo Road. At the Island marternity hospital by a white doctor from a well to do home by the grace of God.

I only mentioned those places cos I know most of us who were brought up there are well behaved and I can easily relate with them as we share same sense of humour. And not bush like you who only know how to bash people.

I only wanted like minds.

“...by a white doctor...” oshey

Things that seem important to people these days ehn. There are points I’d love to argue, but not now, not with this persona (that I’m enjoying) and not with someone who would say something like that to prove a moot point.

This forum was designed for anonymity, so I go leave matter for Matthias.

Like I said earlier, Hantie, ẹ má binú.

charliboy654:
A forum with over 2 million people and you say non live in vi, do u realize celebrities, politicians, Nigerians in diaspora are on this forum.
Wetin dey the vi sef, there are just average Nigerians. Living in vi doesn't mean you are intelligent.

Exactly.

She comes across as one of those babes looking to escape hardship through marriage. I believe that’s why the threads about broke but entitled babes, hit her different. Not hating on anyone’s hustle.

Some NL members (MrCork, for example ) live in decent neighbourhoods around the world. Na VI and Ikoyi dey shack her.

It must be a reactionary jab, anyway. NL guys must have touched a nerve.

Hantie, no vex.

What a sad concluding statement.

And that is how all men end up as scum in the eyes of women these days. One man is going to define all of us.

Anyway, I know what it feels like to be in love with a lady who needs you to be sad for her to be happy. Weird flex, but na so we see am.

Madam, you married your enemy. I am happy you have finally decided that your sanity is sacrosanct and you would leave him to protect it. All the best.

I was ready to fight if I didn’t see Kel on that list.

Kel my crush.

LGBT people ask you to be tolerant and then go on and shît on your beliefs and expect more tolerance.

Just say something about their sexual orientation and boom, you’re a vile bigot. And they will drag you to the ends of the earth.

The most intolerant people are gays. They can literally call you out for AVOIDING THEM.

Jasen1:
Nothing like a friend

It's you ooo

And yes it will affect you in future

Tell her.

Today is Sunday. Can somebody lead us in praise-worship? Thank you.

Olivegreen:
Why do they always come after the side chick?? Some side chicks may even be thinking they're the main chicks.

That's why money is important cuz I can't start figting anybody and I can't kill myself. Now if you have money you must have boys (agberos, military men, bodygaurds, assasins etc)

One phone call and my boys will kidnap you, deal with you for a whole week then set you free. You would never suspect I am behind your kidnap and you'll come running back to me for forgiveness.

I’m sorry for your boyfriend.

They don’t even look attractive.

Anyway all I can see is women supporting women.

Ride on. No pun intended.

It appears you really want to work in media.

Start from your Instagram page. Create content. Then apply to all these online TVs: Ndani, RedTv, PlusTv, etc. Work for a few months and move to the next station.

Be deliberate. Don’t give up after any rejection. People that matter recognise determination and they will pick you.

In the UK right now, it’s L for Labour. Like, Literally.