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She really let her driver be himself. Not many wealthy employers are this open-minded.

Sometimes life defies the skills of even the most talented professionals. Sad.

O boy!

Someone cannot peacefully lodge side chick in Nigeria again. What is the world turning into?

The day they will embarrass the wrong person is coming.

Kobojunkie:
Entitlement?...I simply asked questions to better understand his qualms with each of those he seems to blame for his predicament, nothing more.

When a story doesn't add up, it is best to ask questions to better get more information to help you better understand the situation.

Even a blind man could see that you had started to gaslight OP. It is obvious where you lean anyway.

Kobojunkie:
[s]1. Stop feeling guilty over your Dad's issue.... the moment you left home to live with your own family, your father's plans became your father's plans and not yours. You now have bigger fish to fry of your own.... your family. It is brutal but the truth.

2. You say your brother-in-law lives with you, but you never mentioned how old he is and if he pays rent to live with you. What exactly do you feel disrespected by him for?

3. Does your sister-in-law also live with you? What is the quarrel about her?

4. As for your wife, you want her to be grateful, can you please be more specific as to what it is your quarrel with her is? [/s]

Delete this nonsense abeg. It reeks of entitlement.

OP should finance the loan in peace but that brother in-law has to go. Simple.

yemmight:
The Orobo in her don dey too much, I beg.

Leave it. We like it like that.

Her husband doesn’t like load. He is not greedy like me.

lessonotes:
I can't understand you either; is it you can or you can't; which one?

No Bank will give you a loan for an idea, you can try venture capitalists, but before you do, be armed with your business model canvas hypothesis, research and growth potentials for your idea as well as customer pains you're trying to eliminate and gains you wish to proffer. Also an MVP (Minimum Viable Product) will not be bad.

If no way for there, look for all these bootcamps sprints online e.g F6S (https://www.f6s.com/) and go through them, also save money if you're a salary earner so that you can bring your idea to fruition.

It’s not everyday we see people who share such valuable advice on Nairaland. Thank you!

Kobojunkie:
No, does one throw all standards away simply because one is lonely?

Nothing in that story indicates that he is single by choice.... he seems to know what he wants and will not settle for less.... is what it seems. According to the OP, he is also afraid of commitment - another level of complication.

Thank you my brother. You truly understand. The fact that he sometimes feels lonely doesn’t mean he should ignore red flags or just marry any babe he is introduced to.

Some people remain bachelors for long because of heartbreaks. For example, would he choose someone who has the same bad vibes as his Ex just because he wants to marry? No.

There are diverse reasons for remaining single and as one gets older you begin to narrow your choices and become more specific when choosing a partner. The days of experiments are past.

debbydams:
get a wife den

See talk. Is that how they “get” wife? Just enter registry and select one babe and marry or what? Oya, marry him na.

After a while as a bachelor, marriage no go dey hungry you again. Only occasional intimacy after which you’d want your space again. It’s addictive.

You’re under a lot of stress! Maintain your health.

Fahdiga:
Best in the world right now

Best wetin? Take it easy na

It’s like there is a pôrn star in that house o. Mazi must not lose concentration. 90 million is at stake.

Person dey bear angel but wetin dey see ehn… okay.

TheGoodJoe:

Why stress yourself with arrest when Buhari can just ban it?

You have a point. He’s been on a banning spree.

But there must be severe punishment for snatching innocent men from their wives. What is bad is bad.

Kayanmata must be banned.

Not that I believe it works though. But it emboldens the users to manipulate innocent men. That is a crime against free will. Producers and users of Kayanmata must be arrested and jailed for 25 days.

Hire private investigator to trail him.

Did anyone ask if she was perfect? Lol. Seeking attention again.

Magnoliaa:
1.

Please Madam I don’t know what you’re talking about. Do I look like someone that cheats? No.

Alexaonfleek:
Big nyash doesn't equation to love from fans
You'd need something more than Big nyash to keep you in the house

This life no balance

So you people have removed another big yansh that I support?

First JMK, now Jackie?

Why why why?

She wouldn’t be trying to clear her name online if she didn’t drag it through mud in the first place.

You don’t just say YOLO every time. Some scandals will trail you forever.

Wahala pass wahala.

He never listens to advice, right?

Good luck to you. You will have to take a gamble for him like he did for you.

Also be sure if that 500k can pay off the existing loans. If not, then tread carefully.

waywardpikin:
Well, women generally find it hard to accept that there could be a man out there who doesn't want them. A whole spec like them.

It's a hard hit.

You hit the nail on the head.

The guy no dey feel her like that

It’s like Nigerian nurses have a special kind of wickedness. Maybe they trained them like that in nursing school.

He actually said “please no insults”


Funny guy

I trust our useless police to arrest Sandra as a murder suspect. Then torture her while scamming her parents in the name of bail before their “investigations” finally reveal that it was really a suicide.

This boy don put him babe for serious gbege.

Of course they will also arrest the person who discovered the corpse and reported it to the police. Money must be made.

Ednagirl87:
Pardon me plss. I really appreciate Men who single handedly take up famil responsibility. It ain't easy oo. My eyes have seen something

Love has clouded your eyes. Normal level. Now it’s time to be strict and deliberate about how you want to manage the wealth life has given you. Don’t let anyone waste your money again.

Is there anyone in this world who has not been infected? Those of us who are alive should be thankful.

You just had to spoil with this

Ednagirl87:
I dont understand men sometimes. It is very disorienting��.

It’s not “men”, it’s your husband.

But wait, men go through this wahala every bloody day in the hands of their unemployed wives but we don’t see them running to nairaland to wail.

Better face it like a man.

If the universe gives you the opportunity to make wealth then you should develop leadership and management skills to maintain and grow that wealth. Cut unnecessary expenses and be strict.

These comments Una too like yansh

The topic says “dating”. Everyone is talking about sex. Abeg. Is that the only aspect of dating that matters?

Have any of you dated or maybe married a sexy hawker? Did you go on dates? Were you two able to relate very well?

My mother’s good health.

Long overdue.

Beebah2000:
Hmmm, na wa ooo.
The man wan fúck but e just dey pretend.
Yeye man

So him analysing the unwarranted sexual harassment makes him a yeye man? What about the useless woman who harassed him? I guess you won’t castigate her cos those who live in glass houses don’t throw stones.

Nonsense

Yoighaman:
Dating or getting married to a baby mama issa No-No. Don't care about what anybody says, opinion is a public toilet.

I like your style of writing though. Kudos bro.

Thank you bro.