Nairaland General › Re: Don’t Do These Again Once You Reach Age 30 by akaahs(m): 4:37pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
ItuExchange: By age 30, you should be smart enough to never do this in your life:
1. Don't share everything It's important to maintain some privacy, even with close friends and family.
2. Don't rely solely on your 9-5 Having multiple streams of income is a smart financial strategy. Don't put all your eggs in one basket.
3. Don't neglect your health Take care of your body by eating well, exercising regularly, and getting enough sleep. Remember, you only have one body.
4. Don't do what your friends do If your friends' activities (such as using drugs or drinking excessively) don't align with your values, it's okay to choose different activities.
5. Don't just blame your parents It's important to take responsibility for your own life and not blame your parents for everything.
6. Don't wait for the "right time" The right time to take action is now. Don't let your ambitions remain a dream.
7. Don't take criticism personally Try not to get too caught up in what others think of you. Remember to prioritize your mental health.
8. Don't take advice from everyone Be selective about who you take advice from. Look for guidance from people who have achieved what you want to achieve.
9. Don't blindly follow books Books can be helpful, but it's important to think for yourself and not blindly follow their advice.
10. Don't try to impress others Focus on impressing yourself and let the right people be drawn to you. Don't go broke trying to impress others.
11. Don't depend on others It's important to be self-sufficient and capable of tackling your own problems.
12. Don't lie to yourself It's important to be honest with yourself. People may believe your excuses, but you won't be able to fool yourself.
13. Don't wait for opportunities Create your own opportunities. Don't wait for them to come to you.
14. Don't argue with people Don't waste your time trying to win arguments or prove a point to those who are unwilling to listen.
15. Don't fear rejection Rejection is a normal part of life. Remember that "no" is just the start of a constructive conversation.
Author: Sheikh Irfan, Quora Among all of these, na only number 2 dey weight me down. I can't just understand why it's i dont seems to get it. Frustrating |
Sports › Re: Folarin Balogun Is Ligue 1 Topscorer by akaahs(m): 7:46am On Feb 02, 2023 |
lazynairalander1: This top boy arsenal let go and settled for one nketia. Very unserious club, no wonder they settled for turnaround j5 from Chelsea.
Go Balo He is on loan |
Culture › Re: Emir Of Dutse, Nuhu Muhammad Sunusi Is Dead by akaahs(m): 12:23pm On Feb 01, 2023 |
adecz: It's a long story which started with the defeat of the original Hausa kings ( Sarki ) by Othman Danfodio's jihads of the early 19th century ( 1800s).
For example, imagine Fulani defeating Yoruba land and then replacing the Alaafin, Oni or Obas with emirs and forbidding all Yoruba cultures and practices.
That's what happened to the Hausas. Wowed, I'm a northerner (kd=southern kd) but never really thought about it. |
Culture › Re: Emir Of Dutse, Nuhu Muhammad Sunusi Is Dead by akaahs(m): 8:55am On Feb 01, 2023 |
adecz: Emirs are a parasitic institution that contribute nothing to society but feed fat on sweat of the Hausa masses.
It's interesting to know that no Hausa man can become an Emir in Hausa land.
They are there to remind the Hausas of their status as slaves to the Fulani.
RIP all the same.😕😕😕 This ur post is shocking oooooo. Please don't vex, can u enlighten me the more? |
Politics › Re: Is The Tinubu Comment About Jesus And Peter Obi In Anambra Not Blasphemous? by akaahs(m): 5:55pm On Jan 31, 2023 |
Trollronaldo: Can he talk about Mohammad Saw and Kwankwaso like that in Kano without getting stoned to death?
Christians, make una shine una eyes o What did he say about Jesus and Peter Obi?? |
Career › Re: What Skill Can Call Member Learn During The Service Year ..? by akaahs(m): 3:32pm On Jan 30, 2023 |
OboOlora: Op Carve a niche for yourself and just learn PowerBI reporting. Come and thank me in 1yr’a time when u start earning in $ How does this skill work and how can I get started?? |
Family › Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by akaahs(m): 2:38pm On Jan 29, 2023*. Modified: 8:06pm On Jan 29, 2023 |
FriendsAndFans: I am planning on getting married this year, so i want to seek guidance from married folks how they were able to raise funds to sponsor their introduction and wedding.
i dont have a partner yet, i just want to plan ahead. Watorpourously speaking, I saved from 20k_30k for 5 years with the intention of either starting a business or marriage. At last, Na wedding came first. I wrote for assistance in my place of work with my wedding card attached, nothing came out. I proposed something to my HOD to enable me get something to support my wedding, nothing came out. I took my wedding card to our over all oga (a president of one of the court), nothing came out of it. Na only my savings and small small help from friends and family that help me ooo. So oga, make sure you have substantial amount that can prosecute ur wedding up to 90%, don't too depend on others help. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Kindly Share Initiatives In Place To Manage This Situation by akaahs(m): 10:10am On Jan 29, 2023 |
[quote author=QuinModah post=120451522][/quote]Let's start from u first. U want to hear amebo, u don't want to give ur own amebo |
Politics › Re: Osinbajo Pays Condolence Visit To Nasarawa Over Airstrike, Death Of Governor Son by akaahs(m): 11:40pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
Dem dey kill people for southern Kaduna, this errand boy from Oduduwa no deem it fit to even sent his condolences talk more visiting people down there. |
Travel › Re: Road Trip To Toronto, Ontario, Canada From Pennsylvania by akaahs(m): 7:31am On Jan 27, 2023 |
Borgamaame: From the parking lot to the Falls itself is a bit of a walking distance. Well, I found my way through the signs. Look around with me  How much do you budgeted for this journey? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Did You Receive Similar Message From NPC? by akaahs(m): 8:38pm On Jan 26, 2023 |
grandee4u: I just got this customized text message from census, did you receive similar message? If yes, how authentic is it because I dashed the portal to confirm if my application status has turned from pending to approved, it was still showing pending. Urgent response, please. Mine sef, since I got my application ID, I couldn't be able to go further again. |
Family › Re: A Friend in Naija Just Lost Her US Based Husband Just 7 Months After Wedding by akaahs(m): 8:25pm On Jan 26, 2023 |
TheGoodAmerican: What a tragic death. May his soul rest in peace.
As for your friend, because they were married for only 7 months and she obviously has no kids for him, she should move on. His kids in the U.S and relatives (e.g. parents, siblings, etc) in Nigeria are more entitled to them than she is. How can they be entitled to something she contributed in acquiring?? Tumbuleke: Thank you….. |
Politics › Re: Akwa Ibom North-West: Supreme Court Affirms Akpabio As APC Senatorial Candidate by akaahs(m): 9:37pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
No wonder he was dancing and raising hands in church today like someone That won a jake pot. I sha for hail am ooo after the adoration |
Romance › Re: What Bad Behaviour Can You Never Forgive? by akaahs(m): 5:19pm On Jan 17, 2023 |
Banilla: What can your boyfriend/girlfriend do that would make you end the relationship without hesitation?
Mine would be gaslighting. I absolutely hate it. Also, flirting with other girls. If you do it, I won't be jealous, I'll just leave you. I can't stand lying. She said I'm heartless without any justifying reasons. Guess I frustrated her love for me but I still ended it instantly. |
Family › Re: Husband Catches His Pregnant Wife Having Sex With Another Man In Uganda Hospital by akaahs(m): 11:09pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Danjibola: How is he sure say na him get the pregnancy sef How much and ur location |
Family › Re: I Am Not Happy With My Wife Please Help by akaahs(m): 8:30pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Fabulozz: I know I sounded childish but cannot lie to you knacking without sucking the breast make me feel like a failure 7 Just knack in peace bro. Ur case is even better, my wife birth 4 months ago, I'm yet to have sex. 2 months and three weeks inside the 2 months, u don see to knack. Praise God bro |
Business › Re: Debt Securities: What Are They And How Do They Operate? by akaahs(m): 8:41pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Treasury bills I have tested and I think is the safest. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Npower Commences NEXIT Soft Loan Process For Npower N-agro Beneficiaries by akaahs(m): 8:35pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
aylagos: and Tell us any of the present political party that can match the Achievements of APC Get out, never come to my mention. Which achievement? |
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Family › Re: My 7 Year Old Nephew Fingered A 3 Year Old Girl by akaahs(m): 8:46pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
Thebadpolitican: Your mom is woke
Your wife is woke You yourself is woke
All of una mumu for una family What of the sister that gave birth and donated the boy to the grandma?? What of d boy father nko?? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Genocide' Warning: As Armenian Christians Face Potential Horror, Nagorno-karabak by akaahs(m): 4:13pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
IreneJane: Shut up joor , do you even know the history of southern Kaduna .. even I stand to be corrected , southern kaduna crisis is way back older than you because it's over 50 years it has been like that , it's not religion issues , there are some ethnic shadow parties igniting it , it's even beyond FG for now . Those people won't tell you exact cause , they have a specific period of the year they kill and the funny part , hardly will you see non indigent to be killed . There is nothing like religion issue in southern kaduna , it was just being framed as reasons U re nothing but a pathetic liar and shot d fu*ck off, if u don't understand anything concerning u or anything. What happened way back 50 yrs ago?? How is it, what is going on isn't a religion issue?? ... And re those framing it? |
Politics › Re: We Are Under Attack By Herdsmen - Ajowa, Ondo Community Cries Out by akaahs(m): 3:23pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
e go reach everywhere, shey una go open mouth dey spew rubbish on top southern Kaduna matter. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Newcastle (0 - 0) On 3rd January 2023 by akaahs(m): 9:08pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
Nobody get the link to give us stream ni |
Politics › Re: List Of People Killed In Southern Kaduna 13/12/2022 Pics by akaahs(m): 9:22pm On Dec 26, 2022 |
[quote author=eagleu post=119378568]Seriously? The south Kaduna Christian community that hates Igbos so much that they would rather make suya of the Christian Igbos than complain about marginalization and mistreatment at the hands of the Fulani muslims.
Bishop Fearon was just warning against Igbo president while defending Muslim muslim ticket. Go ask former CBN deputy governor Obadiah who complained so much and apologized to Igbos until they finally killed him in a hospital.
From Gowon to Danjuma to Useni, northern Christians have been slavishly doing whatever ever their minority Muslim Fulani overlords say, but when it comes to their Igbo christain brothers, these fo. Oo.ls wax strong and smart.
Less than a year after col. Anuforo refused an order from sarduana to shoot protesting Tivs at sight, JS Tarka was the christian northerner sent overseas to campaign against Igbos and their desire to be safe in Nigeria. [/quote Don't worry it has reached East na. Shey some part of Enugu don dey experience semilar attacks. |
Career › Re: Now I Know Salary Is For Bills Only. by akaahs(m): 4:34pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Flesh10: E-hailing na uber or Bolt na.
Get a good car, register on uber or Bolt. Go for inspection. Once they approve u, start hustling. A week u can make 80k especially in Lagos depends on how u hustle Thanks sir. I dey Abuja. |
Career › Re: Now I Know Salary Is For Bills Only. by akaahs(m): 6:48pm On Dec 24, 2022 |
Flesh10: Hope when you talk about shares you are not talking about shares in Nigerian companies. Those ones one bad policy from the govt will just cripple everything.
I am still surprised that people still see car as a liability. Bro you got change that mentality.
I was a salary earner, earning 65k a month when I saved up after some years slaving to buy a car and resigned immediately...
My brother, the kind of money I made with my Toyota matrix in 6 months doing e-hailing covered all my slavery in office work for two years.
I have a second car now and I no longer drive. I do my business while people drive and remit to me.
Car no be liability ooo How do e_hailing works bro. Honestly I'm thinking of selling off a piece of land and add it up to get a car. I'm tired of my job |
Politics › Re: List Of People Killed In Southern Kaduna 13/12/2022 Pics by akaahs(m): 4:59pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
naijaking1: The average Kaduna christian still believes that Igbos are his biggest problem, instead of uniting with other Christians in the south, these short sighted northern christians are still bent on serving their muslim overlords who unfortunately are determined to eliminate each and every one of them south Kaduna christians. Remember one bishop Fearon last week warning his people about Igbo president? His Fulani president masters are doing a good job making sure all Kaduna christians are eliminated. U ll just come online and open ur mouth waaaa and begin to spew rubbish. Where do u get the information that northern Christians serves Muslims?? Most of u guys are the one sabotaging the effort Christians in the north. We leave in the middle of wolves who make sure we don't breath without any effort from the southern of the country. Just gave me one instance we serve and support Muslims?? |
Agriculture › Re: The Plight Of Ginger Farmers In Southern Kaduna by akaahs(m): 11:55am On Dec 21, 2022 |
geraldo077: I can register the company for you My elderly brothers are lawyers, they can always do that for me. Thanks |
Agriculture › Re: The Plight Of Ginger Farmers In Southern Kaduna by akaahs(m): 11:40am On Dec 20, 2022 |
Lassbati222: I come from Kaduna State, southern Kaduna to be precise. A native of Ham chiefdom who are known to be the top Ginger producing communities and that is why Kaduna State top the five Ginger producing states in Nigeria, which includes Bauchi state, Benue State, Gombe State and Nasarawa.
Farming Ginger is not an easy job, due to the fact that everything is done manually. Starting from clearing the land, digging the soil, cutting the seed into smaller pieces, buying of cow dung and spreading on the land, farming (Which require some to be dropping the smaller pieces of the seed, while others will use hoe to cover the seeds), covering the farm land with leaves, weeding (which can be done two or three times before harvest time), fertilizer application (Applied twice or thrice), harvesting (Done by digging and picking each seed) slicing each and drying. Note that during last farming season, a basin of Ginger seed was going for N12,000 which will only cover a very small portion. Also note that fertilizer which use to cost N8,000 but last farming season, the Local government offered subsidized fertilizer at @ N21,700
Despite this stress, the local dealers are regulating the prices at will, leaving poor farmers helpless.
From October 2021 to October 2022, a bag of Ginger was sold between N30,000 to N34,000 depending on how clean your Ginger is. A bag is usually 41kg. At least it was a little consolation to farmers.
From November local dealers started bringing down the price, knowing farmers have no option, since they have needs. From 30k to 28k, to 21k to 20k to 18k to 15k and now back 20k.
Whereas I have been following the wholesale price of Ginger online. Let's take the price of Ginger as at 17th December, 2022. It was sold at $3.58 per kg. Each bag is 41kg, assuming $ is N700, it means it was going N102,746 and if we keep $ at N500, then it was going for N73,390 but as at that 17th December, local dealers were buying from famers @N18,000. HABA
HOW DO LOCAL DEALERS GET MONEY TO PURCHASE GINGER IN LARGE QUANTITY? I only know few dealers who use their personal money to buy ginger, transport to the wholesale market and sell it. But must of them have bigger dealers within and outside the country who supply them with money to purchase ginger, while trailers keep coming to pack them away to the person that gave out the money. My issue here is, most times you here that the bigger dealers pay this local dealers between 45k-60k per 41kg bag(Depending on who is providing the money) then this local dealers will inturn exploit the farmers by buying between 18-25 0r 30k-34k as the case of oct last year to oct this year. This is really unacceptable.
Please if there is anyone who have an idea on ginger market should help and anyone who have ideas on how we can get out of the grip of these local dealers should please help.
Front page please. The problem of this heartwraking issue is coming, first from our traditional leaders who failed to organize local farmers to dictate the prices of ginger. Second, from our representatives at various government, they failed to bring the presence of government offices that can harness this ginger in a deport in Southern Kaduna where all ginger ll export to international markets. As for me, by God grace I'm gonna register a company responsible for exporting this commodity to international markets. |
Business › Re: Inflation Pushes Up To 21.47% In Nov – NBS by akaahs(m): 4:30pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Good!! Since those that shouted sai baba are the ones dying of hunger. |
Family › Re: Man Holds Ex Lover Hostage On Her Way To Wed Another Man After Training Her by akaahs(m): 10:21am On Dec 15, 2022 |
Jennyclay: One thing men should learn is to help and not expect anything in return. As for me I can't go into marriage with someone my soul does not accept even if you have spent billions on me, I just can't. Even to help, I won't. It most be exchange to something. Love ll never blind me. Nonsense.. |
Nairaland General › Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by akaahs(m): 10:11am On Dec 15, 2022 |
Fountainofyouth: I don't understand? Is he suppose to inform you he got his girlfriend pregnant? Or what exactly is the problem? At least. Since he carried me along right from day one he started the relationship with girl. He made me to make a promise to the dad that nothing will happen to his daughter and I did. Imagine the father decided to ask me about the pregnancy issue, what ll I tell him?? And I was at the traditional rights without knowing. |