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So him or his wife cannot donate kidney for their dieing daughter but want to take a minors own. So non of his other kids can donate for this his daughter that he wants a 15 yrs old to start living his life at this early stage with one kidney? In as much as he wants to safe his daughters life what he wants to do to that boy is evil. He could have gotten an adult for that but no it's a small boy who doesn't know his right from his left.

There is no way this is a case of domestic violence, this is pure premeditated murder, that's how I see it.
And as for that FTC I don't think he is normal and as such he should be done away with to safe a lady from falling into his hands.

maasoap:
Na real man u be! Shame dem hypocrites wey get one wife and multiple side chicks

And who told you having two wives will stop him from having numerous side chicks.

Too much attention seeking not good for ya. Why not add more wives so your blessings will triple. Ode.

The reason they are not protesting is cos they are too hungry to start with. You might think that they are not feeling but trust me the suffering touch every Dick and Tom.

A well deserved punishment. How I wish she will be locked with guys in prison so she can get all the sex she longs for idiot. Just for the love of money she will now be spending the rest of her life in prison.
Do I pity her? NO. Just scared for the little boy she messed up.

Is it still war that they are fighting or the Russian are just catching cruise by destroying Ukraine?

Dalil8:
Pakistan, India, Iran, NK are all rallying behind Russia. And they're all nuclear powers.

I just wish Russian forces would capture or kill this Zelensky guy.

It'll send a very strong message to the west. But atm Kyiv is impenetrable, a hard nut to crack.

If I may ask why do you want the guy killed? Have you had any direct contact with him, as in did he wrong you in any way?

My own is that since they want to get married let them fund it by themselves, ordinarily you would have promised to do this or that but since she wants to go against your wish and that of her mother's to marry at this her young age ignore totally.
And don't you think she must have told the guy about the fortune you just came across and the guy manipulated her to tell you to sponsor the wedding. I think you should let her know you stand FIRMLY against the wedding.

GRIMMJOE:
Our dear Op is confuse. You can't really blame our Nigerian women, they are not very smart.

And we have seen how far the smartness of Nigerian men have taken us as a country, because since our independence I can't recall Nigeria ever having a woman as president.

All this people saying they are handsome, they are beautiful why not upload your pix let us see. As in let's just see you people and give our opinions, or is our eyes not suppose to see some handsome guys and beautiful ladies. Just my suggestion pls.

Senomi:
I miss her scaling our fence and almost breaking her leg just to come see me at night

Pls does your name by chance start with P, you are huge and a little bit fair.

adedayoa2:
My neighbor is 43 and her husband is 68, though he lost his first wife. And they've been married for almost 15 year now.
So, you may allow your sister, and warn the man seriously, not to maltreat your sister.
But I wish she was a bit older than 17, cuz she should still be studying.

My dear the age difference isn't really the issue here as I understand it but the girls age. Take away 15 from 43 and you will see that your neighbor was already matured at 28years and to an extent knows what she wants.

VocalViolet:
This is the time she can get a rich 44 year old, be married and treasured by that rich man. If she was 5 years older he would swerve. So let her take her chance while she's still a hot cake.

Okay, if left alone, what will happen? I'm sure it won't pass some useless boys that she will date in the uni, some will waste her time, some will make her suffer due to them wanting her to do relationship in brokedom with them( no marriage assured there o, on top of everything), some will definitely teach her every sex style as time goes on. Then after enjoyment or no enjoyment no marriage. Educated and old, and undesired and single. Now this bro will be the one consoling her.

This fate of fvcking around and getting old is what gets 80% of our women. So many are now referred to as evening newspapers. You think this girls fate is exceptional? It's better to marry early and do all the sex styles in you Hubby's house and have your kids in peace.

Not being one small boys sex slave and doing abortion up and down for irresponsible boys, which, if you are truthful with me, happens to most girls.

That thing you think she is immature for, she would just be doing it outside. There's no point.

And don't you think that the man not desiring the ops sister just because she is older is a red flag, does that not make him a pedophile. I think he is preying on the little girl's nativity. The age difference is not really the problem here but the OP's sisters age. Assuming OP's sister is like 20years then I don't see the problem there.

All these guys that come up with kayanmata and spiritual manipulation as an excuse for the man frolicking outside. Hope you all will also say same thing when the woman is the one cheating. Op's husband is just been an arse, a grown man walked out of his marriage and some men are saying the wife should go fight for him to come back. No be only go fight for him, she should ransack and bomb the whole place untill her husband comes out.

shortIGBOman:
Wow, People dey enjoy for North. That Onions and Pepper go reach #400 for East. Things too cost here.

Which part of the Igbo States are you in cos those thing won't be up to #200 where I stay. So stop exaggerating it's not that bad down here.

If this man is truly innocent why come with policemen to come kidnap his children from their school.?
And why is he fighting so hard to the extent of going to court just to have those children go with him.
Since he has been alone all these years without them why coming for them now that his wife is dead. So many questions.
And there is the sexual assault accusations which can't be overlooked just like that. Why force your children to be with you when they don't want to.
If this man don't have an ulterior motives then he should let those kids return to their maternal side since they feel safe there. He should go on and have kids or adopt and remove those two from his mind. After all if he is fighting for their own good no be them go suffer am last last?
But I guess he don't want do that because he want to punish those kids for staying with his late wife all these while and abandoning him.

Just give me John Dumelo, alongside Canadian actors Sullivan Stapleton and Ennis Esmer. And we good.

Slynation:
what he did wasn't intentional but no sentiments that was supposed to be a pure red card plus two slaps...!!

Oga our very own Iwobi red card plus two slaps ontop, you no get joy aswear.

That red card issued to Iwobi was unnecessary and the height of wickedness. What he did wasn't intentional and everyone saw that. The match pained me and still paining me I swear.

The worst places to steal are Onitsha and Aba, if you are a thief don't try these two places. Cos even if na #50 something you steal, those no want hear and they no get joy
All the same say no to jungle justice.

No be lie sha. They promote different types of fetish practices and youths now believe that's the way forward.

Entprys:
Still better. Only five of our pipu they kill. No too much. Unlike Enugu and Anambra wey dem dey kill scores.

You really typed this?

Giftlove11:
I'm tired of the love, and the truth is that he uses the advantage that i won't have another person to treat me the way he wants

I will advice you to look for something doing, don't ever ask him for anything again since he treats you badly. Try treating him bad too and I mean very bad, be mean towards him but don't get physical with him. Even if he turns around and start treating you nicely still don't give him time again. Don't settle down with him and untill something serious is done about the covenant don't follow or meet with another guy. With time he might agree to break it. Good luck.

KillIgbohoN0W:
Na your type go fight her bf when he ignore you for just 6 hours. This una fake "I can stay 1 year without sex" story has been tried, tested and debunked by me.

No Nigerian woman can go a day without sex if her man is around.
No Nigerian woman can stay 2 days without sex generally.


Argue with your postinor tablet.

Maybe you should try changing the circle of females you know.

Flynn12345:
If you're reading this, I can explain to you how to do it yourself in your comfort at home naturally without drugs...

Pls how? Explain.

Why are you guys afraid and now singing the song of also give to you father. Is it because you're getting old and you will be needing help? The thing is in every family setting the children knows who suffered more and when is time of harvest they know who to give more too. You can't be an irresponsible father and start chanting give to your father more.
As for me my dad is no more and even if he was to be alive he will get far less than my mom. I was 17 when he died and trust me I know a lot about him. My mom is ready to empty her account just to see you succeed and she is still doing it till date. My mom will give you her phone and be phoneless till you get a new one. My mom will give you the last money on her so long it's for something that will better your life.
So you men should stop with the blackmail of one day what you did to your dad will be done to you too. Listing all the things men do as if there are women who are not providing all the money for the family and at the same time showing care and love to the children.
Both parents should put in more effort in taking care of their children. Dad should be bringing the money and the women pls don't deceive your children as if you are the one doing every thing. Also let the children know that their dad is also dropping something. I rest my case.

[quote author=Mercychen post=107540941]To me, nothing really special about marriage because I've moved closely with married people and all i see is stress, stress and more stress!

Imagine the daily routine of a woman. Especially those who are not working.

Wake up early ( when youre not ready)
Prep the children for school.
Prepare their food breakfast.
If hubby is nice, he'll help drop them off otherwise, you do the school runs.

You get home and start putting the house in order. And attend to other chores staring you in the face. Time is ticking

Get ready to prepare lunch.
Then before you know it, it's time to go pick the kids.
Come back, freshen them up.
Serve them
Attend to their home work.

The you get set for dinner so hubby can have something to eat when he gets home. Before you know it, the day is gone and you're fagged out. Same thing continues tomorrow and on and on until....

Imagine if you're a working Mom and now have to combine all these with work...

Now tell me what will make a single viewing all these want to get married?

Truth be told, that's another thing I calculate and i relax and continue enjoying my single life.

Many married women are not happy. They are silently crying!!!
Forget all that fake smile they wear when they come out. They are not happy

Even the men are not 100% fulfilled. Responsibility wan break their neck.

Let's tell ourselves the truth. Even if you're rich, it's still not that easy.

I've seen a rich couple who both drove madly to school at the same time to pick their ward and were reigning heavy curses at each other at the gate because they both argued earlier on who's going to pick the son. So it's like non of them wanted to come and it was already evening and the boy was still in school.

I guess they called the house and the nanny who was babysitting their twin babies then, told them the boy was not home.

Omor.. see the speed they drove into the school compound with. Wify packed one side, hubby parked the other way and they both jumped out of their cars rushing Into the school and abusing each other.

Wife : " You shouldn't have come" useless man" As she stormed into the classroom

Man: ori e ko pe. why did you come? You should have remained at work"

Hmmm... So much hype about marriage. Abegi!


Even if you don't want to get married,you should try having a child. The stress of raising a child is worth it I tell you. Nothing makes me more happy than seeing my boy grow. Like you can't just describe the feeling. And you have someone to be there for you at old age.

In Nigeria when a lady is raped guys will ask her to produce her evidence, now there is evidence (even dna evidence)they are still looking for a way to throw it out the window. Look at the convicted man saying he is a father to two beautiful boys, and the girl doesn't have a father who she is beautiful to too? That you had to rape her not just through the normal way but also sodomy.
I can't think of a better punishment than the one you are already enjoying. The Jugde and jury saw through and knew that if you ever step your foot out of prison even at an old age you will continue where you stopped.
And for those still supporting him even till now, cos there are pple who is still against him been locked up for life, what he did to that little girl will be your portion too even as an adult.

This your story doesn't add up, how can a man with all you mentioned he has be living in a two bedroom apartment?
And to sell a choice property in order to build a house in the village shows that old age is really affecting your uncle. That's if the story is true to start with.

Pls who will take me out of this country biko. I am tired of staying here.

Beautiful couple, happy married life in advance. Where una for dey meet all these handsome guys abeg?