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Lemme guess it's either she is not into you or still in the "let-him-chase-me" phase....
When you love, you do things out of your way....
The guy that has been on my case for three months now is a super-introvert, even to pick his parent call is another thing....he doesn't even reply to greetings. You may mistaken him for a mannequin in public...
But he is a chatterbox with me,before I say one,he has said one thousand....he will call for like four hours and he will be the one talked and I just say "ok"....
Sometimes I pretend to be busy to avoid his long talk and his parents and friends have to call me to relay a message to him....
So love changes people

missjo:
Hello all, as shown in the topic, what I need most in my marriage is trust.
My husband does not not trust me, he's extremely suspicious of me. At first, it was flattering seeing him show his insecurities by being protective and wanting to know where I am and who I'm with all the time. But I can take it no more cos of the way he keeps mentioning specific names of men he thinks I'm having something with.

To give you a bit of context, this is a summary of our marriage.

By the time I and my husband met, I was in a relationship with someone else. He didn't mind and we clicked mostly because we were classmates from way back. I instantly fell for him and it was easy for me to fall in love probably because the relationship I was in at the time was on shaky ground, we were always fighting.
I found peace with my current husband when he showed genuine interest and we developed our friendship, and that led us to where we are now as a married couple.

Now I'm not stupid, my mind tells me that perhaps at the back of his mind, he feels that if I was able to leave my previous relationship to be with him, then I can do the same to him. This is what I'm thinking, but I also believe there's more to what may be going on in his own mind.
Missing his calls always becomes an issue, he has this attitude of calling me on video immediately after I tell him where I am and then he would insist I pan out the camera angle to show him around.
He has gone as far as mentioning the name of two coworkers of mine, and makes jokes that insinuate I'm having a secret affair.

I love this man, and I would not cheat on him. He makes me swear and make promises to him all the time and frankly, I'm tired of swearing for someone who just won't get that he's got me and won't lose me. It's gotten to the point that his continuous suspicions of my coworkers have made me start noticing them in ways I shouldn't have. I honestly started watching them more just to understand why my husband would ever assume I can be interested in them.

I want him to trust me, I need his trust, but I have run out of things to do on my own. I was going to suggest couple's therapy to him, but I'm so not ready for one of his long speeches.
I just want to do all I can to build the trust and if it don't work, then I can be bold enough to suggest therapy as a last resort.

missjo:
Female ejaculation comes in two forms, scientists find.

What do you think of when you hear the words “female ejaculation”? Come to think of it, the answer may be best kept to yourself. You may have heard that it was banned from being shown in British porn films. But what exactly is it?
Researchers have now come a step closer to defining this controversial phenomenon, by performing the first ultrasound scans on women who express large amounts of liquid at orgasm.

Some women express liquid from their urethra when they climax. For some, this consists of a small amount of milky white fluid – this, technically, is the female ejaculate. Other women report “squirting” a much larger amount of fluid enough to make it look like they’ve wet the bed. A few small studies have suggested the milky white fluid comes from the Skene glands – tiny structures that drain into the urethra. Some in the medical community believe these glands are akin to the male prostate, although their size and shape differ greatly between women and their exact function is unknown.

To investigate the nature and origins of the fluid, Samuel Salama, a gynaecologist at the Parly II private hospital in Le Chesnay, France, and his colleagues recruited seven women who report producing large amounts of liquid comparable to a glass of water at orgasm.
First, these women were asked to provide a urine sample. An ultrasound scan of their pelvis confirmed that their bladder was completely empty. The women then stimulated themselves through masturbation or with a partner until they were close to having an orgasm – which took between 25 and 60 minutes. A second pelvic ultrasound was then performed just before the women climaxed. At the point of orgasm, the squirted fluid was collected in a bag and a final pelvic scan performed.

Even though the women had urinated just before stimulation began, the second scan, performed just before they climaxed, showed that their bladder had completely refilled. Each woman’s final scan showed an empty bladder, meaning the liquid squirted at orgasm almost certainly originated from the bladder.
A chemical analysis was performed on all of the fluid samples. Two women showed no difference between the chemicals present in their urine and the fluid squirted at orgasm. The other five women had a small amount of prostatic-specific antigen (PSA) present in their squirted fluid – an enzyme not detected in their initial urine sample, but which is part of the “true” female ejaculate. PSA, produced in men by the prostate gland, is more commonly associated with male ejaculate, where its presence helps sperm to swim. In females, says Salama, PSA is produced mainly by the Skene glands.

Beverly Whipple, a neurophysiologist from Rutgers University in Newark, New Jersey, says that the term female ejaculation should only really refer to the production of the small amount of milky white liquid at orgasm and not the “squirting” investigated in this paper. “This study shows the other two kinds of fluids that can be expelled from the female urethra: urine alone, and urine diluted with substances from the female prostate,” she says.

“This study presents convincing evidence that squirting in women is chemically similar to urine, and also contains small amounts of PSA that is present in men’s and women’s true ejaculate,” says Barry Komisaruk, also at Rutgers.

Read more: https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn26772-female-ejaculation-comes-in-two-forms-scientists-find/

IceColdVeins:
Forget it. We already kept the 'D' busy

Islie:
Fourteen of Nigeria's serving ministers have degrees in the same course.



https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/451378-analysis-about-half-of-nigerias-current-ministers-studied-these-courses.html

MyopicMods:
Twitter influencer narrates how her Igbo boyfriend's mother crashed their plan of getting married.


A Twitter influencer took to the platform to narrate how the mother of her Igbo boyfriend of 2 years, crashed their plan of getting married.
According to @dearolaa, her prospective mother-in-law's attitude changed when she realized she is a Yoruba girl and she reportedly told her to her face that she can't marry her son because she doesn't like Yoruba people.

@dearolaa further revealed that her boyfriend's mother recently called her parents and warned that she should stay off her son. She also shared anguish of not knowing where she stands as her boyfriend has been in the village for a week.
She tweeted;

My name is Adeolar and I've been in a very serious relationship with an Igbo guy. He's nice, handsome and we've been dating for 2 years. He talked about me meeting his family and I was very excited little did I know that it would turn out to be my worse nightmare.
I met his mum and she seemed really nice, but her attitude changed when she realized I'm a Yoruba girl. She immediately told me to my face that I can't marry her son. Her reasons weren't clearly stated but she said she doesn't like the Yoruba people. My heart melted, hot tears rolled down from my eyes; I'm Yoruba and I'm in love with an Igbo "mummy's boy".
I spoke with him about it and he keeps assuring me that it would be fine. It's been almost 2 years now and the family are still not in support of our union. Every time I try to move on he comes begging that everything would be fine and that we will get married. I really love this guy, why I love him I don't know because clearly he hasn't done anything to deserve my heart but... He doesn't have a good paying job yet, so I carter for most of his financial needs and even send some food to his village during festivity.
Just recently his mother called my parents to tell them that I can't get married to her son and asked that I should be warned to stay off her son. He has travelled to his village for a week now and honestly I don't know where I stand... I really love him but what do I do?
Good morning lovers. This is my story.

icebird25:
Be cautious of what you post or do on Facebook..but some people won't heed to that simple advice..
Oya come and gbese.

As shared by Sapientem @GospelJosiah



https://mobile.twitter.com/GospelJosiah/status/1280206415106379776

ThothHermes:
It's a bit antediluvian to want to command respect by being physically imposing. Chances are they won't respect you no matter how big you become. How big can you even grow anyway?
Give them something to respect; your aura, your brains, project mysteriousness. Also be independent. Don't "send them message" unless it is absolutely necessary.
Nigerians worship money. I would suggest telling them to keep the change on occasion. Not always though as it could have unintended consequences.

I suspect the adults around do not regard you highly as well. The kids take their cue from them most probably.

This is the second ridiculous thread you are creating in succession.
Hope all is well

How old are you by the way

kingthreat:
His name is Monday Gift Oghenekaro. He is a big nuisance online. The clown because he has a phone has been striking out posts on the thread below in the name of fun. He is not up to 22 and insults people way older than him. His type is not serious minded. It is better to donate money to the illustrious shoe maker around your street or that young girl that is selling food to make ends meet than donate to this lazy scam who wants to make money off Nairalanders. Do not encourage lazy youths.

https://www.nairaland.com/5207293/story-cult-phase-included/502#100324584

Bukolaseyi:
It works well for men that work out,it helps build more biceps and makes them eat more....also for men that are skinny,will make u feed well and add on more flesh...

adeabdul2:
Fenugreek for Men


Fenugreek has been used in arthritis and sexual dysfunction treatment for men in Indian traditional medicine for ages. It may also increase sexual arousal and testosterone levels and enhance athletic performance. However, it's best to consult a physician before using natural remedies for treating illnesses, just to make sure it would be safe for you.



Studies have shown that fenugreek extracts have a significant influence on sexual arousal, energy, and stamina and helps maintaining a normal testosterone level. There has also been so many libido enhancing supplements produced from fenugreek that claim to increase sexual desire and performance.



Many research articles have also been written claiming that fenugreek significantly increases performance in weightlifting, reduced body fat, increased muscle strength, body composition, power output and increase testosterone levels in men. The inflammatory prevention property of fenugreek has shown that it is beneficial in preventing heartburn as well for those seeking alternative therapy.



So from my research at least I can say that fenugreek is tremendously beneficial for men.



Side Effects:

There is this fear of men growing boobs and even lactating from fenugreek use. I doubt it. However always start small and always pay attention to your body.

If your pecks and glute muscles seem to be getting bigger just work out those areas to tone them up. You'll only end up looking awesome.

alexintech:
Before buying Apetamin Syrup, have you ask what could be the effect?

Let me Help!

I know Apetamin might promote weight gain because it contains cyproheptadine hydrochloride, a powerful antihistamine with a side effect that includes increased appetite.

Although it is not clear how this substance increases appetite, there are many theories.

First, cyproheptadine hydrochloride appears to increase several levels of insulin-like growth factor (IGF-1) in low-weight children. IGF-1 is a type of hormone associated with weight gain.

In addition, it appears to work on the hypothalamus, a small part of your brain that regulates appetite, eating, hormones, and many other biological functions.

However, further studies are needed to understand how cyproheptadine hydrochloride can increase appetite and lead to weight gain.

In addition, the apetamin syrup contains amino acid lysine, which has been linked to increased appetite in animal studies. However, human studies are needed.

A large number of people are considering this syrup as a weight gaining product, which is totally wrong.

Apetamin itself is not a weight gaining product but what literally it does; is to give more aid to enhance your appetite and slows down metabolism, it also makes you consume more meals, and thus you gain weight efficiently and naturally.

What are the benefits and Effects? find out Here.. https://health.internhubng.com/patients-advice/apetamin/

Lordavmercy:
Being underweight can also reduce a woman’s
fertility. It can cause hormone imbalances that
affect ovulation and therefore a woman’s
chance of getting pregnant. Compared to
healthy weight women, underweight women are
more than twice as likely to take more than a
year to get pregnant. Having a BMI under 18.5
is considered ‘underweight’. You can gain that weight in a healthy way by using APETAMIN weight gain syrup.

soberdrunk:
Very focused on the 'temple of the Lord" Amen somebody!!!!

zainabicy:
Because they are marrying this one for the wrong reason.

If they closed the door properly and entered the new door fully and happily, they won't be glancing back.

But U know, peer pressures , financial adviser friends, age monitoring aunties and grandchildren expecting family have advised us all to 'settle' , so the 'once reached there' has a chance to reach 'there' again because U r emotionally unstable at the time and want to feel a little loved before U enter this wrong step fully.

#saynotoarrangedmarriage #sayyestolove #saynotoforcedmarriage #saynototeenagemarriage #childnotbride #sayyesonlytolove

Oluromantic:
God bless your wisdom. You aren't married yet but you are on the right path thinking properly. Compatibility is very important and germane. I still wonder how some girls think they can reach the depth of a man's heart with lack of respect and submission. Honestly it baffles me, even nature is confused because that's not God's original plan. Well they say some men like it, that's why I don't argue it at all. I was once in such a relationship too, she was impatient intolerant and always want all my decision to be about her in the name of caring. I couldn't cope I had to opt out. I boldly told her to her face that we had to quit. She asked why, I said we're not compatible. She left with dramatic grudges which included calls, chats, utmost rudeness, abuses etc. I felt emotional trauma at first but today I'm thanking God for the decision. I have peace of mind.

Fixey:
When you get to Iyana Oba, take a bike 300 Naira there. It's easy na. I know the street sef


For the sake of your funds go there first.

Follow the procedure of going to the bank. Speak to customer care you want to speak with fraud unit. File a complain there. Then you'll be asked to go to police to make police report let's say 3k. Have the screenshots printed before you head to the bank.



Attach the police report and screenshots then head to his bank and your bank to file complain



When you're done... Take the file number for the case and the scanned document for all of this and send a mail to CBN. His BVN and bank details will be blocked and CBN will instruct his bank to revoke the funds to your bank.


You won't spend beyond 6k in all of this.

LordKO:
No. Neither of the genders is more intelligent than the other, even though on an individual basis, there are more intellectually accomplished men than women, and the reason for that isn't far-fetched.

Intelligence vs perfidiousness: meanwhile, many a time, most people do mistake perfidiousness for intelligence, thus the reason you may likely hear that women are more intelligent than men. Unfortunately, one doesn't automatically need to be intelligent but disingenuous and or normal to carry out perfidious acts. Women are simply more susceptible to perfidiousness than men because of their inherent self-absorption, which is why they're the weaker sex.

So, as a man, self-conquest, which includes discernment, should be your greatest longing and acquisition, without which, you'll always hate women or be under their subjugation. Conquer yourself, as a man, and you'll see reasons to love them - everyone, regardless of gender, has their shortcomings individually and collectively.

dogmart:
I feel you should relax and take your time. You are bent to get worked up and desperate if you put a timer to it.

Truth is there are still lot of good ladies out there. You just need to be yourself and the right one will find you and vise versa.

Go out, mingle, make friends with ladies. Be calm. Don't go hunting in desperation. If you do you are bound to make wrong choices.

It doesn't always mean the lady in question is bad. Might just mean that you are not man enough to handle her, thus she isn't best for you.

And to the poster above me, where did u get your figures from?
There are good ladies and bad ladies, same way there are good guys and bad guys.

Op relax, and you will find what you seek.

fergie001:
...Where there are issues, the applicant must be notified within 48hrs.

It will also afford Nigerians the opportunity of getting their Passports within 24hrs, at the high premium service & 72hrs at the ordinary premium service, albeit with added value and a little bit of extra cost.

A centre like this is necessary to reduce stress. Secondly, by minimising human contact, it eliminates the prospect of corruption.

The commencement of the operations of this world class facility will not only offer Nigerians services of convenience and pleasure by taking away the hitherto stress in the conventional passport offices.

I must be quick to add that these feats wouldn’t have been achievable without the unwavering support and sterling leadership of President Buhari who has supported the ministry and especially the NIS. My thanks and admiration of him is therefore without reservation.

naptu2:
https://fij.ng/article/a-rape-case-involving-two-rich-kids-is-being-bungled-in-lagos-and-the-dpp-is-complicit/

micklplus:
I treated this topic extensively june 2010 on nairaland. I am using my phone so, I can't send the link but, u can get the thread, go to my profile and check out the topic " sextrology" you sure would learn one or two things.

The truth is, astrology is real and I have studied it well in the past. I have come to a conclusion that, astrology compatibility is like a law that guides us. Like someone pointed out above, you can damn some pointers IF you are tolerant enough and IF you can always consider the how compatible you are to your spouse and then, work around it as a guide.

For example, I am a cancerian likewise my wife! The astrological combination says" it is a hell hole of boredom" ( cancer cancer relationship) but, I have come to work around this "boredom" and we are doing great after about 5 years together. I don't look for faults which already, I am aware of rather, I concentrate on her strong points

If you are spontaneous, creative and understanding enough, you should be able to work around astrological compatibilities! If not, I'll advise you to seriously consider how compatible you are with your spouse before you tie the knot.

Above all, love is very important. Cheers

Jessyj616:
you are to just be a friend at first without divulging any romantic interest.

Dont ask if she has a bf, when you do, she guesses your intention and will most likely tell you 'yes she does' or no then closes up on you as she begins to suspect you will ask her out next.

Focus on your own game, dont bring up the image of another guy in her mind by asking.

many say that to discourage the guy. Just smile and say you are not the jealous type or something and continue whilst giving her personal space.

Jessyj616:
For an online chat
my suggestion? Be friendly, ask questions that their reply just cant be 'ok' or ' no' or 'yes' or 'kk'.. Read between the lines of things she seems more willing to talk about and topics she avoids.
Pls dont use interrogation style it results to her asking why do want to know?
'sorry i cant do that i barely know you' etc

if she is someone you had met before chatting online like the previous ones on novels, music, and school things or whatever it is you talked about when you first met. Well good for you at least you have got a safe ground to land on

Renaa:
You can't possibly chase her forever. If she's really interested she won't keep you moving in circles.

Although we like shakara, but when we see what we like we try not to lose it to someone else

Benzgang:
Start asking her about her friend and put more interest towards the said friend,while acting like you don't care no more about her.
She'll start to wonder what the friend has that she lacks and will want to come closer to find out.
There and then my friend,you've got the chicken at your disposal.
They always lose their minds when you do this.
I call my ex all the time to ask after her friend whenever I'm bored and feel like making someone angry

menvocate:
It’s normal to be in a group or gathering and have people ignore you. However, when it becomes frequent, you need to change your tactics. People that have these characteristics are such that are seen as playboys because they are attractive to women. So, if you have just one, you can utilize it to catch a woman’s attention. (Note…It’s not to woo her but to catch her attention).
See this as the worms in a fishing hook. If a fishing hook is bland, no fish will be drawn to it. It might try to seek out fish for itself but the right fish will never swim near. Your wooing secrets should grant you access to having the boldness to talk to any woman of your choice. But these characteristics will prepare them for you. Are you ready? Get your pen.



1. Men With Facial Hair: The beard gangs still have our women. In the days of old, beards and moustaches have always captured the heart of women and will forever do. Many believe they want a clean shaven man, but trust me, a bit of air will give you more chance than your other friends.



2. Comedian In The Making: Women warm up to guys that can make them laugh. Spontaneity should be something you should favor. And you don’t need to be abusive or rude to get what you want to do.
Savagery is interesting as long as it’s isn’t at the expense of another person’s mental health. First thing first, some women always have a reason to be angry, rude, or sad. You don’t want their mood to rub off on you. So, instead of trying to make her happy, make yourself happy. Even she hisses at your joke, talk to yourself. Are you crazy? I don’t know but a bit of craziness helps.



3. Friends and Groups: It’s just one thing that still beats the imagination. Next time, you see people walking by, notice how hard it is to pick the ugliest or dullest. The reason is that groups have vibes on that own. Being with group, just let them assume you’re a social animal. Don’t worry, she’s not thinking about you. But being among a group and throwing glances at her does a better job than when you’re in a corner drinking your drink by yourself.
The former would make you look like a playboy (It will now be up to use that and prove you’re a normal guy). The latter might make her assume you’re one sardonic, serial killer ( well not every time. But you understand what you mean).



4. Provider: Men are found attractive by women when they are known to make provision for food and the rest. It’s not their fault. Blame their cells for adapting to the desires of their ancestors. Those women in those days found hunters attractive because they go out into the bush and send games to their house. So, you don’t need to lavish your money. Stay woke. Instead, be creative in your giving. It can be sharing your bottle of drinks with someone or even allowing someone take your bottle of drinks.
If the lady you desire is there, be mild about the way you do. This is not the section of wooing but do it at a time you know you have her attention. Then, pretend to do it in secret. Your ‘humility’ will go a long way.



5. Men Who Love Kids and Babies: Are you Tees Maar Khan!!! ‘ I just hate kids!!!’ Bro. You never get time for marriage. Most women are drawn to someone that can easily handle a child. If you have finally taken the best drink in the world and want to talk to your crush, don’t go to her directly. Make a child laugh around her or help out. That hardened heart and face will be melted. Please, don’t let them deceive you. You must be of a tender heart to show that kind of love.
But if the girl is an alphamale and have been treating you like a baby to her. Don’t use a child, use a teenager and correct them in a firm but loving way. This will show how much you can both be firm and nice at the same time.



6. Volunteeer: Be ready to work. Enjoy your work.



7.Happy/ men: Grumpy men also find girlfriends, but what they get most of the times are consoler or people that would just encouraging you to be better. So, be happy with what you do.



8. Strong Men: Strong men attract ladies, eszpecially if the guy seems like a gentle man. Now to get her attention better, pretend to be serious. You grab. Be deep in thought! Let her see you as someone that has something else in mind better than them.



9. Singer: Some girls can fight this but you can melt a woman’s heart if you have a spice of Johnny Drille’s sweet smoothness, the gruffiness of Adekunle Gold or Dare Art Alade or the pitch of Wizkid. All you need to do is to be engrossed with what you do. Many of them wil prove strong head.
When you see the one you love, don’t fight the urge to do what you love around them. You might want to show them how good you’re with other thing. But their main attraction to you is the song..


10. Boldness: This is something that you enjoy in thugs. You always wonder why some professionals end up with thugs. Those guys are bold. They will say it straight and clear. This same trait is seen in pickup artists and alphamales. They tend to say what they want regardless.
So, if you’re shy like me, do this: look for one thing to be bold about. And always look for a situation to discuss it. This will spread like a virus to other aspects of your life.


http://menvocate.com/2019/06/07/10-characteristics-that-make-you-attractive-to-a-woman-you-need-just-one/

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

isthatso:
if a man is past 25 and still "chasing" women, he hasn't gotten his act together because by that age women you are dealing with have begun to sense a man that will be successful and will be coming after you.

If you have gotten your act together even when you think you are chasing you are not the one doing the chasing. The evidence of success or future success (which may not neccesarily be material at this stage) have already done your work for you, the woman has already decided, you are just talking.

EXLOVER:
I remember when i was very broke, I was thinking i was very ugly, although i'm very romantic both in words and attitude but i hardly get a girl.

But when i started making change, and i upgrade my dress sense always smelling nice. The way girls come around me i'm even sometimes get tired of it. I sometimes want to scare them away by telling them that i don't do relationship, I just want to fvck and make you happy, most of them are fine with my style cause i want disturb your present relationship, I sometimes get to meet their boyfriend after fvcking the girls, some of the boyfriends feel intimidated. I don't spend them, I spend only on the first fvck, the next time you want to fvck me i bill you, no time for free sex.


Moral lesson : Make money o, if you get money na woman go wan use style collect your contact by asking you question like are you on Facebook? Then as a sharp guy reply i don't do Facebook let me add you on WhatsApp. All this girls the moment you fvck them dey go begin feel special and start commenting on all you pictures on social media. (Diick madness)

philanthropic:
(1) Don't marry women who can cheat and who sleep around.. Even you, see the stress it takes to be faithful, imagine someone sleeping around. That will be harder

(2) Don't marry women who visit too many prophets...She may either commit adultery, wreck your marriage with fake prophecies from the prophet, etc. Except God helps you people.

(3) Don't marry women who are in mammy water or Marine kingdom. They will deal with you to pieces, except they really fall in love with you. If you offend them, you may see unbearable fire..

(4) Don't marry women who are hypocrites.. Be careful of women who rush you with "are you born again?", "Hope you are committed in church?", "Hope you read your Bible today?" Some may be real SCAM just to deceive you. Look for genuine ladies who may not be perfect but sincere...

(5) Don't marry women who have special male besty, except you are lucky. Male besties may finish them sexually. Except the make bestie does not have sex as his weak point or he is (what should I say?)..

(6) Don't marry women who have not ended their relationship completely with their ex or are still connected to those who deflowered them...It might not be funny later...

We have good women out there...