Well, I don't think the sun itself is the problem, it's perhaps due to a condition called orthostatic hypotension. There could be other possible reasons, but this is the most likely.
It happens when your blood pressure fails to adapt to appropriately to change in posture i.e. when you stand for long your blood pressure remains low, the brain doesn't get enough blood, you 'collapse' or faint and remaining on the flat position on the floor allow blood to reach your brain, then you're able to get up again.
The possible role of the sun is dehydration; in which you have less water in your body, hence less blood volume ergo, lower blood pressure which triggers the above scenario.
My advice; 1. Drink enough water: harmattan is almost upon us, and dehydration is very common with the season.
2. Go to the hospital for a diagnosis; including measurement of your blood pressure while seated, lying down etc.
3. If you're on any antihypertensives, discuss with your doctor for alternatives. Orthostatic hypotension is a complication of some antihypertensives.
Pstarogood0100: Women second nature is gaming. Without the game they can't succeed with men. Immediately they were born and grow to puberty age they become fully aware of men's nature and how to manipulate them.
Its unfortunate that when a man grow to puberty age, he knows nothing about how to get it done with ladies. Those who realize the truth about the redpill learn it the hard way.
Women are ready to compete with you even with your red pill knowledge and applications because its in them naturally but in your own case, you learned it. You will both run around competing for supremacy if you are not strong enough as a redpiller she will take the power from you.
But one thing they can't compete with is ABUNDANT MENTALITY. With abundant mentality you can beat any stubborn lady that comes your way. That's their weakest point. They can't. It destroys their hypergamous nature.
The strong ones among them use abundant mentality on men. They know how powerful it is. Learn to ignore it when they try to show you they have options and people better than you. Ignore their own in a subtle way and show your own in a more subtle way. With this you can beat any stubborn ones.
Be wise my fellow redpillers, I know its not easy for those just taking the redpill, learn to suppress your emotions and ignore in a subtle way when they are trying to make you feel jealous and show you that they have people better than you as option.
Pstarogood0100: All men for himself. If you have a female daughter, you being the father. You should training and inculcate it in her in such a way that no man should take advantage of her and your sons likewise.
Life is all about taking advantage or manipulating of situation to favour you. If you refuse to take advantage of people, people will take advantage of you. That's the fact.
Even though you have all this red pill knowledge, if you accidentally meet a strong feminist and hypergamous lady, she will take advantage of you. So as an alpha man who has the redpill knowledge and application of it, you must not lose guard less a strong feminist and hypergamous lady stronger than you should take advantage of you. Keep upgrading your games. Life generally is a game. People will game you if you lose guard. Even your so called friend will game you.
"This is your last chance. After this, there is no turning back. You take the blue pill - the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill - you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit-hole goes."
How deep the rabbit-hole goes is what you will find out in 50 shades redder. The Redpill is getting Redder and deeper.
CONTENTS 51.) Respect 52.) Wine and Milk 53.) The pvssy pass and valuation 54.) Fatal arrogance: Entitlement mentality 55.) Gynocentrism 56.) How women argue 57.) Bad girl /Good girl 58.) The c0ck carousel /promiscuity 59.) Who Cheats more 60.) The Ex factor and sexual pattern 61.) Predatory Females 62.) Feminism and promiscuity 63.) Citation Needed Fallacy and Outlier effect 64.) Power of Investment and Sunk cost fallacy 65.) Power dynamics 66.) Academic Hypergamy 67.) Bad advisers 68.) Gender Equality is a Myth 69.) Self-Improvement (20's & 30's) 70.) Stuck in the middle 71.) Static fallacy 72.) Learn 73.) Early years 74.) Female imperative 75.) Chemical hearts 76.) Worst enemies 77.) Side guy/main guy 78.) Man and emotions 79.) Man's burden 80.) Sex and marriage 81.) Sex and money 82.) Sexual attraction (Male stripper effect) 83.) Objectification 84.) Golddiggers v players 85.) Masters and puppets 86.) Feminine wiles 87.) The Dreaded Friend zone 88.) Birth control 89.) Body count 90.) Preselection 91.) Intuition 92.) Projection 93.) Karma myth 94.) Greenlights, amber lights and redlights 95.) Selected 96.) Abandoned culture 97.) The Dilemma 98.) TRP revolution 99.) Settling down 100.) Getting laid
Handsome777: One the most baffling things is the point at which you get a lady's Whatsapp number (and she is by all accounts absolutely into you)
… But then after a couple of chats she appears to lose interest, misfire out, or go icy.
The characteristic response is to blame the lady. "She's a piece of Sh*t… "
However, in the event that you do that, you could be missing a monster crink in YOUR GAME that is less demanding to alter than you might suspect.
Truth be told, it's most likely you're making one (or a couple) of these basic "Whatsapp chat" mistakes that will murder your chances with a young lady:
Mistake #1: Confusing Responses for Attraction
Before you've had your first date with a young lady, she won't feel quite a bit of an association with you. As deplorable as it might be, you're most likely not by any means the only person messaging her on Whatsapp.
It's just plain obvious, a typical oversight most folks make when they're chatting a young lady on whatsapp is that they confuse reactions for fascination. Frequently when a person is getting a reaction from a young lady, he trusts that he's inspiring nearer to getting her out on the town or to enticing her.
The precise inverse is valid!
The more messages you send before getting together with a young lady implies to a lesser degree a chance you have of really getting together with her! Truth is stranger than fiction: regardless of the possibility that a young lady is RESPONDING to your writings, you're not getting yourself ANY nearer to really getting her out on the town.
Rather, say more with less.
At whatever point you're thinking about what to content a young lady, check whether you can say it less difficult, with less content. Most folks send pointless chats to ladies like, "How's your day?" or "Appreciating the warm climate?" These chats DO NOT bring you closer to a lady! They simply ask for a reaction (which doesn't mean anything).
To ensure you NEVER again squander whatsapp chats on pointless gab, make this brilliant inquiry from your own mind by asking yourself:
How is this message bringing this young lady and I more closer?
If your answer is basically "to motivate her to know her better," eradicate the message. It's not going to help you.
Mistake #2: Not Conveying "Fun"
Here is the straightforward truth. At the point when a lady gives you her number she is NOT marking a social contract to go out with you…
Furthermore, until it appears FUN for her… she's likely not going to try getting together with you.
So when you send exhausting chats that don't show any identity or don't evoke any feelings in her… in her brain you're not worth the inconvenience of getting together with.
Here are a few signs you're NOT being enjoyable.
Am I being firm and formal "Greetings. It was pleasant meeting you friday"… . (too firm. excessively formal)
Am I forcing her to keep the chat going?
Am I baiting her with inquiries?
Keep in mind, each message you send ought to make you appear like the FUN OPTION. The break from her exhausting day.
Mistake #3: Not Having a Texting Style
In case you're messaging an alluring lady chances are you are NOT the main person she is getting a whatsapp message from today.
Hate to break it to you.
Be that as it may, between different folks seeking after her, exes, colleagues, schoolmates, etc… she has a ton of folks competing for her consideration.
So in the event that you need to emerge number one in her life, your chats need to show your novel style and identity.
She ought to have the capacity to know its a content from you just by understanding it (regardless of the possibility that the name was blocked).
What words, expressions, accentuation, or emoticons are particularly yours?
Mistake #4: Having Long Text Conversations Chat discussions are NOT the same as real discussions.
Whatsapp chats ought to be the "Super cool" not bluff notes of a typical discussion.
The more extended the discussion the more opportunities to mistake things up or keep running into awkward disarray of the chat.
Each time you get the telephone… hop directly into the good stuff Begin with a teasing nickname. Figure out how to rapidly start a feeling and make the late give careful consideration to you. Be charming!!!!
Mistake #5: Going for the Meetup without Sparking Emotion
Here is another hard, cool certainty. On the off chance that you request that a lady hang out, without first starting a feeling.. she will quite often turn you down.
Why?
Since the greater part of the positive feelings she felt when she was with you have dwindled.
What's more, the thought of getting spruced up, and going to meet a person she scarcely knows (and the potential you'll end up being a creeper or simply unbalanced) is not worth the exertion.
Intelligently she can without much of a stretch talk herself out of it.
Which is the reason you MUST draw her in on a passionate level first.
It is MUCH less demanding to get a "yes" out of a lady once you've started a positive feeling.
The two most ideal approaches to do this are with being a tease or silliness. Here's a critical idea...
She is NOT going to recall that all your great qualities. So you must remind her.
Mistake #6: Becoming so "Unsurprising or Predictable"
Lets say that through whatsapp chats you've now succeeded in getting a date with a young lady.
To begin with, you never need to fall into unsurprising examples. Bunches of folks utilize the same jokes, same inquiries, and same writings again and again. While it might be less demanding to fall into "lack of concern" with a lady you're dating, don't do it!
Rather, split things up with something zesty now and then. Advise her you have a "shock" to demonstrate her later. Tell her something helped you to remember her, however don't advise her what it is immediately.
Keep her think about what your next whatsapp message will be and you'll keep her inspired by you. Also, keeping the "flash" of a relationship alive is vital with regards to making an extraordinary sexual coexistence.
For whatever length of time that you don't get to be ultra predictable, you ought to have your young lady messaging YOU asking YOU when you're accessible to hang out.
Mistake #7: Thinking She's Different[b][/b]
I have pushed again and again "Never educate a young lady how you feel concerning her through Whatsapp chat"…
However, for quite a while I get messages from understudies recounting to me an anecdote about how they admitted their emotions to a young lady over Whatsapp chat…
Also, every time that action chases the young lady off.
In your brain, you're going to attempt to persuade yourself that "She is distinctive." Alternately that "It won't chip away at her."
Be that as it may, the moment you let yourself know 'she's distinctive' you are making a course for losing her… Folks consistently do things like:
Messaging her excessively
Paying her spouting compliments on Whatsapp
Not requesting that she hang out with you because of the fact that you're frightened…
She's not different from other ladies. What's more, if at whatever time you begin supposing she is, haul out this article and re-read it. Alright…
1-When a girl ignores your message twice, leave her alone. She ain't blind, she just choose to ignore it. There is no more need sending more messages. Move on to the next girl sharply..
2-When a girl accept your request, seriously typing "thanks for accepting my request" is very lame.. Do it in her inbox if you must . Some of you get ignored when you type that crap on her wall..
3-You don't need to be a male LovePeddler. Don't woo every girl on your list. Some are good enough to be just friends with you..
4-Guy, don't be the thirsty dude on a girl's post, simply hit the like button and move on. If you need to comment, make it brief and interesting. Don't go begging her to add you..
5-Bro, if the picture is beautiful like it and give a simple compliment. If it's not, there is no need lying to get her Attention.. Can't wait for Facebook to upgrade, where you just press the dislike button. Lolxxxxx.
6-Buddy, when chatting you don't spend your whole time telling a girl how beautiful she is, hundred of guys have told her how beautiful she is everyday. They find it boring when you join the train..
7-If you find yourself always starting the convo with a Particular person, like you are always the first to message her, please stop it for a while. If she doesn't notice, you are not important to her.. Leave her alone..
8- If you both don't roll, don't tag her to your pix. She might find it offensive..
9-The lesser of you, the better for you. When you are all over her wall, all over her pictures commenting and liking everything, you are less appreciated because you are acting thirsty.
10-When you compliment a girl on her pictures and another person compliments her on the same picture and she thanked the other dude and skip your name, please remove your comment. It wasn't necessary..
*This are plain psychological tips*
If a girl ignore your messages, refuses to pick your calls, refuses to see you or go on a date with you, rejects your gift or returns them. Guy, it's high time you hit the road cux she ain't feeling you.
ubunja: that is why Men must only deal with women who like lust them. If you don't make a woman's pussy wet just don't bother with her. If a woman's vagina doesn't tingle when she sees you, you're wasting your time.
If a woman finds you a turn on, she'll fvckk you now. Nevermind she's married or you're ugly. Most men have never seen their GF and wife's Lust side. Because they don't turn their wives on since women date and marry for money not sex. Women don't marry men who turn them on. They marry men who can provide. And I'll say about 90% of men in relationships don't know what their women look like when in Lust. And they'll never know. Because the women don't Lust these men. Men marry women they Lust over. But women CHEAT WITH men they Lust over.
Many guys have seen a woman talk to a great guy and she gets tongue-tied, and struggles to breathe and coughs a little. She's overwhelmed by the man. And only if the men knew what is happening between her legs!! That pussy is pulsating like a living breathing thing. When a woman feels this way, for a stranger, it won't matter he's a stranger, or she's married etc, she'll fvckk him. NOW. And chances are she'll fvckk him raw. Women in lust have 0% self control and 0% reasoning.
And tomorrow she will say, "I don't know what came over me!"
The Lust of women need to be studied more and watched out for.
This post by a girl explains everything I'm talking about...
udemejack: please i dont know the right section to post this,please the mods should help in this aspect.Lets go
I am working in one of the popular bar here in Cross river state,and after attending to one of our guest,i noticed that he was so engrossed in his phone,and my eyes accidentaly peep at what he was surfing,lo and behold he was surfing Nairaland and his moniker is very famous here.when i looked up,i discovered that the man is old enough to father me,i immediately started started feeling remorseful.
To all those that i have insulted here in one way or the other,please find a place in your heart pardon me,i am deeply SORRY.
Probably at one time or another you have been either on the giving or receiving end of a silent treatment, otherwise known as the cold shoulder. What you probably didn’t realize is that the silent treatment is a form of ostracism. When someone is ostracized it affects the part of their brain called the anterior cingulate cortex. Do you know what the anterior cingulate cortex does?
The anterior cingulate cortex is the part of the brain that detects pain. When you give someone the silent treatment you are causing that person physical pain. Simply by ignoring someone else’s existence you can inflict pain on them. This is what the ever popular “time out” with a child is so effective. The child feels ostracized, therefore is feeling pain even though no physical pain was inflicted on them, and therefor they want to behave so they don’t have to feel that way again.
The silent treatment can be a very destructive behavior when it involves personal relationships. Let’s say with a husband and wife for instance. The silent treatment breeds bitterness on both ends and it borders on emotional abuse…I’m not making that up to be dramatic. That’s what “they” say.
Cooling Off And Ostracizing Are Two Very Different Things Let’s not confuse the silent treatment with something known as “the cooling off period”. The cooling off period is where one person is so angry or disgusted by the other person that they just cannot deal with the situation in that state need time to calm down before they begin to speak to this person. That’s fine and actually that’s probably better than sitting and screaming at each other.
There is a big difference between taking some time to cool down and outright ignoring the existence of the other person. The silent treatment would be more along the lines of you doing something that pisses someone off, they clue you in on it (or not), and then they don’t speak to you, acknowledge you or even make eye contact with you for sometimes days. No good.
To me, this is a form of torture. Nothing positive comes from this type of behavior. What makes more sense…blowing up about something, cooling off a little and then talking about how to resolve it OR not blowing up about something, staying completely pissed and not doing anything to help resolve the situation? If you said the latter…you’re a dick.
When someone is administering the silent treatment they are trying to show that they are dominant over you. The silent treatment (when it becomes a mutual one) is a power struggle in pain tolerance…whomever the winner is, cares less.
When You Are On The Receiving End Of The Silent Treatment It’s interesting to me that research has shown that woman and men respond to the silent treatment very differently. Woman who are on the receiving end of the silent treatment seem to try anything in their power to win back their good grace with the ostracize where men…don’t. They just deal with it.
But what exactly are the men just dealing with and the woman trying to avoid? The emotional pain associated with being ostracized. Those who have been treated to the silent treatment have reported as sense of loss, of not belonging, of lower self-esteem and a feeling of unworthiness. All of these feelings are the result of someone just not acknowledging them or ignoring them. I find that pretty interesting.
I can say that I honestly don’t ever remember giving someone the silent treatment…not anyone that it would matter to anyway. I don’t think I have it in me to do that to someone. Why you ask? Because I’ve had it done to me, I know what it feels like and it totally sucks. I’m more the type of person that would like to blow up about something, probably say some things I don’t really mean, apologize for saying the things I don’t really mean and then move towards resolution. But hey…that’s just me.
TaminaliaCatapa: This has been worrisome abeg, I don’t like the idea of bringing any gf from Naija come marry, they mess up real bad.
The Naija girls wey dem born abroad sef, they ain’t any way different from foreigners wey go dey tell you to start sharing house chores 50:50 with dem. There is nothing bad if I do those chores in my own volition, but making it a duty for me is a no-no.
Reason why I cant marry white is obvious, the very immediate point I just made up there, some won’t even let you take your kids back to naija coz it’s shîthole
Please, if you are a 1. Naija married man in a foreign land 2. Didn’t marry here in naija but abroad
How did you get married and what type of woman is she.
Please we wanna learn
... "Akata landmines."
Just get a pre-nup if you're gonna try and hope for the best. To be honest, some priceless female gems exist in the West if you look deeper.
Excuzeme: You are very true, what you wrote. I am even worried that some people are trying to cover-up or divert attention from the truth, the reality.
A few things come to mind:
1.) the world has changed, marriage is no longer what it used to be. Everyone has their own "idea" of what their marriage should look like. It wont work out if you marry someone who deos not share that your "view" of marriage.
2.) Western colonization has gradually eroded the "African tradition/culture" and this has affected our marriages. What and how my mother views marriage is not how my wife views it. How my father sees marriage, l am afraid, l tried to see it like that but it is just not working!
3.) Environment affects marriage like nothing else, it is the most important factor! I have seen very nice, lovely and motherly wives who were the envy of everyone that knows them in Nigeria, for more than ten years (not a single quarrel with the husband, nice kids, e.t.c) but that marriage crashed completely within five years of relocating abroad. I have seen too many of these to conclude it is not just mere coincidence. Why is it that most "feminist" dont have a husband or are divorced women? Is it because they dont take shyte from their husbands? What went wrong?
4.) If you marry in Nigeria, l am sure both the husband and wife have expectations of each other (Things l will do, things you must not do, things l can take, boundaries that must not be crossed, how in-laws are treated, how family members are treated, e.t.c). These are the basis of any marital union. Nigerian, legal, customary and traditional LAWS also support these expectations (e,g, you cant drive your husband's mother out of your "marital home" because she has become a part of the family). All these flies out of the window, once you relocate abroad with your wife! The "LAWS" in the western world has made Husbands completely impotent and to be honest, there is nothing "Husbands in the Western world" fear more, than their Wife! How can anyone say that is "marriage"?
Marriage should be all about happiness, bliss, love, caring, sharing, dedication, trust, mutual respect, mutual reliance and most importantly, COMMITMENT. There is no room for FEAR, in a real marriage! If you live in-fear of your spouse (husband or wife), then you are not married but dying slowly or planning to kill him/her in the nearest future.
5.) If you come from Abroad to marry a wife in Nigeria, chances, to as high as 90% you will realize it is the greatest mistake you ever made in your life. Dont blame it on Nigerian ladies, blame it on Poverty, blame it on desperation and finally, blame it on the "change in environment and culture". How do you expect a woman who was brought up in a "culture and environment" where she is raised to agree that she must cook for her husband, not order him around, not slap him if he misbehaves, respect his mother and allow them free access to their son and CANNOT, under any circumstance (even if they quarrel, which all couples do!) throw him out of his house..... now suddenly finds herself EXPORTED to a "culture and environment" that legalize and promote male-abuse, that says you can call 911 and without any question asked, the Police will order him out of his house WITHOUT ANY PROOF OR BENEFIT OF DOUBT, where his Mother cannot knock on her son's door at 9pm and you the wife is the one who can decide whether she stays that night or go sleep at the local police station as a "wanderer"?
How do you expect her to cope when you suddenly export her to an environment and culture which says it is okay for her to slap you at the slightest provocation but you must just walk away otherwise you will suffer double jeopardy because you will land in jail so fast, you wont know what hit you? How do you expect her to cope when she is told by Social Workers that she can own the house, the children of the marriage and everything you have, all she needs to do is just shout "domestic violence", even if it is trumped-up?
How do you expect her to remain "sane and behave like your wife" when you export her to an environment and culture which says if you both agree to have $ex as husband and wife, (which is legal and godly), she can change her mind during the intercourse and if you dont stand up immediately, she can charge you for rape (Yes, your own wife o!) and you spend the rest of your life in jail?
I can continue to list the MADNESS that marriage in the "Western world" has become, till tomorrow, All l am saying is that, you guys should stop fooling yourselves thinking you can import a Naija lady abroad and she would still be the same "nice wife" you know in Nigeria or the nice lady she pretends to be while, in Nigeria. She would change and it is not her fault. she just cant help it (I am not justifying it or saying it is right)...but you must not expect otherwise because if you do, it is the disappointment when she changes, that will kill you first before her actions does. (Nigerian ladies, dont be annoyed, l am just trying to prepare the mind of you potential husbands for what would happen, so they dont start forming ignorance).
6.) The Devil you know, is better than the Angel you dont know! That is a big, fat lie. The Women abroad, especially the Akatas (Black women born and raised in the Western world, Europe, Americas) .... if you live abroad, you probably know them very well. (Less than 10% of them are "wife material). They grew up in a culture that treats men as scum, slaves and a tool for their pleasure. they are not really into marriage, as we see it over here in Nigeria or as we experienced it between our own parents.
They just wanna be proposed to with an expensive ring, do a lavish wedding and still f*ck around like they are still single. If they have a child for you, you can never be sure who is the father so a DNA test is as cheap and accessible as a malaria test over there. "Bastard Child" as we know it in Nigeria, does not bring "shame" to any woman over there because probably eight out of ten persons you come across was raised by a` man who is not their father but was told by their mother, that he is their father, till they found out. They just move on. Infact, it has become so "normalized| that men are beginning to think it is a "sign of good character" to not complain when your wife brings another man's pregnancy/child into the marriage, you just raise the kid like your own once she says 'I am sorry".
So, even if you marry an Akata in your neighborhood over there in the Western world, it is still as risky and dangerous as importing a wife from Nigeria.
And that brings us to the real issue: marriage is no longer what we know it to be. Drop all those expectations, if you dont want to be disappointed, you will be, if you still look at it from the lens of "how it used to or was supposed to be".
Let me stop here. My advice: Dont marry for children, there in no guarantee they wont be taken off-you by your wife, at one point in the future. There are so many men out there who cant see, relate or even be allowed to say 'hello' to their kids, by their wife or the state. Surrogacy can give you a child of your own, without a mother and the headache of marriage! Ask Linda Ikeji if still in doubt.
Dont marry for $ex, you can get it without marriage and all its wahala. The $ex doll is a low-maintenance item that wont throw you out of your house or call Police on you or cheat on you and you can remove the battery anytime you want. She is beautiful and very life-like!
Dont marry for love, it is not what keeps a marriage or brings happiness, (Trust, Commitment, Dedication, mutual respect is what does)
Dont marry because you think your wife is submissive or will obey you, she wont once she thinks she can get-away with not doing so (Abroad standard). Women of today are being told they are not women, but Men and should act like men,
Dont marry because of beauty, that one fades faster than those fake jeans they sell at Aba.
Dont marry because you think it will bring you happiness......most married men (especially in the WEST) are living in pain, fear and bondage. How can such people even pretend to be happy (Nigerian husbands living in Nigeria should than their stars but l can assure them that it wont last for long, the evil is gradually creeping-in.
If you must marry, sign a Pre-nup (or a Post-nup if already married). have no "good expectations" from the marriage, you wont get any, anyway. It breaks when it breaks, dont hinge your happiness on it. Marriage as of today, is all about the woman and what she selfishly wants. The man that marries should know how much danger he is subjecting himself to. That does not stop you from marrying afterall, we know electricity kills but we still wire our houses and use it. Those are the brutal truth that will come to pass, sooner or later, even if you dont believe it now.
PS: To some people this is trash and l agree with such people. To some it is life-saving and l still agree with them, to some. it is "wetin concern me" and those are the people l love most. Dont get worked up over this.
echepops: Laura Lyons, a private investigator who specialises in tracking down online romance fraudsters, otherwise known as "catfish" has unmasked a Nigerian fraudster.
According to BBC, Laura Lyons posed as Kathryn Hunter - a wealthy divorcee looking for love. According to her: “It's not long before the catfish begin to bite. Four men approach me online and they all claim to be US soldiers. .
One of the soldiers, who calls himself Paul Richard, comes on strong. The number he rings from has a Nigerian dialling code. After a brief silence, a man with a thick African accent comes on the line.
He doesn't sound like the American soldier whose picture he is using. But Paul explains away his accent by saying he has a cold. An online reverse image search leads me to the Instagram page of the real owner of the pictures the catfish was using.
For the next few weeks, my producer continues to speak to Richard on the phone as I listen in. Then our catfish makes a mistake. Richard accidentally leaves a name tag - Dan Coolman - on one of his WhatsApp pictures.
We search through all the Dan Coolmans in Nigeria and we find one who runs a barbershop in Ibadan. He's using the same number that our catfish has been calling us from.
Coolman is another false name, but we discover the phone is registered to Daniel Joseph Okechukwu. We have finally uncovered the real identity of our catfish. We head for Ibadan, but by the time we get there he's gone.
The doors to the barber shop are locked and locals say it's been closed for weeks. We decide to call him and tell him who we really are. He confesses and claims it's the first romance scam he's ever pulled and that he has been forced to do it because of the closure of his barber shop.
He sounds sincere and he apologises for the way he has treated us. He says he wants to stop being a romance fraudster. But he needs us to give him money, so that he can afford to stop tricking other people out of their cash. It's a classic catfish twist. They never give up on the scam even when they have been rumbled.“
During my 100lvl registration then in school. Any graduate or student can relate how stressful, tiring and crowded it use to be doing registrations.
It was so sunny that very day with crowd of freshers everywhere, i got tired at some point and decided to get some rest under a tree. Unbuttoned the first two buttons of my long sleeve shirt for air while getting some rest
Some minutes later, a very big yellow-headed lizard fell from the tree and found its way inside my singlet[Singlet was tucked in my jeans], I screamed so high and got the attention of 99% of students there, while trying to make way for lizard by pulling my singlet from my jean, I ended up opening another way for the lizard to jump inside my boxer. At that moment, I shouted and nervously got confused that I couldn't differentiate my prick from the lizard in my boxer because both of them were dangling and dancing around as I was screaming and rehearsing makossa dance in public, jumping around the tree shouting and behaving like a mad man. People couldn't help because they don't know how to, rather, some were laughing and shouting in amusement.
As God had it, i successfully dragged the lizard out, it jumped out, nodded its head and was there looking at me like a fool instead of running, out of anger of embarrassment, I chased the lizard with my tattered clothes and ended up falling down while the lizard escaped. People were laughing as I was, just so FVCKING EMBARRASSED and PISSED that I was so ashamed to even stand and clean my cloth.
Fortunately, two ladies from the crowd stepped forward, helped me picked my scattered files and cleaned my clothes[Thou they were smiling and laughing while helping], and I had to laugh too in shame.
Nna eh! I just jejely gather morale waka comot, find okada begin dey go my lodge
It took me a lot of cogitation before I could make this post. I also had to post this because I have seen a lot of comments from people encouraging the abominable act of lesbianism on nairaland (especially guys) that I begin to wonder where this generation of youths are headed.
First and foremost, going by the bible and quran, lesbianism is an abomination. I will give references from the bible because I am a Christian.The following verses of the bible:Leviticus 18:22, 20:13, Romans 1:24-28, I Corinthians 6:9-11, Jude1:7, I Timothy 1:10, I Kings 14:24, 15:12 all attest to the fact that homosexuality ,of which lesbianism is a subset, is evil.
However, the queer ones on the forum will always have a counter argument of fornication being also a sin to back up their nefarious way of life but this is not the crux of why I opened this thread so I will not dwell on the religious angle any further-I have an expose on this which I'll reserve for another day.
Secondly and the most important reason why I decided to open this thread is to warn guys(including the ones that have continually advocated for queer girls here on nairaland) on the disastrous impact of marrying a lesbian and how to identify if your girl is one whilst you're courting
Let me start by saying this. Most Nigerian girls living in Nigeria that claim to be bisexuals are, in fact, lesbians. They only claim bisexuality so as to be able to get a ring on the third finger of their left hand and answer a Mrs whilst they covertly continue their abominable acts.
They know that the African culture expects that they should get married at some point in their lives and their parents and relatives will keep putting pressure on them to do so.
Therefore, they just hook up with a guy, get married and make babies and then eventually make the guy's life miserable by continually denying him of sex and gallivanting around the country with their lesbian friends before filing for divorce most times on two grounds- sexual satisfaction and irreconcilable differences. I have seen this happen to three different guys and in the end, the guys ended up being disillusioned and poorer than when they met those girls. The sad part is that the ladies don't even get to check on their children as they are seen more in the company of their female friends in public places.
Guys, beware! Lesbianism is demonic and no matter how long your manhood is or how good you are in bed, you can't satisfy a lesbian as the kind of orgasm they have while making out with their female counterpart is longer and more frequent and also doesn't occur due to penetration. I had to say this because I have , over time, seen some useless comments from guys here saying that the girl has not seen a great manhood or a guy with great sexual prowess that's why she is still a lesbian. This is entirely false as lesbians are so addicted to their same sex partners and to the act that mere penetration from a man cannot give them orgasm.
Therefore, will all that have been said, guys here are signs that the girl you are dating is a lesbian(These may not be correct sometimes but they are very key leads to attest to this fact).
1. She admires only ladies on social media and you would occasionally see some comments from her on social media telling another girl "I love you" even when the girl is just an acquaintance who is not close to her.
2. She wears an anklet on THE RIGHT LEG or a colourful ring on their RIGHT FOREFINGER. I had to make the right leg emboldened because this is their insignia. I've seen about ten lesbian ladies wearing this and even spoke to one who also affirmed it.
3. If she is the butch lesbian(the male partner) she will most likely have a short hair, wear very light make up most times or even no make up and have short fingers(Because they use their fingers to pleasure their femme counterpart). Some of the butch ones also look like tomboys
4. Whenever she is intimate with her guy, they enjoy cunnilingus and fingering far more than penetration as this is the only way she can achieve orgasm most times.
5. On special occasions like her birthday or her boyfriend's birthday, she will indulge him with wild sexual orgies like anal sex or party (with the involvement of their other lesbian partner). Some of them even prefer anal to vaginal penetration.
6. You will always find lesbian porn on her phone or cached webpage history.
7. If she's the butch lesbian, she will dislike things like cooking, going to the market and laundry.
8. She's always an advocate of female rights and will pick a quarrel with you whenever you antagonize a female.
9. She prefers evening hang outs with a large company of girlfriend more than she enjoys it with you as her boyfriend.
10. She starts denying you sex immediately after marriage. This usually starts subtly and unnoticed until your sex life with your wife eventually becomes once in a month.
11. She has a vibrator and she doesn't orgasm from sex with you until she uses the vibrator. I agree some women are like this but if after a long time, you can't make your girlfriend orgasm except with the aid of a vibrator(or through cunnilingus or fingering) please suspect her.
12. If she is the femme, she has a very close friend she stays with or hangs around with/cannot do without and who has the characteristics listed in Number 3 above.
You can add yours as I leave the list for now. Please guys, be wise in choosing a partner. Do not destroy your life on the altars of beauty and physical appearance a most of these evil ladies are usually beautiful!
That #10 is smack down...
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ChangeIsCostant: This is new. Two Nigerian ladies decided to be "unique" in their photo-shoot by posing in towels for series of pictures. The young ladies went to the studio and dressed in this manner for their photo session. The reason for posing in their towels could not be revealed as at the time of filing this report but the ladies appeared to have been very satisfied - judging from the expression on their faces.
LatestNews180: Marriage is not a friendship, there is a very big different between the two.Marriage is the coming together of a man and a woman to unit as one and form a home.It has to do with lifetime not friendship that you meet today as friend and break up tomorrow .
Marriage as they said is a beautiful thing; but how true is that statement if you're married to the wrong woman? The truth is that most single ladies who are ready to get married are wolves and lionesses that no man should ever get married to.
Some ladies tends to hide some of their characters and pretend to be a good one,just for you to put a ring in their fingers before the lionesses in them will come up.I have seen what some men are passing through in their marriage due to lack of examination of the person he wants to marry, I decided to put down these signs below that if you found in the girl you are dating you will have it in mind that marrying her is not gonna work out.
1.No drop of domestic blood You may want to ignore the fact that she can't cook ,but does it stop there? can she clean ? wash and arrange the house without complaining that you aren't helping?.This is something to watch out for any lady you intend to settle with.She must be person that tends after her home like a precious vineyard;else if you make the mistake of marrying her you won't be able to stand her in a few years to come.
She's not Godly May be you count yourself as one of those sinners in the town,but believe me your life will turn out even more miserable if you marry a lady who is not Godly.I wonder what your children will become in the society if you marry such a bad girl,no one is care to teach them something of the lord.So check her well,if she exhibits ungodly traits you should never even dream of taking her to the alter,a lady that smokes,drinks,lies, comes home late,curses,talks too much,nags,gossips,is lousy or has a raging temper is not godly ,you should never think of marrying such woman.
2.Materialistic and frivolous So you really like her ,may be love her but she's just too materialistic and demanding,you are the one doing the paying,hmm!,did you think she's gonna stop it when she gets married to you,may be you are one of the big boys in the town and have a whole lot of money ,that doesn't mean you should marry a lady who's willing to help you spend half of it .Your wife should be a gatherer not a dispenser.
3.She doesn't do anything Some guys will tell you that they can work for themselves and their wives,I don't advice you to marry a lady who depends on you for ''air''.If she can't do anything to earn a living ,has no skill,she is not educated as well ,has no plans of what she is doing ,then better not marry her else one you're going to see her as burden.
4.Don't really love her Don't love a lady because your mum said that you should marry her,that she is good .Love is the most important thing in any relationship, don't marry to please your mum and displeases yourself because marriage is for a lifetime is not friendship,you should marry her for what you feel for and not because you want to please someone else,if you don't love her then please don't marry her.
5.She can't stand your family Never marry a woman who cannot stand your family because a time will come when she won't be able to stand you too;who would you run to then? The same family you you abandoned for her! You shouldn't risk tearing your life to pieces like that.If your family says no to her then find out why,if she's the one that just doesn't like seeing your family members then the problem is even bigger.
6.Stay away from ladies that are very emotional, nothing you say or do can make them happy when they are in their moods.This can get very difficult and annoying in the long run.
Second, the "silent treatment" attitude mode from a woman is another thing to look out for. Though cute and sexy initially, it can be very insidious when repeated constantly, and over several days. If she's not ready to work on herself into a better person... Ditch her for a better woman.
khia: They are just like white people, they like to make insults and start shit then play the victim when retaliated against.
@khia. My strong instincts tell me you're the OP. I know full well your style of writing and use of idiolect right from back in the day. Soul sista, breath easy!
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chronique: Following. For me, I think you should marry someone who doesn't give you stress, nor makes falling in love frustrating.
A lady who has a lot of pride in her, is also a no go area if you want to have sanity in marriage cos you'd end up always having to beg her when there's a disagreement. That can be frustrating to any man.
Once tried falling in love with someone like that and I was ready to make sacrifices to just make it work but the more I tried, the more I got frustrated. Despite her being even older than me and being a single mom, I didn't mind.
Was trying to focus solely on her good side. When I could no longer cope with being on her case, I just kept quiet and stopped all forms of communication with her and I told myself then, that at my age, I should not be chasing a lady that is close to xyz yrs, for a whole year because I want date. It doesn't make sense.
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Nairalanders, this is a long post but please read till the end.
My bf just broke up with me over what he termed incompatibility. This guy and I have been together for two years and we both loved each other. It was a long-distance relationship, he stays in Lagos while I schooled in another town in the west. I had no problem with the distance because I'm not the attention-craving type and I like my space.
He's a complete extrovert, while I'm an introvert(not to the extreme though) and this has been an issue most of the time. He complains that I'm too quiet and not on the same social level as him. I don't do social media like that while he's uploading new pictures every minute. I also didn't like the fact that he relates too well with girls; he had a lot of female friends and easily socializes with new ones. Well, I blended with that so well as I didn't see any trace of unfaithfulness in him.
Fast forward to late last year, there was a breakdown in our communication, he stopped calling and chatting as he used to, I asked him what the matter was but he said there's nothing. I was a bit scared if something went wrong with him and I asked again after some days, that was when he said he would tell me when the time comes, so I stopped asking. With all the signs he showed me, my mind was telling me he wanted a breakup but I didn't ask him further as I was preparing for my final exam and him breaking up with me that period would leave me devastated so I focused on my exam with the hope that after then, we would talk about it.
After my exam, I sent him a text apologizing and asked us to continue as we were but he didn't reply. He invited me over to his place and that was when he told me he's no longer interested in the relationship, that he has no feelings for me again. He gave one thousand and one reasons for us not to be together anymore. He said I'm less expressive, I agree with anything he says and does and that during the break in our communication, I didn't make efforts to find out why he did so and challenge him. Funnily enough, I didn't react when he told me, I just said it's all right as I envisaged it earlier. With the reasons he gave me, my heart was broken and felt there was no need to push further. He was surprised with how calm I was when he told me, personally, I don't believe in forcing someone to love me.
I moved on well but after a week when I was alone and reflecting, the feeling of guilt overwhelmed me that I probably pushed him away with my seemingly “not too caring” attitude. I see myself with him and I never thought we could separate. I showed love and care in my how way and in the best way, I know-how. I did love him wholeheartedly and he knew it but he seemed unable to cope with my private/ less emotional lifestyle. Nairalanders, did I actually push him away?
marveangel: It’s not always easy to know if a girl likes you. Sometimes you assume a girl is interested in you, only to find out she’s only being friendly or nice. I know almost every guy has been there at one time or another; You want to ask out a certain girl, but you can’t tell if she likes you enough to say ‘yes’. Most of us(guys) would probably rather catch a cobra with our bare hands than risk being rejected by the girl we like…it is no easy task to crack the code to a girls heart, But by putting a few obvious signs together, you’ll be able to decipher a girl’s feelings towards you.
1. She steal glances at you now and then? And every time you look at her, she blush and look away. If a girl can’t stop staring at you, especially when you’re busy or occupied with something else, it’s a good sign to show that she has something romantic in mind when she thinks of you.
2. One of the easiest ways to find out if a girl likes you is by watching her behavior when she’s with her friends. Do you see her friends nudging her while she blushes and discreetly looks at you now and then? Well she's probably told them much about you and how you make her feel inside.
3. If this girl treats you preferentially, she favors you or takes your side all the time, and if she compliments you for the smallest reasons, there’s a good chance that the girl likes you. 4. If a girl likes you a lot, she’ll push everything else aside so she can spend more time with you. If she spends time talking to you for a long while even if she’s busy, be it in hallways or over phone, that is a positive sign. 5. If she gets jealous when you ignore her, or she gets annoyed when you talk a lot to some other girl…it's a sign she wants your attention for herself. 6. If a girl likes you, she’d want to be a part of your life. Friends do casually ask each other what they’re up to over the weekend, but if a girl wants to date you, she’d try to look for similar activities often, so she can join you.
7. If she talks about your exes and girlfriend,that is a sign she is weighing up the possibility of something happening between you two. When a girl likes a guy, she’d want to know everything about his relationship status and his past relationships. It’s an easy way to get to know more about the kind of girls you like and......read full report http://lifestimulus.com/?p=1017.
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I'm actually in my early twenties, not that I'm too old for marriage anyway. One of my top clients who I'm trying to polish out a business with, went ahead to arrange a mini impromptu by fire by force relationship for me and his brother.
Like bethrothing someone to someone else without their full consent.
It was a men's arrangement cause, I was surprised how they all came to that agreement.
I tried breaking up with him the first time and he told his brothers about it. Guilt almost finished me cause, I was blamed for the excuse I brought up. His uncle who is in charge of the contract brought us back together again.
The main issue now is that I want to break up with the guy once and for all but, I don't want to hurt him and I still have to save the contract at hand.
The guy is very much attached to me already and I won't fake it, I'm equally beginning to feel butterflies in my stomach.
I want to go about it in a very simple way. So that at the end, we all go our separate ways happy.
Any idea is highly welcomed. Serious and mature minds please.
Thank you.
Modified:: I told him my own part of the story and my reasons of not wanting to be in a relationship with him. I'm not ready for any relationship now and I dont like him. Most importantly, I dont want to chop his money while deceiving him.
He is still not accepting reality but, I'm sure with time, he'll move on.
PS: His uncle isn't aware of this yet and I begged him not to tell anyone.
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Mztarstrechy: A mild drama played out on the IG page of a girl Barbie Davina who uploaded pics of herself with her supposed 'bae' on Instagram Ifeabunike Nwolisa and captioned it “chilling wit bae.” She claims to be in a relationship with him.
But after almost two weeks of posting the pictures of them together in a car, the man got wind of it and took to her page to beg her to delete the pictures. The girl has refused to accept his plea so far.Well, it turned out that ‘bae’ is not only married but has 2 lovely kids. ‘Bae’ quickly went on the comment section and ordered side chick to delete his photos. It's been 3 weeks now… yet Side Chick refused to budge.
Trolls are roasting the poor man on Instagram. Some even advised the lady to demand for cash before she will delete the pics. Na dey poor wife I dey pity. Like my people talk, a guy man cannot guy a gayoyo. Lol.
NengakGodwin1: How to Easily Make Any Girl Want to Have Sex With You.
You'll soon discover 3 commonly ignored secrets you NEED to know...if you don't want your crush or any girl you like to friend-zone you.
So let me go straight to the POINT.
The first one is...
1.) Learn To Escalate Sexually:
If you want to be the one taking her home. If you want to be the guy snapping his lips on hers. And rubbing his palms around her curvy body...
Don't come and be doing "holy-holy".
Show her your naughty side.
And make her FEEL okay to show her's too. Bad guys do this too. That's why even "good girls" flock around them, a lot.
The thing is...
Girls get judged consistently by society. You need to be the guy who makes her feel safe and free to show her sexual side WITHOUT FEAR.
Show her that you're interested in her, sexually. It's not by telling. There's a way to do this, though...So that you don't mess things up.
I'll soon post about how to sexually escalate with a GIRL.
2.) Don't Be A Clingy Guy:
This is supposed to be the one of the first things you need to know when it comes to dating. And I'll still keep talking about this aspect too. Because, some guys still don't get it. And girls don't feel ATTRACTED to a GUY who's clingy.
It's just too irritating.
So, get a life, man.
Don't always be calling her especially when she is not picking your calls. If you call her once and she doesn't PICK.
Just hold on.
At most, just try again. Or don't call again, till after some days. Or until she calls back to apologise or explain why she didn't pick your call, initially.
ALSO, don't always be in her inbox on facebook typing;
"hi", "xup", "hello angle", or even thanking her for "accepting" your friend request. It's not a favour, by the way.
Thanking a girl for merely accepting your request?
This is 2020!
Haba?
The thing is, most relationship groups we belong to are supposed to be teaching us how to act around girls are not really HELPING matters.
Most of them are just FILLED with people who post funny memes & jokes, all day. Or just argue about who "should cook"...And little or NOTHING to make us know the mistakes guys make around girls & how to correct it.
So, if you still text such things to girls.
It's not your fault.
Society didn't taught us.
And a lot of so called "relationship groups" didn't either. They'll rather mock and laugh at us when a girl posts screenshots of how guys are disturbing her.
That's why I'm here to help you, man.
Because, some years back.
I used to be like you too.
And it was really NOT funny. Going from one heartbreak to the other. From one friend-zone to the other. �
And being treated like trash by girls i loved.
But today, the reverse is the case. Girls are the ones chasing. I don't beg to stay with a girl in a relationship ANYMORE. I no longer find it hard to approach a girl, make her trip for me, kiss and even get physical with her.
And they now buy me gifts.
Unlike before where I used to be the one trying to PLEASE them.
But it didn't happen overnight.
I had to pick up the challenge to study bad guys/thugs, seduction, mind control and understand the female psychology too.
Before making lots of discoveries.
That has helped me become BADASS at getting girls.
But, I'm NOT going to reveal them here.
It's why I'm INVITING you join to my underground secret dating group on facebook...
And so...if you're TIRED of being treated badly by girls you truly love...And you want to start attracting beautiful and pretty girls, too.
Then, join my underground facebook group. Called "Dating Secrets Hub" – where we share COMPLETELY badass dating secrets... To help you start becoming a lot more attractive to even GIRLS that seem "above your level".
But here's the thing.
What we believe is that, the ONLY way to get girls to date, marry OR even have sex with you is to know HOW TO INFLUENCE THEIR EMOTIONS.
ALSO, we don't welcome LOOSERS...Guys who think all they need is "money" to get girls.
In fact, if you think money is all you need to attract girls. Then, you're not invited to join us. Just dey your lane.
Now don't get this wrong.
Money is important in a relationship. You'll need it to pay your house rent when you get married to the girl you'll DATE.
You'll need it pay children's school fees. You'll need it to pay for transport while travelling.
You'll ALSO need it to buy phone, recharge card, self-improvement materials, clothes & food, too.
So, I'm not saying you shouldn't hustle for MONEY. Hustle oo.
BUT then, thinking "money" will make girls respect, date, marry, and have sex with you on its own...is what LOOSERS do. And we don't accept people with that mindset in our secret hub.
However, if you believe that money is NOT all you need to get girls. Then join us.
There is this girl in my neighborhood who had been showing me plenty of greenlight or so. She would trek pass all the shops in her place to buy in my landlord's shop,she will greet me with a smile, looking for a way to strike a convo. I saw her too often and I knew it wasn't a coincidence.
I thought, since I liked her,I should ask out and see how things go from there. so I did. She comes to visit me often, we gist and discuss, Nothing more.
We have dated for like 4months now and the relationship has not progressed physically speaking. She doesn't let me touch her, if I make a little romantic joke in chat , she flares. I decided to stop calling her in 2 weeks to see her reaction. she got angry and complaints that I ignore her. She wants to be around me and talk to me all the time, but won't let me touch her. She gets jealous when am around other girls. When I told her I would park out from my street, she knelt down & begged me not to.
Last month, I found out a friend of mind has slept with her after he boasted about it. I did more CIA work and noticed that 70℅ of men in neighborhood had had their share. I noticed she calls men to come to her place at night,Sometimes in my presence. She lies that its her cousin or relatives. I would go to her place to see her and I would see a strange man on her bed, the next morning her sister would escort the man to the road to cover for her. I now understand her insatiable desire for sex and how she happens to F*ck a lot of random men.
This is killing me, Since I am emotionally attached to her, I had practically worshiped her and gave money when she request for it, sometimes discomforting myself.
I want comments especially from girls . Don't know where to go from here.
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