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RomanceRe: Why Women Are More Attracted To The Bad Guys Than The Good Guys by AlphaSoul: 8:27pm On Feb 14, 2021
drnoel:
Have much fun pursuing a girl for 6 months. Guy u funny. Look, just b4 u approach a girl, while u are still collecting ur thought to even open ur mouth most ladies already know where they have placed u. She already knows if she wants to just be friends, bed u, run a mile or date u. When u know that why postpone the inevitable?
See unlike men women are every articulate and clear thinking when it has to do with things of the heart, they know. They just put men to the test to try their patience and also to enjoy the feeling of being chased and being the centre of attraction. Thats why if u are quick to put enof confusion in her clearly thought out plan they find it hard to let go, then u've got her.
Believe me, the length of time u pursue a girl has nothing to do with if the girl is good, bad or if she will stay in the relationship or not or even if she will cheat or not. Pls stop that stereotype. I tell u I never spent more than 2 weeks chasing a chick. I never did it then and thank God I will never have to. Guy, u really need re-education cos from ur words I fear for u.
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RomanceRe: Why Women Are More Attracted To The Bad Guys Than The Good Guys by AlphaSoul: 7:37pm On Feb 14, 2021
Bettyfair09:
Bad guys in this context are referred to guys who are not so dangerous and violent and are irresistible by 90% of women. A bad guy is known to be confident and has set boundary rules guiding him. He hardly bends to the will of others to please them; he pleases himself first before considering others around him.

The bad guy works effortlessly to get that girl you have being dreaming about and sweeps her off her feet with mind blowing sexual fantasies; in most cases still leaves her heart broken and longing for more. He is the guy women fantasizes about and can practically do anything to have him. She can stake her neck for him even if her family and friends don’t like him.

Bad guys have this appealing and incredible traits that keep women endeared to them even with the after effect regrets, you still find many women willing to risk it. Women are always overwhelmed with the excitement of having them (bad guys) because there can never be a recorded boring moment around them; until when they are hurt, their senses returns.


Let’s kick-off with the reasons why women are more attracted to the bad guys than the good guys!

The push to redo what is familiar like the father-daughter connection
Many women idealize their father, especially if the father-daughter relationship was a good one. They always have this funny feeling that Dad will be impressed if they both share same traits. So, if her father was rebellious and shared most of the bad guys traits, there is every possibility that the said woman will always have a strong attraction with the bad guys. Personally, I’m a typical example because I glue to my father more than my mother. With that I’m always out to see that traits of him whenever I meet any man. If I don’t see 70% of his traits in you, then you will automatically be dismissed or fired.

Women love adventures especially when it has to do with a man
Yea… men are not the only ones that love adventures especially when it has to do with that classy woman that is probably beyond your class.

Women love the excitement and sense of danger that hovers around the bad guy. It ignites their adventurous spirit especially for the good women. Most good women that fall victim to bad guys grew up in a family where there is conformity and adherence to rules, so they always want to test what it feels like breaking some governing rules. Hence their attraction towards men that scoff at rules and shrugs at certain responsibilities.

Bad guys go after what they want, think for themselves and do things their way without asking for permission from anyone
You can never hear a bad guy gushing to talk to a woman…. “I wish I could approach that pretty woman…” no no no. A bad guy goes out of his comfort zone to get what he wants.

He gets over the fear and nervousness to achieve his aim. He focuses on that which he wants to do and sees obstacles as a risk worth taking.

He doesn’t need the permission of his woman to do whatever he wants unlike the nice guys that bores women with permission cards. He does not need the go-ahead order from you as his woman to keep her happy. He is the controller of himself and moves at his own pace still carrying his woman along. Women sincerely enjoy it like that. The bad guy is so comfortable thinking for himself and don’t need the help of you or a woman to help him out. He has a strong control over what he wishes to do and cannot be in the page with the crowd. Wow! Believe you me dear, the bad guys have the locus of control over any woman with these qualities.

Bad guys are brutally unpredictable and hardly pretend especially when it has to do with the truth
With a bad guy, you don’t know what his next plan is! Women love it when you make yourself an unpredictable being as a man. As long as you are not that mad man that smacks women or behave abusiveky, then your unpredictability is a strong turn-on for women. Nice guys are always so predictable and that singular feature of them bores women a lot. Nice guys and their predictable attitude can be likened to seeing a boring Nigerian movie that is very uninteresting and predictable.

Nice guys tend to pretend to be cool, nice and good more than they are in real life. The way nice guys behave with their friends and family is totally different from the way they will act around an attractive woman. For instance, have you been around a nice guy when he is talking to a woman? You must instantly notice that it’s a woman he is talking with, but such is not applicable with the bad guys. Even around an attractive woman, they tend to be their real self. They don’t change their personality to accommodate you as a woman. He doesn’t try to impress you as a woman because he believes that his personality is attractive enough to impress you. Bad guys think highly of themselves and don’t care how you as a person perceives them to be. This attitude attracts women and communicates honesty, maturity and composure to them.

Bad guys cannot paint their words to suit your ears, they tell you what they have in their mind the exact way it is. They are brutally honest and blunt even around the woman they cherish. But nice guys are just the opposite of such attitude; they tend to value the approval of that woman they like. A woman prefers to be mad at your honesty than have you lie to her in the first instance. The truth might hurt her but you will earn her trust and respect with your honesty. Women don’t stick to men that have lying reputation because they easily misinterpret them to be good heart breakers.

The daring confidence and not scared attitude of bad guys attracts women to them
The daring confidence of a bad guy originates from the internal not externalities such as his money, cars, clothes and good looking houses. His confidence is powerful and authentic since it originates from the inside. They don’t seem to be faking their level of self-confidence even around a woman. Most times their confidence can be misinterpreted by their fellow men as pride and low self-esteem. Women love their confidence a lot because it conveys a message of someone that knows who he is and where he is going in life.

Bad boys can’t be scared or worried about a woman’s view about their personality. They take charge of every situation that crops up around them. Unlike the nice guys that find it so hard to hold a woman’s hand or kiss her in the public; they are scared of what the outcome might result to. A bad guy goes for what he feels like doing with a woman; he can boldly play or kiss her in the public. The truth is that women love such attitude because it makes them feel you are assertive about them and equally would not mind if things are stepped up to the next levels. Once a man is a little weird or scared, it turns-off their level of attraction towards you.

Bad guys don’t play victims, they adapt and overcome every situation
A bad guy don’t enjoy playing a victim nor do he stick around feeling sorry for himself when trapped in a bad situation. He doesn’t cry to his friends and families about any bad condition; he quickly adapts and overcomes his bad situations. Unlike the nice guys that tend to complain about what is fair and what is not fair, the bad guys act like the real men by trying to always be in control of their emotions. He sucks up his situations and moves on with life. A man who cries and complains to his friends and families over every situation is perceived weak and unattractive to any woman. Naturally, women are the weak and are in need of a man that can protect them with their weak emotions, so why act weak to be Mr. Nice? This is why the women will always run to the Bad guy.

Bad guys are very passionate even when they are after a woman
Bad guys are very passionate about whatever they do; they put more energy into anything and that includes going after a woman. They bring into display more passion and sexual energy that attracts women. They tend to build on the fantasies of a woman when it comes to passion.

Bad guys are not heart-broken or are played on by a woman
Bad guys are not ignorant or too blind to quickly notice the games that women play. They are not quick to fall in love and get their hearts stomped to pieces by women. The bad guy understands that in today’s world, there exist some level of possibility that he might not be the only man in a woman’s life because women like to keep their options open, which is not totally bad. He tends to play with caution and avoids putting his heart on the line unlike the nice guys would do at first gaze. When a woman knows she can’t break your heart as a bad guy, it pushes her to try harder and hence the attraction.

He leaves her always wanting for more
The bad guy will definitely win the heart of any woman and leave her wanting for more even till the rest of her life. He has the magic short-lived touch on any woman. He will always try to hide his true feelings towards you as a woman thereby trying to obey the rules that says, “keep her close by hiding your cards”…making her enjoy almost enough but denying her what she wants. It duplicates the level of attraction and desires on a woman. If a woman always leaves you first, check yourself very well; maybe you are offering way too much of yourself to her. Remember the saying, “too much of everything is bad”….not when it has to do with money.

Bad guys make women feel needed and equally help boost their low self-esteem
Women naturally love fixing things especially when it has to be with a man. A woman with low self-esteem believes she can nurture a bad guy all to her credit. It sure boosts the self-esteem of a low esteemed woman and pushes her to achieve more with the bad guy. They tend to see bad guys as an assignment to be fixed, and if handled properly; they will be theirs forever. That is not true, because a woman can never change a full-grown man. A man decides to change whenever he wants to. However, the fact that the bad guy needs to be fixed makes a woman feel wanted.

Bad guys are not good with commitment
At a point in a woman’s life, all she might just need is a bad boy that will not sing the commitment songs to her ears.

Women are sometimes scared of intimacy or commitment, for instance after a heartbreak. But with a bad boy she will definitely avoid the commitment part of a nice time together. Unlike the nice guys that always want to know their stand when it comes to a relationship.

With the bad guy, sex is just mind-blowing
A woman perceives a nice guy to be dull in bed but is that really the truth? Women want to be manhandled in bed and bad guys has won that award right from their looks. A bad guy is seen to be good in the act. Generally it is perceived that one, and such crazy fantasies draws women to them no matter the risk involved.

Bad guys are physically strong while the nice guys are seen weak in the eyes of women
Bad guys have this illusion of being physical strong hovering around them. They are seen to be able to protect women physically while the nice guys are seen to be otherwise. That bad guy attitude conveys strength to women. Women have this funny believe that they are protected under them.

In life, it is always good to strike a balance in all you do. Until you accept that notion, your dream woman will always leave you for a bad guy. In my candid opinion, I think the ideal should be able to walk the fine line between the nice and the bad guy.

Thanks for stopping by to read this, I will love to listen to your opinions and questions on this via your comments below, remember! We always look out for each other at mysugarcandy.com Stay cool!

Source: http://mysugarcandy.com/reasons-why-women-are-more-attracted-to-the-bad-guys-than-the-good-guys/
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RomanceRe: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by AlphaSoul: 6:47pm On Feb 14, 2021
Farki:
Because women are almost never told no. After years of having men suck up to them and give them attention, money and favors for free a guy standing his ground is enough to drive some mad.
Word!
RomanceRe: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by AlphaSoul: 6:21pm On Feb 14, 2021
WeJCKs:
For the Males, moving on after their (love) advances gets turned down is quite easy.

But coming to the females, they seem to act weird especially when they truly like the guy

From blocking him online and unblocking. Stalking him, trying to know the new lady he talks to, crying all day, checking when he's online and acting cold etc

So my question is, why is it hard for them to move on

So guys share your experiences if you've ever rejected a lady's advances

Gracias
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RomanceRe: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by AlphaSoul: 5:58pm On Feb 14, 2021
chumaZ:
Nairalanders I need your advise, please pardon my grammar and my typographical errors as I am under pressure, I will try and make this story short in order not to bore you guys

I finished school 2016 and went for NYSC on Abuja 2017. Unfortunately for me, I ran into my best friend supposed fiancée since I know her too well, we bonded till one day she asked to know where I stay in Abuja, but because I was staying with my aunty, I couldn't take her to my place....

One Friday morning I got a call from my bestie that his girl is down, that I should take her to hospital, I left whatever I was doing and rushed down to Apo resettlement. When I got there her fiancée was in good condition to my greatest surprise, she begged me not to let my friend know, that she needed attention and all that. She didn't know it will got to this extent, and I agreed with her and bid her a goodbye but she wouldn't let me go until I kiss her.... I swear I had no option if that would make her free me because she was creating a lot of drama already. I kept cool and avoided this girl till I left abuja after NYSC and never mentioned anything that happened between her and I to my friend.

Fast forward to October 2020, my friend called me that her fiancée has an event to attend in Yaba Lagos for a week and want me to accommodate her since I stay in two bedroom apparent alone, I refused and suggested it was better he get a hotel room for her, my friend said the girl have not been to Lagos that it would be better she stays with someone who's familiar with Lagos. I contacted a female friend I know to see if she can stay with her, but my friend's fiancée' complained the place will be far from where the event would be taking place, my best friend was now seeing me as wicked person and I don't wanna help his girl. I had no option than to allow her to come stay with me, I made sure I invited my sister to stay with me for the one week, to avoid temptation. But my sister couldn't stay for a week because of some personal issues, that's how I was left with my best friend fiancée, I don't wanna talk about what I pass through staying with her alone but I ended up having sex with her which I regretted bitterly, when she left Lagos back to anambra I pleaded with her not to chat me nor call me, but she wouldn't listen. She's always chatty and sending me nude which I finally blocked her.

A week ago, my bestie called me that he was in Lagos and would want us to meet, I was reluctant, because I can't stand him after what happened between me and his fiancée, when I got to the bar (venue) the face I saw around his table were kinda strange aside one of our old friend who was with them. Uncle no even allow me finish greeting before I know it a broken bottle have landed on my hand, his target was my face but thank God I defended on time, that's how my blood spilled everywhere and his friends tried to calm him down while other ones was giving me general beating like a common criminal. Thank God police arrived on time, I might have been a dead man today over a girl I never wanted to help.

Please I need help on how to go about this and clear myself from whatever this girl told my bestie, from the little I heard, she claimed I raped her during her stayed with me. Although I have got a lawyer now who is handling this issue but I still wanna clear myself before my friends, none of them believes me maybe because of my lifestyle back in school. Even my family are aware of this ugly issue and are calling me bumper to bumper, because me and my bestie are from the same village and we are like family friends. I don't know how to clear my name. Please help me. I am depressed already, I can't believe my OG tried killing me.
Chuma I believe you here!

If a woman likes or loves a
man and gets rebuffed... She
can easily and falsely
accuse him of harassment
and rape in anger.

Stay strong!
RomanceRe: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by AlphaSoul: 5:34pm On Feb 14, 2021
bugatti02:
Big issue already... You can't explain things to your OG right now... Because you broke the bro code already....... Unblock the girl in question. Chat her up and ensure your conversation are straight and honest about happenings when she came visiting/stayed at your home.... This will serve as your defence and maybe evidence as the case unfolds...nothing you can do right now.... Get GBwhatsapp activate message invoke... So she can't chat and delete her conversation... I hope you clear yourself finally.... Be security conscious now.... Hope you understand.... If you lusgard.... Sorry...
RomanceRe: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by AlphaSoul: 5:31pm On Feb 14, 2021
nexttag:
Let me laugh first before anything grin grin grin

First

If what u said is true
Then you are a fool and also wise
You chop ur friends babe and u no tell him say he wan marry ashawo bro u no dey smart


The girls was the person that set u up because she thought u blocking her will blow her bubble so she acted faster and smarter than you


Secondly
God will punish you for chopping that girl like mad dog

Deceiving her with ur small car , I doubt if this Girl is not from nnewi or closer village


Solution

Bro this is why u hustle for money get contact of a well respected person in ur village buy him expensive gift and pay him a visit tell him ur story and watch how this case will be gone


I mean person with money and respected in ur community

Until then fear pussy it is better to be caught self raping ur self aka shampoo,vaseline crew than be accused by a woman of a rape na only God go save u here if care is not taking and also avoid village for 2years coz of ur life ur friend might be planning other things
HealthRe: No. 1 Leading Cause Of Infertility In Nig Is Staph, Monolaurin Clears It by AlphaSoul: 8:35pm On Feb 13, 2021
idowuolanipekun:
Monolaurin Capsule

Antibacterial effects
Research shows that monolaurin is an effective killer of bacteria, including antibiotic-resistant Staphylococcus aureus. A 2013 study published in the Journal of Medicinal Food confirmed the results of other in vitro studies that showed the antibacterial power of monolaurin. It also showed that monolaurin fights off Staphylococcus aureus in mice.

A study from 2007 in the Journal of Dermatology Drugs compared monolaurin to six common types of antibiotics in the treatment of superficial pediatric skin infections. The study found statistically significant broad spectrum antibiotic effects without any of the resistance of common antibiotics.

Antifungal effects

Several fungi, yeasts, and protozoa are reported to be inactivated or killed by monolaurin, including some species of ringworm and candida albicans. Candida albicans is a common fungal pathogen that lives in the gut, mouth, genitals, urinary tract, and skin. It can be life-threatening in immunocompromised people.

A recent study found that monolaurin has potential as an antifungal treatment for candida albicans — one that can also reduce a pro-inflammatory response.

Antiviral effects

It’s reported that some of the viruses that have been inactivated, at least partially, by monolaurin include:

HIV
measles
herpes simplex-1
vesicular stomatitis
visna virus
cytomegalovirus
A 2015 study published in PLOS ONE tested a monolaurin vaginal gel in female primates. Researchers found that daily doses of monolaurin gel could reduce primates’ risk of vaginally contracting SIV, the primate version of HIV. The researchers concluded that monolaurin has great potential as a prophylactic.
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If you have contracted any form of disease in the past like, gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes, candida (yeast infection), urinary tract infection (U.T.I), etc, which you may have treated but not totally cured, could lead to staph infection.
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HealthRe: Cure Glaucoma Naturally With "Homeopathic Product" by AlphaSoul: 8:33pm On Feb 13, 2021
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HealthRe: 10 Foods That Can Help Boost Sperm Count by AlphaSoul: 8:25pm On Feb 13, 2021
supergist1:
A very common problem among most men is low Sperm Count and it has prevented most from being able to impregnate their spouses.

In this post we’ll be dropping Below a list of foods that every man should take into consideration, eating on daily or weekly basis, so as to boost and keep a healthy sperm count.

1 Spinach
Folic acid is vital to the development of healthy sperm. Spinach and other types of leafy green vegetables are a rich source of this vitamin. When your folate levels are low, there is a greater chance you will produce malformed sperm. This will lead to sperm that will have a hard time reaching the egg and penetrating its protective barrier. Also, there is a greater chance of birth defects because of the faulty sperms chromosomal abnormalities.

2 Dark Chocolate
Dark chocolate is often associated with lust filled rendezvous. Strawberries dipped in chocolate next to a glass of champagne on a bedside table greet many a guest during their honeymoon. What you probably didn’t know is dark chocolate is great for your sperm count as well. It contains an amino acid called L-Arginine HCL known to increase semen volume and sperm count. It has also been rumored to increase ----Read More
HealthRe: For: Sperm Boost, Sperm Thickner & Sperm Quality by AlphaSoul: 8:22pm On Feb 13, 2021
remiologi:
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Men are yet to come to its full realization that this fruit also known as Silky Kola ( Azanza Garckeana) works wonderfully well on SPERM and on sexually transmitted infections ( STI) in general.
For Sperm Boost
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This Nature Fruit works miraculously in various ways even beyond human expectation. Goron Tula fruit as been doing wonders since its discovery by consumers. Women tend to be the high users of Goron Tula for Fertility, Vagina dryness and Vagina Odour.

Men are yet to come to its full realization that this fruit also known as Silky Kola ( Azanza Garckeana) works wonderfully well on SPERM and on sexually transmitted infections ( STI) in general.
For Sperm Boost
For Sperm Thickness
For Sperm Quality

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HealthRe: Goron Tula And Sexuality ( 100 Pieces #7500) by AlphaSoul: 8:15pm On Feb 13, 2021
remiologi:
It increases the female libido to the point that the lady will not get tired after round after round of sex even with minimal pre-intimacy!
2. It aids in the production of juicy, copious amounts of vagina wetness which is perfect for those who have dry vaginas.
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4. It aids fertility so it is excellent for those trying to conceive.
5. Great for those women who have menstruation problems.
6. Perfect for cleansing the vagina and in doing so, prevents bad vagina odour or that foul fishy smell
7. It increases sexual performance in men and sperm quality

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The fruit help cleanse the body system, prevent diseases like cancer, diabetes, high-blood pressure, and fertility challenges. It also serves as an aphrodisiac, and aids against liver problems, and mental illness among other diseases. It can also assist in improving bowel movement, ease digestion and improve the body immune system. Most importantly, it is safe for consumption across all ages.
BusinessRe: Allarounda1: Dangote Sued Me For Declining His Silence Money – Alleged Ex-lover by AlphaSoul: 5:49pm On Feb 13, 2021
Foreign AffairsRe: Tifany Trump Gets $1.2m Diamond Engagement Ring From Michael Boulos by AlphaSoul: 5:21pm On Feb 13, 2021
Abdulazeez99:
US President Donald Trump’s daughter Tiffany Trump has received a 13-carat emerald-cut diamond engagement ring from her Nigerian-Lebanese boyfriend Michael Boulos, Igbere TV reports.

The 27-year-old announced her engagement on Tuesday, her father’s last full day at the White House.

In a Twitter post, the Georgetown Law graduate described the engagement as her most special White House memory, while paying tribute to her fiancé, whom she has been dating for just over two years.



https://twitter.com/TiffanyATrump/status/1351576632553844740?s=20

Boulos responded to her engagement post in the comments, writing “Love you honey.”

He also proudly announced the news on his Instagram page using the same photo from the White House.



https://www.instagram.com/p/CKO_jlAHEwf/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Boulos, 23, proposed to the outgoing first daughter with a 13-carat emerald-cut diamond from Dubai that is believed to be worth up to $1.2 million.

In exclusive pictures obtained by DailyMail.com, Tiffany is seen proudly showing off the stunning ring, which was designed by New York-based jeweler and diamond dealer Samer Halimeh.

Boulos, who is heir to the multi-billion dollar Nigerian conglomerate Boulos Enterprises, flew to Dubai with Halimeh to choose the ring, which he selected and purchased in the city.

Tiffany’s father will end his tumultuous single term as US president on Wednesday.
CultureRe: Naming System Of The Anioma People Of Delta State by AlphaSoul: 8:48am On Feb 11, 2021
fratermathy:
The Anioma people are a conurbation of various ethnicities in Northern Delta State who came together under the Anioma umbrella. Anioma is an acronym for Aniocha, Ndokwa, Ika, and Oshimili (ANIO). The "Ma" is used a common suffix used in all the languages. Through this process of acronymy, a word "Anioma" was derived by Dennis Osadebay of Asaba (former premier of Mid-Western State now comprising Delta and Edo States) to mean "good land"!

The various ethnic groups comprising Anioma all have Benin and Igbo heritage and their cultural hybridity makes them distinct and unique. The languages spoken in Aniomaland are Igboid save for Enuani (Asaba/Ogwashi-Uku and environs) which is considered to be a pure Igbo dialect. However, culturally, the Anioma people have a lot of similarities with the Edoid groups such as Urhobo-Isoko, Bini, Esan, etc. Some of these similarities manifest strongly in the Ukwuani and Ika ethnic groups.

I came across a writup on the naming system of the Anioma people on Facebook (Proudly Anioma page) and I decided to share it here so that everyone can be educated on Anioma onomastics. See it below:






So what do you think? Are you an Anioma person? Add more names and their roots! smiley

Anioma kwenu!
Anioma wadoo!

Let us appreciate the Anioma culture!! Say no to tribalism!
InvestmentRe: Investors Lose $190m As Owner Of Cryptocurrency Company Dies With Passwords by AlphaSoul: 11:30pm On Feb 10, 2021
PG1:Feb 5 2019
This year has been a bad one for cryptocurrency, QuadrigaCX dies and Cryptopia was hacked 3 weeks ago. Both exchanges have been locked down.

I urge every Nairalander who's a trader on any exchange to move the currency to a wallet that they have control of the private key and trade with only a portion. Read their ToS and you'll see that in case of a hack (or exit scam) they are not liable. They will pay creditors first before their customers even if the case drags on. Don't be a fool
InvestmentRe: Court Can’t Seize $60m In Bitcoin As Owner Won’t Give Password by AlphaSoul: 11:14pm On Feb 10, 2021
Kwanza:
It was also possible that the owner of the currency had forgotten the passwords.


https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/440658-court-cant-seize-60m-in-bitcoin-as-owner-wont-give-password.html
RomanceRe: Don't Have Sex With People You Meet Online. Pictures by AlphaSoul: 10:52pm On Feb 10, 2021
Wittyglam:
I have heard so many horrible stories of people who had sex with someone they met online. It's better you stay safe than sorry. Be careful people.



https://mobile.twitter.com/TumisangMo/status/1351281579772018688
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Reality bites...
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RomanceRe: Why Do Women Abuse Kindness Men Extend To Them by AlphaSoul: 9:53pm On Feb 10, 2021
mikebabs101:
You are so on point with this observation, imagine taking a millionaire that gave you 50k as maga , just because he decided to be nice, ladies just don't seem to understand what they want. I can relate with this . I use to have a girlfriend back then, although I'm not really into her , I was just in for the sex and being a gentleman, she really likes me cos in reality I cared less, she was invested in the relationship than I did . She was in uni then , she met another guy that bought her a Samsung phone of 75k and even gave 50k for undies business may be some other money which I'm not aware of. The mistake the guy made was giving her those money before getting her to bed. She tagged the guy maga and a fool, her friends even joked about it. She frustrated the guy attempt to have sex with her , she won't go visit him on many occasion while she was giving me the sex free of charge, for her mind , she is smart but I know the guy was only being kind and giving her the money out of abundance, the guy later blocked her when the game became obvious to him, I just pitied the guy. Immediately she gave sign of trying to play game with me , I broke up with her, I outplayed her, she felt used, but I know she deserve it and not the type of girl I can trust , she was just my sex tool for a long time till I got tired of her . Never try too much to impress a girl with money or material things, most of them will take you for granted, its better they know you have the money but let them try to impress you and earn whatever you decide to give, they will worship you that way. The story is real , I did not sugar coat anything, that's just the reality
RomanceRe: 10 Disgusting Habits Ladies Exhibit Immediately You Toast Them by AlphaSoul: 8:34pm On Feb 10, 2021
RomanceRe: 8 Ways Ladies Act When They Want Guys To Toast Them by AlphaSoul: 8:03pm On Feb 10, 2021
ronald4lif:
The t-fare is spot on. Girls do that a lot in uni when heading home in same bus with a guy they're interested in. They're aware that guys are wowed by a girl who can spend on them no matter how little. And since they are not willing to part ways with big sum like fast food they go for the tf option. After all the amount spent isn't important but sending the message she cares about him.


Also the cruel part works a lot too. Most time when a girl attacks a guy verbally or always attempt to joining words with him she's interested in him. They do that to draw his attention and to give him the notion they are tough. This works for them in most cases too as guys like challenges and will want to explore the necessary scheme to taming her wings and egos, by taking up a challenge to woo her.
RomanceRe: 8 Ways Ladies Act When They Want Guys To Toast Them by AlphaSoul: 7:43pm On Feb 10, 2021
OP:Borrussia. Pg1 2005
Today's love game is changing wheels as the hunter is becoming the hunted.

I have heard situation of when a lady takes bold step in asking a guy out but this perfectly works in the western world unlike in Africa where such ladies will be regarded cheap and desperate for husband.

So as a result, Ladies in our world gives stylish green signals in order to make guys toast them which are;

Smile

A radiant face is pleasing to watch and send positive signal of your approval for discussion. Some ladies smile can make a hungry and angry man happy. This is exactly what give guys the encouragement to strike a conversation.


Hard to Get Mechanism

This method is common among ladies. Just like Banky's W song on "Will you be my Lover, Yes or No? ". They will neither say Yes nor No. They are nice today and cruel tomorrow. They do this in order for guys not to take them for granted neither put them off.

Initiate a conversation

A bold lady initiate a conversation discussing issues vital in a guy's life. They do this in order for the guy to pick interest in them.

Stalk on you

In classrooms, Offices, churches and other places, such set of ladies stylishly stalk on the guy with the hope he will notice them. Hitherto, the way ladies stylishly stalk guys is so professional that it become irresistible to overcome their advances.

They stylishly open their laps and cleavage

Over exposing laps and boobs will term a lady prostitute. Because ladies understand this mentality in guys, they stylishly open their laps and cleavage when they sit beside their crush by wearing short skirt and a bit open blouse.

Frequent calls


They call frequently to check on him even when they is nothing to discussed on. She finds it amazing and happy just to hear his voice

Spray their body with perfume several times

A soothing deodorant send a provoking neurone in your brain when perceive. Therefore, since ladies are known for carrying kits of manicure, perfumes, etc. They quickly make up and apply perfume just to attract her crush despite d fact that she applied it few minutes ago.

They pay for your his T fare

In a public transport, they pay for your his T fare in order to gain your attention.


Feel free to add yours.
BusinessRe: Autumn Spikes: Dangote Sues American Mistress For Exposing His Buttocks Online by AlphaSoul: 6:21pm On Feb 10, 2021
Kwanza:
The $30,000 lawsuit in an American court could further expose the intimate details of the billion’s relationship with his estranged mistress.



https://peoplesgazette.com/dangote-sues-american-mistress-for-exposing-his-buttocks-on-social-media/?utm_source=ReviveOldPost&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=ReviveOldPost
PoliticsRe: APC Governors Consider Zoning Presidency To The North In 2023 by AlphaSoul: 6:07pm On Feb 10, 2021
PoliticsRe: APC Governors Consider Zoning Presidency To The North In 2023 by AlphaSoul: 5:30pm On Feb 10, 2021
Dpharisee:
Fulanis are not ready to give up power after entrenching themselves in all apparatus of Govt.
It's so bad that you see some guys from Benue state like Felix Terungwa the BBQ griller below, is spamming this forum with praise singing of Buhari when Sabiu 'Tunde' Yusuf who recently was a recharge card seller under umbrella in the street is now a Director in NIA on secondment to the presidency. Buhari referred to them as his 'online warriors'
RomanceRe: Why Is This Attitude Trending Among Women? by AlphaSoul: 4:10pm On Feb 10, 2021
daddymummy:
The world has really changed.

Now even if a woman is at fault against a fellow woman,

instead of her to face her fellow woman, she would be looking for a man to vent her anger on.

Everywhere you go now, women are encouraging one another against men.

If there is a report that a woman did something wrong,

instead of other women to come and condemn the woman for her wrong, they would be busy looking for a man to attack.

I wonder how they don't get shame at all.

Now if it is the other way round, people would say the man is not man enough that is why he is leaving a fellow man to fight a woman.

Now that women are leaving their gender to fight men, are they woman enough?(If a man must be man enough, a woman must also be woman enough not to fight men)

Women now hate to hear a woman condemning another woman for her evil, but will always find a way of shifting a woman's blame to a man.

I have seen this almost daily.

Just today, someone was preaching on how lot's wife became a pillar of salt for looking back.

He was speaking against looking back.One lady sitting close started blaming lot for the sins of his wife.

One woman said if you are a woman and another woman slaps you, don't retaliate.
Rather look for a man and slap because a man must have offended her that is why she slapped you.





That is the current trend among women.

I have seen and heard this attitude among women nowadays and it is getting worse by the day.

I wonder how it all began.

They try to silent any woman that speaks against the evil of another woman.

But they will rather find a way of encouraging the woman to attack an innocent man for the sins of a fellow woman.

That is the current trend among women.

It is God that will protect the male gender.
Men must only marry daddy's
girls. Period!
InvestmentRe: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by AlphaSoul: 11:08am On Feb 10, 2021
EarlyCareer:
Very true.

However, before anyone sticks his/her head in, please do your research. Read, read and read.

As long as low interest rates continue in this present world, innovation remains the key to survive.

- putting money in credible NDIC recognised digital banks like piggyvest and a few others for up to 13% p/a seems a better alternative for now compared to standard savings accounts and/or some mutual funds.

- NSE remains a very smart choice for anyone interested in stocks, however, if you are still interested in hedging against further devaluation of our naira, then sound US stocks or ETFs is the way. Bamboo and Trove are the leading guys for this. Both are SEC recognised. There is also no harm in playing in both NG and US stock markets.

EDIT: for Nigerian stocks, honestly, there are very few sound ones, follow Emma's picks, or join their thread here, for better learning.

- if you have the mind for huge ROI, or huge loss (depending on which coins you buy), then crypto is the future. Currency will be digital. It seems inevitable with the way it is going. Big countries are already looking at it, regulations will further legitimize crypto.

To the open minded, this seems the way to go. But as all have directly or indirectly said, it is YOUR money, only you decide how and where to put it. And you should also be ready to take the consequences with your full chest too.

To the close minded, we all make money at the end.

EDIT: the harsh truth is that close minded people may loose out eventually or not. The future belongs to innovation.
InvestmentRe: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by AlphaSoul: 11:04am On Feb 10, 2021
kevoh:
I'm not talking bitcoin alone but the whole cryptomarket. Even almighty bitcoin sometimes does not respect the charts. Everyone loses a trade at some point. That's why we have all sorts of stop-loss orders for risk and financial management.

The crypto sphere is massive and you can choose to limit yourself to spot trading bitcoin while some hunt crypto gems, some trade altcoins, and others trade futures or do all. There's no harm as long as we all make some profit.

A lot of people made money from free airdropped 400 UNI (currently trading at $18) just for transacting on uniswap, they probably must have missed that if they only traded bitcoin. And I'm sure, their neighbour who doesn't do crypto will be asking how his neighbour made $7200 (400 x $18) grin, it just must be fraud. Not knowing that it was received free wink
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Travel AdsRe: 10 Things You Should Know Before Moving To Canada by AlphaSoul: 2:04am On Feb 10, 2021
Asapchikki:
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Canada is one of the sought after country for new immigrants. They are things you need to know as a new immigrant moving to another with a different culture, policy, and way of life in other easily adapt to your new environment.

Here are the 10 things you should know before Moving to Canada and you may have heard some of these before but I still think they’re important enough to go over for the people who haven’t heard them.

1. The High Taxes
Canadian pay high taxes but Can’t be compared to places like Sweden where the income tax is 60% which is crazy but it’s important to know if you’re moving from a country that has a lower income tax you can expect to pay 15 to 40 percent of your income taxes.

To put it into perspective, if you got a job offer for $100,000 per annum, at the end of the year you will be getting $70,000 because in this tax bracket making a hundred thousand dollars, about thirty percent would be taken away which is thirty thousand dollars.

Taxes is one the things you should know before Moving to Canada, So when you are planning your budgeting and expenses make sure to take away an extra amount for your taxes.

2. Languages/Locations
Canada has two official languages namely English and French. If you learned English make sure you’re moving to a place that is primarily English-speaking because it would be unfortunate that after learning English to move to Canada and then you move somewhere that speaks French.

Quebec is the only province in Canada that is primarily French-speaking and Montreal is the capital of Quebec. Most people o talk about them moving to Montreal but they don’t know that Montreal is primarily French-speaking.

3. The Weather
If you live in Canada it’s kind of a must-do to complain about the weather every once in a while. It’s a very popular conversation on how cold Canada is during winter. Vancouver as opposed to anywhere else in Canada does not snow that much and it does not get that cold.

Before you move to Canada make sure you google what the average summer temperature is for that area and more importantly what the winter temperature is because it’s not uncommon for some places to go below -40 or -50 Celsius in the winter and that’s like the weather where you walk outside you start crying right away not because it’s painful but because it’s so cold that you just start crying and then the tears freeze on your face.

Some of those same places can go up to 40 Celsius in the summer and you can also find places that are neutral much the whole year, it doesn’t get too hot or too cold. Depending on what type of weather or temperature you’re into you can do a little bit of research on that.

4. Healthcare
As many people know Canada has free healthcare here but not everything is free. It’s free if you want to go see a doctor for a checkup or about a certain illness but if they prescribe you pills or medicines you have to buy them yourself.

Sometimes the company that you work for will have a benefits plan where they pay for things like your medicine and prescriptions but that’s not for every job so you should ask your employer about their benefits.

Another part of Canada’s health care that is not free is eye care and dental care, your employer may cover if they have good benefits because these two things are pretty expensive.

5. Tipping
I know tipping in a lot of countries is not expected and it’s just something you do when you had a great time or like exceptional service but in Canada, tipping is normally expected and not on everything. Tipping is normal for things like a taxi driver, a waiter or a waitress, a barber, and a lot of other things and if you don’t tip for these services it’s usually seen as somewhat disrespectful.
Am not telling you guys what to do or like to tip by any means but it is normally expected and most people do it.

continue here: https://cookmuv.com/10-things-you-should-know-before-moving-to-canada/
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TravelRe: Inside Canada Ice Hotel With 15 Suites, Bar And Wedding Chapel(Pics) by AlphaSoul: 12:50am On Feb 10, 2021
Explorers:
This year, the hotel spans 30,000 square feet and 15,000 tons of snow were used during construction.

This incredible image shows the ice hotel's beautiful chapel for 2021, where couples can get married.


The thrilling ice slide at Hôtel de Glace.

Construction on the hotel began in December, with it taking 50 workers around six weeks to build.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/travel/escape/article-9211003/The-2021-version-Canadian-ice-hotel-Quebec-features-15-themed-suites-large-slide.html

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