₦airaland Forum

PunkyVeer:
Maybe they're beautiful where it matters most, on the inside.

Also in the African context, if a woman is not yellow pawpaw and doesn't look like Agbani Darego or G. Nnaji, then she's termed ugly.

The standard for classifying a dark-skinned lady beautiful is much higher.

Thank God some men whether handsome or not still look beyond the face.

marshalcarter:
Omoh na fyt??

It seems everything we copy from oiyinbo, we just copy upside down.

barthchuks:
Op nawao for you o, Oshiomole married Lara na, did this tells u something?

Let him be seeking attention here if it helps soothe his pain.

Go out there and hustle real hard.

With a bit of luck you can land any babe (and repeat) that.

Your testimony go change like Oshiomhole's.

Nor mind that "liar for Africa" Misspicy lady who says she won't date a short Dangote.

socialmediaman:
Photos are good for keeps. Anytime you want to do a head count of those who destroyed/Still destroying Nigeria, you know where to start

Especially for revolutionists.

We have to be careful with our language. It is from clapping hands that one enters the dance floor.

Since the senseless killing of Yusuf, Boko Haram became something else.

Does Nigeria army have what it takes to fight battles on many fronts?

When NA becomes too strained from fighting everywhere, other groups could take advantage of the of the weakness.

America, UK & the West have shown they cannot help us.

Worse now that they even need less of our oil.

zico530:
I think Kayode is right on this. If Shitu or shit is afraid of his own boys at his age, it is better he resign before even given a portfolio.

Imagine making that Alhaji Interior minister.

He's just another 9ja politician who believes in nothing and stands for nothing principled.

Shame. Those Chibok girls don't have family, bah?

steffans:
This same Shittu that all his points were based on religion

Or will buhari open a special ministry for this guy Ministry of Islamic Affiars/State


In my Opinion the guy does not sound sharp at all...

The guy just dey brag about he did this and did that. Even though that was the point of the CV. Even people with stellar qualifications like Ogbonnaya Onu kept it simple.

In politics of cowardice for 36 years. Shame.

mrlaw93:
sometimes wen i see nairaland homepage.. i jst shake my head.

Me shake my black behind sef.

sisqonite:
Damn!!!!
I work with facts. My plan is to secretly get all my kids tested, no matter how sure i am of my wife. Call me paranoid but only the paranoid survive

Well some women are still faithful sha.

But these days lots of people get married because the babe is pregnant. Often the most eligible guy gets the baby.
But it can also belong to her boss or some 60 years old Alhaji somewhere.

Some babes develop the multiple dating habit in higher institution days. Some habits can be hard to break.

In the West, most countries don't allow fathers to do DNA test on kids without the woman's consent. And sure enough most women don't consent.

With cheap DNA test just years away, many dads will be in for a shock if they secretly do tests.

NiRfreak:
Distant relationship and marriage are two journeys you must embark on with sheer FAITH otherwise you will just end up with HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE coupled with SUDDEN DEATH. If you don't have enough faith desist from those two journeys until you must have gathered enough faith as your shock absorber.

People should just accept now that even if you're married and live together, it still doesn't guarantee fidelity.

Women are even more under pressure to cheat now. Be it with her boss at work or clients.

Even a housewife sitting at home can hook up with men via social media. Easy peasy.

Can you realistically 60% expect fidelity from a person you are not married to?

We have reached a moral low. Distance or no distance.
I keep reminding people of research results though people don't want to hear:

50% of first born kids don't belong to supposed biological dad.
30% of all kids don't belong to supposed biological dad.

I have two friends whose kids in 9ja failed paternity test and therefore couldn't join them in UK.

tevinsolt:
there's a Delaware in the UK? the Delaware I know of is in the US

I wonder o.

People just associate stabbing with UK, shooting with US.

chigoizie7:
Did he take other people's belief into consideration? Na only him get naija? To me, that is nonsense, he should not be made a minister because he is self oriented/centered, he is only particular about what he believes and not the plight of the people he is meant to serve. How could he say such a thing? Religious leaders should be paid? On what grounds? Why didn't he clamour for all unemployed graduates to be paid?

Don't waste your time arguing with them.

What has a secular FG got to do with all that gibberish he was spewing?

Even subsidising any form of pilmigrimage by govt is bad enough.

Religion should remain private. Not compromised by state.

How do you even force cleric to toe govt guidelines just because they received state money?

ok

yep

If it will fly for 500k, make me talk.

But show engine pics.

Na Wa o. Still no standard hospital in 9ja. Time for blaming GEJ is running out.

christinie:
there's nothing that moves a man than knowing that the person he ignores is a hot cake to others. When a woman makes a man feel like she can't survive without him, he can treat her like trash (if he ain't got consience). Always make your partner feel you are independent (not overly) and they will respect you more. Being clingy can be boring.
If indeed he wants out, begging him won't make him change his mind, instead it will compound issues.
By the time he notices that the lady isn't worried about him: the time he gets back home; whether he wants her or not etc he will be the one checking the lady out, not the other way round.
The man has ego and only reversed psychology can cure his ego.
Remember I told her to back this up with prayers.

Well, I'm a man. So I stand a good chance of knowing one or two things about men.

Many assertions women have about men just are not that true. Mostly generalisation.
Remember men are still individuals, with individual idiosyncrasies.

Many marriages face their toughest phase between 5th & 10th year. It's time of finally realising you're "stuck" or lovingly with one person quasi forever. It can go either way.

This is no exception.

If a man doesn't care anymore, he just doesn't.

If she would be openly flirting with other men or worse, of course his pride/ego would kick in. But Just ignoring would just give him ammunition.
This lady needs to be sure he hasn't found out some unsavoury things about her past. Or that someone has not lied against her.

Why would she beg? Has she obviously done anything wrong?
She should be herself and if possible seek professional help.

christinie:
Start ignoring him too and he will turn around.
I don't mean you shouldn't talk to him.
Do everything a wife is supposed to do for her hubby but act as if you've forgotten about the word 'sex'.
Also act very happy. Act like life has never been sweeter than now.
He will begin to get scared.
He will quickly turn around.
Some guys get bored with seeing same face daily.
It's a disorder.
Give him some challenges and he will wake up.
NB be prayerful while at it.
Thanks.

What if the guy wants out of the marriage and is just considering the kids for now?
Then OP will just make it easier for him.

Maybe he never really was deeply in love with OP but he thought love would come/grow.

He might be in love with another lady, whether he's currently dating her or not.
His body language suggests that he's no more sexually attracted to OP.

The whole marriage might even be like a hard chore to him now.
OP can be the most pretty or neatest lady around, it can happen.

Consider marriage counselling. But I bet the hubby would resist that suggestion. But try anyway.

LaraiBoluwaji:
Okay sir. I will PM you before the month runs out. Will that be okay?

Yes. Thanks dear.

LaraiBoluwaji:
Okay I'll ask around and get back to you. Is it urgent?

Thanks dear. Actually kinda urgent. Ideally by end of the month/first week of December.

Albert0011:
My God..80 yrs old 4 dat matter,she wil bring a very big shame 2 her children nd grand children.

Actually she may well have been selling it for decades.

It may surprise many people who don't go to their village, but selling cartridges is widespread albeit illegal.

How do you think they kill most of the bush meat you eat in the city? Setting traps only??

Hunters still patronise these people in rural & semi-rural areas.

Of course with hunters getting fewer, sure criminal elements would probably make the bulk of customers now.

As for those talking of age, 80-year olds still sell kerosene, rice, beans and others. Being still engaged in trade they have always done, just keep them alive and active.

Fact is government should control access to ammunition and sensitise people about the stiff penalties involved.

Firefire:
Robbers going mega under Boooohary.

“The length of the tunnel dug from the perimeter fence of the bank into the bank premises was about 10 to 15 meters".

Buhary sef.

When you litter police with people with WAEC maths credit, that's what you get. They cannot even take accurate length of the tunnel

LaraiBoluwaji:
What's that?

Sorry dear. That was just a reminder for me.

Since you mentioned cheap accommodation in Bariga, would you know of cheap and clean accommodation for a young student?

Like self contained/miniflat or a room around Oshodi or Iyana Ipaja or somewhere within fairly easy commute to school in Ikeja?

Budget under 150k per annum. Thanks.

Now tell me how this kind of policeman will take rape allegations seriously.

hmmmmmm

LaraiBoluwaji:
My dear, there are many who want to help but are financially constrained. Some people go to malls and blow 200k, so how much is 100k or less to help these people?

It just tears my heart that we humans are so selfish. God knows I cannot in good conscience spend 650million on a house when there are many in need of a tiny fraction of that money.

I read somewhere today, in the book of proverbs where we are exhorted to be the voice of the voiceless; that true religion is helping those in need. Why do we store up riches for ourselves, when we shall return to dust and others will eat up those riches?

All I need is enough to get by on, then the rest is for people like mama. How I wish I can do something.

The first step in doing something is having the will/desire to do so. You guys may already be doing more than you know.
I hope Tehns are following.
Oh yes, that reminds me of something outstanding Tehnswise.

LaraiBoluwaji:
Ha! How do I get in touch with these people? With 100k they can be settled. There are cheap apartments in Bariga

O God!!b

Well, it seems there's hope for 9ja then.

With young people like you & others here showing empathy.

Maybe we can all give a little help.

islandmoon:

your father!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Shoro niyen

Kikikikikiki!

When other serious people are talking of quality and maximising use of space, 9ja people are talking of size. Schools with tiny campuses like UCL, LSE, King's College, Imperial College, all in London, keep churning out discoveries and Nobel Prize winners. So are Oxbridge schools.

Sorbonne, ETZ, Heidelberg, Bologna and other notable universities are not different.

Even American universities with relatively larger campuses don't depend on size to excel.

Make the best use of what you have, size is irrelevant. Just like a man's third lower limb.

alaoeri:
Where is Mrs Osinbajo?

They didn't invite Mrs Mere Commissioner!

Descartes:
To see someone in Kaduna?

Kaduna Mafiosi back on the beat.

Adebaba1:
Year 2000
Yes it has been resprayed

Can it fly for 470K?