₦airaland Forum

Congrats. Great news.

SSpeter:
Helo Dudes am so ashamed of myself right now. I always hated weekends and often do overtime at work even when my boss screams "No payment for Overtime"...

I don't take off days even when I had to be on site late at night. I don't see myself as a workaholic because an average black man doesn't like work. Not because of the money either (though I will love to quit if a better offer springs up and am not relenting in the search)...but just to erase my mind off temptations. I spend my Sundays at my sister's house so that the kids will keep me preoccupied.

I am a strong advocate of #NOsexB4Marriage...Although during my University days I had smitten more kity kats than most guys will ever dream of. I had a re-orientation during my service year and took up the tag #Abstinence...I try to limit my discussions and interactions with the opposite sex, I don't approve of excessive touching and I preoccupy my thoughts with work..

Sundays are the worst days "no work"...so I am always extra careful and often stay glued to my routines....the firm I worked with just handed over a secondary school to her clients on the 23rd of last month and those of us who were immersed in the project and saw it to fruition were given 2 weeks break and a paltry sum as bonus.

2 weeks! That was where my problem started. First I travelled to stay with my parents spent three days wasn't comfortable because that was the neighbourhood I grew up, the ladies there may still think a leopard doesn't change its spot...I left when I saw so many temptations and green lights...I went to my sister's house and it's just the same thing because I have also tested some of the kity kats from the flats below...then my cousin persuaded me to come to portharcourt I haven't seen him in a decade.

When I got to PH I told my cousin of my new stand and he said "whatever rocks your boat"... The next two days, we had fun bought some item until ****** showed up ...she was my cousin's friend. She was not a threat and she doesn't even dress hot. So I let down my guard whenever she visits. She cooked, we ate and I thought perhaps she was one of my cousin's numerous GFS.

Two days ago, my cousin told me they are going to watch Nigeria match in a bar. I am not a football fan,Tennis rocks my boat. So I preoccupied my self with a movie. About an hour later she came back and told me my cousin and his crew are cracking too many stuffs and she is no longer comfortable (My cousin is a Med doc. But he smokes at least a packet of B&H everyday + or minus other additives). I said okay. She went to lie on the bed and later I joined her. The apartment is a mini flat and the sitting room is tiled. Just a mattress no duvet so we slept on the same mattress. Truth be told I could not remember anything until I saw myself shooting fluid in a latex material. Everything vanished from my eyes I was filled with hate. The next morning I had my bath, called my cousin and was shocked when he told me he was already @ work I carried my bag and the lady quickly took her shower and left. I went straight to the hospital gave him the key to his apartment. I had already told him my boss asked me to rush down......I left PH....sad....this morning I woke up feeling sad. The memory with the lady that night keeps occupying my mind and she even sent a text that "she loves me because I am cool headed, polite and handsome"....I was further peeved by her subsequent messages. Now I am just ashamed of Myself...and am still asking; how did it happen why was I not reasonable enough?...well I have learnt my lesson..."Emotions are stronger than Knowledge"

So all those farmers who produce the food you eat are not average blackmen? The drivers, bricklayers, Vulcanisers, medics, soldiers, carpenters, traders are not average blackmen.

Because you're confused about what you stand for or lack the muscle/moral strength to keep to your principles gives you no right to insult about 750 million blackmen on earth.

Jollyjoy:
Op the deed has been stop crying over split milk,discover your weak point and stop putting yourself in a tight situation,food wen person no wan eat make e no taste am,u shld have knwn wat you were getting yourself into by being alone with a lady in the same house,on the same bed.....
Btw what if she was your bros g.f?hmmmmmm

In this case, literally spilt fluid (milk).

Na wa o. Even North yonder too.

nnafather:
Witch haunting...agents of the Dullard.

In another new: Abacha was not corrupt.

The over 1billion loot we have so far recovered from the Americans, Swiss and others was just saved abroad for Nigerians by Abacha.

The hundreds of millions of dollars still going through legal process in USA before repatriation was also saved for us. Brilliant!

After Diezani, let the arrest Ex-governors and others too.

If not, na joke them dey.

Omotolu:
Buhari must stop insulting the integrity of Nigerians. All this say one thing today,imply another the day after must cease. I am beginning to believe he is suffering from senility.

The man likes future tense o: shall, will etc.

That he could not put together a road map soon enough after 12 years trying & as former HoS is incredible.

With all the brilliant human resource 9ja has to chose from.

And that here's no economic & security think-thank working feverishly (possibly including independent expatriates) since March says it all.

Beesluv:
So you mean copas live in this poultry ward

Abeg nor insult poultry farmers. My own if far better than this place. With constant water supply.

Neatcarsonly:
Nothing to fix..

Ok, engine pics would still be nice.

Wake up to all those dodgy firms.

kulobyno:
Everything is expensive in this country apart from sex

Gbam. Only Olosho one cheap.

Most so-called gf one works out far more expensive.

DuchessLily:
But what kind of rule is that? On his big day?? how is what he is wearing on his feet affecting then pastor/church?

Haba! Even deeper life church won't give such rule

Anyways I blame the bride and groom for doing their wedding in such a church

Duchess, nor just talk too much. I blame those who go marry there.

Our ancestors married their traditional way and they had good, fruitful marriages.

Maybe some people will finally get sense to avoid all these overseers playing God.
He should have asked them to come na.ked like Adam & Eve.

Niceguy76:
May God almighty grant them and others not mentioned here eternal rest. They have really contributed immensely to the marginal peace we have across board now. May God continue to use them to bring peace to our various communities since government has failed in that responsibility.

Amin o.

Apart from HRH Owa Obokun of Ijeshaland, who's very much flexing tight, hale & hearty as we speak.

LaraiBoluwaji:
That's no answer

Lara Croft,

Any news about the accommodation we talked about here last time?

Thanks.

daretodiffer:
T[b]he law needs to classify selfish and deceitful acts like this including giving a man another's man child as fraud, with nothing less than 20 years without parole[/b]

I blame him sha, when our men rush home to pick ‘wives' because they believe we are not traditional enough. This is what most of them get

Hehehehe. Not in the West.

Not in this 21st century that law/women want to punish men for all the perceived injustices against women since Adam & Eve.

They will sooner pass more laws to enslave & emasculate men the more.

We men are now on our own.

If one day we decide not to marry at all, women will lobby/compel government to force all straight men over 35 to marry.

Proven Gayism may then be only way out.

It may seem improbable but don't be surprised.

SmartMugu:
It happens all the time. I know someone who wanted to bring his Nigerian wife and 4-year old son to the US, only to find out that child wasn't his from the DNA the embassy requested. After spending so much to raise someone else's son for 4 years, the guy still hasn't recovered yet from the shock.

I know several guys whose kids failed DNA tests for family re-union.

I think it has become a normal thing since from research:

50% of first born kids belong to another man.

30% of all kids belong to another man.

Every dad could do worse than do DNA test.

That way, you won't spend a lifetime looking after another man's kids.

And these ones too did biology at school o.

Failed education system didn't teach them importance of preserving wide life & endangered species.

Others eat baby antilopes and civet cats/wide cats, rare, shy and delicate creatures that breed mostly single babies only per year or even longer.

shadelek:
I guess buhari has no idea the consequences of negative speech to this country's economy. Even if what he said is what is happening currently, it should'nt be made known to foreigners, it should rather be an internal affairs. No wonder he was avoiding a lot of presidential debates during his campaign. Had it been Nigerians had better choice, he should'nt have been elected.

We had. But 9ja elite didn't want that. How can a country with Fashola, Ribadu and others said not to hv a choice?

Nice one.

Poverty

&

Ignorance: the way some people even argue here on NL is evidence enough.

Lovely, nothing like farming.

Deejavuu:
Nice one op. Beautiful beads and traditional outfits

A quick correction -Edo or Benin is the name of the place. Bini is a language just like Esan, afemai and the rest.......

@Deejavuu,

This is actually incorrect. Many Edo people will claim what you have said because they are unaware. But they are wrong.
Perhaps 80% would be unaware.

The Oba of Benin & others have long said BENIN is the correct version for both place & language.

People still erroneously cling to Bini (from Ile-Ubini) as the language. But wrong.

In fact, it was Oba Ewuare who decided to change from Ile-Ubini to Edo. I guess that apart from honouring his servant called Edo, who had saved his life as a prince but lost his (servant's) in the process, it was also very deliberate. To expunge the name given by foreigner(s). He was a strident politician, reformer and empire builder.

Edo representing loyalty, principle, courage, strength and matyrdom was more appealing than Ile-Ubini (Land of Fury/Vexation).

We Benin people never called ourselves Bini/Beny/Benin/ in the first place. It was initially Yoruba & coastal Itsekiri/Portuguese/British.

Although post 1440 AD, Benin/Edo was also commonly called Ado in Yorubaland.

We called ourselves Igodo/Igodomigodo before that.

Hope you see the logic of Benin being preferred in all cases just like Edo represnts both language & place.

kingDavidda1st:
If not for the saboteurs that you surrounded yourself with while in office, I'm sure you meant well for Nigeria.

Well, he had no choice. A minority person with little political base has to rely on certain power brokers in our ethno-religiously divided nation.
The power-brokers have only permanent interest, no permanent affiliation.

They can leave you high & dry if they don't get their way. And that they did to GEJ.

Baba Iyabo & Oko Jamilia among them.

Actually, nothing new. Lots of boys under ten are molested by older girls and "aunties" who are just maids or neighbours. Shocking how many friends have claimed such abuse in 9ja as kids. Not sure about little girls by women though.

She try.

DiegoNakel:
Even satan (serpent) went to meet unclad eve instead of unclad Adam. !!!

That Mugabe, ehn. He sabi hammer oyinbo well well.

A supposed celebrity announces/advertising her violent disposition on social media.

How endearing.

So anytime your hubby or baby daddy talks to you anyhow, you will "domestic abuse" him.

What a role model. Kwantinew.

pasword:
So Emirs also go to court...here in England,who tries such bullsh*t!

Well, in England, the Queen knows the value of history and monuments.
By the way, is the palace not a national monument?

I thought it was that old.

mooriales:
What r u talking abt Mr?

Exactly what I said.

You and some other car sellers here feel too sexy to listen to potential customers.
And your cars then spend months unsold.

I have imported and sold cars intermittently for over 20 years.

I know what customer service means. A very strange/foreign language to many car sellers on NL.

My one-man crusade here is against bad customer service.

A combination of poverty and ignorance is a explosive mixture.

If you doubt, see how many are fighting willingly in Sambisa.

flokii:
Ini edo is from Edo right?

There are many Edo people who have become indigenes of Eastern Yorubaland and Niger Delta as a whole.

Apart from Urhobo, Isoko and a few others, only Degema in Rivers State are now anthropologically & philologically Edoid.

Ini is from Akwa Ibom. If she has any Edo link beyond her ex-hubby, only ifa will know at this moment.

Assuming you were caught cheating on your boyfriend, it would be justified to tar all Efik girls as unfaithful?

No wonder they say Nigeria produces mostly half-baked graduates.

If after a BSc in Microbiology she still generalises like this, her education equality must be questioned.