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It is a pity. Nigerians should learn that USA don't joke with child neglect/endanger. You don't leave kids unattended in your home or outside.
she made a mistake chosing work to her kids without adding scenerious like what if oga don't come on time?. It is tough when you need that money and yet want kids too. Every parents should have a babysitter in handy. or call your work to tell them whatever story. you child comes first. if anything happens, the law will be on the children's side.
Hubby made the same mistake. she should not have left the house until her hubby comes home not matter what.

put your little children first in everything you do.
money money money, we nigerians sef.

@ ifyalways,
me too, I like all boys that's my prayer

ify, how naw?

lol, i laugh seriously laughing anyway, you guys should not take my post serious ah ah

let her put in some work at least do this do that first before she pack and go eh?

queensmith, life is good my sistah. we know Nigeria guys. use kobokobo beat donkey not kpankere.
and hey you papayagbesibe, wetin now

Ronke,
let me add also

she should just pretend that all is well. at least for now. you know wake up, make food for two of you, if he eat, fine if not all well.
sing and whistle while doing your work. buy plenty novels and magazine and rent plenty movies and enjoy yourself. take some course maybe CPR self.
that your old girlfriends you lost touch with, call them and chat on phone, pretend like you are enjoying it.
dress to kill/seduce.
make your hair and use that nice perfume you have been eyeing. look good for you perhaps he will notice.

girl, live for today. if you die cuz of stress, the sun will still shine, ogbemi will still carry on.

true sha Richy.

i have a yoruba name, hausa name, AA name, and many more.
nothing in a name. but asking her to change the name is another case.
it could cause a rift when he forces her to change the name.

call him more too maybe to make him go crazy Chukwuemaka today, Egoka tomorrow, Nkemba, and many more

Ummmmm, she can as well change her looks cuz she has 99% daddy face.
changing her name isn't a big deal.
I watched her first interview with Oprah last night...ummm oh well.

i think she should go to school. edu will be good for her not a client to Clive Davis again.
Now that she is talking abt ''momma was grooming me to take her lagacy"
her family should tell her to take the education part.

Lord, how people waste time sigh.

Simple send the parents phone number should do and no long thing.

send number send number, how hard? must everything be argument?

life, i haven't cried in a long time . this issue touched me so bad.
that song refused to leave my head and it bleed me.
a yound lady with dreams just like me gone forever.
i just see the vain in everything in this life.

Rest in Peace Perx. You touched me & i'm sure you touched many.

I was thinking of this lady and this song filled my heart. My parents favorite song.
I'm sharing.
Be blessed.

O what a wonderful, wonderful day - day I will never forget;
After I'd wandered in darkness away, Jesus my Saviour I met.
O what a tender, compassionate friend - He met the need of my heart;
Shadows dispelling, With joy I am telling, He made all the darkness depart.

Chorus:
Heaven came down and glory filled my soul,
When at the cross the Saviour made me whole;
My sins were washed away -
And my night was turned to day -
Heaven came down and glory filled my soul!

Born of the Spirit with life from above into God's fam'ly divine,
Justified fully thru Calvary's love, O what a standing is mine!
And the transaction so quickly was made when as a sinner I came,
Took of the offer of grace He did proffer - He saved me, O praise His dear name!

Chorus:
Heaven came down and glory filled my soul,
When at the cross the Saviour made me whole;
My sins were washed away -
And my night was turned to day -
Heaven came down and glory filled my soul!

Now I've a hope that will surely endure after the passing of time;
I have a future in heaven for sure, there in those mansions sublime.
And it's because of that wonderful day when at the cross I believed;
Riches eternal and blessings supernal from His precious hand I received.

Chorus:
Heaven came down and glory filled my soul,
When at the cross the Saviour made me whole;
My sins were washed away -
And my night was turned to day -
Heaven came down and glory filled my soul!

Heaven came down and glory filled my soul!

RIP as you go home.

in a civilized country, rap.e can get you a lifetime in prison. instead of showing sympathy, some of you here are making it hard for her.
rap.e victims don't move on. they are wounded inner and outer. so please let's be careful here.

it is easy to be empowered by someone stronger than you. we don't know how the gal was at 18 so let's try to be reasonable.

OP take heart. Try seeing a Psychologist/Shrink.

pounded yam is better, digest easily.
poundo, not good. it is processed and salty . after eating poundo, it will be as if you swallowed stones and thriller for the rest of the day.

if you live overseas, please don't eat poundo. if you do, go to the gym daily.

wow! I can't believe it that Johnson and Johnson products are not available in nigeria.

well, ask your friend to continue sending you more. because you just have to keep up to avoid flare ups. your baby will grow out of it much later, some don't. but keep up with the J&J products. she can send you the soap too if possible.
i have eczema myself and i have to keep mosturizing. the itch is not funny when i don't.
stay well.

oh please, help a poor gal biko jo.
i will keep in touch, no run too far .

lol, adding nairaland to your reference good fa

Miss Ife, i have added all you math solvers to my list

ronke, hope say your professor never ask you question before Sauer put his there

Sauer, can i also contact you with my pg math eh?
thanks for helping by the way.

lol, adding nairaland to your reference good fa

Miss Ife, i have added all you math sovers to my list

onye okwu  why you come dey pour petrol put again, the kerosine no reach, no make her respond to you o

davidylan:
just reading the way simplechic responds to posts she deems unfair to her . . . i'm not surprised she has problems with her husband.
I'm willing to bet my left foot that when your husband asked you why you went to the bank to see your ex-manager your response was - Like seriously, am I a kid,  Phew

Why would you expect him not to be mad?

OP, if it were the other way round, i think you'd feel the same. now you just have to talk to your husband and let him know you were just showing sympathy.
i'm sure your marriage is young. Communicate well with your husband and learn from the experience.
hopefully it is just a 1 time sympathy visit.
imagine his own madam saw him with you.
another wahala too.

interesting. i do hear ''they have commercialized xmas, birthdays, val, etc"
and i just lol.
dont discourage her and you shouldnt be discouraged to get to the stage where nothing for ya lady. share with each other small or big.
doesn't have to be expensive thing. card, choco, perfume, cologne, that nice smelling deodorant you saw at the mall,
victorian secret lingerie you want her to put on for you as specials, etc.

spice up your relationship and don't stop, cheers.

how can a child be born out of abortion? Tayo, enlighten me here or you was it typo?

i'm so bookmarking this page Ronkebp.
lol and your ''so copying & pasting'' made me laugh bad bad
how are your courses going, i remember you doing MBA right?
i'm doing same 

Knight, thank you for helping. I will contact you with mine too, but hopefully i can solve mine

to you asking what she cooked, cocoyam, iji, ofe onugbu, ogbono, ofe ujuju, okro vegetable with tinko, bonga fish and mangala.
enjoyed with hot akpu and poundo.
you did good madam.

some ladies like that pot belly you know. it is a sign of wealth according to some ladies chapter 1:1
also something to rub or massage when trying to get something from him so not a good excuse.

serubawon:
Lord help me, I am uglier than sin, have a vicious limp, a giant pot belly, and a cross eyed midget with knocking knees. At least, I look ok to my mama and children sha.

if only an autopsy could be done to find out what happened so they avoid such in the future.

it is sad, when someone is dead in nigeria, case closed. not supposed to be so.

RIP Perx.
God bless you all Ify. Let the family know they are in our thoughts and prayers.

you missed the point i'm trying to make.
let me break it down 
countries where baby's body/head are not mold still got their baby head/body parts normal shape. unless in cases of genes where we have abnormal head/body shape.
so if we don't mold, baby will still be okay.
capisce?

so sudden, well God knows best.
RIP, perx.

all the molding and pressing nigerian parents did on their children are not necessary.
i haven't seen any oyinbo with oblong or 4 corner head and they don't mold their newborn

the registry is not something to be listed. shebi two of them just go in there and in the presence of some law person sign paper/pay/collect certificate eh?
i may be wrong.

you make it more harder on yourself OP. should have waited to get everything done. Well, focus on yourself and baby. Talk to him to see what his plans are for wedding proper. Maybe he feels you are already his wife with traditional wedding done??

it is clear that Romney is leading. what are the rest waiting for? isn't it abt time they drop out and give him full support? why wasting airtime?
I'm becoming bored watching CNN and MSNBC/FOX.

i think i'm okay now watching "bride of chucky" & "chucky's child's play"

you dey there when dem dey do am? tell us which style too

ronkebp:
Poster did not use condom, she is lying!!!!

haha abi, mama might have seen how daughter dey suffer for oga house top with beating too who know, na ya story only.

ifyalways:
OP,you are very funny!
Your MIL just came out of the blues,took your wife and child away from the hospital for NO rhyme or reason

You are either joking,drunk,lying or all.

Happy Birthday CC.

all this fake computer cake sef na jedi jedi .
the best thing are real life jollof, fried rice, ofe ewu, egusi with dried fish and okporoko, snail stew with hot rice, moin moin made with ewe, ogbono with ezigbo Akpu, natural pounded yam with ofe okazi, yellow yam poundo with white soup, oxtail sauce, irish cream, smirnoff beef, ogoro, spicy stew with white rice, dodo, chin chin, buns, puff puff, meat pies and plenty more for the day bo.

life is good. Enjoy your day CC.