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[quote author=baby_123]Ok, lets say your kids stay with you. Who will take care of them? Your girlfriend? How many girlfriends in your lifetime . You really wouldnt mind your kids being unstable and have a warped sense of relationships to prove a point would you.[/quote]I will take care of them. If a woman can, why can't i?

[quote author=baby_123]okay, so you send her out to where? Your kids will most likely live with her where

What if she can only afford a face me i face you. [/quote]why does she have to take the kids? You want her to take MY kids and still expect me to give her money?

[quote author=baby_123]Why so bitter, because maybe she couldnt keep up with some of your character flaws or maybe you got tired of her and found something brand new. You dont think she needs to be comfortable or settled into a new life? The woman your kids will most likely spend most of their time with? Abi you have time to be cooking, changing nappies and what not. Sure you are not a spambot and have a heart pumping somewhere in your body.[/quote]Like most have said child support yes.... Divorce settlement Hell no

chingyjant: My Friend speak of what you have studied not speaking from your own enclave of understanding.If you were asking the person that you responded to his or her comment to show you statistics of men having children all over the place?I dont know the part of the country you are from but with no apology go to the southern part of Nigeria all states there inclusive its a common practice.Have'nt you heard of the word BORN THROWAY?Some after impregnating to young girl they abscond to the city in order to evade taking responsibility or is it in copious cases whereby a man has over 10 children and he does not know how they survive.The women go out to do menial jobs and when the she comes back he beats her up and still collect the money to drink local gin with his pals like him.It is not all about fathering a child but taking care of the child i believe that is the main essence of the law though it cant work in Nigeria considering the unavailability of Data base sysytem/

Mr Oga did the man rape the woman? If a woman has 10 kids its because she wants to have 10 kids. Stop blaming Men for the actions of women.
[quote author=baby_123]What if throughout your marriage she sacrificed by not working to take care of the kids, which saved a considerable amount of money. Alimony is not forever you know. I think it gives the woman some time to readjust and get settled into her new life and status. Besides most divorce settlements kind of put each couple in an equitable position at their divorce. So that each party is not taken advantage of or worse off. Like if you both owned properties and what not. It can be either the man or the woman who loses some wealth. So it is not like it is always a loss to the man. Though in a country like Nigeria, its mostly the men who are richer.[/quote]How do you settle a man for the emotional stress he goes through if the woman is a Nag?

Divorce settlement for what?

anitank: not anymore bro. Engineers are hotter!

Girls like broke boys

wysenas: Well,many people may not unstand it until d day an issue will come up.but i want d entire Nlders to answer this question-if u hv to assist a friend or a junior staff who is in need of money as dash,how will u defend that b4 yur spouse that 5k or 10k is missing 4rm yur monthly package?

Does your wife or hubby mean you should not help others?

If funny how so many think you can just wake up and produce a drug. No wonder so many fake medicine in Nigeria...

For the uninformed... Medical research usually follows the following procedures when a "new cure" is found.
1) It is first tested on animals.(there is a thread here on Nairaland about blind mice regaining there sight. There researchers have not claimed to have found a cure for blindness)
2)After you test on animals, you report your findings
3)Conduct more research
4)Apply to relevant authorities to perform clinical trials. At this stage, you get human volunteers who are willing to test the new drugs.
Stage 4 is very important because this is where you get to decide the efficacy of the new drug. You check for side effects and other sorts of things like whether the new drug gives total cure or just suppresses the illness.
Clinical trial can take years to finish.

There is no point in releasing a drug that cures aids while giving the patient cancer. The uniben prof did not do clinical trials so how does he know the drug works?

[quote author=Chino_anyi]some 1 some were just pulled dis prof down i swear, dis guy found d cure may b, but some body up dier does nt want him to chop [/quote]Dude please!!!!!

hisson3: All I can say is the black man will forever play second fiddle to the whites with this type of mentality.when will africa ever help & support their own? Smh.

When people realise there are rules and regulations to be followed.

kandiikane: Maybe, just maybe he actually found the cure, heck maybe many found the cure but got threatened. O_o

Got threatened by who?

sure way: A lecturer once explained to me "there is cure for HIV but it will create set back for many HIV/AIDS Awareness organisation"
perhab he found the cure..but you shud knw dis is naija.
dr ibeh at this moment of ur life l think you need security agents.

I'm pretty sure that lecturer is a dull headed fellow

talktimi: This reminds me of Dr Abalaka in the 90s who was frustrated by the IBB regime over his alleged cure for HIV/AIDS, dude had to run to Zimbabwe whr he was sponsored by the Zimbabwean govt to work on his cure, IBB just placed a nice threatening call and our nice Dr was deported to Nigeria and his travelling documents seized. Right now I hear he's into ice block business in abuja.
Moral of the story is - the cure for hiv/aids will only come out when the powerful west wants it to come out.
Next time prof should do things in the proper way sha

IBB is no longer in power how come Dr Abalaka has not gone back to work?

ghettodreamz: Oga ooooooo..

Nigerians are we moving forward or backward?

Hatred and enviousness will never take us anywhere.

I'm damm sure, that man must have actually discovered the cure to the pandemic disease but who cares? In a country where hatred, enviousness, bitterness and individual researchers are not attuned to making decisions or discoveries on their own,the pace of scientific inventions, medical research discoveries integration and development/improvement of human's health system would be slowed down if not completely defeated.

I cry for NIGERIA

Foolishness will never takes us anywhere. Did prof do any clinical trials? What are the side effects of the drug?

I will teach him/her with the aid of bulala that money and love don't meet

ghettodreamz: If you can't look beyond that thing called standard procedures or ethics, then you won't see anything called envy in it. Look outside the box my man, it's all over Nigeria and it causes a great setback for us and undermine progress of present and future developments.

I have a drug that makes human smarter would you like any of your family members to try it with out Standard procedures followed?

Sincere 9gerian: I know this thread was opened for mischief and for the mischief makers to have swell time in LIES and propaganda. However, I will prove CONCLUSIVELY to every fair minded person (and spoil the party for mischief makers) that GEJ makes promises like other politicians but the DIFFERENCE is that he FULFILS most of his promises.

2) Still in Lafia Nasarawa, "He guaranteed a university in every state"

FULFILMENT: 9 new federal universities has been created. They are being built and in fact some of then have COMPLETED the construction of major infrastructure, properly equipped and already COMMENCED operation.
http://prnigeria.com/2012/08/08/federal-university-kashere-holds-maiden-matriculation/
http://www.fulokoja.edu.ng/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=38

In addition, only today, the federal executive council approved 3 more BRAND NEW federal universities for 3 northern states: Yobe, Zamfara and
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2013/01/fg-approves-three-varsities-for-yobe-kebbi-zamfara/



4) "In Bauchi, Bauchi State on 9th February 2011, Jonathan...establish two universities in the region; construct schools with modern facilities for 9.5 million Almajiris.."

FULFILMENT: it is a well known fact that the FG is building hundreds of Almajiri model schools mostly in the north and southwest. In fact some of them, like the one in Sokoto, have been completed and commissioned
http://nigeriarising.com.ng/photos-videos/photonews-president-goodluck-jonathan-commissions-almajiri-school-in-sokoto/

5) "In Ilorin, Kwara State also on 21st February 2011, Jonathan promised...rehabilitation of the nation’s railway system; rehabilitation of the Ilorin-Mokwa road"

FULFILMENT: it is undeniable that the nations railway system is undergoing massive transformation. Only in December, the Lagos-Kano rail line was completed, tested, and put to use.
That added to the numerous other rail line routes that have been rehabilitated and put to use including the Lagos-Illorin rail line and other intra-city railway services. Other corridors currently under serious construction include eastern corridor(Enugu-PH-north), Abuja-Kaduna(150km per hr and 50% completed NOW), Itapke-Ajaokuta-Warri(150km per hr).
The implication of reviving the rail transport cannot be over-emphasised, including reduced cost of transportation, reduced price of food items, safer transport, longer life span of our roads,etc
http://www.naijapundit.com/news/photo-news-nigeria-railways-begins-lagos-kano-rail-service-at-just-1500-naira
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2012/04/1000-commuters-move-by-train-to-ilorin/
http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/sambo-rehabilitation-of-4000km-rail-lines-in-advanced-stages/126761/

6) "In Abakaliki, Eboyin State on 24th February Jonathan promised the South East geo-political zone priority attention,...dualize the Enugu-Abakaliki Express Road within one year;convert the Federal Medical Centre in Abakaliki to a teaching hospital"

Bros when giving us the achievement of GEJ, don't include "xyz has been approved" because approval == looting until we SEE the project.
Thanks

austushi1: Juvenile response! I'll not insult u as u hv done, but I'll reply u in a matured manner. When a prof in america claimed he had a cure for HIV(vaccine called TRUVADA) they tested it on some HIV patients, but it didn't cure them n they discredited it! That's a good 1! They didn't ask him to get d school authority involved! Open ur brain n understand it. U don't just destroy my findings out rightly! Ok, let's assume he didn't pass thru the right channel, but dis is a cure d whole world has bn waiting for, y not test it n see if it works, then u can sanction him.

Sorry for the insult. In medicine there is what they call clinical trials, and to perform clinical trials you have to get permission from relevant authorities. He is also a staff of uniben and as his employers they have to know what he is doing with the time he is paid for. I'm pretty sure he used uniben's equipment too.

Siga: There is no envy or bad belle here at all....Prof. u suppose follow procedure now....play by the rules of ur employers....and besides....where the trials wey u carry out before announcing this break through.... if this works...u are made whichever way Prof....no need to box all man out...

Bros don't mind the educated illiterates we have on nairaland

chymystique: I Dunnoo Y Most.Lecturers Are Badbelles.. Dey r Veri Envious Of EacH odas Progress....

What do you mean by bad belle? Please stop being lazy and educate yourself.

austushi1: What if he does it alone? Is it their brain he used to get d findings? [/b]Its envy! Let's say it d way it is. Black man no dey like make him fellow black am rise above am![b] They are probably envious of him dat the U.S government might take him abroad n expand his levels, n then make him popular. U kw hw it is now; how dis common prof wey we sit 2geda discuss say make dem give am prof go come popular worldwide n we go come remain here. Its d black man reasoni
ng! Black man with black sense! They just want to discredit dat mans effort! That's y d whites will ever be better than us. Its so annoying! Prof, bone dem make u continue with ya life ojare!

1)He used their equipments, he works for them and he used office hours to develop it.
2)You my friend are an ignorant fellow. How do you claim you can cure hiv when you've not done clinical trials? What are the side effects of the drug?
It's people like you who have no idea how things should work that are pulling this country back.

GEJ quality triumphs quantity anyday. Try and upgrade the existing ones first before establishing new ones.

OP never kick a man when he is down. I think we should leave the appraisal till end of the 1st quarter of the year. We all know he had an F in 2012. Lets allow him start 2013 in peace.

packman: ARE YOU SURE THIS NEWS NO BE FAKE ABEG DONT SPREAD WRONG INFO ABEG

Yeah its true. Explosion while discharging pms from vessel to tank farm.

OP congrats

Remember this sunday is challenge jehovah sunday....Sow in naira receive in naira, sow a plot of land, na aso rock 2015!!!

Pm me for the nairaland ministry account number.

Sweetlemon: I dare any other busy body to come back here and say one more word, just one more word of "advice" to me again and that person will explain to me how his or her "advice" will make him or her sleep better at night. You will also explain to me how it will resurrect your dead ancestors. Or how it will make you graduate with 1st class and how it will make Dangote make you his personal accountant.
Waka sege bansta!
Enough is enough!
Come here and talk again if you want to see real bullying.
Isi ewu! Anofia!
Agbaya oshi!

You didn't need this. By now you should have abandoned the thread and started packing your bags so you don't forget anything

sexkillz: [color=#000030]The truth is that I did give a warning for your posting off-topic and that of others, which resulted in the banning of your account, as well as two others. My warning was explicit.

Now, I thought I banned accordingly. Like the rest of you though, I am human and prone to err. If you or others feel that I made a mistake in the way I handled a situation, any of you can use the complaints thread or send me a pm as I read all of them. It's much easier this way than for threads to be popping up in various sections on this forum.

Anyway, I've lifted your ban. For any of you who are unclear of the rules or the goings-on for the Romance section, do RE-familiarize yourselves with the Nairaland Forum Rules and Regulations as well as the thread for the Romance Section's goals this year, Happy 2013 Romance-landers. That's what I go by. Here's to a clean slate and a more cohesive section this year. Cheers.[/color]

Thanks for your reply. I have no problem with you banning me if i derail a thread. I don't think what i posted was actually derailing.

ferhyntorlah: Awwww, eyaaaaa. a-zed2, you're a very sensitive guy; you've taken this issue P! I hope Oga Oluwaseun will do something about it.

I'm far from sensitive.. I just wanted to know why i was banned simple.

Dear mod of the section please no vex and help me move to the correct section


Seun
Please can you tell the house the rules as regards the banning of nairaland members? I am asking because i was banned by sexkillz for hailing a fellow nairalander.
If it is wrong to hail a fellow nairalander, no problem but on the said thread i was banned, there were others who did what i did and were/are not banned so why was i singled out? Below is the post that got me banned.


Guy i dey feel you.... If i ever meet you i go buy you one carton of alomo(I quoted a post by chronique/ he also got banned)

Where is my rice(i quoted a post by freecocoa).

There is nothing offensive in my post and i get banned. I just want to know why.
Thanks

I don't think its possible. PHP is mainly a web development language.

Demdem: Has he just started? where has he been all these while

He was on leave. Do you want him to kill himself? After eating cassava bread he has to wait for the food to digest....

Guy take time before i bind you with fresh air

They let me be me. Never forced the children to anything we did not want to do aside schooling(mumsy church).

Fayimora: That is quite sad @Javanian. Things really need to change in Nigeria then. I still find it funny that CS students "contract out their projects". That's very very sad. If I were you, I'll stop working for such people, except they are ready to pay an exorbitant fee of course .

@naija_swag I disagree. It's not a pointless topic. Not everyone believes in certifications. To be honest, I haven't heard anyone say anything about certifications in the last 12months. All I hear about are projects -> this pluggin or that extension or that library.

@the bolded, even people doing Msc in computer science/information technology contract out their projects.
As for the certification issue, its a Nigerian thing. I made up my mind never to do any certification exam when a fellow corper i served it was busy doing certification exams and passing while i was reporting to work on public holidays to finish projects. The corper finished the whole microsoft developer thingy while we were serving but did not participate in one project. The corper is also a 1st class graduate of computer science.

Skill first then certification if you need it to get a job or promotion.



On another note, Fayimora can we hook up?

Sweetlemon: Lol!
E se gan! Thank you very much

On a more serious note, Just be yourself. Things my mother looks for in a girl
1)Respect/up bringing
2)Hygiene.
I think those are the two most important factors. Anything else would bother on trivial things like tribe, religion, denomination, e.t.c

If you pretend and they like you for what you are not you would have a problem in the long run.