CaveAdullam: 1. Only the few men that are able to abide to the tenets of the redpill through thick and thin will be the only ones to maneuver their ways with women and remain at the top. Because to be more truthful, this game will tarry and see many more nights and days as the male population aren't aware of it. Redpill aware men are a but a speck of dust in the desert of men.
2. Mum and dad might have told you stories how our grandparents, uncles and aunts wake up early as 4am or 5am in order to get to their farmlands early which was miles away. In those days when technology was still at its neoteny, and the tempo of civilization hasn't eroded the uniformity of the family unit, women right from their juvenile stage already knew that their husbands are their crowns and the men, took care of their wives and children and in return they helped him in his farm works and multiply his business. In those days, at midday when twilight seems approaching, grandmothers and some of the children are sent home to take care of the house and prepare dinner. All these ensured that the family unit remain stable!
Everything was cool until technology and science metamorphosed speedily and of which the government took advantage of. Men were promised better jobs than their farm works and slowly they drifted away from their families. And later, both their wives and children were introduced into the work force by the government.
3. The truth is that as a man, as far as a woman is beneath your roof, you will face different dilemmas. Which ever method you decide to use, you'll be on the losing side except you decide to cheer and comfort yourself constantly. If you're very pragmatic, you will see no need for romance and women and you won't enjoy both. By nature, men are the expendable sex! Like I will always say, your gain is the furtherance of your genetic line via your offsprings. Other things you think you're gaining are paltry.
4. 50/50 never works any where. Workers might be paid same amount of salary doing same work but if you go under the table you will find out that some of the workers do better than others. In marriage, even if the woman is the most logical of all, a unicorn, it is already inscribed in her instincts that you're a man, a leader and must take the lead. Even if she agrees 50/50 and adhere to it, one way or the other hypergamy will always fight her within.
Enter the workplace or corporate organisations and see firsthand that both single and married men flirt with married women. The attention she ought to give you and her kids is spread towards her boss, colleagues and clients, what you get at the end of the day is poor attention, boring sex and complaints. Women are attracted to men that supply them feel good emotions, and trust me, in the workplace with male colleagues they do get it! Women also get excited in places where their emotions can be heightened, hence, you find them as the highest population in religious and social gatherings.
On the flip side, a lazy woman is a doom to her home. Not able to carryout specific functions that can help sustain her family is catastrophic! Because her male children wouldn't know how an industrious woman looks like and her daughters what to do in order to become industrious and profitable to her husband and community. This again is another dilemma if you allow her be a stay at home mum. But at least she will have time for you and her kids.
5. Modern day woman requires a whole lot of energy from her man in order for her to stay put. Ensuring that round and square pegs are deposited in their respective holes, he can at least enjoy the relationship while it lasts. Many relationships fail today and continually because both sexes don't understand themselves and nature. Intersexual dynamics is an exchange platform where each or one must compromise for the success of the relationship. Both sexes might evolved to be complementary which of course is true, but deep down, they are not cooperative! (Women ought to compromise because men are already on the losing side).
50/50 relationship is void of respect and a lazy woman is a liability. The corporate world is not meant for your woman. So, what then? Some men I have worked for have their own big business, what they do is find a place to attach their wives. This is also similar to what our grandparents practiced in the past, there's a division of labour there and the woman's boss is her husband. Other men I have also come across set up businesses (under their names) for their wives so that they can be their own boss, and some of these businesses are within or not too far from their place of residence. This method is not ideal as women can still go haywire, but at least, it tends to minimize their craziness.
If you are interested in marriage as a man, Know your mission and what it entails, see if there is any space you will need a woman and if there be, marry a woman that her own mission blends with that space. Therefore, as the woman is fulfilling her purpose, she is also fulfilling yours.
Thanks.
finances must be 50-50 for a relationship to be just and this has nothing to do with hypergamy. a woman presents herself at 27 for marriage after being used up by various bfs.... in such a case if I foot 100% or 80% finances that means I'm a fool. she's been bleeped by men she finds attractive and now wants me to spending my lifetime working to feed her under some nonsense marriage.
ziondaughter247: You had better not become poor and must be able to provide for the family because she will personally introduce her sugar daddy to you.
She cannot have sugar daddy from 35 yrs of age + while the guy can have a hot side chick even at 50... dont argue with nature....
Moonie911: I am scared of losing myself, my dreams Like one of my age mate got married 4 years ago.... I remember when she use to tell me of her dream to be a fashion designer, even showed me designs of clothes and tell what to wear to match..... i saw her last month she was looking so tattered, a shadow of her former self. She said she is teaching in one private school like that, i was scared to ask her about her fashion designing dream. Getting married is good and wonderful but I am always scared whether I will wake at 40 and realised I haven't done anything with my life....... I admire women in high positions in this country who make it regardless of been married but looking at most of them, they either comes from a wealthy background, married to a rich guy and some few are just damm lucky.
na only olosho dey talk this kind talk - no talk am again.... who told you you cant be married and yet fulfill your dreams? btw marriage is not for everyone.... so if you dont want just say you dont want. If marriage is a dream killer for a woman then what is it for a man? You think men dont have their dreams too?
emmaodet: My annoyance with the present day marriage is not because of the set-up rather the mentality of the women entering it. Tbh, many of them are not or have not prepared themselves over time for it. A case study is my SIL - she will be 26 few months from now, a graduate, finished serving, no job nor does she cares to look for one. All she does is post her pictures on her Fb and WhatsApp status, saying how beautiful she is even though to me she looks 5/10 but the way she carry herself as if she is 9/10(don’t know who are deceiving these ladies), sometimes she will be dancing in her room and post it, Dre’s up and video herself cat walking and post it. Many more. I always just wander what is really going on with most of them, always seeking internet attention and validation. She will be marrying next year to a guy that has been hustling is ass off sinceeee. He became an orphan at a very young age, just a little age difference with my SIL yet over time, out of hustling and jostling, he has developed the necessary skills needed to survive the harsh world without any parental help. Always doing one thing or the other to survive yet his gf is virtually useless and not bringing much to the marriage table rather a big mouth with a big taste for what she can’t afford herself. I looked at her and I compared her to my youngest brother who is also her age mate and I saw a big difference in thinking between the 2 sexes of same age. While my brother is lonely, hustling trying to get his feet on ground because things are not yet straight for him, probably struggling to keep a decent relationship because he is a hustler and not sexually attractive to the average female, she on the other hand is busy dancing, cat walking, concerned about her beauty and all because she is not worried about life. Another human will take care of it for her - the boyfriend cum future hubby
You said SIL is getting married next year to a husband. If the husband no demand her to contribute money to the house (regardless if he is rich or not), he Bleep up big time.
okokkk: The fear of my wife becoming 'spiritual' and then giving more love and attention to her pastor and his religion
The more "spiritual" a girl is, the more narcissistic and selfish she probably is. These "spiritual" girls are the most selfish and narcissistic. And they make bad wives because they typically believe they know God more than you, God is more important than you etc
As In being provider and all and your wife no come hold her side. Reality check...
They NEVER hold their side. That's why you should define the financial part before you go in. Don't be a mugu for any woman. Let her contribute 50-50 b4 children and 60-40 afterwards.
Remember her boyfriends had the best of her and all you got is evening newspaper that you hv to be stuck with ur whole life and not only that you gotta pay for her all ur life. Someone her bfs got the best of for free lolz!
Blurpy: The average Nigerian looks at any country that's not in Africa as better than Nigeria. This is not true, however living in Nigeria is easier and better than living in some of these countries abroad. The harsh living conditions, racism, scarce jobs, no one would tell you to run back home. I'm an active supporter of JAPA group but japa must be done with adequate and meticulous PLANNING coupled with self research on the internet, join forums , get information. Don't just leave everything into someone's hand especially a Non-regulated travel agent.
These countries are in no particular order. Azerbaijan: More or less like AZZA-baijan. For the Azza boys. This country is as terrible as it sounds. I have a friend who was swindled by a travel agent to this country because it was in quote "in Europe".
Bulgaria: That a country is in Europe doesn't mean it is good to be in. If you wish to be safe in Europe, stick to the Schengen countries. Bulgaria is in Europe but not a Schengen country. Jobs opportunities are slim here. Money always develop wings like eye lashes.
Cyprus: As easy as admissions can be into this country( especially for Africans), this is not a place to be except you are from the Otedolas and you won't need to hustle while you school abroad. Job opportunities are few, the environment is naturally hard for a hustler in Cyprus.
Kuwait: Not every oil producing country get oil money. Kuwait has consistently been ranked as one of the least in the world for the ease of settling in. Most foreign residents say they do not feel at home. Heavy work with low pay.
Russia: Life can be a bit okay in European Russia (Moscow, Saint Petersburg, Sochi etc ). Many find it hard with weather and you can't live well without speaking Russian. Job opportunities are scarce and your skin colour is also a big factor.
Turkey: Turkey is an awesome place for business and tourism. But not everyone has found this country easy. It is one of the worst countries for foreign families and children. There are no clear pathways to settlement upon graduation. Jobs are scarce and it also reeks of political instability
Asia & Middle East: India, Oman, Vietnam, Kazakhstan, Uzbekistan and all the stans
Most South American countries including Peru(Peru don dey para)
Ps:- Please note that this list isn't targeted at anyone. That a country is listed doesn't mean you may not be able to survive there. Majority of our data comes from world population rankings and real life experiences.
Britain and Germany and France are overglorified shitholes as is most US cities.....
Canada is okay except for extreme weather, China and Portugal are okay.
Toks2008: My sister some ladies are just unlucky. This has nothing to do with village people, behaviour or whatever. Will this set of ladies kill themselves or enter menopause because husband no show habba!
Even many of those wey marry sef dey leave their marriage so what is the big deal about ''I MUST MARRY BEFORE I BORN'' mentality?
Are you suggesting that it's okay to born even if not married?
[quote author=seunmsg post=108292853][/quote]serving as CEO does not mean the majority stake in the company has not been sold.... CEO is an operational role - CEOs are appointed by the Board and the Board is set by US shareholders now.
The other text about values is good but still the majority stake of the company has been sold thats a fact!
seunmsg: There is nothing in the news to suggest that the sales was 100%. As at today, we don't know the exact stake that was sold to the US company. However, the news mentioned something about partnership. That should suggest to you that the old shareholders are still keeping a certain stake in the company. Learn not to quickly jump into conclusion when you don't have the full information.
"is set to be acquired for $320 million by American multinational Equinix Inc., the US company said in a statement Tuesday." An acquisition is when one company purchases most or all of another company's shares to gain control of that company. [Source: https://www.investopedia.com/terms/a/acquisition.asp]
Maybe 80% of the company has been sold.....still a loss since control has now gone to the US.
seunmsg: We are not losing anything as the company will remain a Nigerian company with foreign and local shareholders just like other multinationals operating in Nigeria. The partnership will lead to massive expansion of the company and more returns for the owners. This is the kind of foreign direct investment that we need in Nigeria.
You talk like an illiterate. The company has been SOLD for $320m in cash as the news stated. This means no more returns to the original owners.....This means that ownership has changed hands.... and this means US grip on Nigeria has strengthened....
GenAbacha: After years of being in operation, they’re selling for $320m?
MainOne literally sells internet bandwidth to all ISPs in Nigeria and I think some in Ghana and they’re valued at $320m? Nawa. They should have just done an ipo
An IPO in Nigeria would have been much better. selling such a strategic company to the US capital system is not a good idea.....
JJOF: Lol. China is Africa's friend? I laugh. The high time you understood that all these developed nations see Africa as their farm, the better for you.
China is a developing country just like Africa. at least China has more to offer Africa more than western Europe who tie their loans to legalizing gay marriage or giving up national assets....
AllahIsSatan: Text of Press Briefing by the Hon Minister of Information and Culture, Alhaji Lai Mohammed, on the decision by Britain to put Nigeria on its Red List over Covid-19….in Abuja on Monday, Dec. 6 2021
SlyfoxxjReturns: Lol you people are always quick to throw the “worship” card. Who is worshiping white man? Are you dense or something? You want to compare the moral compass of the west to that of Chinese?
Same Chinese that are currently running concentration camps to torture their Muslim population? Same Chinese that are granting exorbitant loans to African countries with the aim of taking over their infrastructures when they default? Same Chinese that capitalizes on child labor and exploitation? Same Chinese that have no democracy and their citizens live in constant fear of the government because they lack even the most basic human rights? Same China that foisted COVID on the world and did all they could to cover up its origins to the extent of jailing their own doctors who warned about it?
Don’t lie if you have the opportunity to relocate to either the US or China, which will you go to? If the answer is US then shut your big mouth up because you know yourself which country offers more freedoms and opportunity.
Im not saying they are perfect but the world is better off with America as the dominant super power than China and you know it yourself. You just want to talk sha.
I'm glad we are having this conversation.
Moral Compass of the West - Actual and cultural genocide of native American peoples (they did same in africa during the british empire and German South West Africa.
- As of today, France is executing genocide in mali and niger under the pretence of fighting jihadists.
- British supported genocide (killed over 3million igbos)...without british support during the war, the casualties won't hv been that high. . - Western invasions of lybia Venezuela etc. Of note is that "human rights abuses"(as if their own record is any better, is often cited as excuse/justification for these invasions.
Kingsley1000: USA has made everything non_western evil. We need to sit down and look at it logically. Nigeria has been struggling to fight BH for decade, US has never shown any genuine support, infact, at a time they're were technically supporting BH by blocking every opportunity to access weapons. Whereas, the same US has been building sophisticated millitary bases all over Africa with several billions of dollars even all over islands in Africa. In a continent struggling to provide as basic thing as clean water, road, edu, etc. In term of infrastructural development, US hasnt built anything tangible anywhere in Africa despite her big economy and influence. On the other hand, China is building projects across Africa from electricity to train to Airport, roads, scholarships to Africans, etc even with their own money. Let's say we can't pay and they take over them, who would still be using those infrastructure, Chinese? At least they brought them here, so if we can't pay back and they take over them these things would still be in use by Africans and improve quality of life, just like every private business. US/Trump that everyone is supporting call Africans all kinds to unprintable names, visa ban, reporting weak sides of African nations and continuously ridiculing everything we do. The list is long. China hasnt done any of these yet, western media still find their ways into the hearts of Africans to hate Chinese. Sadly, enough some fake pastors joined this brainwashed citizens. Look at China, how many times have they tumbled African govt? How many nations have China invaded in Africa? How many times has Chinese embassy criticize our local affairs? Etc New York started have underground train in 1809, that's 200yrs, they never extended such to Africa. China started booming just 20yrs ago and they've extended everything technology they have to us, that have improved our lives; From phones, train, Good Airport, Naval ship, Telecom, Roads, scholarships, etc Africans must sitdown and think. China is not your enemy
At last someone that thinks logically... also the so called G7 bullies Africa at the United Nations...China stands up for Africa at the United Nations....
Furthermore Africa needs friends that are super powers- Russia and China are our friend.
When the western European man called us Monkeys and the BBC has a culture of portraying us badly, and tied Loans to legalization of gay marriage or giving up resource rights, china came as a friend (though they have their selfish interests still but it's not as bad as western European countries.
Britain was looking to drive out native Zimbabweans and south Africans from their land!
When Nigerians say Chinese bosses are "wicked", it's simply because speed is part of Chinese culture and they expect fast delivery whereas the average Nigerian worker is quite lazy and yet expects to be paid millions....
SlyfoxxjReturns: A conventional war between China and the US or it’s allied forces is not even possible in present times for various logistical reasons I can’t even list. Any war between those two would have to be a nuclear war which neither is ready for. Hence this beef between China and the US is going to forever remain a ‘Cold War’ which China can easily win due to their dictatorial government structure and their expertise at manipulation/propaganda.
The US shot themselves in the foot back when they decided to “open up” China and help them economically when they had the chance to keep their boot on their necks and suppress them economically. Now China has grown into an economic behemoth poised for world domination. They are way beyond the control of America now. And that’s really not good for the world because Chinese people are bastards.
Chinese people are not bastards.... the white western Europeans you worship are trying to drive Africans off their land. Such attempts failed in Zimbabwe south africa and Namibia thankfully!
Russian President Vladimir Putin is the only leader of a major country who has accepted China's invitation to attend as many countries mull the possiblity of a boycott.
The United States is next due to host an Olympics in 2028 in Los Angeles, raising the question of how China might respond in the interim.
What of the genocide and human rights abuses of your ilk in America, Canada, South Africa, Venezuela, lybia etc?
lalasticlala: Dormitory Mate Of Sylvester Oromoni Reveals How He Was Tortured By Senior Students:
"Hello tamara
Sly got beat up on Saturday 27th of November by the boys that was named and the ring leader was Favor, Aslem and Micheal is more of a follower.
I was in the room the day they came in Sly was on his bed and we were just talking and playing in our hostel room as usual after we clean. At about evening time the senior boys came in and senior Favor switched of the light they were holding their belt with them They were not 5 but 6 senior boys but I don't know who exactly was part of the beating but I know senior Edwin was there for sure.
They beat him up and he fell from his bunk and after they were done they called us back to the room and aslem said the school rules piss him off and if we snitch the way sly did them would do even worse to us. Sly was still on the ground and favor kicked his head again before they left.
In the morning on Sunday sly was on his bed and he complained that he couldn't walk so the senior called us to their room and said if we snitch they would know and that if they ask us what is wrong we should say he played football.
The dorm master knew there was a beating that occurred so I don't understand why they are lying on the internet that he wasn't aware.
Even the following morning sly went to the sick bay and it was obvious he was beaten and because no football can break bones and moreover that week we didn't have or play football or sport activities.
I tried to explain to the principal what happened but they keep shutting us up and saying he was playing football even before sly uncle came to pick him up me and me and my friend told our dorm master mr amed what really happened but they didn't want to listen to us I can't sleep so I decided to speak the truth everything sly said before he died were the truth.
We didn't know he was dead till we were sent home and picked by our parents They told us he was getting withdraw from the school
This is not the first case that has happen in Dowen they always hid and cover it up the junior student are not always protected by the teachers or principal if we report annoymously they would make us suffer for reporting."
To think that the school tried to deny it is disgusting.....
madukaanaya: i need a good christian girl for marriage
Things are not as straightforward as this....there is no good Christian girl.... the ones that are too holy tend to be selfish and narcissistic.... infact the more into church a girl is, the more selfish and narcissistic she is.... many church girls are evil cos they believe God is their father and you as the husband is not as relevant.....
Also the more Christian a girl is the less likely it is that she would give you good sex since it's regarded as "fornication", etc and she would be too scared to enjoy sex...
EBMedia: Dowen College, Lekki, Lagos has released a statement on the death of Sylvester Oromoni, a class 2 student of the school who died from injuries he sustained after he was allegedly assaulted by schoolmates, IgbereTV reports.
The school released a statement dated 4th December 2021. It reads;
Did anyone apply for the recent StanbicIBTC experience hire position.
I got the mail below recently and hoping for next stage. Let’s discuss
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This stupid company that runs hiv tests on candidates as a condition for hire. Stanbic is in a loss making position; their retail business hasn't been making profits for a while....
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by BigBashiru: 11:28am On Dec 09, 2021
