₦airaland Forum

toujurs:
Don't decieve your self, it is for everyone, Only if you work toward it. There are bad trait in most of us, especially women. That we have to drop, for example, leeching, entitlement, selfishness. And a lot more, a lady having such characteristics who would want to settle down with such, and she would come out to console herself saying marriage is not for everyone, i know we all have our flaws, but we have to work on ourselves, most people read the bible, for reading, and hardly practice what they understood.

womens selfishness no get part 2...i used to doubt it....

HolinessForever:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_fmwDUSN4QM

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10315055/amp/Blinding-dust-storm-moving-90mph-hurricane-strength-winds-blanket-HALF-Kansas.html

Destroy them that hate you Most High!

nini007:
Stop searching for a wife. Continue your daily hustle and mingle a little, also visit close friends and hang out moderately without the aim of finding a wife then you'll find your soul mate.

It's one of those weird things where if u search u won't find but if u don't search u find....I agree with you....

BigBashiru:
1. No money - the truth is women only want rich hisbands- the vast majority unless there's something fundamentally wrong with the guys personality.

2. No sex they like sex a lot but love pretending

3. Boredom wiv one d*ck.

4. I know God more than you attitude.

These are the main reasons girls divorce guys and then they blame it on the guy.

The love for rich husbands explains lots of divorces. They divorce to upgrade to a richer higher status husband!

SureBadBoy:
A lady has inflicted some bodily pain on her fiancée after she caught him cheating on her with another girl.

In a video shared online, a young handsome guy was receiving some severe beatings from his fiancée while her friends were present.

While whiping her man, she could be heard saying ‘what the hell is wrong with you’ and her friends told him not to hold the cane.


In reaction, flashmoney101 wrote; How can he stay for girls to be flogging him like that , girls way you go use man power for

d.pha; Any woman who depends on women pocket eventually gets dehumanised like this

media2030filmpost; Association of men need to give this guy beta beating for disgracing us. Soon other girls will be copying such act


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DSB7bGPse0M

There's nothing like cheating. Guys maximize ur mating opportunities.

1. No money - the truth is women only want rich hisbands- the vast majority unless there's something fundamentally wrong with the guys personality.

2. No sex they like sex a lot but love pretending

3. Boredom wiv one d*ck.

4. I know God more than you attitude.

These are the main reasons girls divorce guys and then they blame it on the guy.

FOJEM:
'Settle down'! That is one hell of a phrase. I wonder how many married men have actually settled down. You need to pray, fast and allow yourself to be led by The Spirit of God. Any man who marries the wrong woman has already sentenced himself to life in hell!

Why marry and confine urself to just one? Think about it!

lalasticlala:
Drone Guy Debola:

"In the process my baby, Bukolabod said YES!! I pillioned her on my bike and proposed on 3rd mainland bridge. With some of my biker friends."

guys make una continue to dey "propose" to women were go dey chop ur money....

thebosstrevor1:
You must be mad. say your mother and sisters are scums

This card no longer works...women are scum period.

SATANICALLY666:
https://gazettengr.com/gender-equality-bill-anti-islam-women-cannot-be-equal-to-men-northern-senators/

Islam is Bae....

Aonkuuse:
Source: https://salemreporters.com/police-arrest-husband-emeh-kalu-3-others-for-abduction-and-murder-of-his-wife/

this seems like a made up story to please feminists....

HushNews:
A young lady, supposedly South African took to her TikTok page to share different videos of how she was brutalized by her alleged partner

In a bid to warn other women to stay away from toxic relationship, the lady shared video showing the bruises she got after she was battered by her partner – one video first showed her being loved up with the said partner before it transitioned into the disturbing state she had to endure after being brutalized

In one of the videos, she warns ladies to stir clear off toxic relationships… She said

Please avoid toxic relationships and just be yourself, because being in a toxic relationship gets you all this (referring to her state)

Watch the video she shared,


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qAfX_kIE_2E


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QBNIW7RRLKI

they love toxic relationships!

CoolAmbience:
Many Nigerians no well....sincerely.

Nobody talks about LGA Chairmen, State Assembly members, Reps members, Senators, Governors....

That is the height of our dumbness on leadership.

Which state has not been receiving federal allocations, bailouts etc. How many states hold peaceful demonstrations requesting what their governors do with these huge funds?

Since I was born into Nigeria, no FG has done as much as what Buhari has done. I travel a lot, through the length and breadth of the country.

I am impressed with the ongoing works on the Bonny-Bodo Bridge; Apapa-Oshodi-Oworonshoki Expressway; Enugu-Awka-Onitsha Highway; Lagos-Ibadan Expressway, Calabar- Cameroun Bridge / Highway etc.

Nigerian rice has flooded the entire local markets, though expensive. For me, I think the high cost isn't the issue...the issue lies around ramping up production, and causing the forces of scale economics to take its full course.

Also, creating a robust rail system across the country and moving agricultural produce via rail, will certainly impact cost favourably. This Buhari understands, and is doing well at.

He also reformed the police and sars after the protest. he created so many youth empowerment initiatives. as for boko haram, i score him low on that thats the only area i fault the administration... everything else to me is excellent!

wen they say the youth loans is just audio, its not because buhari has not done his job but because the nigerians working in those establishments frustrate things...

Olaoluwa112:
Nigeria failed him because if Nigeria is working, people won't be traveling to countries like India, Libya.

Who/what is Nigeria? Nigeria = nigerian people both masses and "leaders". nigerian people failed themselves. Healthcare is a failure because state ministry of health (not buhari) is not working. and the state ministry is made up of nigerians.... this is just an example. blaming buhari for everything is lazyness. nigerians who make up nigeria fail themselves....

CoolAmbience:
Na people wey no sabi Buhari.

The man commands respect globally, except by unpatriotic Nigerians.

what Nigerians blame buhari for are things that reallyvdhould be blamed on state governors.

Nigeria na forget that every state has a state house of assembly and state ministries like state ministry of health etc....why don't these ever get blamed??

staga:
Hadi Sirika is the man here.

u guys constantly say Nigeria has "bad leaders"....no be good leader be this??

Ojb194616:
Like, I actually asked my girl same question...what should I dance for on our wedding day.

Money u no get...

What if ur ex they here just they pity me..or laugh me.

I say no to dancing on wedding days....na walk I go just walk.

lots of people just don't think with their heads.... if they did Nigeria would be a better place!

Nosa111:
Nigeria and their crazy government. The only reason why Nigeria is banning flight from UK, Canada and Saudi Arabia now is because they just want to retaliate because those countries banned Nigerians from entering their country too, not because they want to curtail the virus. Useless government with mumu authorites

it is not true mr white worshipper. uk and canada have recorded high omicron cases and the ban is in the national interest...

JooEeL:
That's the painful part. When trying to walk with pride with your fiance or newly wed wife, that thought that she has a few friends on her contact list that lashed without restrain when she was younger will make you shudder.

You can't rave so much about your babe because there are some unseen guys in the background ready to laugh at your stupidity. It's painful o. That feeling of paranoia and second-guessing.

And the funny thing is, una 2 go dey see the names on that contact list. You'll just never know.

high body count is tied to:
1. a woman living alone
2. increased age... a 28yr old woman all things being equal is more likely to have a high body count than a 22 yr old.
3. even plenty 22 yr olds have high body count.

This is why i insist a woman must make financial contributions wen she marries - otherwise you are paying for and taking care of old newspaper other men had for free without footing her expenses/marriage.

Pataricatering:
lol - if women can manage men's attitude and bodies with all the hoeing you people put ur penis thru - then you can manage us too , dear.

No we cannot... once hoes are caught, they must be expelledd.

EmekaBlue:
Come to think of it...I pity many guys today because the lady they are marrying have slept with Atleast 8 different guys

Kai

Our mothers those days last last 1 or 2

I often wonder what they are rejoicing about on their wedding day lol

GrandMasters:
Though Nigerians are bad history students...we shall soon forget this like other sorrowful events.....

The school is already talking about next term


Gosssssh!!!!.


Common Sense refused to be common

they are talking about next term becos they only after moni

Newsmic:
#JusticeForSylvester: 5 Children, 3 House Parents Remanded In Custody - School Says



https://www.instagram.com/p/CXX4qt7tFnx/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

after initially trying to deny it and extricate your selves....

lilyheaven:
Achieving Igbo or Yoruba language as a lingual Franca, is a dream that is yet to be achieved.
Until then, let’s continue to communicate in the language we will understand .

I understand Yoruba and it's my lingua franca. The Chinese are promoting mandarin and its the next big lingua franca while you are there worshipping the white man.

Datboredberry:
She could be a million times better than her bridesmaids...

It's not about looks alone... I don't know why men are so fixated on the beauty of a woman...

The bride could be smart, have an amazing personality...etc. The perfect partner..

Men tend to 'see'... I think it's dumb. That's why no matter how great their woman is, they would still cheat on her with someone who can't compare... Simply for a fine face, boobs and ass...

One reason I find it so hard to date...

Na evolution and biology. It's primal.

BadRadio:
You are a wife material already but you don't have to overdo or try too much to impress him by going to his house and start doing domestic chores upandan.

You cook

You wash

You clean

Etc.

Know your limits as a girlfriend abeg.

If he gets too much from you just as he would when he decide to make you his wife then he won't propose to you, cos you are already doing what a wife should do. So he may have no need to ask you to be his wife.

Guess what !!!

He will keep u as his girlfriend for years without thinking about marriage.

Girlfriend is better than wife

All Nigerian presidents regardless of who wins will always be disparaged and insulted by nigerians... its the nigerian way and culture. very bad....

micxwell:
Simple. You don't buy the idea of a housewife. No matter how little, your wife has to augment the little you make efforts to provide and in turn you'll do your best to assist with the chores and child rearing; right?

Yes she has to augument to start... then later she becomes a housewife... this way she respects money and understands that the process of making it is hard....

micxwell:
Now, about nuturing. Are you saying a woman who takes care of the home and does her chores well isn't doing something significant already? She'll still have to accommodate all your madness in the other room as well o.

You dont understand the point. as a bachelor, i did my chores, now married, i still do my chores... chores are not a big deal... i also cooked when i was single and still cook now that im married.... feeding and taking care of babies is work and that is significant on the part of the woman - that is why i said after each child birth, she takes a leave of absence and i do most of the work at home...

But the idea that im against is that im a woman's cash cow....

addexx:
Most women can't handle the role and pressure that comes with it. They'll eventually blow off or disrespect the man or cheat on him or publicly embarrass him. This I've seen many times. A man can provide for yrs without issues and without plastering it on the face of his wife.

This is the truth. Women do not want any kind of stress lolz and at any given point in time are only focused on whats convenient for them.....

Ishilove:
We are not programmed to be providers but nurturers. That's our default role

This is utter BS. You better reprogram yourself before its too late for you. And who told you men are not programmed to be nurturers too? A father nurturing his children with good character and manners nko?

Most of you are just looking for excuses to dump all financial responsibility on the man but that era is long gone. You must be bringing something (something significant oh).

Another case in point, as a bachelor, i went to work, cooked and cleaned my house and nurtured my younger brothers; so after marriage which nurturing you wan come do? Omo better go and find something small you can be doing to contribute your 40% to the house.