halogate: ..when the whites call us apes, monkeys and profile us racially, we cry foul and demand justice. Yet the comments I read here are no different. What a SHAME.
The whites are the monkeys and apes and they do worse... only that theirs is more subtle.... they are not better than us!
mightyhaze: There is no justification for this.. if anything she has ruined chances or atleast will make things more difficult for prospective and current househelps. Personally I don't keep househelps because of these kind of news. Anyone my wife and eldest daughter no fit do ,that one go rest or we hire hourly labour..
I clean my house, take out the bin, my partner (i hate the word wife) and children also help out. we dont need "house helps".
DemMannaScam: They hit Ukraine 7 years ago, they seized Crimea from Ukraine. Crimea is now fully part of Russia. That attack paved the way for Russia to control major eastern Ukranian cities via proxy They hit Ukraine so bad that SCAMerica & its allies were confused. Dem no fit do shit.
NATO cried and kept quiet...
Power has moved to the east. A Sino-Russian alliance has changed the game
The "all mighty" american armed forces are no longer what they used to be. That woke military is now more concerned about promoting lgbt causes
Just to add, Africa's closest allies now are Russia and China. And so UK Germany and China are effectively isolated and powerless
WiszyFraud: Men are the ones to pay for their brideprices, sponsor for the marriage ceremony and then start providing for the woman/family when all is set and done...
Women should be the ones proposing for fxxck sake
Only weak men will kneel down to propose to a woman sha...
And they providing for woman that has probably been tucked by numerous boyfriends oh...
Metrix147: The fire stoked by the recent BBC documentary in which it accused NBM of Africa of derailing from a human right defence organization to a violent cult group is far from over as the group gives BBC seven (7) days ultimatum to retract the said defamatory content or face legal action.
In a letter dated 17th December, 2021, , NBM of Africa vowed to proceed to court to seek redress if BBC fails to retract the alleged defamation, insisting that it is determined to redeem the integrity of NBM through all means lawful.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lqPdxCh3pvw In a release on Tuesday signed by the Chairman Body of Founders of the group, Comrade Ernest Amadasun, NBM of Africa alleged that there is grand conspiracy to discredit it by individuals and groups who are heavily funded.
The group insists that if any of its members is found to be involved in crime, such member should be arrested and prosecuted in court of law, saying the name of NBM of Africa should not be linked to personal wrong action of a member.
It says, "The recent Online broadcast/publication and documentary produce by British Broadcasting Corporation against our organization NBM of Africa otherwise known as of Africa has necessitated this Press Briefing in order to put the records in the right perspective."
NBM of Africa continued, "It is therefore embarrassing and against best global practice in broadcasting and journalism for British Broadcasting Corporation otherwise known as BBC and its allies to produce and broadcast defamatory documentary online through YouTube and segment of its organization known as the African EYE against the integrity of NBM of Africa.
"In the said online broadcast and documentary by British Broadcasting Corporation, BBC persistently referred to our NBM of Africa as and allude to unfounded facts that NBM of Africa involves in violence and criminality.
"The defamatory documentary and broadcast which has gone viral on the internet and further broadcasted by BBC on the 19th day of December, 2021 defamed and disparaged our organization’s reputation and character with obvious consequences that have caused NBM loss and divestment of integrity by prudent members of the society, which has caused our organization to be held in abysmal disdain, disrespect and odium by ordinary and prudent members of the society."
the bbc aired a similar documentary in rwanda about the rwanda genocide - they were subsequently banned. why these oyinbo colonialists cant just face their own country and europe is something i still do not understand....
alpharoyalty: That will not prevent her from cheating on her man. As far as I know the only thing that can keep a woman is money and good lashing. If one or both is missing, forget it.
WiszyFraud: Men are the ones to pay for their brideprices, sponsor for the marriage ceremony and then start providing for the woman/family when all is set and done...
Women should be the ones proposing for fxxck sake
Only weak men will kneel down to propose to a woman sha...
Goodlyhrt: The story of my uncle's wedded life is a horrifying one.
My uncle has gotten more than he can ever bargain for in this journey of marriage.
The wife has been a source of sleepless nights and so much pain for my uncle. She is suffering from full blown madness that comes and goes, like when it strikes, my uncle will do all he can to bring her to normal. From endless borrowing to even taking long loans from his place of work to make sure she is revived. Which seems to be futile anyway as before long the illness will come back again.
This has been going on since they got married. And my uncle has been handling the situation like a good husband. There have been three episodes since I started staying with my uncle early 2018 but this last one seems to be the worst of its kind. Made worst actually by the economic situation of the country.
Because the people he goes to for help his christian colleagues in a redeemed parish cannot afford to help him again. Not thier fault.. as things has changed the past few months.
Anguish have taken over my dear uncle. Sometimes I fear for him not to take an extreme measure or for his health not to detoriate further. Do we start talking about millions in debt.
My uncle has become a symbol of "it shall not be my portion" and I don't want to advice him because I will make sure he severes any ties with the wife kpatakpata.
My self I am deeply affected as I cannot watch him suffer and refrain from helping him from the little I have. Right now I have given up my savings that was to fund my binance account for trading. And I will definitely borrow to help him as he's being like my other dad since I came to Lagos.
The story is long I'd have to stop here.
Yet idiots continue to dance and celebrate on their wedding day....I wonder what they are celebrating....
Most Nigeria don't understand what's happening.... this bill allow Britain to infiltrate the country again.... Buhari knows what he is doing....
Most Nigerians don't understand what's going on...
In Nigeria UK and eu always have a candidate they want to put in power in our country.... this electoral bill if passed will make it very easy for them....
harqinhola: These guys are too corrupt to make this bill fly, they'll rather stick to their old election rigging methods than endorse this . Except they have a new strategy to rig with the newly proposed electoral bill , IT WILL NOT BE ACC3PTED . ......
Una wey like to quote, me oya oo i don talk my own ...
Down with the useless bill and with democracy. Military rule is fine in Nigeria
Sanjemiga: You all arre just talking from physical aspect. What of the spiritual aspect. You might not even be able to react because you are under some kind of bondage and you will continue this way till she eventually kills you. I pity men a lot. If you no the kind of evil things women do and get involved in to tie a man down. You will be more careful with women.
Steep: The Christian pattern is God's view of marriage, if you are not a Christian you will forever be finding it hard to understand why the bible command the husband to love his wife and provide for his family and the wife should love her husband and submit to him.
In the Christian value system the husband is the leader of his family and this leadership has responsibility. However, providing for his family doesn't mean a man should go above his means. Things like polygamy, feminism, baby mama/baby papa, having side kicks etc are against the Christian value system.
Humanity is destroyed by sin/rebellion they said no God we know better than you, we have evolved hence God allow them to destroy themselves.
the outdated verses in the bible that u believe blindly will destroy u
HardMirror: It seems Nigerian girls are indeed created, designed, configured, trained, programmed, predetermined, orientated,... to collect collect and collect.
I started dating this girl and by our standards this girl is as good as they come. She is truly a good girl with good character. I cant be dashing her money, so I asked her to come and work for me. Already had 4 employees but her work experience would be valuable to us and honestly she has been an asset and worth the money i am paying her. But what surprises me is how she still manages to get me to buy food, airtime for her everyday ....
Steep: The Christian pattern is God's view of marriage, if you are not a Christian you will forever be finding it hard to understand why the bible command the husband to love his wife and provide for his family and the wife should love her husband and submit to him.
In the Christian value system the husband is the leader of his family and this leadership has responsibility. However, providing for his family doesn't mean a man should go above his means. Things like polygamy, feminism, baby mama/baby papa, having side kicks etc are against the Christian value system.
Humanity is destroyed by sin/rebellion they said no God we know better than you, we have evolved hence God allow them to destroy themselves.
oya keep following God's standard and il follow mine...
the females aren't following God's standard they are following what's convenient for them!
thebosstrevor1: Really, you think so but where are the rich cash cow, like how many women will be able to get the few rich cash cow in our society.
So i don't think you are realistic with your assertion.
I think somes opinion need to be based on facts rather than illogical assumptions
Women select long term mates based on the ability of thr male to provide. A woman may reluctantly marry a middle class man but if the lady is wooed by a rich Man she will divorce the husband for the rich man.... that's why women initiate divorce a lot more frequently than men..
Genset: This is the major reason why marriages still last among the igbos,they follow the traditional way of marriage which is basically provision by the man anf home-keeping by the women. This is why their men hustle so hard and marry very late so as to be able to provide for their family adequately. In this way, the equation is balanced and everyone is happy. Kudos to all Igbo men especially Anambra men.
What does the man get in return for providing for his family? The answer in most cases is nothing significant. The only person entitled to a man's money is God because its God that was with him wen he was making it...and if the man is a Mami water worshipper then share his money with Mami water.
thebosstrevor1: What power does waiting for sex in marriage gives to a woman?, if both parties are true to their words, then they wait for each other.
In respect to your point, marriages belongs to both couple, a man does not want a woman who earns than him, if she does, it becomes a problem, since we can find a balance, the best way is for a man is to be a high achiever, if he cant, then find for a woman who will not work or compete with his manliness.
In whatever ways it comes, a man will have to take care of his home, it is one of those responsibilities you can't run away from, if you intend to have a family and akso get respect from your wife and kids
Most women want a rich man to use as a cash cow. If ur ready to due early with high BP then sure foot all the bills.... e go clear for ur eyes when reality sets in.
Fountainofyouth: But men are dependent on women to feed and clean the house for them so what's the big deal, ordinary financial provision you guys keep hyperventilating, y'all were cursed to toil the earth from the time of Adam so get used to it.
No men are not dependent on women to clean house and feed them. Say I'm a working bachelor I work, clean and cook and Say I'm 32. That means I've been cooking and cleaning for at least 16 yrs and marriage to a woman won't make her take over this stuff that I'm already used to...
nesgeeek: Bros pls don't japa because of ur children, try to tolerate her for the sake of ur kids. I don't support divorce especially when kids are involved. she may change with time.
That means the woman's trap is successful.... women use women to trap men
worldclass68: So I'll get married and my wife will starts giving my family attitude.....
She dey crazy To her papa house straight
.nah u let ur wife dey control u... And believe me she will never change.. Nah soso u go live ur life till u die if u don't act up.. If u get critical problem or fall sick now, that kind of wife go japa with or without ur kids... but ur family will always be there for u ( blood is thinker than water) So nah u Bleep up OP.. U re definitely alone!!!
So man up....if u don't have peace then she won't too!!!
I like your first three lines... that's the right attitude....
Romance › Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by BigBashiru: 3:51pm On Dec 22, 2021
