₦airaland Forum

OPONG:
Gay population in Nigeria is on the rise lowkey.

Not on the rise....leave matter. They only male noise

uchennamani:
You are absolutely right.

The governors are the real problem.

More like saying we have not dealt with our homes but blaming outsiders. Everyone lives in LGs and state governments,; yet we don't hold them accountable but has all the trepidation to call out the FG everytime. That is the hypocrisy that has kept us where we are. Play local politics of holding councillors, KG chairman accountable, then see how state governors will get the message. Things are not too difficult but Nigerians love moving in circles

9jahotblog:
It’s Hypocritical for Tinubu to subject Nigerians to Poverty - Pastor Tunde Bakare

Tinubu is wicked in his government, Tinubu’s government is liberal and hypocritical to subject Nigerians to Extreme poverty.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kPJuhdz23a0?si=E6JhKq5BGQHnTBOk

This man is a problem in this country

Iamcrazy:
I dey hungry and I wan suck breast too

Hmmm

Unperturbedpota:
Smh

Because he is refusing to publish all the propaganda you pushed him anymore.

For years you guys used the media to sell lies.. lies upon lies about Nigeria and the economy.

Foreign investors believed and made the mistake of coming here to invest then they lost billions.

From Jumia to Konga to bata ro nestle to Glaxo to Lufthansa to Kellogs to ToyRUs to Lego to Walmart to Pizza hut , etc I could go on and on listing foreign investors whis believed the lies from the Lagos Chamber of commerce then..

You sold Bloomberg et al the usual lies that the Nigerian chamber of commerce spits out daily backed by the propaganda from the Nigerian bureau of statistics.

All false fake data based on a 200 million population, what you didn't tell them which they all later realized is that there has been no real census so we don't know if our population is 200 million or 50 million.

What they also realised was that of that fake 200 million population there is no middle class only a 1% elite and a 99% extremely poor class.

So now they all got angry and started pulling out their Forex. It's a matter of time before Dstv leaves too, I foresee them selling off to a local partner and devesting from the Nigerian economy. This year's Big brother Naija has recorded the lowest revenue ever!!

The politicians wasted years building concrete castles like Eko Atlantic city which their citizens can't afford instead of investing in human capital so they can sustain the middle class . Now the middle class is extinct in Nigeria.

Companies have no customers who can purchase their products .

Starlinks has sold less here in Nigeria than Kenya. Yet we claim to have 200 million while Kenya are around 20 million people, let that sink in .

Nigeria is fast fading and the president still thinks propaganda can fly. The world has seen the truth and they have run from your economy .
Kenya is growing in leaps and bounds every foreign company not found in Nigeria is in Kenya, From Microsoft to all the foreign airlines, to Lego to sharp to Sony to Asus to Siemens to Atlus to Ubisoft to every single foreign investor you can think of have offices in Kenya not Nigeria.

Until the citizens push for good leaders Nigeria will continue crashing more and more while you open threads on Nairaland wailing and blaming others for your problems instead of facing your leaders.

For those whose brains can't understand, this is something as trivial as gokart tracks. over 10 different huge tracks setup in Kenya and are extremely profitable....

https://destinationskenya.com/top-8-best-places-for-go-karting-in-kenya/

I think Lagos had one or at most 2. They have closed up since. Because they made No profit and the economy killed them long ago, why? The citizens in Nigeria are poor and can't afford such, against Kenya where their minimum wage is better and the people have much more disposable income because Kenya has a huge middle class.

The only business in Nigeria that survives are those for the extremely poor like pure water or those that carter to the 1% rich

Nigeria economy is finished

What a piece. U got good Intel info.

duro4chang:
Many of you who said he would no more be relevant after may 29 have been proved wrong

Exactly the point.

Raxxye:
Nigerians would be glad if it works, but we are pessimistic about it. And you won't blame us;
Mr 'Integrity' Buhari scammed us - he was a packaged scam. He ran Nigeria aground!
Would Tinubu be different? We are in doubt!

He might deliver cos he delivered in his time, unlike Buhari who had no history of delivering on anything developmental or gold.

MichaelSokoto:
who doesn't knw dat those northern govnors own all d illegal mining sites up north?

We nor be muumuu naa!

Those guys are very selfish and wicked. Gold that can be used to save the nigeriam naira. Those are the real devils of this country

Codes151:
you are biter.. and u will die of hate...

u think Wike or Akpabio are igbo Politicians? these two are real politicians and should be studied in Case studies....
these two are the original definition of Political Strategists...
continue deceiving yourself...

biter souls

Your head correct

Sunofgod:
Be careful...

By road is riskier...

Very safe

COMPAQ:
Nigerians can generalize sha! Petty villagers in the ND that use kpo fire Don turn to most companies? So a big company like zenith uses kpo for diesel for all the generators in their branches nationwide abi?

Some Nigerians just go school, den no get sense I swear

Talk weti u no know....that it has a prospect means it can be improved. Wickedness is the problem if this country. Research on how to improve local method, wickedness is being used to stifle it

ecolime:
Says who?

Fuel wey don knock engine. Lets not even talk of the land, water and air pollutants discharged during the 'cooking'

Children of hate. Most companies are secretly using this product cos of government insensitivity

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

I smell good effort to lie here. All lies. This is opposite.

hammerT:
MEN SHOULD PAY CHILD SUPPPORT TO THE WOMAN THEY IMPREGNANTE AND ABANDON TO TAKE CARE OF THE KIDS.


IN THIS CASE HALLEY BERRY IS TAKING CARE OF THE KIDS AND AT THE SAMETIME, SHE WILL PAY THEM CHILD SUPPORT.


I TELL U AMERICA THEY CRAZE.


THEY USUALLY GO BEYOND PAYING CHILD SUPPORT AND HAND OVER THE MAN PROPERTIES AND WEALTH TO THE WOMAN, IS THAT NOT MADNESS?

Whoever makes american as standard symbols na craze person. Those people de craze big time

UDUJ:
This is laughable

Majority of them sold their houses and landed properties.

Others left high paying jobs for the mirage of the UK

SMH

I really no understand this juju wey UK use , wey male people wey de do well here will sell their properties and go there leaving everything behind. It's like madness for me when I see the extent people go to

Jossyfine:
Africans and African men believe going to the hotel alone with ur spouse is a waste of resources but forgetting it’s actually bonds couple together.
Even going on dates with ur spouse is a big problem amongst the Nigerian men.

Omo marriage is too boring biko

That's actually the difference between a wife and a side chick. Side chicks are taken to the hotel, wives are not. So to make one balanced in marriage, he should take wife to the hotel occasionally as well.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Why do marriages get boring after sometime? 🤔 I.e The love or feelings begin to wax cold or boring unlike when you both started.

Spice it up by going together to the hotel. Boredoms occur mainly with marriages with children. For those with children, sneak out and have quiet time in a hotel with ur spouse...it has a way of spicing it up

Odibembem:
Someone reading this would assume Delta is a serious state. It's about d mist unserious state in Nigeria. Here they don't hold state govt to account, all d blame is on d FG while d state plunder the resources without d slightest fear. Look at d transport system in Asaba and Warri, Keke Napep more than cars, u can't find a single intracity bus or even taxi in Asaba. Waste Mgt is uncoordinated. And govt would never do anything revolutionary to change status quo cos no one is pushing them. There is no NLC or civil society groups in Delta

The most unserious state politically in Nigeria. Very ashamed of the politicians who are just thieves

condralbedez:
Wike would have
been
better, anyways watin i knw
self
.

U re right

Kobojunkie:
Again, carry your ramblings go visit someone who get your time!

At least u no quitw bible again, na head sense u don take talk .....lol. Nigerian hypocrites.... 😂

[quote author=Kobojunkie post=125283805]Again, carry your ramblings go visit someone who get your time! [/quote)
At least u no quote bible for me again... 😂 Use ur head sense

Gerrard59:
Like I said:



I want to see him succeed, but if I am bet, I bet he would lose. Abuja is Northern's elites playground/city, and they won't allow an Igbo man to dictate how it should be run. If it was a fellow Northerner, feasible. In fact, it is now that there would be cows parading the city to dare him.

Dare Wike and he will tell this is Nigeria under Tinubu not the Fulani. Wike is just all over the news. The man is good

Kobojunkie:
See this one! Did your colonial masters write the book or did they themselves not borrow the knowledge from those who actually did, most all of them Israelites. Abi, are you attempting to tell us that na Israelites colonize your Nigeria?

Waka pass me if all you intend to do is ramble abeg!

The Europeans are masters of deception that is why u have successfully hated everything about ur ancestors and existence through their teachings through the bible they traced the supernatural from. It's all a game. Even if u love their concepts as presented in the bible question and apply common sense. Common sense I repeat implies that fear of God means respect ur master or benefactor. This is why Wike is now a minister in an APC government. Live life according to your bosses interest and u will be hastily promoted. Get sense

This minister is one of the youngest ...a 37yr old doctor. Let's see how she does

JOemmy:
No one is hating on him his kind of politics is just abnormal let him have the decency of moving to the apc instead of remaining in the pdp and sabotaging the party within no serious party anywhere in the world will ever tolerate that.

Tambuwal, and many others did same. Let them understand how it is to be betrayed. He will still remain there till 2 yrs from now. Una never see anything

attat:
Lolz... Follow follow

Follow who know road, not prominent losers

ibechris:
One thing I observed about this Wike is that,he does not have secret.

His mouth will nail him politically is just a matter of time he would be done with.

He only says what he wants u to hear and believe, like he told u that he will not collect ministerial appointment which u all swallowed waaaaa and now he is the minister. The more I look, the less u see

attat:
Wike that name has a way of making me hiss.
Nonsense

Bad belle people...

Kobojunkie:
Do you realize that what you just said makes no sense at all particularly since is as approved by God and not you as an individual?

2. You clearly don't know what that means either, do you? Go read Genesis 26 vs 5 - 6 to get an idea of what faith in fact implies. The statement you quoted tells you that the Righteous(just) live their lives in continuous submission and obedience to the teachings and commandments of God --- Faith. It does not tell you that Righteousness is itself faith.

The answers to the various ideas are contained right there in scripture for those who truly seek God’s Truth to learn from. Sadly, religion that rendered so many blind and ignorant of that which is right before their eyes.

The fact is that what u know as God in the bible is what the colonial masters needed u to believe through the missionaries. For the term, fear God to be real to u as an individual, u do not even need to read the bible. Just have a benefactor like father, master, government, boss that has capacity to reward u....respect his rules and regulations, and u will be blessed on earth. Simple as that. Missionaries brought the concept of imaginary unseen God, where people fruitlessly search but never come to know. Question the beliefs

Kobojunkie:
Read Matthew 25 vs 31 - 46 to understand the 6 works God has said the righteous do in order to earn themselves a place in His Heaven.. The keys to the Kingdom of Heaven are the works of righteousness detailed.

Fake. Righteousness is a function of who u decide to please for u to be blessed. The just lives by faith

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying to Him. So long as he is unrighteous, his prayers will continue to go unanswered unless he you begins to rationalize it and concert his requests to suit the situation.

What do u think is righteousness