Escabado: I have dated girls between the age of 21 to 25 and ladies between the age of 27 to 35.
What I can tell you now is that is very pleasurable to date a young girl not more than 24 years. Even in bed there body is so appealing and you can try to control her especially the ones that Like u,let me not say Love.
Now dating Ladies in there 27 to 35 years is different ball game , there body has changed to d worst. Even when there are naked is no more appealing to the eyes like the younger girl. No wonder there say age is the greatest enemy of a woman.
This is not to shame any woman but I'm speaking reality.is better for a woman to get old in her husband's house
Forget all these they say is better to date a matured woman. The major thing that brings a typical Nigerian man close to a woman is her body.if that body is not fresh and young, my brother you will never be happy.
Mind you.by Gods grace I have made money and God has blessed me. I'm not dating any woman to give me any connection or for her money. If not for sex what should a well to do man need a girl for .
cos i can see some goldiging men who date a woman cos they want her money commenting under my post. Sorry bros I don't date for money
Guys share ur experience dating younger and older Ladies.
I was expecting to read about “experience”, but you were busy describing “bodies”.
Kobojunkiee: I don't follow at all. I was lost as far as whatever point you were trying to make in the first portion of your OP.
So, cann you maybe use an example here to help us more clearly understand what you are really getting at here?.
A real life situation here. .. The woman stays at home. But the man takes the kids to school while going to work, and brings them back home everyday while coming back from work. While the man prepares for work, the wife would prepare the kids. .. After some time, the woman started bringing the kids home on her way back from buying the things they needed in the house. And she counted it as more added work to herself, and she started demanding that since she usually feel so tired and drained-out after tending to the kids when they returned from school until evening time where the husband returns, that the husband should also be helping in preparing them every morning. .. Such request got to the husband as a rude request. It became an issue that was treated in a public meeting.
After all your rantings,, you landed at my exact point. .. Men cannot and can never do what women do. We accepted that fact since the time of the creation of this world. .. .. Now, women cannot and can never do what men do. What is so difficult in accepting that?? .. .. The things that both men and women can do, then let any of them do it. Is there need for any baseless mantra??
goshikid: Bros which invention you don ever see woman do abg, make we start from there
Bros Naija women no sabi watin you dy yarn. Na only how to chop shawama and pizza them sabi. Most especially all those one in their twenties
You mean Nigerian women? Lol.. .. Because if you did your atomic physics very well in your secondary school, you would have heard about Marie Curie.. Marie Curie was the only Human Being (both past and present) that had won a Nobel Prize in both Physics and Chemistry. Browse about her, and you can tell me how many patents she had gotten for herself as a result of her numerous inventions and discoveries.
BoredBerry: You tried to overanalyze something that's very simple...
The reason women said that... It's because women were told that we can do practically nothing...
Can't go to school... Can't work... Can't vote/be voted for... Etc...
Now, women do better in school... Are qualified doctors and lawyers and politicians... Women occupy positions once reserved for men alone and are doing better... Women are breadwinners of their families... Etc...
Women can do anything a man can do... From CEOs, NASA scientists, Neurosurgeons... There's no field without a woman...
Next time, write an article on why men are great but black men aren't... This didn't make any sense
I for one, I never ever believed that Women are nothing. That's why I never saw any reason for the Mantra at first. Please read the original post all over again, and please read to the end. Habbbaaaa.!! It is very obvious that you saw the topic, then read some few lines of the post, and rushed to reply. .. .. Now, do a history research way-back to the time before the colonial era in a typical Igbo community. Women were a very strong part of the society. Even the words of the First-born daughter (Ada-Nna) were first considered before the words of the First-born son (Diokpala), even when the Ada-Nna was the last baby of the house. .. Women gather themselves in lots of strong groups (Umuada, Umuokpụ, Ndiinyom, and so on), and these women groups - no matter how many various groups they were - were all welcomed and well listened to; and their contributions in those days were well felt in the olden society. .. So, apart from the fact that a married woman cannot get a share in the inheritance of her late father where the late father didn't give any share to her while he was still alive (which some married women in our modern times had already challenged many times in the courts), and that women are not allowed to speak in the gatherings of men, even though they can be present in such gatherings to represent their men in their absence - are there any other reasons why a woman in such a setting in the olden days would look herself finish and still regard herself as NOTHING?? .. Women are pushing the Mantra too far. They are the ones over-flogging it. .. Even in your explanation, you just assumed something that was never the case, just to prove a baseless mantra right.. .. About that last line of yours,, please google “great black men in history”. If you meant “African Men”, then google “great black African men in history”.
“They” always say that: “What a man can do, a woman can also do it... Even better.” But who are these “They” who always say that?? It's the women of course. .. So, can the women truly do anything and everything which a man can do, not to talk of doing them better? The answer is very obvious.. It's definitely not everything and anything which a man can do that a woman can do. That is why men are there in order to do the things that men are supposed to do, and women are there in order to do the things that women are supposed to do. .. Do men also say that “What a man can do, a woman can also do.”? Most times, whenever a man says that, he is trying to prove a point in favour of gender equality. But beyond the discuss of gender equality, the mantra definitely goes ahead to confuse the basic understanding about “Gender Identity”.. It makes one to see it like, women should leave some things which they are naturally good at (as women which they are, and as themselves in their various individual capacities) and start stressing themselves very hard in order to do things which men naturally do without having any stress. .. Let nobody misunderstand my discussion. If a woman can easily do some things which men are naturally known to be doing, then let her continue doing her thing. .. .. To the Flip side of the discussion. Can the men say the same thing about “What a woman can do...”?? In all sincerity, and without any bias, this is exactly what a man would say: “What a woman can do, then let her continue doing it... Men should continue doing the things that men can do, and leave women to do their thing.” Men are not really interested in trying to join women in doing the things of women, not to talk of outdoing them on that. That's why men see fellow men who twerk or dance like women, or those who use lots of filters in photos as somehow inappropriate. .. But women find this special joy in doing things that are associated with men. Some even feel it is a nice compliment when someone tells them that they behaved like a man at certain situations. .. ALL THAT I AM TRYING TO SAY IS THAT, THIS PARTICULAR EQUATION IS NOT BALANCED. .. IT DIDN'T GO THE SAME WAY WHEN TAKEN FROM THE BOTH ENDS. .. .. You can now see why there are serious frictions in some homes..
The woman of the house would be doing everything, both the things the man is supposed to do very easily. And when she leaves some things undone (which definitely the man had not been doing, and thus he too left them undone), the woman would see it as a foul, as a big error on the man - that since she helped him out in doing some the things that he was supposed to do, that it was naturally expected of him too to help her out in doing some of her own things too. But she forgot that: “That’s not how the men see such things”.
Utanisco: A female graduate treated her father to a pleasant surprise as she appreciated him for training her in school.
The overjoyed lady ran to her father's mechanic workshop and gave him a hug before going on her knees to express gratitude.
The fresh graduate also dressed her father in her graduation clothes and received prayers from the stunned man.
A lady upon graduation from school stormed her father's place of work to show gratitude in an emotional fashion. The Nigerian lady identified as Lydia Okojie hurried to her father's mechanic workshop while rocking her graduation gown.
There is no other way to know a wife-material. .. She's so proud of her father, even though he is not the type of father everybody would expect her to have. This type would also be so proud of whoever she's married to.
NnolimNzubechi: Hello Nairalanders. It's A Long Read But Please Bear With Me
Am the only child, Am A Boy,my mom died when I was 3 years and am the only child.so it's been only me and dad since and his girlfriends..
Recently I started smoking, He noticed it..My dad too smokes but only cigarette,He has been smoking past a Decade Now But He looks very Healthy And Chubby Too So You won't Know He Smokes Unless Your Saw Him smoking.
So He told Me To Stop Smoking,And He Was Angry With Me For A Week plus,Later The Anger Reduced..He Taught I Smoked Only Cigarette but I Smoke Both cigar and Arizona Weed,Jus those Two.i Don't Take alcohol. I Stopped Smoking Though,It Was on Saturday Being Feb 4,That I Relapsed,I Smoked A.Z,So My Dad And Her Current Girlfriend Came Back,She went To The Backyard And Saw the Aches and The Brown Rizzla..Then she went and Told My Dad,My Dad Came Into My Room And Started Saying Plenty Things,Lastly He told me To Leave His House Tomorrow Being Sunday Feb 05. He then left My Room, I Was Shocked,I Didn't What To Do Or Say To Him
So in The Morning I went Out To Buy Something,When I Came Back He Locked The Back Door From inside,So I Couldn't Open It With My Keys.I Knocked And Told Him It Was Me,He Told Me To Go Back To Where I Come From And i Should Not Knock Ever Again.This Made Angry,He Didn't Even Give Me The Chance To Apologize,I Used Vex And Told Him Oya Let Me Carry My Property,He Said He Will Throw it For Me,That He Is Already Packing My Belongings,Few Minutes Later He Threw It for Me,I Was Down So He Threw It From Up...So I Left to Stay With a Friend in another State.
So My Question Now Is what My Father Did The Right thing?My Telling Me To Leave His House Cos I smoke, Am 19 Years Of Age, I Will be 20 This Year.I heard too Many ulcers and Helicobacter pylori Which Leads To Stomach Cancer,Yet He Told Me To Leave, He Was The Buying Medicine For Me But He Knows The Ulcer And Helicobacter pylori Hasn't Healed Final.He Knows I Don't Have Money To Fend For Myself Yet,i Always Go To His Shop To Help Him With His business.
What He Did By Telling Me To Leave Is It Right?I Don't SMOKE Outside,I only SMOKE In Our Flat,Cos I Don't Want People To Know I SmokE,My Dad Will be Ashamed When People Tell Him I Smoke ,He is a Very Popular Man Here..
Today I Chatted Him And Told Him Am Sorry For My actions,The First Thing He Told Me Was (you will never see good In your life)..I Didn't Mind Though The Curse though, I Begged Him,And He Told Me To Come Back,But Am Really Not Happy With Him,What if I Have Accident?what if I was Kidnapped?He didn't Think Of Those ones instead He sent Me Parking, I Have always Be A Good son which he tells me Frequently,I don't give him Headache.Just Only That Smoke
Even Though He Told Me To Come Back Am Still annoyed With Him,Instead of Him to Help Me To Stop ,He Told Me To Leave His House And Go continue Smoking.Those Words Hurt Me....
Should I Go back To Him And Start Planing To Save Money And Relocate?Cos I don't Have a Dime Now,And My ulcer Hasn't Healed Complete...I haven't even Eaten Good Food since yesterday,Just one okpa ... My Main Question Are (Did My Dad Do The Right Thing By Telling Me To Leave,Should I Go Back To Stay With Him??Or should I Stay Here At My friend Place and start Hustling For Myself??
Please Moderators Should help Move to Front page,Am in Deep confusion Now.Thanks
It's not that you're a habitual smoker. Yet, you can't just wait until you leave his house?
What exactly can we called this public embarrassment
She said: “Do you think i am any kind of girl??” .. .. That means, she's not even the girlfriend. She doesn't know him well, and he doesn't know her well. So, why exactly did he come to propose to her sef?? Public proposal for that matter? .. Nonsense People Everywhere.!!
Lucasmuyiwaa: Please don't mind my grammars but I will try my best to make readers understand what I'm trying to say.
I met my girlfriend at the time I was being disturbed by my parents to bring a wife. But then I was not really ready for marriage and this girl I met during that time happens to be the girl I love most.
I showed her how much I love her and I know she really loves me too. I've tested her love for me many times and I can proof how much this girl loves me.
To cut the story short, we had a misunderstanding couple of months ago and it lasted for two weeks befre we settled it. What really caused the fight was a guy that I feel like they were having a relationship and I confronted my girlfriend. She said they've known each other befre she met me and they weren't dating anymore though the guy has been trying to come back to her but she just decided to keep him as friend according to what she told me.
So this particular guy again I saw him coming to ask of her in her house when I was there and I did not feel good seeing that guy. I had to leave and didn't pick the girl call for some time and she stopped calling me too. Though I know I'm gonna call her back when Im done angry and I was even expecting her to call me more and maybe I would eventually pick but I didn't see her call for a week.
So I started feeling somehow when she uploaded that particular guy pick on facebook and tagged it "my love." She uploaded it both on whatsapp and facebook so that I caN see it because I stopped checking her whatsapp status. When I couldn't feel okay anymore I decided to end the fight jokingly with her and it worked then I asked her after few days of settlement why she had to put that guy on her status but she said she did it because she saw where I also put some girls on my status and me putting love emoji so she retaliated with that because it hurt her.
We settled the fight and we agreed never to get mad at each other again. But just of recent I heard it from her sister that the guy I always see with my girlfriend has come to their house to see her parents and I shoudnt even waste my time with her or tell her. I was not okay when I heard that story and coudnt believe until I asked my girlfriend if she's hiding anything from me but she said No.
After asking her so many times she finally told me to ask her whatever I heard and I told her. She answered yes and I was shocked. I asked her why she had to do that and she explained how her dad had been insulting her at home to go and marry and even transferred the aggressiveness to her mother if she fails to bring a man befre this year though, she always tell me everything her father is doing with her at home and always cry when telling me but I keep telling her to please have patient that we will go to see him very soon.
So the second thing she said was that when we had a misunderstanding for some weeks and we didn't talk she believed I've done with her and she can't wait to loose both ways even though she loves me more than the guy. Now the guy had gone to see her parents but my girlfriend said its nothing that she can't get married to the guy and that meeting is nothing, so I fell relaxed and asked her what we are going to do. She told me to impregnate her and then she will go and tell her father that she is pregnant for another guy and not the guy that came to see him. We had sex but unfortunately she didn't get pregnant. So she decided to tell her mom what's going on and how much she want me and her to marry. So the mother took her to her father and told her everything my girlfriend said that it's not the guy that came to see them is her husband that the main husband is coming to see them but the father changed it and got upset with them that why and what's the meaning of that nonsense, if she doesn't love the guy that came to see them why did she introduced him to them.
She recorded all the insults the father said and played it for me. I was so shocked and this girl started crying to the extent that I had to take her out that day to feel happy. She said she doesn't want to marry that guy but that guy had come with his parents to see my girlfriend parents.
Now I don't know what to do because my girlfriend said she will kill herself if we don't get married which can't even happen. Whenever I tell her to please let peace reign that she should go ahead and marry the guy she will get mad and would never talk to me anymore until I beg her. And sometimes when I jokingly tell her that I will also go and see another girl parent so that I won't loose at both ends she kneel and start crying not to even do so. She always tell me to put mind at rest that we would get married but I don't see it working at all because those guys parents will be making preparations day by day. My girlfriend tells me most things the parents say and I always feel bad.
Plz ineed ur advice because i'm confused. The only thing that could help us was the pregnancy but when she did the test she was told she wasnt pregnant. Now she is regretting her actions because she never knew all these could happen. She's confused too because she cried everyday because of all these.
So, what advice are you seeking?? The babe is yours. And you just exposed every details here. In fact, if the lady is on Nairaland, she will definitely know that this is her story.
Funnyandviral: Videos of a young man is trending on social media, as he singlehandedly saved a filling station from burning with fire extinguishers and sand.
In the video, the young man was seen being praised by people for his courage and swift action, the situation could have been worse.
The young man waited while everyone took their heels, to save themselves.
dauntless15: Exactly what's happening to me rn, currently I have a text from her asking babe are we good? And I can't say yes because I know that's a big lie, I've been trying to breakup with her but I don't have a tangible reason, she's been good and everything there's really nothing I can use to breakup with her, then my conscience is acting funny because she predicted last week that I would break up with her when I texted her that we need to talk and it'll feel like I'm now discarding her because I used her( that's what they think sex is right? Using?) but that's not the case, I am the problem I know, but she won't understand, right now I just want to be single, and free, the calls and care is too overwhelming even though I loved her from the start and the relationship is barely two months old, I literally need space even though the poor girl doesn't deserve such bullshit treatment from me.
So, she herself is not the problem, but her overwhelming attention?? Then tell her what the issue is. At least, if she didn't change, you can tell yourself that you have a reason
Tejumola856: I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.
What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.
The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.
Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again!
.. You need to be free?? How?? Free from what exactly?? .. Yet you will rush into the next bondage almost immediately,, and start needing to be free again?? .. If I advise you now to stay off relationships for now in order to stay out of the nonsene bondages, (and use the time of being single to learn how to love yourself by yourself), you will think that I am giving you bad advice. .. You don't know what you want. You don't know what is wanting you. You don't know what you're doing. You don't know what is doing you. .. When you grow, you will understand better.
Officialhorlah: Do you backoff from woo-ing a woman you admire when you get that many men are after her
Me: I do back off Most times
To Men:
Onion Cider @abbietayo: "I have a question for men. Do you backoff from woo-ing a woman you admire when you get the vibe that many men are after her?"
Like, she cannot give only me all the attention I needed. She's constantly sharing her attention with lots of others. So, why am I still wasting my time and energy with her?
ExAngel007: A man is trending on Facebook after he expressed his thoughts towards a 14-year-old neighbour.
The user named Nsi Kak revealed that his neighbours are travelling and are trusting him with their 14-year-old daughter who can't travel with them because she has to go to school.
He went on to sexualize the girl by describing what "she's carrying front and back".
He added that he doesn't trust himself and prays that he will not "Oxlade" the girl while alone with her.
By Oxlade, the Facebook user was making reference to the singer whose sex tape recently leaked.
See his post below.
"Funny how this our neighbor is trusting me with their 14 years old daughter. Pt Ma'am, with this thing she's carrying front and back? Hehehe, I don't trust myself.
They're traveling to village for one of their relative traditional/white wedding, they prolly gonna come back on Sunday or Monday, they can't take her along because of school. And me? I'm staying home throughout this week because of some personal reasons. Is God not wonderful?
She was just smiling upandown, I just pray I shouldn't Oxlade this girl shea."
He Later Apologized
Hey, I apologise.
I'm wondering why this very post is getting all this reaction, it was JUST a post.
Firstly, we don't have any 14 years old girl in our compound.
Secondly, none of our neighbors is traveling anywhere.
Thirdly, I'm not at home.
I wasn't looking for any visibility or anything, I love my low key, that's the reason why I deleted the post, the fame and dragging was too much.
But y'all have something in mind, 50% of you guys that said trash about me, I feel it hypocrite.
Maybe it because I used 14 years old girl, I was just trying create something related to Oxlade recent trend. I had nothing bad in mind.
I'm sorry guys, peace should reign. ❤️
.. .. Was Oxlade with a 14yr old girl in his video? ..
Go girl!!! Drag his balls to court for defamation, just because of 1500k.
You guys forget she didn't beg or ask the guy to send her money, he offered to send tf to her and she accepted. How did she defraud or obtain through false pretense if she didn't persuade or induce him? The intent wasn't there!!!!!!!!!!!!!! @NKsleek
Who still uses Facebook and messager, though
You lied. She lied that she doesn't have tf. It means that she wanted to come but tf was the obstacle., which the guy knew was an easy obstacle. .. If she never wanted to visit the guy, there were many other lies to tell
waziri4biz: Hey house I need your views on this matter. When my girlfriend is talking to me or texting me I usually take my time to listen over the phone and ensure she gets the undivided attention then when she notices I'm silent the next thing she starts blowing off on me like I'm pissing her off and she could even go as far as hanging up before getting to know if I was only silent because I was SINCERELY listening.
This time around she hung up and after calling her back to know if she truly hung up I ended the call because I lost it this time....
But share your views anyways
Sheey you're not planning to do Valentine for this babe?? She's clearly not your babe. Go and find your true babe
waziri4biz: Hey house I need your views on this matter. When my girlfriend is talking to me or texting me I usually take my time to listen over the phone and ensure she gets the undivided attention then when she notices I'm silent the next thing she starts blowing off on me like I'm pissing her off and she could even go as far as hanging up before getting to know if I was only silent because I was SINCERELY listening.
This time around she hung up and after calling her back to know if she truly hung up I ended the call because I lost it this time....
Babsojimjim: Dear all, permit me to use this medium to seek for mature and experienced advise...
When a wife out of her own wish without any current justifiable reason seperates from her husband for almost two months and has now decided to return back with the kid out of her own wish without any pressure, should the man accept her back?
Also should there be conditions attached before the man can accept her back? Mature and experienced input is highly appreciated.
Thanks all.
The woman is very very unstable. .. Doing anything she likes without any reason
solaty: When you have a dream, you've got to grab it and never let it go — Carol Burnett
I congratulate myself today, as I shine out to be the Best Graduating Student, Geology Department, Federal University of Technology Minna. I am the first girl in my family to have come this far and it matters to me! It's a credo that dreams are valid if we have courage to pursue them. I was raised in a kind of community that has not much keen interest in girl-child education but yet I kept the believe and remain resolute to my dreams. Today, I feel proud to be inspiration to girls in my town (SAKI) that they can achieve their dreams too.
It all started 9yrs ago at The Polytechnic, Ibadan before proceeding to Federal University of Technology Minna as direct entry student. Although the journey was really rough but I didn't give up. In the darkest moments, I was focused to see the light. The moment I deemed the toughest as a Student Nursing Mother, amazingly turns out to be the simplest when I bagged on 5.0 semester cgpa. The rigor of combining motherhood with education poses great challenge to student nursing mothers but with grit, grace and style I triumph against all hurdles. I return my glory to the most exalted.
I give thanks, adoration and utmost gratitude to Almighty Allah for making this long journey a success. My undiluted appreciation goes to my parents ( Mr and Mrs Abdrasaq) for their support. I commend the efforts of my dear husband Iyiola Mubarak Oladimeji, you are God sent in my life. My appreciation is never complete if I fail to salute the efforts of my mentor Maranroola Isiaka Olaniyi, indeed you are a great man. To everyone who have supported me along the journey, who have invested in me to be better and trusted me, may God positively reward you all.
I see this as a completion of one phase in life at the same time beginning of new chapter. I pray May Allah put Barakah in it and more wins to come my way.
Politics › Re: Arrest NDLEA Officers Who Worked With Kyari’s Accomplices, IGP Tells Marwa by BluntCrazeMan: 4:41am On Feb 15, 2022
Bros Naija women no sabi watin you dy yarn. Na only how to chop shawama and pizza them sabi. Most especially all those one in their twenties