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Promisecinho12:
I met the pretty lady few years ago and we were cool with each other. I was the first man in her life but distance became a barrier in our relationship. She later got married and now she has two lovely kids.

Whenever she visits her parents, she always wants to visit me too but I don't usually allow her to enter the room with me cause am scared that okafors law may work on me

Recently I told her to stop visiting me that she is married and I don't fancy her visiting me and she called me all sort of names pls I don't know if I did something wrong for telling her not to visit me again.

Okafor’s law had been happening between you and her., but you want it to stop.
Stop painting your story.
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Say what the true situation is,, so that we can know how best to be of appropriate immense help to you.

trutharena:
Ngige was sworn in May 29, 2003. That year the State generated N800m in revenue. 2004, the revenue quadrupled to N3.6bn, 2005, the previous year's revenue doubled to N7.4bn.

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March 2006, he got booted out of office for operating with a stolen mandate and Peter Obi was sworn in same 2006, revenue dips by over 40% to N4bn, the attached pictures show the trajectory of the igr under Peter Obi. He left office in March 2014 leaving the IGR at N8bn (2013). 2014, IGR jumped to N10bn. The numbers for 2021are not yet out but 2020 puts the State's IGR at N28bn.

I think there is so much to unpack here. In ~3yrs, Ngige was able x9 the State's IGR, Obiano was able to do x3.5 while Peter Obi could barely move the needle. It took Peter Obi 8 YEARS to surpass what he met on ground and the difference was just a billion.

Is this the person you people are saying will perform wonders?

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I need to paint a picture of Ngige's three years so we understand. Ngige got sworn in May, by June, he had fallen out with his godfathers for reneging on their agreement. July, he was abducted and forced to resign. He managed to scale through that hurdle and was back in office. The ffg year, there was some court judgement that sacked him from office. The Police withdrew his security on the advice of the AGF. For 8 months, a governor was being guarded by vigilantes and private security.

Same 2004, in November, hoodlums allegedly financed by the Uba brothers (Ngige's erstwhile godfathers) took over Anambra for three days, they burnt down govt buildings, the govt's radio stations, I think govt house was also torched, Ngige's office and I think his deputy's. This is the environment Ngige operated and was able to x9 the State's revenue. Peter didn't also have it easy, he got impeached same year he was sworn in but he was there for 8 YEARS. Got the keys to two major commercial centres (Nnewi & Onitsha) and this is his result.

You're actually talking about Chris Ngige here? or Peter Obi.?
Which one of them exactly.?

Ishilove..
Please share your own view on this.

dre11:
https://www.newtelegraphng.com/mom-gets-ruler-tattoo-to-measure-sizes-before-sex/

As she grows, the measurements changes.
Thus, this cannot be used for any meaningful measurements apart from manhood sizes which also are not stable

PrimadonnaO:
You've simply been asking him rhetorics without putting forward facts of your own.

Inasmuch as I would love to disagree with him, he's stated some facts.

The natural production of wine back in those times inevitably resulted in some alcohol content in them.

Does it feel awkward for you to think that Jesus turned water into an alcoholic wine?

If that's the case, I can tell you that it's only because of the connotation alcohol has today.

The stark truth is that Jesus Drank Alcohol well well.
That was why the Pharisees even had to insult him as a drunkard.
Just because those extremists don't take alcohol at all.
So, for Jesus to be taking it, they used it to insult him

jesusjnr2020:
Just imagine how shallow your reasoning is.

Not all wine were alcoholic, yet you believe that which Jesus turned water to, which was said to be 'good wine" was alcoholic.

Did Jesus brew the wine?

Have you ever heard of water being turned to wine before?

Have you ever seen or tasted water that was turned to wine before to conclude that it was alcoholic?

You obviously don't even believe that Jesus turned water to wine, but just chasing straws.

Wine drinkers that were there confirmed it was fresh wine.
And that the one that finished was old wine.
If he converted the water to something that was not the wine they were used to, they wouldn't have called it “Wine”, not to even talk of describing it with the type of wine which they were used to... rather, they would have been asking questions like:
“what kind of new drink is this??”
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But no..
Their statement confirmed that the drink Jesus brought to them was familiar to them.
They called it Wine.
And the only wine that was in existence as of that time was the alcoholic sweet-sour wine,, and not the modern non-alcoholic sweet wines that we have now.

jesusjnr2020:
All wines are alcoholic right?

Sheer ignorance.

When was the very first Non-alcoholic Wine ever produced?
Which year did they say that the Cana Water-to-wine Miracle happen again?
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Utter Ignorance

Zeal0000007:
guy thats my fiancee we are talking about, though I'm still scared

You don pay her bride-price?

is there any Law backing up the establishment of this Bureau??
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Na waa Ooo.
Duplication Everywhere.!!

Kobojunkie:
What secret?
How can a human grow up in a "good" family and not realize the qualities that makes it a "good" home?

Sounds to me like what you consider a "good" family from outward appearances may not be good after all.

This is exactly what is happening in Nigeria.
Appearing good, but not really good.

Arewa1stSon:
The fedral govt buy official cars from innoson and they even contract them to make Customize cars for the army. What else do you want?

Even innosson himself has come out several times to say that Buhari and the federal government are supporting them immensely, despite the fact that some of his fellow Igbo brothers that are governors are not supporting him. Everything is not about hatred for the igbos.

They are even shouting monopoly up and down 

The fear of business guru "Aliko Dangote" is the beginning of wisdom.

They have burnt hundreds of his trucks to get him broke, but Baba is becoming richer than ever before

The guy commented that Aliko is not giving back enough to the country, even with all the supports he enjoys from the country.
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And what was your response?
You went and dragged innoson into your response, and avoided the major concern he raised.
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And I ask you now again.
Forget every other person.
Tell us about Aliko.
What had he done in return for all the favourable environments which Nigeria had been creating for his businesses?

slimjohn2k5:
We know how much distraction this program cause for our youths.

The politicians are spending sleepless night now for 2023 elections. We are yet to see anyone or anything from the youth.

I'm not saying BBNaija is our only distraction, but we need to focus.
I'm not saying the youth will do better but they will be more innovative and no suffer from forgetting what was discussed in 5min

Watching BBN is a thing of choice.
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Participating in Politics is also a thing of choice too.
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Watching Football is also a thing of choice too...

You can use video-editing to add the guns after the video shooting naa..
Use sticks to do the guns during shooting..
Then use video editing to insert the guns and smokes and bullets and casing-ejections and all of those effects.

What exactly is he saying??

Ladycewhy:
I will come and edit this comment if it works for me .

Ok..
Did it work??

Pierocash:
I am in Ph.

Is it possible to activate it without me been present?

Someone from here already did what was explained in this thread..
And he got his NIN activated.
See his comment below...

Inyinese:
thank you so much for this information, I did it and it work within 24 hours. I am very happy in fact

Inyinese:
thank you so much for this information, I did it and it work within 24 hours. I am very happy in fact

You're welcome bro.
Enjoy your day

Kobojunkie:
And that happens to be the reason why many a Nigerian man fails at marriage... they don't prepare themselves for what lies ahead. Instead, they wait for it to happen to them and then start running around crying fowl.

... and be running kiti-kiti
... and be running kata-kata

Mariangeles:
It shouldn’t have to be so.
What happened to learning from men who are successful husbands and fathers, and women who are successful wives and mothers?
I wonder if they still have godparents in marriages these days.
I’ve heard my father on several occasions talk about his and my mother’s marriage godparents.

You know the real problem these days??
Many people came from families that they wouldn't want to imitate inside their own families - talking about many young adults that came from dysfunctional homes..
And the good families have parents who are not even eager to share the secrets of being a good spouse to their own children while they were still unmarried, until the kids enter their own marriages and start seeing things, then the become solution-providers for their kids.

I no read am..
I no go still read am.

Mariangeles:
I’ve realized that not all men know how to be husbands.

To be honest, we start learning how to be married people after we have already married.
We start learning how to be parents after we have already had a child.

Mercychen:
I wonder why you're holding brief for the said woman even when you haven't heard her side of the story.

Anyways, whatever!

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cococandy:
wonder why you are quick to jump on the condemnation bandwagon when you haven’t heard her side either

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Please don't stop.
I am enjoying the two perspectives to the issue from the both of you.

herrlekan:
Thanks for this wonderful thread, I sent mail to nimc copying all the emails. It was responded to within few minutes and given 72hrs for the update to be carried out. Once again thanks.

Enjoy Bro.
You're welcome.
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After 72-hours (3-days) send a new mail to them.
Not a reminder ooo.
A totally new mail.
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If it had been done, they would let you know in their response.

300whitewolves:
Waist beads are always a turn off for me anytime I see them though my babe and I never discussed something like that.

Last week as we were gisting she told me she wanted to buy a waist bead from a friend of hers, as soon as she said it I just didn't feel happy about it, she was just smiling and talking about how she is going to look good in the waist bead, how she will turn me on and all but sincerely, I was just irritated cos I don't like it as a result of the perception I have.

She later got it and I intentionally didn't ask her about it, she showed me but my compliment for the waist bead was shallow, she expected me to rave over it, comment well and all but mehn it was a big and huge turn off for me, that's how she got angry and all and decided to give me attitude and not pick my calls again.

You can't even tell her that you hate waist-beads when she first talked about it.
You were just doing nukuru-nukuru and silly silly silence all the weili

Raalsalghul:
God?

What does God have to do with this?

Una be clown I swear.

In Nigeria, we pray too much.
And God hears the prayers (sometimes).
So, the prayer above is not a bad prayer.
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It's like:
Let God always pair bad people to their fellow bad people, and pair good people to their fellow good people.
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It's a good prayer naa

Mercychen:
You think the man would waste his time and come out to say this if she's really contributing?

The reason I even reacted angrily to this story is because I've seen a couple of women behaving like the ops wife.. so it's not just because of this I'm reacting.

I Know of a woman who the husband does virtuely everything in the home but common soap to bathe and do laundry, she'll send the children to go meet their dad and she has a biz. All she does with her money is buy bleaching cream of different strengths while she keeps taxing the man for everything until the man revolted and started refusing to do some things. He told her, so your own money is to buy cream while mine is for upkeep and family expenses. They had a huge quarrel that I could hear everything because their BQ was directly behind my window.

This particular day, the children were sick and she just kept disturbing the man to bring money for medicine. He told her already he doesn't have for now. That same evening a lady brought bleaching cream for sell, this woman quickly rushed to buy. As she was still buying, the husband walked in on her. That was when he voiced out and they had that quarrel. That was not even the first or second time. So, there are women like that.

Na Waa Ooo..
Dear Lord God...
Please save your dear children from devils that reincarnated in form of human beings ooo.
Save Your male Children from female devils.
Save Your female Children from male devils.

faithfull18:
Anything is possible in this Naija.

May God help her on the matter shaa

Raalsalghul:
This thing vex you, no be small.

But you sef,, you never say your own opinion towards the real matter.
You just picked one corner of the whole scenario and reacted

faithfull18:
@Bluntsisi go on twitter and tag police complaint @policeNG_CRU at least to deal with the police who charged you that much. Send them an inbox or tweet and tag them or do both.

You can send me a WhatsApp message too.

If you are getting a court order, it should be to block scammer's BVN, not just one account and also in the order, the bank should release the scammer's details to you.

I been dey think.
What if the scammer has more than one BVNs??
Like, what if the bankers worked with her, and that they helped her to have more than one BVN in order to scam people well well with many Bank Accounts that has more than one name??

Again..
Is it Possible for a person's BVN to be blocked and it would affect all the other Bank Accounts that are linked to it? No matter the names that are on the Bank Accounts, whether they are jointly owned or not?

Lalasticlala, Seun..
Please help this lady.
Many Nigerians that are here on Nairaland can help her pin down the scammer for free..
She needs help.

HenryDion:
In other words, police scammed you 150k to help you recover your lost 150k? This is terrible.

Fact is she can be tracked if she's still using her phone number. That's what police do, especially to lost phones.

My advice is to let go, to avoid wasting more resources cause both the bank and police are scammers themselves.

It's painful to lose money to a scammer. I've been there. Just let go! If anything, you have learned from this experience.

Letting go of such loss is not easy..
Especially when police would be promising her that the scammer would be made to pay everything she spent in the search for the money..