Blackdoks: You take a girl to your house to meet your mum,getting to your house she sees your mum and says this woman looks like a witch. NOTE :she doesn’t know yet she is your mum before saying it
Why would you take just any girl to your house to meet your mum. Well I think she just gave her honest impression of what she saw. What to do next is up to you. If it were me the relationship will die a natural death.
Sadiqali24: I can't keep friends.. I can't even keep a girlfriend. I easily forget about people. If you just did small thing to me, I'll look forward and never look your side again but I also forgive easily. Is there anyone who feel same?
you are contradicting yourself. You never look the person' s side again and yet you forgive. It's childishness disturbing you. Since yonow know you have a problem,work on yourself.
dkickz: It is often said that the way to a man's heart is his stomach. While some men agree with the notion, quite a handful of men vehemently disagree with it.
Here is the poser:
Between a woman who has great culinary skills or one with a magnificent sexual prowess, which would you as a man settle for and why?
The same thing goes for the women here: Would you rather settle for a man that has sexual prowess or the one that possesses culinary skills?
gfm01: Am a cool headed guy that always move with respect in everywhere I go, I actually needed an intimate friend or pal that I can be chatting with and also,someone that I can be staying or managing with in somewhere close to my working place in VI,due to the stress on the road,even wouldn't mind if I can be part-taking or supporting the rent,think it will be preferable. Please,I will be very glad if someone can glad grant me this chance..... Kindly, DM on WhatsApp 07057894877
You need a sugar mummy, friends with benefits or fuc.q buddy. Which of the above?
AnonyUser: I know this is not the right section for this but I need a wider view.
My neighbor just gave birth. I want to go greet them but I'm short of what to say. I don't wanna go there and be looking like a fool.
I don't know how to start the conversation.
What do I say when I get there?
I don't know how something so simple could be also very difficult to do .
Seun Lalasticlala
Hold Money, put it in an envelope. Say congratulations,joke about who the baby looks like. Pray for the baby, if you can . Put the envelope with money in the mother's hand. That's all.
Toks2008: In any purposeful relationship, there is need for both parties to actually contribute something substantial in ensuring the material success of the relationship. And I'm talking about both parties contributing to the financial table
But be it as it may, i honestly believe that men by default are providers and some men do not mind bringing everything to the table but one very worrisome trend i have observed is that many ladies who bring absolutely nothing to the table do not value these amazing men who sacrifice so much to be the sole contributor.
So what is the Point?
It is understandable that for so many reasons, many ladies may not be in the position to bring anything to the table but any lady in this category should make it a duty to bring respect, loyalty, faithfulness, lots of love to that man who does his best to provide. Honor him like a king because he is making so much sacrifice but if for any reason you find it difficult to accord him the aforementioned then simply leave his life and let him look for a better lady who will value him. If you are not ok with what you get from him, please leave him and go look for a richer man.
And if you are a man who is sacrificing so much for a lady who brings nothing to the table and you are not getting the respect you deserve please break away from such a lady and stop wasting your resources on her cos trust me on this, it is most likely that there is another man out there who is giving her much more and that is who she gives the proper respect.
No man should lord over his woman because she brings nothing to the table but it is a taboo for any lady who brings nothing to the financial table to disrespect a man who brings and no man should ever let this happen. If she can't respect you, let her vacate the seat for a lady who will appreciate you
iamogunlowo: Man spends heavily for his side chick
Yup men are that stupid. Later some people will be saying what is the girl bringing to the table. You see that even if you bring something to the table other than sex men will still go after sex, cos their brains are between their legs.
DAVE5: Have you asked her what she has to offer a guy other than sex that would make the guy want to stay put.
No man would find a good girl and decide to use sex to chase her away, they’d rather keep the good girl that has more than sex to offer, then go off to other stupid girls that think with their pvssy
You have a point but Depends on the guys ages..most guys are not that smart. All they are after is sex. They are not after good girl ,wife material. I have seen situations of guys that are of age sef, and they still dump the good girl and go for a bimbo for the most stupid reasons.
SSARS: Ahhhhn Ahhhhn just what exactly is wrong with a lot of the guys on this platform ? Why do y'all act crazy and drop stupiiid replies on a lot of the ladies threads and posts here.
And the way y'all insult these girls like they're responsible for the poverty in your life, most of y'all sound like bitter souls or better still like someone who's gat his head in a box
Come on this 2022, y'all need to do away with the biasness, discrimination and hate a lot of y'all be radiating here because it so toxic and fooolish
I see a lot of y'all always exchanging insults with these girls like y'all a bunch of sissies and I know y'all won't be able to stand the sight of another guy insulting your sisters at home.
And if you don't like what I said you can go and jump off the second Niger bridge for all I care
I hope your intentions are pure not that you are hoping this post will get you laid.
Iyaebe: I shall be deactivating any moment from now and won't be here for a long time and not with any other monika as well(take note of this).Well,take all of my comments while here with a pinch of salt and forgive me if it ever gets to you in any way(insults and what have you). I'm becoming too busy and engaged to be distracted. Byeeeeeee.
Ubahjessica: The recent news making wave shows that JUSTIN DEAN is no longer in the union he shared with KORRA OBIDI He stated that the divorce papers are ready to be signed
When we think that near perfect marriage won't go south then this trouble is now facing us to say something
Being that they just had a baby, I feel be should have held in a little and think about the kids before himself. He could have had a talk with her and if didn't work, then get her parents to intervene. How do you talk about divorce just a few days after having a baby ! It's crazy. I hope they will put an end to this childish and self-motivated c.r.a.p
Emperorade: I have three girl friends, and am dating them secretly, they don't know each other and I love all of them, but suddenly they all change there attitude to me at the same time, they are all asking me to propose them and then marriage this year. Please friends what can I do, because I can't married three women's at the same time and no one is ready to lose me.
Maybe their cycles all aligned . You signed up for it. Enjoy.
So my issue is this for about 6years plus been single due to lots of heartbreaks. I dated a girl for 3 years, gave her my everything, was ready to take everything to next level that was when I realized I have been played all this while, for 3 goods years. I got depressed almost committed suicide, but mom love and friends didn't let me at same time I vow never to date nor trust any lady again till I ex this life.
Now the issue is last year my mom has been on my Case about grandchild since am second born only Son got an elder sis and a nephew from her. Please good people how do I change my present predicament, how do I start all over again after 6years. Have lost all my cool � manly skill as refered to womanizing as this case may portray.
I really need your scrutiny and Insults at this time in my life, good advise will go a long way.
Learn from your experience. Don't date for too long. Till she becomes your wife Love with your head not your heart.
kellylacey: With the growing population of single women, finding eligible single men could be a challenge.
The competition is high and to get ahead of other women, you have to possess the qualities men find irresistible in women.
Men who are looking for a long-term relationship are looking for certain qualities in a woman. So what are these qualities that can make you a man magnet?
Honesty. One of the qualities men find irresistible in women is honesty. Men need a woman who can be trusted because trust is important for a relationship to last and an honest woman is definitely someone who is trustworthy. Men who want to commit to a long-term relationship like marriage would give his heart and trust to someone who is trustworthy. Honesty is an important trait that most men are looking for in a woman.
Kindhearted. It is common for women to be nice but to be truly kindhearted is a trait that is not common to most women. A kindhearted woman is compassionate, understanding and forgiving and these traits can be very irresistible to most men.
Faithful. Loyalty or faithfulness is one of the qualities men find irresistible in women because men want a woman who will stick by his side through thick and thin. He needs a woman who will not be swayed or will not abandon him no matter what happens. Lack of faithfulness or cheating is one of the reasons why relationships do not last and men who want to commit to a relationship want to be with a faithful woman.
A woman who think before saying or doing something. Most men admire women who are mature enough to choose their battles. It can be a big turn off to see a woman who always engage herself on useless fights or arguments. A woman who takes time to think before saying or doing something is truly irresistible. She would ask herself questions like "Is this worth fighting or arguing about?" This kind of woman is the type who will choose to compromise to solve relationship issues. Such kind of woman is someone most men wish to have by their side.
A woman who believes in his man. One of the qualities men find irresistible in women is that she's someone who believes in him. There is a saying that behind every successful man is a woman. If a woman believes in his man's dreams and believes that he can accomplish anything he desires, this becomes his driving force to succeed. There is nothing more attractive than a woman who believes in his man. A woman who supports and encourages his man to be the best he can be is truly irresistible.
A woman who value herself. One thing that women should know about men is that men love expensive or valuable things. When it comes to women, men want a woman who view herself as someone of high or exceptional value. One of the qualities men find irresistible in women is their attitude toward themselves. A woman who treats herself as someone who is valuable is admirable. Women who know that they are valuable are happy with themselves. They are happy for who they are and they do not believe that they need to conform to a specific set of standards to be loved by men. Of course nobody is perfect and everyone is lacking on something but having flaws or lacking on something does not make her feel less of a person because she knows that she is capable of obtaining whatever she lacks and can improve herself. A woman of high value is confident and in control of her life. She knows her worth and she knows what she wants.
A woman who takes care of herself. Men view women who can take care of herself as someone who can be good in taking care of him and their future children. One evident that a woman can take care of herself is that she can maintain a healthy weight, has an excellent hygiene and knows how to groom herself. Although not all men are into a woman's physical appearance, we have to accept the fact that physical appearance plays an important role in attracting men. Most men are initially attracted to a woman's physical appearance and to get a man's interest in the first place, you have to be presentable and physically appealing.
DaBogu: This our lovely forum filled with fun, quarrels, judgements, laughter, advice, recommendations, hypocrisy, various emotions and so, has it's beautiful side of love not thoroughly harnessed.
With all these our lovely ladies & guys online, has anyone Successfully had a relationship through Nairaland that worked out beautifully?
I need to say so because this is a faceless forum, & establishing love without seeing the person is an "exercise"....
Oyindamolah: Men everywhere, no husbands for the girls
Everywhere you look, you see beautiful ladies languishing. They could have moved on. But our puritanical society hates single mothers and despises unmarried , The truth is that there're so many men who're willing to marry but the girls we have today are looking for men who own cars and houses, The price of bride price is high there's no good job around,so the guys just promise them marriage,sleep with them,dump them and run away!
MaDaRa01: You were datin' a girl, on a normal day, if she ask for urgent 2k u can gather one or two things nd give her. Along d way, bad things happens u went down broke, u were as broke as broke itself. At first your girl was understandin', then... A month, 2 months, situation havent improve. You notice her behaviour have changed, she now move with anoda guy claimin' he's just a friend. One day u sit her down and comfort her that all will be ok, she shouldn't leave u becos of not havin' at the moment, but she flared up, told u straight in the face its over she cant keep datin' a guy who cant even boast of anythin' even urgent 5h... She broke up with u that day.... You were sad but u still love her. Finally hustle payed, you bounced back, you tushed up, Then the bitch wanna come back knowin' u still love her, but u know all these hoes aint loyal. but she keeps beggin', but u still have feelings for her. At the same time u know the reason she's back. Are u goin' to accept her or tell her to stick with her broke guy?
Things don't always happen like p-square's reason with me.infact they rarely do.
Allsingles: Believe it or not women find it difficult to understand the reason why men love sex. * If they want to help you, they will demand for sex. * If they say they love you, they want sex. * You mistakenly sleep over, they want sex. * They want to borrow money from you, they want sex. * They want to give you a job, they want sex. * They want to give you a pass in your exams, they want sex. First of all, you need to understand the system of men. They didn't ask for that because they didn't create themselves. Do you know that 95% of healthy men wake up with an erection? Did they bargain for that? No! Do you know that the penis has a mind of its own? A man could be reading his Bible and his penis will just stand. A man can be sleeping and wakes up with an erection. A man could be sleeping, once you start rubbing the penis, it stands even when he is still asleep. Have you ever asked yourself why men are not on periods, cramps or any bad moods? That's how God created them. A man is naturally always ready for sex. Rub a man on his head, he already thinks you want sex. Wink at him, he's already seeing you naked. Wave at a man walking with his wife, he will loose focus. This is nothing spiritual. It's not about, "ln Jesus Name or Holy Ghost Fire ooo". That's why real churches do not allow ladies with short dresses to sit in front, because they will confuse the Pastor. Men did not manufacture the high libido by themselves. We are all created in God's image. The only man that overcame the sexual urge according to the good book was Jesus Christ. Joseph's own was that, he didn't just ran away, he fled!! Jesus is God and on top of that, He was very careful not to include a woman among His disciples. So many great men have fallen because of sex. Do you think they wanted to? Soldiers in the war front will develop the urge for sex. To show you how bad it is, so many soldiers were killed during Biafra war because a woman lured them inside bush. David in the scriptures sent a woman's husband to the war front when he saw a woman washing outside. He was later told that it is the wife of his faithful servant who he has sent to war. He took the woman and had sex with her. Do I need to tell you about Sampson? Solomon and other Bible characters? It only takes the grace of God and some level of discipline and maturity to curtail this animalistic instinct. The way the man's body reacts to the sexual urge is not the same as a woman's body reacts to it. How many great women have you heard messed up because of a dick? Few, or even non. So next time a man misbehaves because of sex, don't see him as an animal. They are just responding to nature. Don't be like, "I've lost the respect I had for you, "I thought you were responsible, so this was what you wanted?" A 17 year old girl can make your father lose focus and collect the money meant for your school fees. I pray you read this post with realistic understanding. Men should also understand that it is not all erection that is meant for sex. They should learn to control their urge. Men are wonderfully created, but CONTROL YOURSELVES, OH YE MEN!!!
Nacoss25: Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please. It all started like this. On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm. I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church. On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone. I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda. My people I want ask a question. Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family. My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her. Our marriage is two months old.
You did well. It's better than beating her. But next time don't lock her out. You can leave the house ,come home to change and go out. Don't eat her food or the other food. That's enough.
If sex can only be had in marriage, a lot of men would be in a haste to marry, leave this talk about economy being bad and all, men would hustle for whatever they prioritize, and alot of men prioritize sex, the only way to make men marry is to carry what they prioritize and make it so they can't have it until marriage. This cannot work if one girl decides to move like this and a hundred other girl are willing to have sex with men without marriage. It has to be a collective something.
People believe our ancestors were more responsible when it comes to marriage, but the truth is a lot of them married just to have sex, konji was the motivation... because girls those days did not have contraceptive and abortion was not common or safe, so they closed their legs until they could secure the commitment of a man to take care of the result of sex(offspring) through marriage.
That's it. That's the only way. Women stop being in competition with eachother using your vj to compete
Error401: Been there for 2 months and I went to a government hospital where I was diagnosed of External Hordeleum (Chalazion) I was referred to another Government Teaching Hospital in Osogbo for the surgery.
I just want to know the probable cost of the surgery And how risky it is! Thank you P.S - it dosent bother me at all, aside from the bulge
Received thanks. What goes around comes around. Helped someone out some days back with 500 now I have gotten double. Same will happen to you the giver. Thanks once more
Romance › Re: What Will You Do? by Blunttruth: 5:36pm On Mar 16, 2022
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