zed7: You will probably get help if you come out straight. Right now, you're just beating around the bush. Tell people you need money. The price of the drug isn't that difficult to Google.
You are insensitive. He has to explain himself. If you have no help to give or you have no advice keep your filthy mouth shut. Don't add to to the poor guy's stress.
Streetbabah: It's a dilemma choosing to marry between a spouse with good character and submissiveness who relies on you to make 80% of all decisions.... And a spouse with high IQ of great intellects whom u can discuss anything with be it business politics and so on with who is also a self starter... people's opinions are needed
Great IQ, is a no brainer. But people who are insecure and can't stand being around someone like that will opt for the submissive dumb one. Think about the kids you will have, don't let your ego make you have a 50/50 chance of having a dumb child.
diogo23: Even when the mother treat you like trash , sense of reasoning is far from you. If your mother is good does not other are good
Why the insult? I won't respond to your insult because you are clearly speaking from pain .If she is bad to you know there's a reason. Try to respect her for at least giving birth to you. Don't repay her ill treatment with bad. Honour her, one day she'll realise herself. If she is disturbing your mental health, you can honour her from a distance. Not everyone has a perfect mother. You will be surprised what we all go through but we try to learn from their mistakes and be better parents.
Gistchannel: “I have stayed for months without knacking” – Lady cries out desperately for a boyfriend [Watch]
A desperate lady has cried out bitterly whereas revealing that she is desperately in want of a boyfriend. The lady who made a video to specific herself stated she has stayed for months with out romps simply because she needs the following man she could have intercourse with to be her boyfriend.
More so, she lamented over excessive libido whereas complimenting her culinary expertise. She professed to have self-control and affirmed that she doesn’t cheat.
That's a great idea. I just didn't want you asking for money from them for Transportation everyday that's why I suggested teaching . But learning a trade is way better.
lots of people. Friends, sisters,elder brothers , mothers their wives or girlfriends. A girl who keeps herself chaste is in the same shoes if not worse. So there's nothing special.
Because of this miserable ASUU strike,have been at home but it more like an hell fire for me. My mum is always choking me everyday, from every little mistake she must turn it to war, and Honestly am fed up coz if care is not taken I might kill myself guys, she tempering with my life, soul and body
Everyday the neighbours comes around to interfere and am just tired, coz it giving headache,its destroying me emotionally, its making me go insane. She always try and manipulate things, in a I myself don't understand,always ready for argument and fight always,I don't really know how to type what am feeling now, and I have decide I will b leaving d house soon, am thinking of going back to school and learn trade or something am really down mentally now #fucklife #fuckme
Look for something doing that will take you out in the morning and bring you home in the evening. Even if it's teaching on a private school.
Tuchelibann: I got married to someone I assumed was my other half at age 28 she was 26. We started dating immediately after nysc, we met in Abuja when I was house hunting. She was a teacher and make school uniform for kids too.
We courted for almost 2 years and got married some months later. I was thinking I have found my missing rib. If you have been frequent here you’d have seen a story where I came here to complain how I suspect my wife of cheating. I had to open this new acccount because a lot of people know me here and I don’t want to be mocked.
Well I suspected my wife having extramarital affair, always switching off her phones when we’re together, go out to pick calls and all that. She is always not herself whenever a particular number calls her. The number is not saved but I have seen it mutiple times. Out of curiosity I checked her phone one day when she was sleeping( I saw her inputing her password without her noticing a week earlier). Yes you guessed right it was that particular number and she has been cheating on me with one stupid man.
I felt my whole world crumble before me, I couldn’t tell anybody how could I?. My attitude changed and she noticed but she dare not ask. This is someone I love with all my heart. My curiosity led me to dna center we have a 2 year old beautiful girl which DNA confirmed it’s not mine, tried another DNA center and the result was the same. This made things worst I fell sick for a month and lost a lot of deals. I was literally shaking and crying when I held the result in my hand. I didn’t even waste time to chase her out. Came begging with family but I didn’t agree to her pleas. Actually she has been dating that man before we met and they have been seeing even after our marriage which I got to know through her chats.
This was more than 4 years ago, I really had trust issues after, I didn’t even look at a ladies side for almost 5 years I felt betrayed. I don’t believe in the institution called marriage again ( don’t even try and persuade me with any stupid scriptures) I’m done hearing that. I wanted my own kids so bad so I met another lady I told her I’m not ready for marriage but I’m cool with kids . We share same interest so it was quite easy. Months ago I welcome the most beautiful girl I have ever seen and I’m happy I’m a father again.
The issue now is I don’t even want this kid to grow up before conducting another DNA test, I have my trust issues I won’t let emotion override me. Kid is always sucking and with her mother so there is no how I can do that without her consent. Summoned the courage to tell her and she has been acting weird that I don’t trust her bla bla bla. She swore she won’t drop the baby for me and even threatening to leave the house. This is a girl I have been taking care of without her doing anything. She said even if the girl is grown she would never allow me conduct any dna. She said the day she discovers I conduct a dna test she will leave the house and that’s the last time I would see her.
But I’m still adamant of this dna what should I do. What’s ladies issues with dNA test if you’re coke can why not let me do it. I believe trust is earned you can’t say because we have a baby together I should just believe you can’t cheat on me. Although I don’t suspect her of cheating or anything but once beaten twice shy.
Well if I were in the mistress's shoes knowing what you have been through, I would never object to a DNA. Maybe she too isn't sure you are the father.
Make sure you do the test. Anyhow,let her threaten to leave.
MadeINchenzen2: I really wanna dive into serious interracial relationships, preferably I will fancy Bosnian women... but will take an African woman besides Nigeria.
Why? I want kids with mixed race, half Nigerian, half another country. Not pure Nigerian breeds.
Which country has the best women, both morally and physically and culturally?
Vallro: It's no surprise that most times the people we become very close to in life are people we never gave second thoughts to at first meeting.
So here's mine; It was back then in University as freshers, my newly acquainted female friend then had reserved a seat for me in the lecture hall that fateful morning (GS class). The moment I stepped in, I searched her out according to the description she gave me only to see her dragging the seat with one dude. As soon as I got to them, I could read the dissappoint on his face and I really felt bad for him.
A couple of days later, we came across each other at the Firstbank's ATM queue in camppus, he approached me and begged me to help him withdraw stressing that I owed him one, we laughed it off, I helped with his request and since then, we connected effortlessly and became best friends. He was actually the source of the connection that gave me my first post graduate job! One love Tony!
TheGidRedpiller: I made two front pages in a row, check my profile, not something i'm happy about by the way. Before this remarkable week, i was arguably the most popular person on nairaland so making two front pages that enabled my presence to be more conspicuous is not something i'm freaking over, this is also not something i'm proud of. What i am proud of however is the impact i make on a daily basis, 80% of people who know me anyway online DO NOT LIKE ME, not because i lie or say something unpleasant, but because i say what society do not want to accept because of the calibre of person sharing it.
My mother does not deserve love or sympathy in anyway but everyone is rooting up for her because its a MOTHER i am talking about here, females are supposed to be the saints/victims in every story right. I mentioned yesterday that if it were an abusive father in my story, the world would accept it wholeheartedly and would readily support me!
People are asking this question "What Exactly Did Your Mom Do To You?"
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Try pushing out a watermelon from your anus ,then having your tit bruised raw with many sleepless nights , then you will appreciate a mother
Johnkey2000: How will you all describe a lady that cheated on you repeatedly and even her mum asked her to get another man, and she still comes to your house and form she loves you
The same way you will describe a man who carries different girls telling them all sorts of lies. You have seen the flags. Dump her sorry a.s.s . She obviously doesn't see you as husband material , probably because you ain't financially capable yet. So for peace of mind, dump her
Blackdoks: Good morning guys I will make this short I need your advice on this As a young guy living with your elder sister and her husband They have been married for a 6 years now and still believing God for the fruit of the womb The husband lost his job during the lockdown and it has been my sis that has been helping the house with the money she makes from her job Now this is the issue Based on his joblessness and not yet having a child ,he thinks a lot and doesn’t eat He might eat morning food around 6 in the evening and this is making my sis worried and sometimes angry So I over heard my sis telling him one night that she is tired and fed up of him not eating cos if anything happens to him that she is the one the family will blame for not feeding him all in The name of her going to work Cos she leaves the house as early as 5:30 in the morning and comes back around 5 or 6 also So my question is should I tell this to our mum and tell her of what is happening in the house or I should just let it be cos it’s their marriage life Cos I don’t know what to do and also I overheard her saying she might pack out of the house and just go somewhere one day if he keeps thinking and doesn’t eat on time Note:he has tried applying for jobs but his age is the problem,they keep denying him opportunities cos of his age And he doesn’t have a hand skilled job he can be doing Please what part should I play in this ?
Mind your business. Don't tell anybody. It's not your place to tell . They can handle their issues. If they concise in you never take sides. Be neutral and play the peacemaker.
Uzomacharles: There is an ELECTRICITY BLACKOUT in Nigeria...
Do you have light in your area??
we do ,but not as much as we used to. Yesterday we had for about 7 hours instead of the usual 14 hours. The day before we had for an hour and a half. Today we have not seen.
What's in sex that has eaten you up so deep, why did you allow such feeling take over your entire life to an extent you begin to masturbate.
The question is what's special about sex
Miss holier than thou is that how to make them see reason. Remove the log in your eye first so you can see clearly to remove the spec in your brother's eye. Mtcheew was hoping to see something educative, Junior mummy GO
LifestyleTonite: Below is a picmix of Davido before engaging in work out and that of him showing off progress of work out.
Ladies, strip him off his money and fame then tell us which one of him you find attractive.
This thread is to encourage guys to work out at the gym. If Davido with all his millions and fame could see the need to work on his looks, why then are you as a broke fellow thinking money is all you need to man women?
Money isn't everything. If you lead with your wallet, you will never be loved and desired. If you flaunt cheese, you will only attract rats. Guess what? Rats never stay long in a house.
Gospel2Day: You're right. Women have studied the stupidity of men and have decided to exploit it to the fullest. It makes me feel ashamed for my gender. I pray often that God should increase my resistance and reluctuctanc to desire or delight in the hole between the legs of women. Many of us men will leave our parents, siblings and friends in sufferings while spending recklessly on females who have made no sacrificial contribution to our progress and achievements. It is a pity Shalom.
Yes ,I am glad a fellow man also sees it exactly as I do because some idiot was insulting his parents ,over my comment. But it's the truth.
wfjimmytobby: I have this girl have being dating for like 6 months now and have always show her I do care for her and all…but so far I noticed that she hardly call me first unless I call her and if I asked why she didn’t bother to call she will make excuses like she is busy or don’t have card..she makes it feel like it my duty to care and call all the time without her doing any..it just seems weird and all..seems she doesn’t really care or take me to heart like I do..and she ain’t changing the only time she call is when she probably needs help from me…what do you think is wrong m,should I give her more time maybe she might change or something…just don’t feel comfortable about the whole thing
She doesn't love you. Always listen to your instincts. A girl who loves you must call. Not waiting for you always. Try not calling her,see how long that will last. See if she will call ,if she doesn't oga,start withdrawing.
Dating is not employment. You should not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke, get a job, not a boyfriend. If you say "love is caring", why must it be your boyfriend that must care financially for you? If you really believe that, why can't you financially care for him too? Do you hate him? Stop this Jezebelic manipulations. It is called entitlement mentality!
It's so hard to take you seriously with such a moniker
osazsky: hope ur poor dad gave ur mum a castle for her puna..any slay ladys dad that cant afford a castle for her mum is a big fol..and colossal failure..only slay ladies that jave rich dads are exempted
I will not debase myself with the kind of response you deserve. Your parents must have tried their best, but stupid is as stupid does. Now run along dimwit.
Romance › Re: I'm Dying Slowly by Blunttruth: 1:21pm On Mar 18, 2022
